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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeahhh lots of us do....maybe try some clubs,parties,socials...it always helps to get known in circles- then u can basically have meets that u might want after verifying them for urself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This site is better than others I've been on. The one for finding adult friends, for example. Never had a meet off there yet. It's the paddling pool of swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, if I'd been stood up three times in one week I'd question my selection process.
I've never been to a club or social and never will: not for me. In four years I've never had a timewaster or been stood up, simply because of how I select my meets.
My way works for me, you need to find a way that will work for you. If you arrange to meet after one message, perhaps try getting to know the person a little first. If within the first message you mention you can't wait getting balls deep in her pussy, perhaps try a more tasteful approach.
It's worth a try as your current approach isn't working is it.
Good luck. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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i said this a couple of hours ago in another thread with regards to the same thing... i think it still stand here..
so to the OP I say this...
in all my years of swinging (6 now... Do I get a testimonial when I get to 10??) I can count the amount of "timewasters" I have had on 1 hand....
this is going to now sound really really harsh....
one timewaster can be said to be unlucky,
2 may be said to be unfortunate....
lots and lots of timewasters is a trend!!!
only one person can change that trend
and the common demoninator is you!!!
so I would question the method of how you go about choosing people, I would also question how you do your due diligence...
the problem is that it is always "the other persons fault".... the person who starts these types of threads is always "blameless".... its funny that...hmmmm
if something isn't working... don't moan about it...Change it!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have not found a better site for gen people. The correct attitude and approach needs to be adopted though. Try not to think MEET, MEET, MEET and it will come good. (Says me the newbie!)lol |
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We've had just one no show in the very early days of our six years in this hobby.
As has been said, its your selection process that needs to be addressed.
There are a lot of so-called time waters on here but the thing is THEY are getting what THEY WANT from the site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet but tend to go clubf more now least you not getting you time wasted then safer for single woman .there is genuine and bad on this site that get off on wasting peoples time ...try the clubs or group meets gd luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do people actually meet on this site?? ive been stood up 3time in the last week... "
why would anyone meet when you can have a wank on cam in the comfort of your own home?! |
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