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Is it really that important for a man to be muscular?
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
Important to who?
The only man whose appearance I care about is mine, and I like me to be as muscular as I can be without taking steroids.
I don't care if other people think I should be muscular or not though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shape and size is not that important to me, just cleanliness a healthy attitude towards sex and respect for others. "
no its not...
there are far more important qualities than body shape or cock size...although they do help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am muscular and got a 6pack. I do it for myself and to look good when going on holidays 
That took you longer than usual...  "
Yes it did. I am about to eat my next meal, some tuna |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Shape and size is not that important to me, just cleanliness a healthy attitude towards sex and respect for others. "
Doesn't have to be muscular but really skinny or tubby or beer-bellies don't do it for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, I love men with a footballers physique which I would class as being slim and tall but as a fat woman I'm aware on here that many would think I shouldn't fancy men who physically look better than me   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shape and size is not that important to me, just cleanliness a healthy attitude towards sex and respect for others.
Doesn't have to be muscular but really skinny or tubby or beer-bellies don't do it for me "
I don't mind a bit of a belly myself... Matches my own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I train but do it more for my own sake than others is health n mental well being and the healthy living n eating does wonders for your energy levels n motivation I am not a liar n false talker yes I do use steroids n have done since this Sept first time for Years I will say though ...And the reprogramming n messing around of you test levels is a mine field ...i have to be very careful if I run to little I drop if I run to much test I turn in to more of a dog with two dicks than normal.but yes its fun pmsl |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I train but do it more for my own sake than others is health n mental well being and the healthy living n eating does wonders for your energy levels n motivation I am not a liar n false talker yes I do use steroids n have done since this Sept first time for Years I will say though ...And the reprogramming n messing around of you test levels is a mine field ...i have to be very careful if I run to little I drop if I run to much test I turn in to more of a dog with two dicks than normal.but yes its fun pmsl "
you are a liar.. steroids are not healthy and for your well being are they? so, you obviously don't train for that..why don't you start again..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being nice on the inside is more important, as shown this morning on the forums "
 very much so. If you're a dick you're a dick whatever your body shape |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being nice on the inside is more important, as shown this morning on the forums
very much so. If you're a dick you're a dick whatever your body shape"
Exactly. Some could do with working on their personalities more than their bodies 
Not aimed at anyone on here by the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Far from a lier else I wouldn't a posted that would I ? But I know what you are saying but its like a lot of things this day and age there has been a hell of a lot of medical research last 50 \60 years and if you abuse them yes they will fuck with your liver but doesn't alcohol do the same and a lot worse with out any benefits apart from getting ugly people laid lol 1200 years n still going strong lol at the end of the day we live in a medically n scientific age we would be nieve n silly to not use it to our advantages fuck bet you dont moan in a bad way when a man takes Viagra for a non med reason a a a |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as a preference id avoid really bulky men.. find muscles a turn off..
Toned and strong is nice but not attracted to the type of man you'd see modelling in a gym magazine for example.
equally i dont like thin men or very large men. I quite like a little bit of 'podge' :D |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I train but do it more for my own sake than others is health n mental well being and the healthy living n eating does wonders for your energy levels n motivation I am not a liar n false talker yes I do use steroids n have done since this Sept first time for Years I will say though ...And the reprogramming n messing around of you test levels is a mine field ...i have to be very careful if I run to little I drop if I run to much test I turn in to more of a dog with two dicks than normal.but yes its fun pmsl you are a liar.. steroids are not healthy and for your well being are they? so, you obviously don't train for that..why don't you start again.. "
I don't take them, but I can't see any reasonto criticise anyone who does. At leat they have a fitness/physique related goal.
All the legal and illegal drugs I've taken have been the opposite of "performance enhancing", and have done nothing for me other than taken my brain interetsing places. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i'll be honest and say a hot body is more likely to turn me on, initially. you would gain my interest easy enough if you messaged, keeping me interested would be another matter though.
what you offering that is more than your hot body? or are you just not liking being objectified? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i'll be honest and say a hot body is more likely to turn me on, initially. you would gain my interest easy enough if you messaged, keeping me interested would be another matter though.
what you offering that is more than your hot body? or are you just not liking being objectified?"
........lol I left the pikey n dread lady's alone when I moved of site long time ago now  never say never lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i'll be honest and say a hot body is more likely to turn me on, initially. you would gain my interest easy enough if you messaged, keeping me interested would be another matter though.
what you offering that is more than your hot body? or are you just not liking being objectified?
........lol I left the pikey n dread lady's alone when I moved of site long time ago now never say never lol x"
i was asking the OP. you have a fat belly.
nothing wrong with gypsys, i don't like being called a pikey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i'll be honest and say a hot body is more likely to turn me on, initially. you would gain my interest easy enough if you messaged, keeping me interested would be another matter though.
what you offering that is more than your hot body? or are you just not liking being objectified?
........lol I left the pikey n dread lady's alone when I moved of site long time ago now never say never lol x
i was asking the OP. you have a fat belly.
nothing wrong with gypsys, i don't like being called a pikey."
.........boys got a eat lol its a fuel cell for the games ahead you try consuming 3500\5000calories a day and see what your belly does lol x |
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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago
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"Far from a lier else I wouldn't a posted that would I ? But I know what you are saying but its like a lot of things this day and age there has been a hell of a lot of medical research last 50 \60 years and if you abuse them yes they will fuck with your liver but doesn't alcohol do the same and a lot worse with out any benefits apart from getting ugly people laid lol 1200 years n still going strong lol at the end of the day we live in a medically n scientific age we would be nieve n silly to not use it to our advantages fuck bet you dont moan in a bad way when a man takes Viagra for a non med reason a a a "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a personal preference not really important. I'm quite muscular & it has its pros & cons.
Pros: clothes fit better, ladies love muscular look, feel stronger etc
Cons: need to eat more & train alot for maintenance which can be expensive & demanding on body |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"........lol I left the pikey n dread lady's alone when I moved of site long time ago now never say never lol x
Why be so rude?"
he's apologised to me, it's ok. |
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"Shape and size is not that important to me, just cleanliness a healthy attitude towards sex and respect for others. "
How you look is most certainly very, VERY important. If you don't look like a Greek adonis, then you'll have to get by on personality, charm and intellect.
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"........lol I left the pikey n dread lady's alone when I moved of site long time ago now never say never lol x
Why be so rude?
he's apologised to me, it's ok."
But should never had said in first place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"........lol I left the pikey n dread lady's alone when I moved of site long time ago now never say never lol x
Why be so rude?
he's apologised to me, it's ok.
But should never had said in first place"
it's fine, really. he told me some things and i'm ok with him using that term. he didnt know it would be offensive to me so i'm ok with that, the intent is not how it looks.
plus i said he had a fat belly and look at him joking about it, he's not a malicious guy at all i feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As already been said, matters more to some than others
Me personally, like a bit of a dad bod. Not a fan of muscles. And I adore a hairy chest  "
.............i will pass my dad your user name when he's on again xx |
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I had the 6 pack and all then met a woman and while I trained she would say "who you trying to impress now" then came the kids so gym work took a side ward step.
Now separated and slowly getting back into again.
I do it for myself as it makes me feel good both on the outside and the inside. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shape and size is not that important to me, just cleanliness a healthy attitude towards sex and respect for others. "
I like muscular men but if i enjoy their personality and banter i can normally overcome that if they arent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite happy being slim n fairly well toned,which is due to the very physical graft I do!
Tried the gym 3-4 nights a week n eating like a horse plus protein shakes for a few months a couple of years ago,soon got bored of it though it just wasn't for me.....fair play to those that have the necessary discipline to stick at it though,minus the roids of course! 
*wags finger disapprovingly!* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a slim man. In fact I am a skinny man. I am not toned or buff, just, you know, thin.
I meet people that want to meet me, I would hope my physique was only one of a myriad of reasons as to why they chose me. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Far from a lier else I wouldn't a posted that would I ? But I know what you are saying but its like a lot of things this day and age there has been a hell of a lot of medical research last 50 \60 years and if you abuse them yes they will fuck with your liver but doesn't alcohol do the same and a lot worse with out any benefits apart from getting ugly people laid lol 1200 years n still going strong lol at the end of the day we live in a medically n scientific age we would be nieve n silly to not use it to our advantages fuck bet you dont moan in a bad way when a man takes Viagra for a non med reason a a a "
i wouldn't play with a man who i knew was on viagra for a non medical reasons, i've turned them down before. so don't assume anything about me. its your life, but you do lie to yourself when saying you train for health and wellbeing..make all the excuses you like, but i hope one day you'll look in the mirror, touch your own soul through your eyes and be in truth with yourself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm quite happy being slim n fairly well toned,which is due to the very physical graft I do!
Tried the gym 3-4 nights a week n eating like a horse plus protein shakes for a few months a couple of years ago,soon got bored of it though it just wasn't for me.....fair play to those that have the necessary discipline to stick at it though,minus the roids of course!
*wags finger disapprovingly!* "
........just don't waggle any thing else and we be fine lol put that fag out leave the larger n charly alone then tell me again xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Far from a lier else I wouldn't a posted that would I ? But I know what you are saying but its like a lot of things this day and age there has been a hell of a lot of medical research last 50 \60 years and if you abuse them yes they will fuck with your liver but doesn't alcohol do the same and a lot worse with out any benefits apart from getting ugly people laid lol 1200 years n still going strong lol at the end of the day we live in a medically n scientific age we would be nieve n silly to not use it to our advantages fuck bet you dont moan in a bad way when a man takes Viagra for a non med reason a a a i wouldn't play with a man who i knew was on viagra for a non medical reasons, i've turned them down before. so don't assume anything about me. its your life, but you do lie to yourself when saying you train for health and wellbeing..make all the excuses you like, but i hope one day you'll look in the mirror, touch your own soul through your eyes and be in truth with yourself."
........i have trained my whole life and used steroids for a grand total of two years 26 and now bothe times as a WA of combating doctor meds for on going health shit and keeping weight on yes I am training n looking to compete so pls kik wise dont jump to conclusions x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Far from a lier else I wouldn't a posted that would I ? But I know what you are saying but its like a lot of things this day and age there has been a hell of a lot of medical research last 50 \60 years and if you abuse them yes they will fuck with your liver but doesn't alcohol do the same and a lot worse with out any benefits apart from getting ugly people laid lol 1200 years n still going strong lol at the end of the day we live in a medically n scientific age we would be nieve n silly to not use it to our advantages fuck bet you dont moan in a bad way when a man takes Viagra for a non med reason a a a i wouldn't play with a man who i knew was on viagra for a non medical reasons, i've turned them down before. so don't assume anything about me. its your life, but you do lie to yourself when saying you train for health and wellbeing..make all the excuses you like, but i hope one day you'll look in the mirror, touch your own soul through your eyes and be in truth with yourself. ........i have trained my whole life and used steroids for a grand total of two years 26 and now bothe times as a WA of combating doctor meds for on going health shit and keeping weight on yes I am training n looking to compete so pls kik wise dont jump to conclusions x"
.........ps I look in the mirror n touch my self reg pmsl xxxxx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm quite happy being slim n fairly well toned,which is due to the very physical graft I do!
Tried the gym 3-4 nights a week n eating like a horse plus protein shakes for a few months a couple of years ago,soon got bored of it though it just wasn't for me.....fair play to those that have the necessary discipline to stick at it though,minus the roids of course!
*wags finger disapprovingly!* ........just don't waggle any thing else and we be fine lol put that fag out leave the larger n charly alone then tell me again xx "
Haha your assumptions would have been correct a few years ago,not these days though.......
Stopped the smoking n switched to vaping which the jury is still out on,though in my humble opinion I reckon it isn't as bad as the combustible option.
It's rare for me to drink 1 or 2 these days n even rarer that I drink to excess....maybe 2-3 times a year!
N as for Charles.....even the expensive supposedly top drawer version is at best only on a par with the normal priced commodity of 20 years ago!So it's a no thank you to the crappy nose gak from me!
Pugs not drugs,which are for mugs,n I include caffeine which I have to have every morning in that category,as well as steroids you naughty boy
Folk can wag their disapproving fingers at me all they want,couldn't give two fucks  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Far from a lier else I wouldn't a posted that would I ? But I know what you are saying but its like a lot of things this day and age there has been a hell of a lot of medical research last 50 \60 years and if you abuse them yes they will fuck with your liver but doesn't alcohol do the same and a lot worse with out any benefits apart from getting ugly people laid lol 1200 years n still going strong lol at the end of the day we live in a medically n scientific age we would be nieve n silly to not use it to our advantages fuck bet you dont moan in a bad way when a man takes Viagra for a non med reason a a a i wouldn't play with a man who i knew was on viagra for a non medical reasons, i've turned them down before. so don't assume anything about me. its your life, but you do lie to yourself when saying you train for health and wellbeing..make all the excuses you like, but i hope one day you'll look in the mirror, touch your own soul through your eyes and be in truth with yourself. ........i have trained my whole life and used steroids for a grand total of two years 26 and now bothe times as a WA of combating doctor meds for on going health shit and keeping weight on yes I am training n looking to compete so pls kik wise dont jump to conclusions x.........ps I look in the mirror n touch my self reg pmsl xxxxx"
im sure you do
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How did my post turn into steroid abuse?The post had nothing to do with how you achieve it. It was about how we take someone from first impression. Anyone that takes steroids for self gain and a quick route is an idiot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally for me it's still all about soh...... Even if it's ns sex surely you have to take it with a pinch of salt and if you have a connection and can have a giggle then the sex even better x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hat off n fare play n I agree on the quality a the chat these days aint been the same since old carlos n juan and the boys got nobbled back in 2009in london with that 45mill nice having a meal with them the week before in the round house chinese before the triads started to get all shitty though bless em lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not important to me at all, I'm not really that attracted to gym fit guys to be honest and have turned down many guys that are ripped and toned because it's just not my type
I love big built guys, not fat but thick set like power lifters/strong men build
I prefer my guys to be heavier than me I don't want a slim ripped guys who can't throw me round the bed room |
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"Its not a deal breaker for me but it helps since I have an appreciation for Renaissance sculptures. And so by association body forms which match just do it for me
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Haha, there's one renaissance pose that just does it for me.....ooooft!! |
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Im confused....So if a guy who works out at the gym, trains daily to make himself feel good, look good, gain confidence etc with OR without steds is basically guy with no personality?? So what do u call a woman who dont go to the gym, has boob job, tummy tuck, botox, false lashes, hair extensions, fake nails etc?? Isnt the result the same...gained weight, bad relationship, feel unhealthy n do whatever means to get back the body they wanted to 'feel good about themselves' |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
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I train five days a week, I do it for myself as I have goals I want to achieve.
Some women like it, some don't. It doesn't bother me as we all have our preferences.
I'd hope my personality counts for something but pure physical lust will do sometimes. Can't really have a woman drag her nails down my charm while sucking my sense of humour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't need muscular... Just a Jensen Ackles clone, with an 8" willy, who's red hot in bed and a sparkling personality would do me. I'm not too fussy. So I don't think I'm asking for much  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't need muscular... Just a Jensen Ackles clone, with an 8" willy, who's red hot in bed and a sparkling personality would do me. I'm not too fussy. So I don't think I'm asking for much . "
quite the list! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't need muscular... Just a Jensen Ackles clone, with an 8" willy, who's red hot in bed and a sparkling personality would do me. I'm not too fussy. So I don't think I'm asking for much .
quite the list! "
Nah easily achievable |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't need muscular... Just a Jensen Ackles clone, with an 8" willy, who's red hot in bed and a sparkling personality would do me. I'm not too fussy. So I don't think I'm asking for much .
quite the list!
Nah easily achievable "
not sure about that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't need muscular... Just a Jensen Ackles clone, with an 8" willy, who's red hot in bed and a sparkling personality would do me. I'm not too fussy. So I don't think I'm asking for much .
quite the list!
Nah easily achievable
not sure about that "
Which bit to you think I'm over reaching on? The sparkling personality part? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't need muscular... Just a Jensen Ackles clone, with an 8" willy, who's red hot in bed and a sparkling personality would do me. I'm not too fussy. So I don't think I'm asking for much .
quite the list!
Nah easily achievable
not sure about that
Which bit to you think I'm over reaching on? The sparkling personality part? "
i think your worth every request personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I train five days a week, I do it for myself as I have goals I want to achieve.
Some women like it, some don't. It doesn't bother me as we all have our preferences.
I'd hope my personality counts for something but pure physical lust will do sometimes. Can't really have a woman drag her nails down my charm while sucking my sense of humour. "
.....pmsl |
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I like a man who respects me. Who can hold a conversation and make me laugh.
If he has muscles thats okay. If he doesnt, well thats okay too.
Given the choice of identicle personalities just differing body shapes i'd probably go non-muscular.
But thats just my preference same as some of you guys might not like my wobbly bits and some might xx
Claire xx
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"I don't need muscular... Just a Jensen Ackles clone, with an 8" willy, who's red hot in bed and a sparkling personality would do me. I'm not too fussy. So I don't think I'm asking for much . "
I think you just described perfection! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't need muscular... Just a Jensen Ackles clone, with an 8" willy, who's red hot in bed and a sparkling personality would do me. I'm not too fussy. So I don't think I'm asking for much .
I think you just described perfection! "
Ooh yes please ... I don't think we ask for too much lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do like a fit body but not steroid enhanced muscles or gym addict types, just a natural strong man.
Having said that though, his body certainly isn't my top factor when deciding whether to meet someone. A friendly, shining personality that I click with and a face and a smile that I find attractive are so much more important. |
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I find it important to be attracted to a guy overall -his personality, general physique etc - and a muscular physique can be part of it. I do tend towars muscular but its not essential.
I think as it is tough for guys here that it will do them no harm to be fitter, rather than unfit. Some dont like built bodybuilder types,so I think those who are more moderate will appeal to a bigger audience.
There are probably people here for all body types, so theres hope for all, if so. |
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"I find it important to be attracted to a guy overall -his personality, general physique etc - and a muscular physique can be part of it. I do tend towars muscular but its not essential.
I think as it is tough for guys here that it will do them no harm to be fitter, rather than unfit. Some dont like built bodybuilder types,so I think those who are more moderate will appeal to a bigger audience"
Yes this |
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"you are muscular tho yes but I'd hope people would look past that. "
You're not what I'd define as muscular. For me your body is just right. Over developed muscles are a turn off for me, but de rigueur for others.
We are what we are and will NEVER have universal appeal so I find these types of threads pointless. Surely it can't be a startling revelation?!! |
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"Important to who?
The only man whose appearance I care about is mine, and I like me to be as muscular as I can be without taking steroids.
I don't care if other people think I should be muscular or not though. "
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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It's not important to me, but obviously is to them.I personally don't like the 'manufactured' muscular type, but admire the natural look, gained through working hard all their lifetime, in physical jobs |
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With or without a belly
