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do woman tell there friends about fab??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering how the ladys tell the tale. I personally wouldnt but often here guys talk freely about fab publicly.
Feel free to comment ladys.... Just out of interest!!! Xx |
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I've told three people that I'm on here.
All fine with it, one she joined up, one he has been to some clubs with us and the other she doesn't want to do either but is jealous of the regular sex I'm getting lol |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
secret town |
"Just wondering how the ladys tell the tale. I personally wouldnt but often here guys talk freely about fab publicly.
Feel free to comment ladys.... Just out of interest!!! Xx"
Never speak about fab to anyone.
It's my little secret |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. My friends are my safety back up when I'm on fab business. They've even joined me on a fab date. They've even saved me on occasion with the words 'don't just shag him because you're horny. You'll regret it in the morning' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My vanilla friends? Good Lordy Lord no; they think I'm a candidate for padded walls and a straight jacket my virtue of being 42, never married and childless! Their heads would implode if they knew and I'd probably be packed off to a nunnery! |
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"My vanilla friends? Good Lordy Lord no; they think I'm a candidate for padded walls and a straight jacket my virtue of being 42, never married and childless! Their heads would implode if they knew and I'd probably be packed off to a nunnery! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My vanilla friends? Good Lordy Lord no; they think I'm a candidate for padded walls and a straight jacket my virtue of being 42, never married and childless! Their heads would implode if they knew and I'd probably be packed off to a nunnery!
Nice baubles "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've told my 2 best friends, but we've been friends forever (literaly) so pretty much share everything.
They had loads of questions, have seen the pics we had on at the time (they only contain us anyway) and didnt care as long as I'm happy.
And Mr's best friend knows as it was him who recomnended fab to us x |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Just wondering how the ladys tell the tale. I personally wouldnt but often here guys talk freely about fab publicly.
Feel free to comment ladys.... Just out of interest!!! Xx"
yep my friends know im on here and that i go to clubs. its my choice of lifestyle..so what? |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Most of my good friends know I am on what I call an 'adult' site, and most of them disapprove and wish I would find a proper relationship. Ho hum!  "
thats a shame they arent more supportive, mine say its the happiest they've seen me in years..bless them i have very good friends x |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I though the first rule of fab club is we don't speak about fab club  "
why im not ashamed that i like sex and that i am on the scene..its part of me, why should i hide my involvement..i dont talk details or talk about anyone else.. |
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"Most of my good friends know I am on what I call an 'adult' site, and most of them disapprove and wish I would find a proper relationship. Ho hum! thats a shame they arent more supportive, mine say its the happiest they've seen me in years..bless them i have very good friends x"
Me too - but I am a monogamist by nature, not a swinger, and they know it.
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Most of my good friends know I am on what I call an 'adult' site, and most of them disapprove and wish I would find a proper relationship. Ho hum! thats a shame they arent more supportive, mine say its the happiest they've seen me in years..bless them i have very good friends x
Me too - but I am a monogamist by nature, not a swinger, and they know it.
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ahhhh ok..then i hope you find your man xx |
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"Most of my good friends know I am on what I call an 'adult' site, and most of them disapprove and wish I would find a proper relationship. Ho hum! thats a shame they arent more supportive, mine say its the happiest they've seen me in years..bless them i have very good friends x
Me too - but I am a monogamist by nature, not a swinger, and they know it.
ahhhh ok..then i hope you find your man xx"
Thanks........meanwhile...   |
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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago
coventry..ish |
I've never told anyone,a lady I used to see told a couple of her mates about me and how we met,that was through swinging heaven.
We always met on a Sunday due to our work commitments and just by chance that was the day her friend/s would phone or even knock on the door.it was pretty funny really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I though the first rule of fab club is we don't speak about fab club why im not ashamed that i like sex and that i am on the scene..its part of me, why should i hide my involvement..i dont talk details or talk about anyone else.."
It was a joke based on the movie fight club!! No insult intended! Was only trying to have light hearted fun |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I though the first rule of fab club is we don't speak about fab club why im not ashamed that i like sex and that i am on the scene..its part of me, why should i hide my involvement..i dont talk details or talk about anyone else..
It was a joke based on the movie fight club!! No insult intended! Was only trying to have light hearted fun "
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i wasnt insulted,x. i picked up on the joke, however, i was making the point that, too many people think its not alright to talk about lifestyle choice on here, apparently, we all have to lie to people, but, we have to abide by 'moral' rules when it comes to who we meet and play with...err no.
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i'm discreet about people, but not about my lifestyle.there is a difference.
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people go round saying they are married, in love, etc and i say i have several lovers whom i care for, value and respect.
. they are rpoud of whom they are with , i am proud to be who i am in my relationships too. just my thoughts..x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a couple of friends that I talk to about this place. Some, I know wouldn't get it even though they have casual Tinder hook ups!
Personally, I'm not ashamed of being on here, but you have to know your audience! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
No, why would I tell my best friend about FabS. But when I did meet people outside of clubs, I did tell her who, where and when I am meeting and to call the police if she did not get a call from me by a certain time |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
Some do, some other parents who we see as friends do too, oddly when H talks to the female on girly chat some want to know "everything" so are obviously interested. Then I talk yo the guy and usually get "Lucky b'stard! I wish xyz would be like that". We reckon most need to talk more and if our being honest and open about ourselves causes that to happen then great
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Its mostly on a need to know basis and they mostly dont need to know but a couple of really close friends know, particularly for safety reasons.
I think the increase in sexual offences and murders caused from sex site contacts means that we should all take precautions. Discretion and modosty are useful but safety is top priority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two of my best friends know I'm on here, one is now also a member and the other lives vicariously through me!! She doesn't judge me at all, she's says she's never seen me happier or looking so good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tell everyone and anyone...my boss and colleagues know, my mates all know. If they didn't accept it I wouldn't be working where I am or friends with those who know. |
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have told 3 good friends- one joined, one checkes that I am ok and the other other one always wants to hear the stories but would never do it himself lol. don't share it w everyone but then I don't share my life w everyone in General... |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I told 3 of my friends when we were out one night. Two of them were great about it, the other one was really concerned about my safety and found it difficult until she found out another friend of hers has a lover. Now she's as intrigued as the other two |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes all my friends know, and a fair few of my colleagues.
I've nothing to hide and when I've had a spectacular weekend I can openly discuss it and show off about 14 men gangbangs, filthy sex parties and the benefits of offering haribos in exchange for a good licking
As an added bonus, if I ever get brutally murdered, two of my friends can access my fab account to help identify the suspect, and they also have access to my house keys to remove any evidence of kink and bondage gear so as not to embarrass whoever has to sort my crap out when I'm gone.
Win win! |
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Everyone in our life knows we met on a swingers site and know we are swingers takes all the bullshit out of it ...
At first we got loads of questions and was asked loads of advice no one treated us any different and makes for instrestin convos on normal nights outs |
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"No I Don,t discuss this with friends.....whether fem/ male.
Find vanilla( think thats right term) to judgemental and opinionated...."
Blooming eck my non swinger friends are much less judgmental and opinionated than some swingers I know. |
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