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Single females...unicorns or reality?!
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"We love being referred to as unicorns... I can't understand why you're having trouble!  "
Easy to answer that. We are having some lovely chats with ladies around, we discuss about meet details etc, and when it comes about some verifications before meet, we get blocked! It happened at least 20 times, with female profiles and couples as well. Are we that unlucky? Or just the ugliest people around here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For the last few weeks we've been trying to get a meet with a lady for some threesome fun! Looks like mission impossible here, or are we doing something wrong? Xx"
It happens from time to time.  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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sell the fact that you are looking for a single female to join you both for all 3 to explore fantasies and sexual pleasure. often it can read that it's all about the couple and the single female is an add on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sell the fact that you are looking for a single female to join you both for all 3 to explore fantasies and sexual pleasure. often it can read that it's all about the couple and the single female is an add on."
Agree. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"sell the fact that you are looking for a single female to join you both for all 3 to explore fantasies and sexual pleasure. often it can read that it's all about the couple and the single female is an add on."
He's a wise one. Yeah, this. And I'm not a unicorn. I'd prefer to be called a succubus. Or a siren or psychai. |
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"Why are you asking for a verification before a meet? Xxx"
Why are we asking that? Well, how would you like travveling 1 hour ish by car, expecting to meet a single female for some fun and instead you get a single male? Not so nice I think, is it? |
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"sell the fact that you are looking for a single female to join you both for all 3 to explore fantasies and sexual pleasure. often it can read that it's all about the couple and the single female is an add on."
Good point there, thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are you asking for a verification before a meet? Xxx
Why are we asking that? Well, how would you like travveling 1 hour ish by car, expecting to meet a single female for some fun and instead you get a single male? Not so nice I think, is it?"
Ahhhh your asking to see there verification. Nah if they won't show you them then I'd be doubtful too. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're both straight according to your profile. What role are you expecting this third person to take? As a bisexual woman l wouldn't see the attraction I'm afraid. |
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"You're both straight according to your profile. What role are you expecting this third person to take? As a bisexual woman l wouldn't see the attraction I'm afraid. "
Can't believe we made that mistake. That's solved now, thank you for you attention! |
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"For the last few weeks we've been trying to get a meet with a lady for some threesome fun! Looks like mission impossible here, or are we doing something wrong? Xx"
Haha welcome to everyone else's problem lol |
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"You're not bisexual though, are you? That aside, your profile isn't that enticing for a female. "
Let's clarify: we are a married couple, willing to have our first threesome fun. Ms wants to play with females (bisexual) and Mr (straight) as well. I don't know if you can call that bisexual or bi-curious. But on thing is for sure, our intention it's 100% real, just like us. Maybe our profile isn't so ,,nice looking,, but this is us, and we have no intention to pretend of beeing something else. If someone likes us the way we are, great. If not, it's their choice. |
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"You're not bisexual though, are you? That aside, your profile isn't that enticing for a female.
Let's clarify: we are a married couple, willing to have our first threesome fun. Ms wants to play with females (bisexual) and Mr (straight) as well. I don't know if you can call that bisexual or bi-curious. But on thing is for sure, our intention it's 100% real, just like us. Maybe our profile isn't so ,,nice looking,, but this is us, and we have no intention to pretend of beeing something else. If someone likes us the way we are, great. If not, it's their choice."
To be honest, your profile is not that enticing. The unbroken block of text is difficult to tackle and there is not much to attract a lady.
The photos are explicit without revealing anything of you. Rather off putting. Sorry!
You would be better off going to clubs than relying on the profile. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"You're not bisexual though, are you? That aside, your profile isn't that enticing for a female.
Let's clarify: we are a married couple, willing to have our first threesome fun. Ms wants to play with females (bisexual) and Mr (straight) as well. I don't know if you can call that bisexual or bi-curious. But on thing is for sure, our intention it's 100% real, just like us. Maybe our profile isn't so ,,nice looking,, but this is us, and we have no intention to pretend of beeing something else. If someone likes us the way we are, great. If not, it's their choice."
I fail to see what your marital status has to do with it.
She's never been with a woman and is curious about it...
I get that you have the intention of having one. Loads of couples and single men have that same intention. I am one of those 'unicorns' that have had a fair few mffs. I think your profile is heavy on the fem's photos and the text could do with being more reader friendly. It's not about pretending to be something you are not, it's about presenting what you are in a good light. |
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"We love being referred to as unicorns... I can't understand why you're having trouble!
Easy to answer that. We are having some lovely chats with ladies around, we discuss about meet details etc, and when it comes about some verifications before meet, we get blocked! It happened at least 20 times, with female profiles and couples as well. Are we that unlucky? Or just the ugliest people around here?"
It's a man. |
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"You're not bisexual though, are you? That aside, your profile isn't that enticing for a female.
Let's clarify: we are a married couple, willing to have our first threesome fun. Ms wants to play with females (bisexual) and Mr (straight) as well. I don't know if you can call that bisexual or bi-curious. But on thing is for sure, our intention it's 100% real, just like us. Maybe our profile isn't so ,,nice looking,, but this is us, and we have no intention to pretend of beeing something else. If someone likes us the way we are, great. If not, it's their choice.
I fail to see what your marital status has to do with it.
She's never been with a woman and is curious about it...
I get that you have the intention of having one. Loads of couples and single men have that same intention. I am one of those 'unicorns' that have had a fair few mffs. I think your profile is heavy on the fem's photos and the text could do with being more reader friendly. It's not about pretending to be something you are not, it's about presenting what you are in a good light. "
We accept all the critics here and obviously we will try to ,,repair,, this. We're gonna edit the profile, just the same idea but better presented maybe. Thank you all for advices! |
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"We love being referred to as unicorns... I can't understand why you're having trouble!
Easy to answer that. We are having some lovely chats with ladies around, we discuss about meet details etc, and when it comes about some verifications before meet, we get blocked! It happened at least 20 times, with female profiles and couples as well. Are we that unlucky? Or just the ugliest people around here?
It's a man. "
You think so?!?! |
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"You're not bisexual though, are you? That aside, your profile isn't that enticing for a female.
Let's clarify: we are a married couple, willing to have our first threesome fun. Ms wants to play with females (bisexual) and Mr (straight) as well. I don't know if you can call that bisexual or bi-curious. But on thing is for sure, our intention it's 100% real, just like us. Maybe our profile isn't so ,,nice looking,, but this is us, and we have no intention to pretend of beeing something else. If someone likes us the way we are, great. If not, it's their choice.
I fail to see what your marital status has to do with it.
She's never been with a woman and is curious about it...
I get that you have the intention of having one. Loads of couples and single men have that same intention. I am one of those 'unicorns' that have had a fair few mffs. I think your profile is heavy on the fem's photos and the text could do with being more reader friendly. It's not about pretending to be something you are not, it's about presenting what you are in a good light. "
This would also put me off! I only meet bi sexual women (had a bad experience on meeting a bi-curious lady that was only doing it for her hubby), also for me personally you've only been verified by cam. That'd also be a negative for me. Follow the advice and go to a club perhaps? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It easier to get to a club and meet single ladies there, it is hard work on here sorting the really from the fake, and then finding a woman who fancies you both,
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By (user no longer on site)
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Finding the single lady can be hard. What we did was i went and met up with the female on my own a couple of times then when the other girl felt more comfortable we met up as a 3 this also shows the other girl that she won't just be part of a show for hubby. |
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This would also put me off! I only meet bi sexual women (had a bad experience on meeting a bi-curious lady that was only doing it for her hubby), also for me personally you've only been verified by cam. That'd also be a negative for me. Follow the advice and go to a club perhaps? "
Well we can't please everyone, that's for sure. So no matter how hard we try, our profile can't be liked be everyone. About the club, we've been twice to Chams on Monday, when it was bi-sexual day. But 90% were bisexual men at that time. Obviously, we will go again, we don't expect to get everything on our first date. |
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I'd suggest going to the club and getting an actual meet veri first. It fives potential meets for confidence.
Put your selves in the shoes of the single female, why would she meet with a couple who aren't verified by meeting and have no play verifications? She most likely wouldn't.
There are lots of single ladies around and lots are playing plenty.
Just build up your experience and contact with people in real life, and don't obsess on just single ladies.
Have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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make a single female profile and tick the looking for couples box. say the same in the text and have the same female pics as you've used.
see what type of messages you get from couples. use it as a learning experience 'from the _iewpoint of the woman'.
don't use it to meet women as that's against site rules but i really think seeing things from the other side can help. merry xmas! |
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"For the last few weeks we've been trying to get a meet with a lady for some threesome fun! Looks like mission impossible here, or are we doing something wrong? Xx"
I know one and I'm seeing her again |
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"For the last few weeks we've been trying to get a meet with a lady for some threesome fun! Looks like mission impossible here, or are we doing something wrong? Xx
I know one and I'm seeing her again "
Though oddly enough, it's me that has the horn, not her. |
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"For the last few weeks we've been trying to get a meet with a lady for some threesome fun! Looks like mission impossible here, or are we doing something wrong? Xx"
A whole few weeks? Wow, that must be so dispiriting lol. I'm sure loads of single guys on here will be sending their sympathy.
If you were a single guy the advice would be to improve your profile and pics, go to clubs, get known on the forums and give it 6 months...or something  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
The more niche your requirements the longer you'll need to search... Sodareyous second law of fab..
Instead of a verification,...why not have a f to f phone chat . |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"For the last few weeks we've been trying to get a meet with a lady for some threesome fun! Looks like mission impossible here, or are we doing something wrong? Xx
A whole few weeks? Wow, that must be so dispiriting lol. I'm sure loads of single guys on here will be sending their sympathy.
If you were a single guy the advice would be to improve your profile and pics, go to clubs, get known on the forums and give it 6 months...or something "
Yeah because none of that has mentioned to them... At all. It must be only be mentioned to those poor unfortunate single guys. We get it. You face the sad plight of the solitary M. No need to make every post about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's hard to find the right couple to play with, I might tick your box's but you might not tick mine. It's just as difficult for us single bi women also. I go with other single bi women to clubs as it's a lot easier to find a couple to play with. |
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"For the last few weeks we've been trying to get a meet with a lady for some threesome fun! Looks like mission impossible here, or are we doing something wrong? Xx
A whole few weeks? Wow, that must be so dispiriting lol. I'm sure loads of single guys on here will be sending their sympathy.
If you were a single guy the advice would be to improve your profile and pics, go to clubs, get known on the forums and give it 6 months...or something "
but thats exactly whst they have been told a few times onthis thread |
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"For the last few weeks we've been trying to get a meet with a lady for some threesome fun! Looks like mission impossible here, or are we doing something wrong? Xx
A whole few weeks? Wow, that must be so dispiriting lol. I'm sure loads of single guys on here will be sending their sympathy.
If you were a single guy the advice would be to improve your profile and pics, go to clubs, get known on the forums and give it 6 months...or something
Yeah because none of that has mentioned to them... At all. It must be only be mentioned to those poor unfortunate single guys. We get it. You face the sad plight of the solitary M. No need to make every post about it."
Actually I don't because I'm not that actively looking for someone on here but your sympathy, as usual, is welcome... |
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"Now I'm probably going to get laughed out of here but I'm not familiar with the term unicorn can you please enlighten me "
People (normally couples) like to refer to a single bisexual female as a unicorn because they appear to be rare, mythical creatures.
The reality is that we're not particularly rare, we're not like rocking horse shit or the holy grail or hens teeth, it's just that it's not always the case that we find a couple where we'd like to fuck both the male and the female parties. Sometimes you see one half of a couple and think wowsers, hubba hubba! Then you see the other half and they might look like your sister/brother/teacher/whomever and thing uh-oh, no can do!
It makes you human, not some sort of mythical creature because you do exist, you just don't happen to exist in that particular couples' world. |
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We got the ideas guys. And we are trying to sort things out. Less pictures of course, different description of the profile. We will fo .ore often to the Chams, maybe meeting new people it's gonna be a boost for us. And most important, at the beginning we were saying no to couples, but not anymore so hopefully that's gonna be a good sign. We really appreciate all your messages and all the constructive critics  |
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"Now I'm probably going to get laughed out of here but I'm not familiar with the term unicorn can you please enlighten me
People (normally couples) like to refer to a single bisexual female as a unicorn because they appear to be rare, mythical creatures.
The reality is that we're not particularly rare, we're not like rocking horse shit or the holy grail or hens teeth, it's just that it's not always the case that we find a couple where we'd like to fuck both the male and the female parties. Sometimes you see one half of a couple and think wowsers, hubba hubba! Then you see the other half and they might look like your sister/brother/teacher/whomever and thing uh-oh, no can do!
It makes you human, not some sort of mythical creature because you do exist, you just don't happen to exist in that particular couples' world. "
Thank you for that
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By (user no longer on site)
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We do exist, you just have to persevere.
Also make sure that you are making the female feel welcome by both of you and that it will be an equal meet on all levels for all 3 people.
I had a message recently where they said "they wanted to use me as their fuck toy". They seemed surprised when I rejected them.
Also quite a few couples have so many rules about what the female joining them can or can't do, this too can be off putting.
Good luck in your search. |
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I've met the occasional couple. Being called a unicorn really grosses me out though, it's just naff as fuck. I'm sure some women like to describe themselves with such cutesy terms but it ain't me. |
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By *eliWoman
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"I've met the occasional couple. Being called a unicorn really grosses me out though, it's just naff as fuck. I'm sure some women like to describe themselves with such cutesy terms but it ain't me. "
You've met a couple? The next logical step is to meet a woman, surely. |
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"I've met the occasional couple. Being called a unicorn really grosses me out though, it's just naff as fuck. I'm sure some women like to describe themselves with such cutesy terms but it ain't me.
You've met a couple? The next logical step is to meet a woman, surely."
But...but...what about the cock? |
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"I've met the occasional couple. Being called a unicorn really grosses me out though, it's just naff as fuck. I'm sure some women like to describe themselves with such cutesy terms but it ain't me.
You've met a couple? The next logical step is to meet a woman, surely.
But...but...what about the cock? "
You can bring one or I can. I guess if it has to be attached to a man, it has to be. |
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"I've met the occasional couple. Being called a unicorn really grosses me out though, it's just naff as fuck. I'm sure some women like to describe themselves with such cutesy terms but it ain't me. "
Yes, it seems to illicit the same reaction as 'milf' etc.
Some hate it and some have it as part of a user name.
The strange one with unicorn is that it is a misnomer. There are hundreds of single bi women who meet couples, ok, a minoroty of the site, but still a large number, it sems a bit of an odd phrase to bother using. |
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"I've met the occasional couple. Being called a unicorn really grosses me out though, it's just naff as fuck. I'm sure some women like to describe themselves with such cutesy terms but it ain't me.
You've met a couple? The next logical step is to meet a woman, surely.
But...but...what about the cock?
You can bring one or I can. I guess if it has to be attached to a man, it has to be."
I can probably round up a willing penis |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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This is my opinion and probably only applies to me
Your profile reads as if you will be doing her a favour; sorry, but that is the impression I am getting
Single bisexual women who will meet a couple where she is interested in both, are rare. Try to be a whole lot more friendly and accommodating and you will meet someone
You stand a better chance in a club |
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"This is my opinion and probably only applies to me
Your profile reads as if you will be doing her a favour; sorry, but that is the impression I am getting
Single bisexual women who will meet a couple where she is interested in both, are rare. Try to be a whole lot more friendly and accommodating and you will meet someone
You stand a better chance in a club"
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