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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"It can't just be (for men) putting bits of yourself in ladies and then taking them out again quite fast and then putting them back in again, surely? "
Bloody hope not. That would be boring as hell. |
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To me, having sex is about discovering the other person's body for the human body is a beautiful thing and everyone has a different body. It is also about understanding their sensual needs, and I find providing it can be quite euphoric for me. |
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over a year ago
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Sex to me is touching. Caressing. Kissing. Exploring with the tongue and the mind. Giving each other enjoyment. Have rough sex. Sensual sex. Orgasm. Then lay in each others arms. Sleep then start all over again |
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STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....
Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..
What bits to put in, where and when...
'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'
Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works  |
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"To me, having sex is about discovering the other person's body for the human body is a beautiful thing and everyone has a different body. It is also about understanding their sensual needs, and I find providing it can be quite euphoric for me. "
That's a really good description  |
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"It can't just be (for men) putting bits of yourself in ladies and then taking them out again quite fast and then putting them back in again, surely?
Bloody hope not. That would be boring as hell."
maybe with a little wriggle now and then. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....
Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..
What bits to put in, where and when...
'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'
Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works "
I'd definitely buy that! |
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"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....
Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..
What bits to put in, where and when...
'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'
Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works
I'd definitely buy that!"
I wonder if there are pop up picture versions available..... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....
Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..
What bits to put in, where and when...
'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'
Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works
I'd definitely buy that!
I wonder if there are pop up picture versions available....."
You'd have someone's eye out! |
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"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....
Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..
What bits to put in, where and when...
'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'
Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works
I'd definitely buy that!
I wonder if there are pop up picture versions available....."
Speak to your publisher 'wink, wink!' Just don't put someones eye out |
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"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....
Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..
What bits to put in, where and when...
'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'
Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works
I'd definitely buy that!
I wonder if there are pop up picture versions available.....
You'd have someone's eye out!"
Eye, eye...snap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....
Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..
What bits to put in, where and when...
'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'
Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works "
I'll take three please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....
Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..
What bits to put in, where and when...
'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'
Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works "
I'll take three please |
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"STILL STUCK FOR THE IDEAL XMAS PRESENT FOR THAT MALE RELATIVE....
Buy the BrightonSteve good sex guide..
What bits to put in, where and when...
'Not there!!' ' At Least not yet!' 'And not that bit' 'Oh! For christs sake!'
Available soon in hardback for £1.99 in The Works
I'll take three please "
The book should have those cardboard sliding things to make the pop-uos move, maybe to some music like J'Taime or Love to love you Baby....this book will be a sell out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sex to me is letting go of one's unihibitations and the restraints of societies expectations.
It's about living in the moment of bliss and passion. It's about skin on skin. It's about the pleasure of everyone involved and the ecstacy of a fantastic sex session.
It's about being horny as hell! 
Eve. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I master myself and I don't respond to my instinctual drives, I see Sex as
A unique connection between two people in a specific given moment. It is about sensuality, sensitivity, intensity, firmness as well as finess.
Sex is about feelings, not perfoming.
Sex doesn't confine to genitals only.
It is like a sensuous art to me, I see it as two bodies dancing in rhythm with each other, on a melody, only they can hear.
Two naked lovers, using each other as blankets.
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By *essiCouple
over a year ago
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"To me, having sex is about discovering the other person's body for the human body is a beautiful thing and everyone has a different body. It is also about understanding their sensual needs, and I find providing it can be quite euphoric for me. "
This... |
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By *essiCouple
over a year ago
suffolk |
"Sex to me is touching. Caressing. Kissing. Exploring with the tongue and the mind. Giving each other enjoyment. Have rough sex. Sensual sex. Orgasm. Then lay in each others arms. Sleep then start all over again "
And this also ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me, having sex is about discovering the other person's body for the human body is a beautiful thing and everyone has a different body. It is also about understanding their sensual needs, and I find providing it can be quite euphoric for me. "
mmm I like this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I master myself and I don't respond to my instinctual drives, I see Sex as
A unique connection between two people in a specific given moment. It is about sensuality, sensitivity, intensity, firmness as well as finess.
Sex is about feelings, not perfoming.
Sex doesn't confine to genitals only.
It is like a sensuous art to me, I see it as two bodies dancing in rhythm with each other, on a melody, only they can hear.
Two naked lovers, using each other as blankets.
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like the sound of this |
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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago
upton wirral |
"To me, having sex is about discovering the other person's body for the human body is a beautiful thing and everyone has a different body. It is also about understanding their sensual needs, and I find providing it can be quite euphoric for me. "
Yes must agree with you,you must give a lot of pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me having sex involves intimacy, closeness, pleasure, self expression, trust and that wonderful feeling of being wanted and needed and attractive. It honestly makes me feel so good about life and definitely relieves stress.
I love the excitement, the tingling and aching body hunger I feel: the ultimate body sense high.
I've had some shit shags though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex is.......a steam train hurtling into a darkened tunnel. Waves crashing on the shingle. A rocket exploding into the sky. Followed by a chimney stack crashing to the ground. All in black and white. But then my real name is Sven and I'm full of angst   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't know, but these song lyrics sum up a lot:
Recollect me darling raise me to your lips
Two undernourished egos four rotating hips
Hold on to me tightly I'm a sliding scale
Can't endure then you can't inhale
Clearly
Out of body experience interferes
And dreams of flying I fit nearly
Surrounds me though I get lonely
Slowly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's that nasty thing I have to do with a girl for a few minutes before I can have a fag and a fucking good sleep.....
Or, it's a mental spiritual and emotional connection between two like minded human beings.
It's a sensation.
It's a breathless anticipation.
It's something that makes my pulse race and my heart beat like a hammer.
It's sometimes spontaneous, frequently planned but rarely goes to plan.
It's something that feels like nothing else on earth......
It's moreish.
It's intense, but it's often accompanied by both laughter and tears.
It's something to share.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The connection, and merging of two to become one. Highly erotic and sensual. the initial penetration can take your breath away a little, then the rhythmic movements which attunes you to the others movements, and the physical pleasure derived from the act. That's sex to me . |
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Most people seem to be talking about ideal sex...
Sex and what it means for me has changed over the years...
An awkward, rubbish fumbling with someone where there is a real mental/spiritual connection will always be more memorable than a great shag where you think yeah! Wow but not for me in the long term....
There is great sex in the swinging community but sex accompanied by love, well I do not think it can be compared |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most people seem to be talking about ideal sex...
Sex and what it means for me has changed over the years...
An awkward, rubbish fumbling with someone where there is a real mental/spiritual connection will always be more memorable than a great shag where you think yeah! Wow but not for me in the long term....
There is great sex in the swinging community but sex accompanied by love, well I do not think it can be compared"
Best comment so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do none of you just have a quick fuck anymore? All this spiritual meeting of minds and perfectly in wonderous harmony with each other's bodies as you soar together towards elysium is nice and all, but sometimes sex is just a fuck. |
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"Do none of you just have a quick fuck anymore? All this spiritual meeting of minds and perfectly in wonderous harmony with each other's bodies as you soar together towards elysium is nice and all, but sometimes sex is just a fuck."
Like a quick bend me over and fuck me then fuck off.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do none of you just have a quick fuck anymore? All this spiritual meeting of minds and perfectly in wonderous harmony with each other's bodies as you soar together towards elysium is nice and all, but sometimes sex is just a fuck."
Agreed Ruby. Let the animal inside take over and fuck like you depend on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on who I'm with as to what sex means to me.
What I feel or desire from one person won't be the same as from another.
That's one of the reasons why I'm on here, vive le difference.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do none of you just have a quick fuck anymore? All this spiritual meeting of minds and perfectly in wonderous harmony with each other's bodies as you soar together towards elysium is nice and all, but sometimes sex is just a fuck."
As a great man once said, it's just a shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends I guess, sometimes as said above, esp in a club, it can just be a quick shag. Othertimes it's a whole different scenario with bondage, cane and ball gag etc.
Sarah |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do none of you just have a quick fuck anymore? All this spiritual meeting of minds and perfectly in wonderous harmony with each other's bodies as you soar together towards elysium is nice and all, but sometimes sex is just a fuck."
Considering I only have sex with my partner, and our time is scarce with the little one, we make the most of the time we do have when we are free... And it's never a quick fuck . |
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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago
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"Do none of you just have a quick fuck anymore? All this spiritual meeting of minds and perfectly in wonderous harmony with each other's bodies as you soar together towards elysium is nice and all, but sometimes sex is just a fuck."
Hell yeah........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting your rocks off and having a laugh. Unless you're in lurve when it gets all deep and meaningful "
Even with luuuuurrrve, it's sometimes nice to just have a quick fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sex with feelings exposed , id rather put it, because love is a social construct when all is said and done sure , trust, belonging mutual attraction empathy are able to sustain being together and we all agree there is nothing quite like sex after making up following a quarrel, . Love and sex, implies some spiritual attainment which lets face it we can all look forward to surplus of ,when were dead! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting your rocks off and having a laugh. Unless you're in lurve when it gets all deep and meaningful
Even with luuuuurrrve, it's sometimes nice to just have a quick fuck. "
It is. |
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" Sex with feelings exposed , id rather put it, because love is a social construct when all is said and done sure , trust, belonging mutual attraction empathy are able to sustain being together and we all agree there is nothing quite like sex after making up following a quarrel, . Love and sex, implies some spiritual attainment which lets face it we can all look forward to surplus of ,when were dead!"
I think love is shorthand for all the feelings you describe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sex to me is touching. Caressing. Kissing. Exploring with the tongue and the mind. Giving each other enjoyment. Have rough sex. Sensual sex. Orgasm. Then lay in each others arms. Sleep then start all over again "
Exactly this! why can't swinging sex be intense and passionate, you need a strong chemistry for awesome sex! |
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"For me having sex involves intimacy, closeness, pleasure, self expression, trust and that wonderful feeling of being wanted and needed and attractive. It honestly makes me feel so good about life and definitely relieves stress.
I love the excitement, the tingling and aching body hunger I feel: the ultimate body sense high.
I've had some shit shags though "
Definetly this and we've all had shit shags xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me having sex involves intimacy, closeness, pleasure, self expression, trust and that wonderful feeling of being wanted and needed and attractive. It honestly makes me feel so good about life and definitely relieves stress.
I love the excitement, the tingling and aching body hunger I feel: the ultimate body sense high.
I've had some shit shags though
Definetly this and we've all had shit shags xx"
Not me, Ive never had a shit shag
-Mr |
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"It can't just be (for men) putting bits of yourself in ladies and then taking them out again quite fast and then putting them back in again, surely? "
Sounds like you're describing the hokey y.
In out , in out, shake it all about ...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me having sex involves intimacy, closeness, pleasure, self expression, trust and that wonderful feeling of being wanted and needed and attractive. It honestly makes me feel so good about life and definitely relieves stress.
I love the excitement, the tingling and aching body hunger I feel: the ultimate body sense high.
I've had some shit shags though
Definetly this and we've all had shit shags xx"
I've never had a shit shag but it's possible I've been a shit shag.
But not as shit as Steve. |
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"Extrated from my profile:
" SEX?
It's not just sex. It's the music of an ORGASM, nude bodies mixed in a room, tongues exploring every hidden angle, open mouths searching for others in obscene MOANS, sperm drops sliding over the wet skin, feel oneself ALIVE!
PASSION is my drive, my virtue...my curse. I will adore you, possess you, devour you... "
Adrian  "
^ bunny boiler |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
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Extracted from my profile:
" SEX?
It's not just sex. It's the music of an ORGASM, nude bodies mixed in a room, tongues exploring every hidden angle, open mouths searching for others in obscene MOANS, sperm drops sliding over the wet skin, feel oneself ALIVE!
PASSION is my drive, my virtue...my curse. I will adore you, possess you, devour you... "
Any question...? 
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