No set rule....i got a bj off a girl on our first date.
Dated a girl last year...kissed on the 2nd date. 3rd date by the time i could get her top off and never had sex as it we never got past the 3rd date.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"as soon as you want him to fuck off and leave you alone, that is the time to have sex...  "
What if I don't want them to fuck off and leave me alone?  |
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Last vanilla I met in local. Came back for coffee. Left her in lounge while I went to kitchen to make coffee. Came back and she wasn't there (thought she had gone to toilet). Sat down in lounge...two mins later heard "where's the coffee then?".
Found her naked in my bed..... I think things have changed since my youth lol! (Having said that she was 27) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as soon as you want him to fuck off and leave you alone, that is the time to have sex...
What if I don't want them to fuck off and leave me alone? "
probably won't have a choice once he's fucked you.
i'm putting it down to the guys i date feel guilty for being so slutty so early on in the relationship.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whenever the mood takes you. It makes mo difference to me. I don't have time for games personally but I'd say do whatever makes you feel comfortable.
Doll x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Me and Mr SnT fucked on our first date. We should have been going for a lunch date but I asked him to take me home and fuck me! We did go for lunch afterwards though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally speaking, I've never fucked on a first date if I like them, and want it to go further. Nothing to do with respect, it's preference. I just like to get to know them a bit first, because when sex does eventually happen, it turns into not being able to keep your hands off each other for a while. But it's horses for courses. Whatever you feel is right OP. Everyone's different  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There's no set rule. Just when it feels right but I wouldn't rush it.
I was a virgin before I met Dorian so we didn't have sex until 2 months down the line
~Mia |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Treat it like a meet, social first
Then sex
Unless they are hot, and your horny, then forget what I've said,two failed marriages, what the fuck do I know |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I haven't a clue as the only ever date I went on was last year with MrWho. All my relationships started with sex, I kind of bypassed the dating phase. From what friends have told me of their dating experiences there are no rules. Go with what feels right at the time. If anyone loses respect for you for having sex too soon, as they perceive it, then they're misogynistic cockwombles unworthy of your attention.
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I've had one date so far with this person.
Just went out for a few drinks.
We hit it off, lots of laughter and easy to chat to.
He's taking me out for dinner on Tuesday.
Lots of texting and flirting going on.
I just hope this isn't all just to get in my knickers and then it's adios. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had one date so far with this person.
Just went out for a few drinks.
We hit it off, lots of laughter and easy to chat to.
He's taking me out for dinner on Tuesday.
Lots of texting and flirting going on.
I just hope this isn't all just to get in my knickers and then it's adios. "
even if it is there'll be other guys. don't stress about it, really. |
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ASAP
No it depends if you want a relationship
If he really wants to be with you it won't matter and you have other things in common to do before then and you will be able to tell also if he really likes he will settle for fore play to start
Depends how often you see him too
I'd say 6 weeks
1 date per week for the 1st 3 weeks
Then 2 dates per week and so on |
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"I've had one date so far with this person.
Just went out for a few drinks.
We hit it off, lots of laughter and easy to chat to.
He's taking me out for dinner on Tuesday.
Lots of texting and flirting going on.
I just hope this isn't all just to get in my knickers and then it's adios.
even if it is there'll be other guys. don't stress about it, really."
You're right. Just for me, vanilla dating wise it doesn't happen often that I feel a connection with someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as soon as you want him to fuck off and leave you alone, that is the time to have sex... "
Hahaha!
Are there rules to vanilla dating?
I've been on very few "dates" and have fucked most of them immediately!
One of them ended up being a four year relationship.
I have to confess that my last relationship was one of those situations where we were friends first so it all happened organically.
I'm not sure how to behave in a "dating" scenario ... |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"ASAP
No it depends if you want a relationship
If he really wants to be with you it won't matter and you have other things in common to do before then and you will be able to tell also if he really likes he will settle for fore play to start
Depends how often you see him too
I'd say 6 weeks
1 date per week for the 1st 3 weeks
Then 2 dates per week and so on "
you may waste 6 weeks before you find out they are crap in bed? no chance..(btw i dont vanilla date) |
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"I've had one date so far with this person.
Just went out for a few drinks.
We hit it off, lots of laughter and easy to chat to.
He's taking me out for dinner on Tuesday.
Lots of texting and flirting going on.
I just hope this isn't all just to get in my knickers and then it's adios.
even if it is there'll be other guys. don't stress about it, really.
You're right. Just for me, vanilla dating wise it doesn't happen often that I feel a connection with someone. "
i'm a slow burner. if i get on with someone it'll take me ages to get into them so that might be why it's easy for me to say that? like if we split within a few months it doesn't really bother me. |
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"I've had one date so far with this person.
Just went out for a few drinks.
We hit it off, lots of laughter and easy to chat to.
He's taking me out for dinner on Tuesday.
Lots of texting and flirting going on.
I just hope this isn't all just to get in my knickers and then it's adios. "
Does it matter if it is? Plenty more men out there to enjoy. |
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