Advice please.....I am not the stereotypical mans man. I am not the builder type
I was once asked if I were gay because apparently I can come across that way but I am 100% straight
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"Be yourself regardless of where you sit on the gender spectrum "
I won't change for anyone but just worried that is a negative with the ladies? I am a pleaser and obviously some woman want a more manly man |
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"Be yourself regardless of where you sit on the gender spectrum
I won't change for anyone but just worried that is a negative with the ladies? I am a pleaser and obviously some woman want a more manly man"
But surely the alternative of pretending to be someone you're not would be far less appealing to even more women.. ,,,,,
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"Just concentrate on being the best you, you can be. You'll never appeal to all so why try? "
I do, I guess it's one of those "negative" period of times on Fab with the usual abuse and it's making me feel a bit insecure
As usual I will bounce back ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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Be yourself and love yourself for who you are. If you feel comfortable in your own skin others will feel that and be drawn to it. I have a strong feminine side but I see it as a strength. I had to learn not to overdo some of those qualities but it makes me who I am. Remember no one is better at being you than you are.
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I understand how you feel. I don't think I'm feminine enough on here compared to a lot of the women.
I don't have nice lingerie, hate shoes with a passion and would much rather watch a game of football than go shopping which would be my idea of hell.
And I very rarely wear skirts or dresses ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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"I understand how you feel. I don't think I'm feminine enough on here compared to a lot of the women.
I don't have nice lingerie, hate shoes with a passion and would much rather watch a game of football than go shopping which would be my idea of hell.
And I very rarely wear skirts or dresses "
But your beautiful, and naughty and you sound a nice person. So to my that's more than enough x |
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"When I wearing my leather chaps, white vest and leather cap and sniffing poppers.... no one asks about how straight and macho I am.
They just know"
Is that in the Blue Oyster Bar?
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