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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
Greenwich London |
We noticed at least 90% of couples here are female bi-curious and that includes us, is that the trend now aday or it just a feaze that women go through it, or is it just something to please the boys, or just a missed lost fun, we just can't put a finger on it (no bun intended)?????? |
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I think in reality it covers a huge spectrum, from enjoying a gentle kiss to full on ff fun.
Bun is definately bi.
It's a pity if some feel a pressure to list that , if that's not how they truly feel. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"We noticed at least 90% of couples here are female bi-curious and that includes us, is that the trend now aday or it just a feaze that women go through it, or is it just something to please the boys, or just a missed lost fun, we just can't put a finger on it (no bun intended)??????"
inexperienced, nervous or reluctant springs to mind. i have to be in a certain mind set when the chance to play comes along with 'bi curious'..they may bottle out at any moment..so its rather like choosing to play with an inexperienced man or a virgin. don't mind playing when i am sub, in fact i think me blindfolded with them makes it easier on them as i'm not 'in charge' which helps them relax. i would prefer to know they fancied me though..can you fancy a woman and be just bi curious? the jury is out i feel on that one...x |
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I think to be on a swingers site in the first place shows a sense of freedom and acceptance of what non swingers might consider the norm so I think it's just a development and manifestation of that open mindedness.
I like watching two women 69-ing each other as well if that helps. |
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
Greenwich London |
"We noticed at least 90% of couples here are female bi-curious and that includes us, is that the trend now aday or it just a feaze that women go through it, or is it just something to please the boys, or just a missed lost fun, we just can't put a finger on it (no bun intended)??????
inexperienced, nervous or reluctant springs to mind. i have to be in a certain mind set when the chance to play comes along with 'bi curious'..they may bottle out at any moment..so its rather like choosing to play with an inexperienced man or a virgin. don't mind playing when i am sub, in fact i think me blindfolded with them makes it easier on them as i'm not 'in charge' which helps them relax. i would prefer to know they fancied me though..can you fancy a woman and be just bi curious? the jury is out i feel on that one...x"
It make sense but does it matter if you are curious or fully bi it is more or less the same experience and feeling in our humple opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to put Bi curious as I haven't managed to meet a female yet but I am definitely very attracted to FF and once I have met a female for sex I will change the Bi curious to Bi XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The law of averages says you should see an equal number of couples profiles with straight females and bi males.
From my own anecdotal experience of parties, there are a large number of 'bi because other half gets off on it women'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to begin with I was always a bit curious and appreciated the look of a sexy lady, but this lifestyle has brought out a lot more in me and now I definitely look forward to playing with other ladies, its something I actively look for now when we meet other couples. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"We noticed at least 90% of couples here are female bi-curious and that includes us, is that the trend now aday or it just a feaze that women go through it, or is it just something to please the boys, or just a missed lost fun, we just can't put a finger on it (no bun intended)??????"
I think it can be any of those things, you mention. I have tried being with a lady and it does nothing for me, at all, but in general, I think this lifestyle can be liberating, for us all, so why not try new experiences  |
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
Greenwich London |
"We noticed at least 90% of couples here are female bi-curious and that includes us, is that the trend now aday or it just a feaze that women go through it, or is it just something to please the boys, or just a missed lost fun, we just can't put a finger on it (no bun intended)??????
I think it can be any of those things, you mention. I have tried being with a lady and it does nothing for me, at all, but in general, I think this lifestyle can be liberating, for us all, so why not try new experiences "
Yeah why not indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I started out as no curious as I was attracted to women but never played. After the first time I played with a woman I changed to bisexual. I love playing with women and often meet women without Mr Kinky. Going through a bit of a drought atm as my ex lady playmate is expecting a baby.
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"We noticed at least 90% of couples here are female bi-curious and that includes us, is that the trend now aday or it just a feaze that women go through it, or is it just something to please the boys, or just a missed lost fun, we just can't put a finger on it (no bun intended)?????
inexperienced, nervous or reluctant springs to mind. i have to be in a certain mind set when the chance to play comes along with 'bi curious'..they may bottle out at any moment..so its rather like choosing to play with an inexperienced man or a virgin. don't mind playing when i am sub, in fact i think me blindfolded with them makes it easier on them as i'm not 'in charge' which helps them relax. i would prefer to know they fancied me though..can you fancy a woman and be just bi curious? the jury is out i feel on that one...x"
I have to be drawn to a woman just as I have to be drawn to a man.
There's lots of extremely nice people here but not all have that something.
Do I list curious because I feel I should for society - no
I list it because I sometimes get drawn to women but yes I get nervous so maybe I feel it will give more understanding of me as against just saying bi and always being expected to perform /be perfect |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"We noticed at least 90% of couples here are female bi-curious and that includes us, is that the trend now aday or it just a feaze that women go through it, or is it just something to please the boys, or just a missed lost fun, we just can't put a finger on it (no bun intended)??????
inexperienced, nervous or reluctant springs to mind. i have to be in a certain mind set when the chance to play comes along with 'bi curious'..they may bottle out at any moment..so its rather like choosing to play with an inexperienced man or a virgin. don't mind playing when i am sub, in fact i think me blindfolded with them makes it easier on them as i'm not 'in charge' which helps them relax. i would prefer to know they fancied me though..can you fancy a woman and be just bi curious? the jury is out i feel on that one...x
It make sense but does it matter if you are curious or fully bi it is more or less the same experience and feeling in our humple opinion "
not mine, completely different feel imo...but then i am bi, not just curious..we all perceive differently xx |
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
Greenwich London |
"We noticed at least 90% of couples here are female bi-curious and that includes us, is that the trend now aday or it just a feaze that women go through it, or is it just something to please the boys, or just a missed lost fun, we just can't put a finger on it (no bun intended)??????
inexperienced, nervous or reluctant springs to mind. i have to be in a certain mind set when the chance to play comes along with 'bi curious'..they may bottle out at any moment..so its rather like choosing to play with an inexperienced man or a virgin. don't mind playing when i am sub, in fact i think me blindfolded with them makes it easier on them as i'm not 'in charge' which helps them relax. i would prefer to know they fancied me though..can you fancy a woman and be just bi curious? the jury is out i feel on that one...x
It make sense but does it matter if you are curious or fully bi it is more or less the same experience and feeling in our humple opinion not mine, completely different feel imo...but then i am bi, not just curious..we all perceive differently xx"
In what way? |
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"We noticed at least 90% of couples here are female bi-curious and that includes us, is that the trend now aday or it just a feaze that women go through it, or is it just something to please the boys, or just a missed lost fun, we just can't put a finger on it (no bun intended)??????
inexperienced, nervous or reluctant springs to mind. i have to be in a certain mind set when the chance to play comes along with 'bi curious'..they may bottle out at any moment..so its rather like choosing to play with an inexperienced man or a virgin. don't mind playing when i am sub, in fact i think me blindfolded with them makes it easier on them as i'm not 'in charge' which helps them relax. i would prefer to know they fancied me though..can you fancy a woman and be just bi curious? the jury is out i feel on that one...x"
That's interesting. I put bi-curious rather than bi because I would never envisage myself having a relationship with another woman although I've probably been with more girls sexually than men. |
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
Greenwich London |
"We noticed at least 90% of couples here are female bi-curious and that includes us, is that the trend now aday or it just a feaze that women go through it, or is it just something to please the boys, or just a missed lost fun, we just can't put a finger on it (no bun intended)??????
inexperienced, nervous or reluctant springs to mind. i have to be in a certain mind set when the chance to play comes along with 'bi curious'..they may bottle out at any moment..so its rather like choosing to play with an inexperienced man or a virgin. don't mind playing when i am sub, in fact i think me blindfolded with them makes it easier on them as i'm not 'in charge' which helps them relax. i would prefer to know they fancied me though..can you fancy a woman and be just bi curious? the jury is out i feel on that one...x
That's interesting. I put bi-curious rather than bi because I would never envisage myself having a relationship with another woman although I've probably been with more girls sexually than men. "
Wow more girls than guys
How lucky are you  |
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
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It's a pity if some feel a pressure to list that , if that's not how they truly feel."
Indeed it is but some women need to please their man so do any thing for that but then after they try it then they realise what was missing  |
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over a year ago
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"We noticed at least 90% of couples here are female bi-curious and that includes us, is that the trend now aday or it just a feaze that women go through it, or is it just something to please the boys, or just a missed lost fun, we just can't put a finger on it (no bun intended)??????
inexperienced, nervous or reluctant springs to mind. i have to be in a certain mind set when the chance to play comes along with 'bi curious'..they may bottle out at any moment..so its rather like choosing to play with an inexperienced man or a virgin. don't mind playing when i am sub, in fact i think me blindfolded with them makes it easier on them as i'm not 'in charge' which helps them relax. i would prefer to know they fancied me though..can you fancy a woman and be just bi curious? the jury is out i feel on that one...x
That's interesting. I put bi-curious rather than bi because I would never envisage myself having a relationship with another woman although I've probably been with more girls sexually than men. "
I put Bisexual on mine because I can be sexually active with men or women, but like you I would not consider a relationship with a man, I just don't feel that kind of connection with them as I do women. Sexual satisfaction and romantic relationships are fun when they go hand in hand, but they are not mutually inclusive.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I have to put bi curious,until I go with a woman haven't I ? X
Well goodluck with that then, we hope it get sorted sooner or later  "
we have got a meet arranged for next sat xx hope she turns up x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I have to put bi curious,until I go with a woman haven't I ? X
Well goodluck with that then, we hope it get sorted sooner or later we have got a meet arranged for next sat xx hope she turns up x"
and btw love your pics x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me, curious means you haven't tried it yet. You may have fantasised about it, but until you actually try it, you won't know how you'll react.
If you've tried it, liked it, and want to do it again, you're no longer curious, you're bi. |
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
Greenwich London |
"Well I have to put bi curious,until I go with a woman haven't I ? X
Well goodluck with that then, we hope it get sorted sooner or later we have got a meet arranged for next sat xx hope she turns up x"
Finger crossed for you xx |
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
Greenwich London |
"Well I have to put bi curious,until I go with a woman haven't I ? X
Well goodluck with that then, we hope it get sorted sooner or later we have got a meet arranged for next sat xx hope she turns up xand btw love your pics x x "
Ooo thank you so much |
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I have chosen bisexual and in my profile say i am very bisexual.
I have had relationships with women and meet women without my husband. I prefer ladies.
I recently heard a new one... 'Bi-selfish' where a woman is happy to receive but not give any pleasure to another woman. (think i got that right)
x Claire x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We started swinging with a completely open mind as to what may float our boat .
Mrs was way more willing to try things she hadn't done before , including bi play , and she loved it from the minute we started . She still says that she enjoys ff play as much as mf , as long as there is cock involved at some point . She does it because she loves it , and it's as simple as that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say I've noticed this and wondered myself. I'm not attracted to women sexually in any way. Men only please
It is not short of them on here hunni so take your pick but chose wisely "
I always do, I've met some right smashers too |
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"I have chosen bisexual and in my profile say i am very bisexual.
I have had relationships with women and meet women without my husband. I prefer ladies.
I recently heard a new one... 'Bi-selfish' where a woman is happy to receive but not give any pleasure to another woman. (think i got that right)
I call them bi greedy- come across a few in my time
Mrs k
x Claire x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I call myself bi-curious because the thought of it has always turned me on so much. It was only 6 months ago that I admitted it to my husband and I'm still getting my head around the fact that I want to try pussy  |
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"We noticed at least 90% of couples here are female bi-curious and that includes us, is that the trend now aday or it just a feaze that women go through it, or is it just something to please the boys, or just a missed lost fun, we just can't put a finger on it (no bun intended)??????"
x
Been thinking more about this for about a year now and would like to push my own boundaries sexuality wise but would like it to be a 1-2-1 meet with little or no guys around as normally in a Cpl scenario we end up full swap with more male contact xxxxxx
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I have to say I've noticed this and wondered myself. I'm not attracted to women sexually in any way. Men only please
It is not short of them on here hunni so take your pick but chose wisely
I always do, I've met some right smashers too "
Well that is the way forward then Hun life is to short so why not make the most of it while we all can I say |
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We both list ourselves as bi-curious because neither of us would want a relationship with the same sex but we very very very enjoy the bi-play.
We didn't think we should put bisexual in case it insinuated something more than sexual play. |
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Well bi curious in my opinion seems to mean a few things
1. I am playing with women just to please my husband
2. I like kissing women and being a pillow princess but I am not willing to go down on another woman
3. I am actually bi but too frightened to embrace it.
4. I have never been been with a women but genuinely willing to try.
I am myself am bi, I like women, I love pussy. I have been in a relationships with women. The only one of the above I am willing to accept is the later the rest can go fuck themselves cos I won't be!
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- Mrs |
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"Well bi curious in my opinion seems to mean a few things
1. I am playing with women just to please my husband
2. I like kissing women and being a pillow princess but I am not willing to go down on another woman
3. I am actually bi but too frightened to embrace it.
4. I have never been been with a women but genuinely willing to try.
I am myself am bi, I like women, I love pussy. I have been in a relationships with women. The only one of the above I am willing to accept is the later the rest can go fuck themselves cos I won't be!
(Drops mic walks off)
- Mrs"
Couldn't have said it better myself . I love playing with women 
Bun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well bi curious in my opinion seems to mean a few things
1. I am playing with women just to please my husband
2. I like kissing women and being a pillow princess but I am not willing to go down on another woman
3. I am actually bi but too frightened to embrace it.
4. I have never been been with a women but genuinely willing to try.
I am myself am bi, I like women, I love pussy. I have been in a relationships with women. The only one of the above I am willing to accept is the later the rest can go fuck themselves cos I won't be!
(Drops mic walks off)
- Mrs
Couldn't have said it better myself . I love playing with women
Bun "
My kinda lady
Mrs
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
Greenwich London |
"Well bi curious in my opinion seems to mean a few things
1. I am playing with women just to please my husband
2. I like kissing women and being a pillow princess but I am not willing to go down on another woman
3. I am actually bi but too frightened to embrace it.
4. I have never been been with a women but genuinely willing to try.
I am myself am bi, I like women, I love pussy. I have been in a relationships with women. The only one of the above I am willing to accept is the later the rest can go fuck themselves cos I won't be!
(Drops mic walks off)
- Mrs"
That make a lot of sense, I hope many one here can take notice |
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
Greenwich London |
"Well bi curious in my opinion seems to mean a few things
1. I am playing with women just to please my husband
2. I like kissing women and being a pillow princess but I am not willing to go down on another woman
3. I am actually bi but too frightened to embrace it.
4. I have never been been with a women but genuinely willing to try.
I am myself am bi, I like women, I love pussy. I have been in a relationships with women. The only one of the above I am willing to accept is the later the rest can go fuck themselves cos I won't be!
(Drops mic walks off)
- Mrs"
And I am the later one by the way just incase anyone are courious to find out |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"We started swinging with a completely open mind as to what may float our boat .
Mrs was way more willing to try things she hadn't done before , including bi play , and she loved it from the minute we started . She still says that she enjoys ff play as much as mf , as long as there is cock involved at some point . She does it because she loves it , and it's as simple as that "
This has tickled me. She enjoys ff as much as long as there's cock at some point? Well, she doesn't. She enjoys it. But if as much, there'd be no need for cock. It's great that you are open minded though. |
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"We started swinging with a completely open mind as to what may float our boat .
Mrs was way more willing to try things she hadn't done before , including bi play , and she loved it from the minute we started . She still says that she enjoys ff play as much as mf , as long as there is cock involved at some point . She does it because she loves it , and it's as simple as that
This has tickled me. She enjoys ff as much as long as there's cock at some point? Well, she doesn't. She enjoys it. But if as much, there'd be no need for cock. It's great that you are open minded though."
Well said that girl!
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We started swinging with a completely open mind as to what may float our boat .
Mrs was way more willing to try things she hadn't done before , including bi play , and she loved it from the minute we started . She still says that she enjoys ff play as much as mf , as long as there is cock involved at some point . She does it because she loves it , and it's as simple as that
This has tickled me. She enjoys ff as much as long as there's cock at some point? Well, she doesn't. She enjoys it. But if as much, there'd be no need for cock. It's great that you are open minded though."
Nothing wrong of having the best of two worlds, she enjoy both and also make sure that both available at all occasions, she like her cake and eat it, hat off for that. |
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"I started out as no curious as I was attracted to women but never played. After the first time I played with a woman I changed to bisexual. I love playing with women and often meet women without Mr Kinky. Going through a bit of a drought atm as my ex lady playmate is expecting a baby.
I'm exactly the same was very curious and now I'm not. Though it is hard to find another bi girl to solo meet, so I do wonder if some bi or curious ladies are just doing it for their partners benefit?
Mrs K "
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I think that many men still find it difficult to accept they might be interested in the opposite sex. They are also concerned about the perception of others.
For me I considered myself to be bi-curious until I'd experienced another woman.
If we're labelling, I suppose I would now describe myself as bi-sexual but hetero-romantic as I can't envisage having a romantic relationship with a woman... Though that could change.
Nita x |
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I think that many men still find it difficult to accept they might be interested in the opposite sex. They are also concerned about the perception of others.
For me I considered myself to be bi-curious until I'd experienced another woman.
If we're labelling, I suppose I would now describe myself as bi-sexual but hetero-romantic as I can't envisage having a romantic relationship with a woman... Though that could change.
Nita x"
That make sense we appreciate the input, that Herero-romantic is new to us, we learn something everyday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love nice girl on girl sex, kissing touching, long hair, not girl on girl porn sex, it has to be nice not a show for the men,it has to be for me and the right girl "
Thats just how I feel xxx |
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I love nice girl on girl sex, kissing touching, long hair, not girl on girl porn sex, it has to be nice not a show for the men,it has to be for me and the right girl "
Sometimes if the men out of the equation we will enjoy it better but if you are a couple hard to do that as it should be all involve, we say |
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I think there's almost an expectation on here that women are supposed to be bi or at least bi curious. It's strange when men get vilified for the same thing by the same people. |
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I think there's almost an expectation on here that women are supposed to be bi or at least bi curious. It's strange when men get vilified for the same thing by the same people. "
We find it more for the women than men it is a little strange but hey ho that is how the cookie crumple, and it is a sore subject for them as none dared to give any input |
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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago
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"I love nice girl on girl sex, kissing touching, long hair, not girl on girl porn sex, it has to be nice not a show for the men,it has to be for me and the right girl
Sometimes if the men out of the equation we will enjoy it better but if you are a couple hard to do that as it should be all involve, we say "
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"I think there's almost an expectation on here that women are supposed to be bi or at least bi curious. It's strange when men get vilified for the same thing by the same people.
We find it more for the women than men it is a little strange but hey ho that is how the cookie crumple, and it is a sore subject for them as none dared to give any input "
I'm straight, but have found a lot of women assume that I must be bi, without reading my profile. Maybe it's that bisexual women are more attracted to this site than others, that it's trendy at the moment, or that they're doing it to please partners. My suspicion is there's a mixture of all three. |
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
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"I think there's almost an expectation on here that women are supposed to be bi or at least bi curious. It's strange when men get vilified for the same thing by the same people.
We find it more for the women than men it is a little strange but hey ho that is how the cookie crumple, and it is a sore subject for them as none dared to give any input
I'm straight, but have found a lot of women assume that I must be bi, without reading my profile. Maybe it's that bisexual women are more attracted to this site than others, that it's trendy at the moment, or that they're doing it to please partners. My suspicion is there's a mixture of all three."
Yeah it make a lot of sense we feel it is mixture of many thing and early in the thread it had been summoned nicely |
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"I think there's almost an expectation on here that women are supposed to be bi or at least bi curious. It's strange when men get vilified for the same thing by the same people. "
The curious world of fab straight, now there's fab bi to add as well.
For what it's worth it used to be worse when we first got into this.
" we find it more for the women than men it is a little strange but hey ho that is how the cookie crumple, and it is a sore subject for them as none dared to give any input "
When you say them who do you mean? A lot of people have given input on this thread?
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I think there's almost an expectation on here that women are supposed to be bi or at least bi curious. It's strange when men get vilified for the same thing by the same people.
The curious world of fab straight, now there's fab bi to add as well.
For what it's worth it used to be worse when we first got into this.
we find it more for the women than men it is a little strange but hey ho that is how the cookie crumple, and it is a sore subject for them as none dared to give any input
When you say them who do you mean? A lot of people have given input on this thread?
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I mean men as we have 60 input here 3 of which from men |
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For me bi-curious means fantasising about it, doing a little experimentation to find out whether you like it. A kind of try before you bi
Bisexuality to me, does not mean being equally attracted to both sexes, as it is more fluid than that and though I identify as bisexual on here I would not imagine ever having a romantic relationship with a man. I am attracted to men physically but not romantically. I see myself as toward the heterosexual of any imagined continuum.
However working that out and making sense of it for me has taken me most of my life. No wonder it is confusing for people as we all interpret it through our own experiences and societal conditioning and constraints always play a part, as well as our own understanding of our sexuality.
It was and still is a challenge for me in my life and my circumstances, but I am, in my own mind, now at least comfortable in my own sexuality. |
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we find it more for the women than men it is a little strange but hey ho that is how the cookie crumple, and it is a sore subject for them as none dared to give any input
When you say them who do you mean? A lot of people have given input on this thread?
I mean men as we have 60 input here 3 of which from men "
Ah well my wife has already given her view on the subject.
For those women who consider themselves bi-curious because it's a situational thing, I can relate to that. Yes, I find men attractive but I'm far more into ladies. For me to have sex with men I have be totally at ease with that guy, we've met bisexual men and nothing has happened. I could go into this a lot more but maybe I've misunderstood your question.
But for my wife I know it's immensely frustrating for her to meet women who are only playing along and aren't that into women.
So that's why she's now reluctant to meet women who are bi-curious, too many frustrating experiences.
That probably sounds harsh, but is it any different to a woman who won't meet sexually inexperienced men? Or a submissive woman who only wants experienced doms?
It's frustrating that people make the assumption she's only bi to please me - she's an assertive person and no one, not even me, makes her do something she doesn't want to do.
The irony is that girl on girl play doesn't do a lot for me, swinging has mainly been about the hotwife side for me. But I'm happy if she's happy, I'm happy for her to meet women on her own.
I just think there would be a lot less drama if people were more honest about their sexuality.
Sorry about the essay but you did ask, lol.
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We find it more for the women than men it is a little strange but hey ho that is how the cookie crumple, and it is a sore subject for them as none dared to give any input "
What sort of input would you like from a male perspective?
Recently told Mrs M that I like cock... but not into any sort of male relationship.
It's all about enjoying with everyone, nobody gets left out and most of all... everyone has FUN.
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we find it more for the women than men it is a little strange but hey ho that is how the cookie crumple, and it is a sore subject for them as none dared to give any input
When you say them who do you mean? A lot of people have given input on this thread?
I mean men as we have 60 input here 3 of which from men
Ah well my wife has already given her view on the subject.
For those women who consider themselves bi-curious because it's a situational thing, I can relate to that. Yes, I find men attractive but I'm far more into ladies. For me to have sex with men I have be totally at ease with that guy, we've met bisexual men and nothing has happened. I could go into this a lot more but maybe I've misunderstood your question.
But for my wife I know it's immensely frustrating for her to meet women who are only playing along and aren't that into women.
So that's why she's now reluctant to meet women who are bi-curious, too many frustrating experiences.
That probably sounds harsh, but is it any different to a woman who won't meet sexually inexperienced men? Or a submissive woman who only wants experienced doms?
It's frustrating that people make the assumption she's only bi to please me - she's an assertive person and no one, not even me, makes her do something she doesn't want to do.
The irony is that girl on girl play doesn't do a lot for me, swinging has mainly been about the hotwife side for me. But I'm happy if she's happy, I'm happy for her to meet women on her own.
I just think there would be a lot less drama if people were more honest about their sexuality.
Sorry about the essay but you did ask, lol.
-Mr "
However being honest about one's sexuality to oneself, never mind others, is often not easy. |
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I'm down as bi curious. I do that because while I have been with guys in the past, I consider it as not something I want to do all the time.
I like women, well love women but if it was requested to increase the excitement then I will |
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To illustrate the point about accepting one's sexuality as not necessarily being easy I'll share my a bit of my own story.
I thought I was straight for 45 years or so, despite having a few experiences with other guys when I was much younger. I kind of passed them off as youthful curiosity and continued until my mid-forties under the illusion I was 100% straight. I'd had a bad experience, in my early 20s, with a doctor in a hospital that had tarnished my view of anything to do with going near my arse too. So that played into my confirmation bias that I was straight.
Fast forward 20 years of heterosexual relationships and at my first mmf threesome I had a strong urge to grab the bum of the husband of the couple I was with, as it looked peachy and I also found his cock, which was bigger than mine, quite a turn on to look at.
too. Naturally I didn't act on it because in my mind 'both of were straight'. I thought nothing further of it and the momentary impulse passed and I happily resumed my illusion.
I went to gangbangs and loved seeing all the cocks around me but didn't ever think of sucking one as 'I was straight'.
I then had another 3 some with a couple where the wife identified as bi-curious but the bloke identified as straight. In the middle of the action the guy started sucking my cock. The wife rightly intervened and stopped her hubby saying 'you don't know whether he likes that kind of thing, at least ask.' However, in the moment rather than be repulsed and outraged, I was quite turned on so consented to him continuing. Which he did for a while and then we got back to the business of pleasuring his missus.
That kind of unlocked the door and I changed my profile to bi-curious. I was then curious enough to arrange a one-to-one meet with a local guy . I was nervous as hell but we had a nice enough mutual wank and suck meet. However it didn't turn me on like being with a woman or a couple. At which point I thought 'nah....I'm straight'
However, a bit later I had a one-to-one with a lovely woman who gave me my first prostate massage. That dispelled my phobia of anything near my arse.
It was only a few years ago once I'd started participating on the forum that I finally realised I was actually attracted to men physically and accepted it.
However I still compartmentalise my bisexuality as I'm not at a point where I feel I can admit it to others outside of Fab.....
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" I just think there would be a lot less drama if people were more honest about their sexuality.
Sorry about the essay but you did ask, lol.
-Mr
However being honest about one's sexuality to oneself, never mind others, is often not easy."
True, it wasn't easy for me and I wouldn't expect it to be for most people. My perspective is perhaps skewed as my wife has always completely owned her sexuality so it's easy for to forget others aren't the same.
I have my own story about my experiences but I'm not prepared to go into that level of personal detail.
I just think if you're going to be a swinger, especially as a couple, you need to be honest with yourself. Self awareness is an attractive trait for us.
We've been on the scene on and off for 12 years so it's hard not to have that view. |
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"Well bi curious in my opinion seems to mean a few things
1. I am playing with women just to please my husband
2. I like kissing women and being a pillow princess but I am not willing to go down on another woman
3. I am actually bi but too frightened to embrace it.
4. I have never been been with a women but genuinely willing to try.
I am myself am bi, I like women, I love pussy. I have been in a relationships with women. The only one of the above I am willing to accept is the later the rest can go fuck themselves cos I won't be!
(Drops mic walks off)
- Mrs"
I disagree. I'm listed as curious but none of the above apply to me! I've played with women - love going down on a woman and have her go down on me. I'm meeting someone tomorrow without my hubby and I can't wait to see her. I don't think I'm fully bi because if something happened to Jas I can't imagine having a relationship with a woman.
Perhaps I'm not curious because I know that I love women but I don't think I'm fully bisexual either!! Perhaps I need a new term???
Emma xx
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A girl we played with recently stated she was bi-sexual as she liked sex as much with girls as boys. For that reason, we've left our/her label as bi-curious as she likes women but not instead of men |
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I think that as long as people make it clear how they play if they state bi-curious, it really doesn't matter. This will save confusion and possible embarrassment.
As far as understanding your own sexuality goes, I think the big problem is that until very recently it seemed that society accepted you could be either straight, gay or rarely "fully bi".
Whereas I think that sexuality is a wide range of things.
I too thought that I was straight and it was normal to find other women physically attractive. Since I never had the desire to have a romantic relationship with another woman that didn't mean I wasn't straight...
However, as I got older I came to realise that I was interested in women sexually and fantasised about sex with a woman. This was what lead us towards swinging in the first place.
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"I think that many men still find it difficult to accept they might be interested in the opposite sex. They are also concerned about the perception of others."
I (MiscM) certainly feel like that's the case sometimes. Seen a lot of profiles where the the male is described as "100% completely straight", or similar. Surely "straight" would do? The feeling of a need to express said straightness so strongly makes me think it's down to that concern of perception. |
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By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I think that many men still find it difficult to accept they might be interested in the opposite sex. They are also concerned about the perception of others.
I (MiscM) certainly feel like that's the case sometimes. Seen a lot of profiles where the the male is described as "100% completely straight", or similar. Surely "straight" would do? The feeling of a need to express said straightness so strongly makes me think it's down to that concern of perception."
We think the same too |
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"I think that many men still find it difficult to accept they might be interested in the opposite sex. They are also concerned about the perception of others.
I (MiscM) certainly feel like that's the case sometimes. Seen a lot of profiles where the the male is described as "100% completely straight", or similar. Surely "straight" would do? The feeling of a need to express said straightness so strongly makes me think it's down to that concern of perception."
Or maybe they've had bi men testing the water and feel the need to reiterate it. Just playing devils advocate, you're probably right.. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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H is bisexual & has had sole relationships with women in the past, She's actually had as many with women as she has guys. We too have had issues here with the bicurious ladies, usual thing is cold feet once you start talking a meet date.
I'm quite happy for a bi-curious meet to be H alone for the first time but they still seem to go cold and so H is leaning towards full bi ladies rather than the curious.
I think stating you are "only" curious simply because you couldn't envisage a same sex relationship is a bit wide of the mark. I'd say if you're happy with doing everything in the bedroom you are bisexual, the fact you don't want a same sex relationship is irrelevant. A guy can come on here fuck ten women & not want a relationship & he's still heterosexual why are you not bisexual if you do the same with ten of the same sex?
For myself I tried the male thing when in my twenties, not full sex but enough to tell me it wasn't for me..
This along with the poly thread have probably been the best on here since we joined!!
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