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Rejection part ll
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over a year ago
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"Following on from another post/thread or whatever you prefer 
Who takes rejection to heart the most on here ?
Men or women ?
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Women
Men are used to it lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Following on from another post/thread or whatever you prefer
Who takes rejection to heart the most on here ?
Men or women ?
Women
Men are used to it lol"
Lol i must admit i have experienced some really bad moods after i have rejected a woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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don't care ive either been blocked because people make assumptions and can't be arsed to get to know me. Am i stressed or gonna start abusing them.....Nope dont need to its against my nature |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't; I just take it on the chin and then post a thread about how "abnormal" I am because I can take it on the chin; thus creating a paradox, because if I didnt really care then why the fucking hell would I bother making a thread about how fantastic a human being I am for being able to take rejection on the chin, even though I had been strung out for like, well lets say, a month.... but in the end it didn't matter, because I can take it on the chin, and well you never know, I might get a sympathy shag |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know really... some men take it really well and others just persist lol
As for women? Well u may have to ask the men cos I haven't rejected one yet to know |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from another post/thread or whatever you prefer
Who takes rejection to heart the most on here ?
Men or women ?
Women
Men are used to it lol"
This
Unless they are noobs and haven't been broken in |
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Not sure it's not something that bothers me. I won't be to everyone's tastes and I'm cool with that. If someone says no it's onto the next,
I've had some reject me quite insultingly before today's still didn't bother me. I've also had insults for daring to reject others.
So in general it's Swings and roundabouts on here so no point letting it get to you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not sure it's not something that bothers me. I won't be to everyone's tastes and I'm cool with that. If someone says no it's onto the next,
I've had some reject me quite insultingly before today's still didn't bother me. I've also had insults for daring to reject others.
So in general it's Swings and roundabouts on here so no point letting it get to you "
Its not getting to me lol im just curious
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going to guess men, judging by the fact that all the angry rants about not getting replies or having their emails deleted come from guys..."
this. 
plus if we ever did get rejected there's plenty of men around who won't reject us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure it's not something that bothers me. I won't be to everyone's tastes and I'm cool with that. If someone says no it's onto the next,
I've had some reject me quite insultingly before today's still didn't bother me. I've also had insults for daring to reject others.
So in general it's Swings and roundabouts on here so no point letting it get to you "
I don't know cos I haven't really been rejected yet. Is that a good or bad thing?
The only one guy that initially rejected me soon came running back after seeing what I looked like  So I sent him packing obviously.... not sure why that happened but in general no one has said no yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from another post/thread or whatever you prefer
Who takes rejection to heart the most on here ?
Men or women ?
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Women.... Women fucking hate getting rejected; but women have pride and don't generally come on the forums and bang on about getting rejected, probably because they are more intelligent too.... although some do update their statuses to accommodate for a momentary lapse of pride....
Men are more vocal about being rejected; but then again, given the numbers, thats not surprising....
the worst? Couples.... reject a couple at your fucking peril |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not sure it's not something that bothers me. I won't be to everyone's tastes and I'm cool with that. If someone says no it's onto the next,
I've had some reject me quite insultingly before today's still didn't bother me. I've also had insults for daring to reject others.
So in general it's Swings and roundabouts on here so no point letting it get to you
I don't know cos I haven't really been rejected yet. Is that a good or bad thing?
The only one guy that initially rejected me soon came running back after seeing what I looked like So I sent him packing obviously.... not sure why that happened but in general no one has said no yet"
Is this a true story ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure it's not something that bothers me. I won't be to everyone's tastes and I'm cool with that. If someone says no it's onto the next,
I've had some reject me quite insultingly before today's still didn't bother me. I've also had insults for daring to reject others.
So in general it's Swings and roundabouts on here so no point letting it get to you
I don't know cos I haven't really been rejected yet. Is that a good or bad thing?
The only one guy that initially rejected me soon came running back after seeing what I looked like So I sent him packing obviously.... not sure why that happened but in general no one has said no yet
Is this a true story ? "
Yes it is and he is a forum user lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not sure it's not something that bothers me. I won't be to everyone's tastes and I'm cool with that. If someone says no it's onto the next,
I've had some reject me quite insultingly before today's still didn't bother me. I've also had insults for daring to reject others.
So in general it's Swings and roundabouts on here so no point letting it get to you
I don't know cos I haven't really been rejected yet. Is that a good or bad thing?
The only one guy that initially rejected me soon came running back after seeing what I looked like So I sent him packing obviously.... not sure why that happened but in general no one has said no yet"
How did you feel before he came ruuning back ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from another post/thread or whatever you prefer
Who takes rejection to heart the most on here ?
Men or women ?
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Wouldn't know, we generally interact with couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure it's not something that bothers me. I won't be to everyone's tastes and I'm cool with that. If someone says no it's onto the next,
I've had some reject me quite insultingly before today's still didn't bother me. I've also had insults for daring to reject others.
So in general it's Swings and roundabouts on here so no point letting it get to you
I don't know cos I haven't really been rejected yet. Is that a good or bad thing?
The only one guy that initially rejected me soon came running back after seeing what I looked like So I sent him packing obviously.... not sure why that happened but in general no one has said no yet"
Neither have I yet... I just didn't want to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
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How did you feel before he came ruuning back ?"
I wasn't too fussed to be honest. His excuse was I wasn't really his type but then when he suddenly changed his mind it threw me a bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not buying it lol, women cant even admit to having been rejected in the past ?
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Sorry OP. I was single for many many years, so off the sex/dating scene if you will. If I'd been involved for longer, maybe I would have been rejected by messages... That being said, I've only messaged a handful off my own back. They usually message first, and as my face pics are on show, they already know what to expect . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not buying it lol, women cant even admit to having been rejected in the past ?
Sorry OP. I was single for many many years, so off the sex/dating scene if you will. If I'd been involved for longer, maybe I would have been rejected by messages... That being said, I've only messaged a handful off my own back. They usually message first, and as my face pics are on show, they already know what to expect . "
absolute loveliness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life "
Monkey's chuff! I like that!  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I got a shitty message off a man because I was ignoring his message even though I was on line. I had earlier told him he was too far away for me and that I wasn't interested!! I've had worse than that in the past.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life
Monkey's chuff! I like that! "
I've no idea what it is. |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life "
The men you meet are they not real? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life
The men you meet are they not real? "
I was talking about the situations not the men. I'd have thought that much was obvious. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life
The men you meet are they not real?
I was talking about the situations not the men. I'd have thought that much was obvious. "
Someone kindly punch in the nose to waken me up from this NOT real life situation lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life
The men you meet are they not real?
I was talking about the situations not the men. I'd have thought that much was obvious.
Someone kindly punch in the nose to waken me up from this NOT real life situation lol"
If that's what you want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life
The men you meet are they not real?
I was talking about the situations not the men. I'd have thought that much was obvious.
Someone kindly punch in the nose to waken me up from this NOT real life situation lol"
violence is frowned upon in forums |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life
The men you meet are they not real?
I was talking about the situations not the men. I'd have thought that much was obvious.
Someone kindly punch in the nose to waken me up from this NOT real life situation lol
If that's what you want "
Its not real life it wont hurt, i shouldnt even be aware its happened ? |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life
The men you meet are they not real?
I was talking about the situations not the men. I'd have thought that much was obvious. "
You think to much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life
The men you meet are they not real?
I was talking about the situations not the men. I'd have thought that much was obvious.
Someone kindly punch in the nose to waken me up from this NOT real life situation lol
If that's what you want
Its not real life it wont hurt, i shouldnt even be aware its happened ? "
Anyone who takes this site too seriously really needs to re-examine why they're here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life
The men you meet are they not real?
I was talking about the situations not the men. I'd have thought that much was obvious.
You think to much "
Not really. I just don't treat this site as real life.
It's meant to be a bit of fun.
I think therfore I am! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're all here for sex. As for rejection, as said earlier, the guys on here are far more used to it than the women.
The women on here are for the most part put on pedestals. The guys are plentiful and hungry. |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life
The men you meet are they not real?
I was talking about the situations not the men. I'd have thought that much was obvious.
You think to much
Not really. I just don't treat this site as real life.
It's meant to be a bit of fun.
I think therfore I am! "
See your thinking again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been rejected on here. I honestly couldn't give a monkeys chuff ( whatever a chuff is )
Not everyone is going to fancy you. No matter how hot you think you are.
This site is NOT real life
The men you meet are they not real?
I was talking about the situations not the men. I'd have thought that much was obvious.
You think to much
Not really. I just don't treat this site as real life.
It's meant to be a bit of fun.
I think therfore I am!
See your thinking again "
Nope I'm off to bed. Night |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from another post/thread or whatever you prefer
Who takes rejection to heart the most on here ?
Men or women ?
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I don't think it's gender specific.
I do think though that if it's your only avenue of getting what you desire, you're much more likely to get bitter about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from another post/thread or whatever you prefer
Who takes rejection to heart the most on here ?
Men or women ?
I don't think it's gender specific.
I do think though that if it's your only avenue of getting what you desire, you're much more likely to get bitter about it."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really rejection at heart per se ,everyone is entitled to their preferences and opinions. However there is a way to reject someone and if someone's rejection is offensive, it does hurt me somehow.
But I eat a kinder bueno and all goes away in no time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I don't really rejection at heart per se ,everyone is entitled to their preferences and opinions. However there is a way to reject someone and if someone's rejection is offensive, it does hurt me somehow.
But I eat a kinder bueno and all goes away in no time "
as if youve ever been rejected... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I don't really rejection at heart per se ,everyone is entitled to their preferences and opinions. However there is a way to reject someone and if someone's rejection is offensive, it does hurt me somehow.
But I eat a kinder bueno and all goes away in no time
as if youve ever been rejected..."
Oh I have so many times, that kinder send me a fidelity card at home |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I'll hold my hands up and admit to being crap at rejection. I won't lash out and get abusive or start pissy threads about it, but I do tend to take it to heart more than I should. I'm not sure if that's anything to do with me being a woman rather than a man though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from another post/thread or whatever you prefer
Who takes rejection to heart the most on here ?
Men or women ?
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Who likes books more - men or women? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can only speak from my own experience on here. I've never been offended when told I am not their cup of tea or the message is deleted and not replied to. It happens for guys. If they can't deal with the concept that you can't appeal to everyone, this may not be the place for them.
But.... the ladies that I have said no thank you to have, all bar one, not taken it well. At all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More to do with denting pride than taking it to heart, depends on how sensitive the person is.
I would guess men take on more rejection overall on a daily basis so I'm not too surprised some act the way they do.
I'm not too sure if the tables were turned that it would sit well with me either if I'm being honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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But.... the ladies that I have said no thank you to have, all bar one, not taken it well. At all
Hell have no fury like a woman scorned....."
But...but.... I didn't do any scorning Ma'am! Promise  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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i am big enough to understand that i am not everyone's cup of tea. as i have my filters on, im always messaging first and therefore i am prepared for and have received rejection. but i don't start a thread about it. i trust the person rejecting has their reasons why we are not compatible and leave it like that. they should know themselves, better than i know them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from another post/thread or whatever you prefer
Who takes rejection to heart the most on here ?
Men or women ?
Women
Men are used to it lol
Lol i must admit i have experienced some really bad moods after i have rejected a woman "
Ive have from men after I've rejected them too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I've been rejected by someone I really liked in the past it hurt. On here it always went with the territory. Now I just just cry when they don't fab my latest Xmas pic |
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One guy called me a retarded c**t for saying no to him.
It gets annoying when you say no and they persist, I'm not going to change my mind pal...piss off.
If I delete your message take the hint and move on I'm not here for your abuse.
Some ladies on here though,
"I do alright I don't need you" alright there with your bruised ego love?
Love reading the comments above, some are pure bollocks |
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