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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Getting a bit fed up with men who are part of a so called cpl,sending me messages saying wife at work or on holiday, Would you like to meet me.
It does say (No single men)on my profile.
If wife or girlfriend not in then you are playing as a single man.So (No)i don't want to meet you.
Now when your wife girlfriend comes home and she wants to play then maybe.
Rant over x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've read a few things about single men pretending to be part of a couple but I'm actually looking for single men so wondering why I've never been contacted by a single man posing as a couple. |
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"I've read a few things about single men pretending to be part of a couple but I'm actually looking for single men so wondering why I've never been contacted by a single man posing as a couple. "
I am Brian, and so is my wife!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've read a few things about single men pretending to be part of a couple but I'm actually looking for single men so wondering why I've never been contacted by a single man posing as a couple. "
As a single male ive tried talking to you and got ignored haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've read a few things about single men pretending to be part of a couple but I'm actually looking for single men so wondering why I've never been contacted by a single man posing as a couple. "
Oh I have had messages off a single male posing as a couple. I just find it odd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've read a few things about single men pretending to be part of a couple but I'm actually looking for single men so wondering why I've never been contacted by a single man posing as a couple. "
Well helloooooooo  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't understand the mentality!?! You'd think this would be the one scene that there really is no need for lies... To then tell a lie, that you can't possibly get away with?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've read a few things about single men pretending to be part of a couple but I'm actually looking for single men so wondering why I've never been contacted by a single man posing as a couple.
As a single male ive tried talking to you and got ignored haha "
On the forum or pm? If pm I rarely look at them unless I've messaged someone and waiting for a response |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've read a few things about single men pretending to be part of a couple but I'm actually looking for single men so wondering why I've never been contacted by a single man posing as a couple.
As a single male ive tried talking to you and got ignored haha
On the forum or pm? If pm I rarely look at them unless I've messaged someone and waiting for a response "
Pm of course. I cant say in the forum. Can we fuck, can i ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting a bit fed up with men who are part of a so called cpl,sending me messages saying wife at work or on holiday, Would you like to meet me.
It does say (No single men)on my profile.
If wife or girlfriend not in then you are playing as a single man.So (No)i don't want to meet you.
Now when your wife girlfriend comes home and she wants to play then maybe.
Rant over x "
after over 10 years we think that most not all think one or two of the single men on the site .ARE SINGLE BECAUSE THEY WOULD NEVER BE ABLE TO GET A GIRL INTO BEN ON A NIGHT OUT. but on line they can play a game they know that they will never turn up to meet you.
just the thrill does it for them .sad it really is .BUT WHY DO THEY NOT JUST FUCK OFF AND WATCH PORN HAVE A WALK COME IN FIVE MIN .THEN GO BACK TO WATCHING TV OR PLAYING ON THE PLAYSTACTION.AND LEAVE THIS SITE AS IT IS MAKING IT REALLY SHIT AND THE SWINGERS ARE LEAVING OR JUST USING IT FOR MEETS AT THE CLUBS.happy swinging to the swingers happy wanking to the rest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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report them for pretending to be a couple.
i used to get 'couple' guys messaging me, despite me not wanting to meet couples. had to block one for being a pest then his single profile popped up lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this is .sheer desperation from these guys.
I am a single male, just come back to the site recently I known their is a big dislike to single men.
I think they way we are looked upon is unfair and I'm still questioning why I'm bothering lol.
However people impersonating something they not is bad, and ruins the credibility of the site. It wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this is .sheer desperation from these guys.
I am a single male, just come back to the site recently I known their is a big dislike to single men.
I think they way we are looked upon is unfair and I'm still questioning why I'm bothering lol.
However people impersonating something they not is bad, and ruins the credibility of the site. It wrong "
we have been off and on the site for about 5 years been swinging over 10 years swinging at clubs that is NOT JUST GOING ON A WEBSITE. the thing is with single men they DO NOT READ THE PROFILE AT ALL for every 500 messages we get about one of them the person had read the profile and ticked the boxs .got to a point now that it is a waste of time and we should leave |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've read a few things about single men pretending to be part of a couple but I'm actually looking for single men so wondering why I've never been contacted by a single man posing as a couple.
As a single male ive tried talking to you and got ignored haha "
Hmmmm. Vagina? May have a few issues here then! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"after over 10 years we think that most not all think one or two of the single men on the site .ARE SINGLE BECAUSE THEY WOULD NEVER BE ABLE TO GET A GIRL INTO BEN ON A NIGHT OUT"
Who is this Ben? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How can they say they are single if they have a wife/girlfriend ..
I get a lot of messages off men who have couples profiles and I just think it's a single man pretending to be married ..
Either way the answer is always no  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've read a few things about single men pretending to be part of a couple but I'm actually looking for single men so wondering why I've never been contacted by a single man posing as a couple.
As a single male ive tried talking to you and got ignored haha
On the forum or pm? If pm I rarely look at them unless I've messaged someone and waiting for a response "
So your profile is hidden at the moment but even when it's not you rarely look at private messages. You're wondering why you don't get messaged by single men pretending to be a couple. The answer might be in there somewhere... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there are plenty of women on here saying how they want a male however when you send a polite message with a face photo mostly it's a " sorry not for me " as most of the women on this site are obese or have some part of their body covered in trash stamps ( tats ) i am amazed that they can be choosy ! i always say take a look in the mirror and ask yourself can i afford to be picky ! in most cases the answer is no !!!
none of us are super models try going a little deeper and actually meet the person and find out about their personality before hitting the delete button , |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"there are plenty of women on here saying how they want a male however when you send a polite message with a face photo mostly it's a " sorry not for me " as most of the women on this site are obese or have some part of their body covered in trash stamps ( tats ) i am amazed that they can be choosy ! i always say take a look in the mirror and ask yourself can i afford to be picky ! in most cases the answer is no !!!
none of us are super models try going a little deeper and actually meet the person and find out about their personality before hitting the delete button , "
Whoah. So because women are obese they can't be picky? Or they have tattoos so should take any cock? Er yes they can be choosy. Because there are far more men on this site so far more options. Also, just because in your subjective opinion they can't be, lots of men might disagree including those who are 'more attractive'. Personalities are great and all that but if you're looking for someone to just open their legs, maybe pay for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there are plenty of women on here saying how they want a male however when you send a polite message with a face photo mostly it's a " sorry not for me " as most of the women on this site are obese or have some part of their body covered in trash stamps ( tats ) i am amazed that they can be choosy ! i always say take a look in the mirror and ask yourself can i afford to be picky ! in most cases the answer is no !!!
none of us are super models try going a little deeper and actually meet the person and find out about their personality before hitting the delete button ,
Whoah. So because women are obese they can't be picky? Or they have tattoos so should take any cock? Er yes they can be choosy. Because there are far more men on this site so far more options. Also, just because in your subjective opinion they can't be, lots of men might disagree including those who are 'more attractive'. Personalities are great and all that but if you're looking for someone to just open their legs, maybe pay for it."
 totally agree with this.
As for your status, saying people should look in the mirror before saying you're not for them is so fkg arrogant. You're not their type, it's as simple as that and you need to get over yourself. Maybe that attitude is more why you're not their type than how you look
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there are plenty of women on here saying how they want a male however when you send a polite message with a face photo mostly it's a " sorry not for me " as most of the women on this site are obese or have some part of their body covered in trash stamps ( tats ) i am amazed that they can be choosy ! i always say take a look in the mirror and ask yourself can i afford to be picky ! in most cases the answer is no !!!
none of us are super models try going a little deeper and actually meet the person and find out about their personality before hitting the delete button , "
You get polite rejection messages, and are having a go on your status about it? Sorry but that did make me laugh... You are one of the reasons why some women find it simpler just to ignore. I'm not sure why you think you have the right to decide on what women's preferences should be. They don't need to look in the mirror... The fact is, they can afford to be choosy. Why shouldn't they be? This is a swingers site, with most seeing sex as the primary goal. They have to fancy you. If you don't float their boat visually, then some are not interested in your personality.. Harsh but true I'm afraid. There really is no need to put women down. Just for the record, they interest you enough for you to want to have sex with them... So will others be interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there are plenty of women on here saying how they want a male however when you send a polite message with a face photo mostly it's a " sorry not for me " as most of the women on this site are obese or have some part of their body covered in trash stamps ( tats ) i am amazed that they can be choosy ! i always say take a look in the mirror and ask yourself can i afford to be picky ! in most cases the answer is no !!!
none of us are super models try going a little deeper and actually meet the person and find out about their personality before hitting the delete button , "
Wow  I think you've shown your personality on here and it stinks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there are plenty of women on here saying how they want a male however when you send a polite message with a face photo mostly it's a " sorry not for me " as most of the women on this site are obese or have some part of their body covered in trash stamps ( tats ) i am amazed that they can be choosy ! i always say take a look in the mirror and ask yourself can i afford to be picky ! in most cases the answer is no !!!
none of us are super models try going a little deeper and actually meet the person and find out about their personality before hitting the delete button , "
Well you could have probably put that a little more subtly but I understand your frustration.
However that is the reality of this site. The ratio of men to women is so high that almost any women is going to have a decent selection of partners, even if they make no effort whatsoever (and look at their profiles, many don't). For men the reverse is true. As a result for most guys this site is a complete waste of time.
You can see from the 'advice' handed out to struggling guys that most women don't get that. Yes it's frustrating for you to read women saying they can't find a nice, respectful guy and then have your nice, respectful messages ignored. But what they mean is a nice, respectful HOT guy...and they think they are entitled to it.
Imagine what it would be like though if the roles were reversed and we got 50 messages a day from women. Would we be indifferent to looks...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there are plenty of women on here saying how they want a male however when you send a polite message with a face photo mostly it's a " sorry not for me " as most of the women on this site are obese or have some part of their body covered in trash stamps ( tats ) i am amazed that they can be choosy ! i always say take a look in the mirror and ask yourself can i afford to be picky ! in most cases the answer is no !!!
none of us are super models try going a little deeper and actually meet the person and find out about their personality before hitting the delete button ,
Well you could have probably put that a little more subtly but I understand your frustration.
However that is the reality of this site. The ratio of men to women is so high that almost any women is going to have a decent selection of partners, even if they make no effort whatsoever (and look at their profiles, many don't). For men the reverse is true. As a result for most guys this site is a complete waste of time.
You can see from the 'advice' handed out to struggling guys that most women don't get that. Yes it's frustrating for you to read women saying they can't find a nice, respectful guy and then have your nice, respectful messages ignored. But what they mean is a nice, respectful HOT guy...and they think they are entitled to it.
Imagine what it would be like though if the roles were reversed and we got 50 messages a day from women. Would we be indifferent to looks...?"
But HOT is subjective. I wouldn't expect anyone to want to meet me unless they found me attractive and I would hope they'd realise I'd need to be attracted to them. Nobody should be made to feel bad for turning someone down politely and that is what he has tried to do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not looking for couples, only single men. I get a lot of messages from couples who, when I point this out, mysteriously turn out to be a single man after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But HOT is subjective "
To a degree but if you took a poll I expect there'd be quite a high level of agreement on who was hot on this site... The difference is that women get to pick and chose and a lot of guys don't. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"But HOT is subjective
To a degree but if you took a poll I expect there'd be quite a high level of agreement on who was hot on this site... The difference is that women get to pick and chose and a lot of guys don't. "
They do. They choose not to sometimes when the cock brain becomes active. Just like you have women you don't find attractive, women have men. I don't see why it should be different because there are less women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But HOT is subjective
To a degree but if you took a poll I expect there'd be quite a high level of agreement on who was hot on this site... The difference is that women get to pick and chose and a lot of guys don't. "
Ahhh but then you have the 'too hot'. If I think someone is out of my league, I won't meet them either . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there are plenty of women on here saying how they want a male however when you send a polite message with a face photo mostly it's a " sorry not for me " as most of the women on this site are obese or have some part of their body covered in trash stamps ( tats ) i am amazed that they can be choosy ! i always say take a look in the mirror and ask yourself can i afford to be picky ! in most cases the answer is no !!!
none of us are super models try going a little deeper and actually meet the person and find out about their personality before hitting the delete button , "
Trash stamps wow. You're a nice guy aren't ya!
No need to reply to your messages to discover your personality. Your post says it all  |
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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago
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Lots of single guys on here posing as couples....usually after a couple of messages I'm asked if I'm bi so we can all guess what's coming next! Easiest thing is to ask to chat with the female half, that usually ends all contact! There does seem to be an extraordinary number of bisexual males on here, I'd have thought they would have found it easy to meet likeminded males but maybe us straight ones are a bit of a challenge? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But HOT is subjective
To a degree but if you took a poll I expect there'd be quite a high level of agreement on who was hot on this site... The difference is that women get to pick and chose and a lot of guys don't.
Ahhh but then you have the 'too hot'. If I think someone is out of my league, I won't meet them either . "
There's no such thing. Admittedly, some are out of my pay grade, but the don't interest me anyway.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we think why do we need to reply to your message says on the profile what we are looking for if you tick the boxs .we are more then happy to reply and do every time .its the right thing to do. but if they do not read the profile and send a message why would we send one back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But HOT is subjective
To a degree but if you took a poll I expect there'd be quite a high level of agreement on who was hot on this site... The difference is that women get to pick and chose and a lot of guys don't.
Ahhh but then you have the 'too hot'. If I think someone is out of my league, I won't meet them either .
There's no such thing. Admittedly, some are out of my pay grade, but the don't interest me anyway. "
Isn't that what I said?... You've just used a different terminology |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But HOT is subjective
To a degree but if you took a poll I expect there'd be quite a high level of agreement on who was hot on this site... The difference is that women get to pick and chose and a lot of guys don't.
Ahhh but then you have the 'too hot'. If I think someone is out of my league, I won't meet them either .
There's no such thing. Admittedly, some are out of my pay grade, but the don't interest me anyway.
Isn't that what I said?... You've just used a different terminology "
I was speaking more about the ones that think their looks entitle them to wealth. I know some truly stunning women that aren't in the least bit interested in material possessions, or looks particularly. A slight difference, but a difference none the less. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But HOT is subjective
To a degree but if you took a poll I expect there'd be quite a high level of agreement on who was hot on this site... The difference is that women get to pick and chose and a lot of guys don't.
Ahhh but then you have the 'too hot'. If I think someone is out of my league, I won't meet them either .
There's no such thing. Admittedly, some are out of my pay grade, but the don't interest me anyway.
Isn't that what I said?... You've just used a different terminology
I was speaking more about the ones that think their looks entitle them to wealth. I know some truly stunning women that aren't in the least bit interested in material possessions, or looks particularly. A slight difference, but a difference none the less. "
Ahhh now I understand. You are right. It is a little different . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But HOT is subjective
To a degree but if you took a poll I expect there'd be quite a high level of agreement on who was hot on this site... The difference is that women get to pick and chose and a lot of guys don't.
They do. They choose not to sometimes when the cock brain becomes active. Just like you have women you don't find attractive, women have men. I don't see why it should be different because there are less women."
I'm not sure I quite follow your point. You seriously think it's the same for guys on here as women (in respect of choice, compromise, effort, well anything really)? There isn't just a binary choice for either men or indeed women - attractive and not attractive. In the middle there's a range of maybes, depends, could if times were lean etc etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm not sure I quite follow your point. You seriously think it's the same for guys on here as women (in respect of choice, compromise, effort, well anything really)? There isn't just a binary choice for either men or indeed women - attractive and not attractive. In the middle there's a range of maybes, depends, could if times were lean etc etc. "
Don't agree with this. Everyone has a choice, I've had people approach me that I'm not attracted to and I'll decline, really don't get how anyone could go with someone they're not attracted to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But HOT is subjective
To a degree but if you took a poll I expect there'd be quite a high level of agreement on who was hot on this site... The difference is that women get to pick and chose and a lot of guys don't.
They do. They choose not to sometimes when the cock brain becomes active. Just like you have women you don't find attractive, women have men. I don't see why it should be different because there are less women.
I'm not sure I quite follow your point. You seriously think it's the same for guys on here as women (in respect of choice, compromise, effort, well anything really)? There isn't just a binary choice for either men or indeed women - attractive and not attractive. In the middle there's a range of maybes, depends, could if times were lean etc etc. "
All men have a choice of preference. Are you saying that you would lower your personal standard in order to get a meet? Surely you have turned down a woman, as she didn't meet your physical preference? That's also what women do... But on a larger scale. I think that's the point that was being made. Women may have a larger pool, but men say no to women they are not attracted to also... Just on a smaller scale. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm looking for single men but like has already been said we get inundated with messages and so we can have our pick. I'm sorry guys but I've written on my profile I want a regular FB or two I don't want to shag every single guy just because they send a nice message or most often actually a pretty shitty message with a dic pic and expect me to go running!
This site can be frustrating but it's taught me there are A LOT of guys who find me attractive and I know I'm very pretty for a bbw. Just because I'm a bbw doesn't mean I have to be grateful for a crap message and shag ugly people with ugly personalities! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there are plenty of women on here saying how they want a male however when you send a polite message with a face photo mostly it's a " sorry not for me " as most of the women on this site are obese or have some part of their body covered in trash stamps ( tats ) i am amazed that they can be choosy ! i always say take a look in the mirror and ask yourself can i afford to be picky ! in most cases the answer is no !!!
none of us are super models try going a little deeper and actually meet the person and find out about their personality before hitting the delete button , "
women can do what they want and don't have to do what you want. deal with it.
i want sex every day, more than once. i don't get that though coz i am picky. if i wanna be picky i will be and no unattractive, enetitled, douchebag will get me to change my mind.
both old and especially insulting men are the least valuable commodity on here, tough shit for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh I think single guys just need to tone down there approach and just be normalish lol. I've always gone through the afford of reading a profile before messaging to save wasting anyone's time. Yes there are single guys who are idiots and give any respect.
Just be respectful yourself an read carefully and nothing can go wrong lol meets ect. Take time to work out sometimes but paitence and politeness are key . X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All men have a choice of preference. Are you saying that you would lower your personal standard in order to get a meet? Surely you have turned down a woman, as she didn't meet your physical preference? That's also what women do... But on a larger scale. I think that's the point that was being made. Women may have a larger pool, but men say no to women they are not attracted to also... Just on a smaller scale. "
Yes of course guys turn down women. However if we had our choice we'd only go for women that exactly matched our image of physical perfection, with personalities to match. Unfortunately Kylie is already taken. So we make compromises. Your own 'attractiveness' and 'desire' to meet someone will effect the level of compromise you need/are willing to make. That's not the same as just going with anyone and there are women clearly that are physically (and otherwise) beyond compromise. However, because of the MF ratio on here, women generally have to make much fewer compromises.
Let's be blunt. If the MF ratio was reversed on here, a not insignificant number of women currently getting a lot of attention would never get a meet...
But at the moment they are just doing what guys would do if the roles were reversed. Who can blame them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there are plenty of women on here saying how they want a male however when you send a polite message with a face photo mostly it's a " sorry not for me " as most of the women on this site are obese or have some part of their body covered in trash stamps ( tats ) i am amazed that they can be choosy ! i always say take a look in the mirror and ask yourself can i afford to be picky ! in most cases the answer is no !!!
none of us are super models try going a little deeper and actually meet the person and find out about their personality before hitting the delete button ,
Well you could have probably put that a little more subtly but I understand your frustration.
However that is the reality of this site. The ratio of men to women is so high that almost any women is going to have a decent selection of partners, even if they make no effort whatsoever (and look at their profiles, many don't). For men the reverse is true. As a result for most guys this site is a complete waste of time.
You can see from the 'advice' handed out to struggling guys that most women don't get that. Yes it's frustrating for you to read women saying they can't find a nice, respectful guy and then have your nice, respectful messages ignored. But what they mean is a nice, respectful HOT guy...and they think they are entitled to it.
Imagine what it would be like though if the roles were reversed and we got 50 messages a day from women. Would we be indifferent to looks...?"
of course we're entitled to meet guys we find attractive, shame the men are messaging women they think shouldn't be fussy coz they're ugly and then they'd get what we mean.
sick of men thinking they should be given a chance. why?
some women are no doubt incredibly fussy, i'm more after meeting guys who aren't crap in bed and aren't knobheads who think we should fuck anything that asks. it's why i don't hardly meet now, not enough quality guys online.
and by quality i mean; not a liar, not desperate, not messaging women they think are ugly and will jump at the chance of fucking them, not selfish.
i'm making a lot of effort arranging socials in my area because no man can be arsed to do that, they mostly want fuck and go and to make as little effort as possible, and their profiles reflect that. |
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"All men have a choice of preference. Are you saying that you would lower your personal standard in order to get a meet? Surely you have turned down a woman, as she didn't meet your physical preference? That's also what women do... But on a larger scale. I think that's the point that was being made. Women may have a larger pool, but men say no to women they are not attracted to also... Just on a smaller scale.
Yes of course guys turn down women. However if we had our choice we'd only go for women that exactly matched our image of physical perfection, with personalities to match. Unfortunately Kylie is already taken. So we make compromises. Your own 'attractiveness' and 'desire' to meet someone will effect the level of compromise you need/are willing to make. That's not the same as just going with anyone and there are women clearly that are physically (and otherwise) beyond compromise. However, because of the MF ratio on here, women generally have to make much fewer compromises.
Let's be blunt. If the MF ratio was reversed on here, a not insignificant number of women currently getting a lot of attention would never get a meet...
But at the moment they are just doing what guys would do if the roles were reversed. Who can blame them?"
Glad I don't meet then. I would hate to think a man was compromising in order to meet me, as I'm sure would some other women.... Unless it was Jensen Ackles..Then I would swallow my ego and ride that man . |
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"Glad I don't meet then. I would hate to think a man was compromising in order to meet me, as I'm sure would some other women.... Unless it was Jensen Ackles..Then I would swallow my ego and ride that man . "
Like it or not everybody compromises to some degree. In your case clearly the compromise is that he wouldn't be Jensen Ackles...lol |
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"All men have a choice of preference. Are you saying that you would lower your personal standard in order to get a meet? Surely you have turned down a woman, as she didn't meet your physical preference? That's also what women do... But on a larger scale. I think that's the point that was being made. Women may have a larger pool, but men say no to women they are not attracted to also... Just on a smaller scale.
Yes of course guys turn down women. However if we had our choice we'd only go for women that exactly matched our image of physical perfection, with personalities to match. Unfortunately Kylie is already taken. So we make compromises. Your own 'attractiveness' and 'desire' to meet someone will effect the level of compromise you need/are willing to make. That's not the same as just going with anyone and there are women clearly that are physically (and otherwise) beyond compromise. However, because of the MF ratio on here, women generally have to make much fewer compromises.
Let's be blunt. If the MF ratio was reversed on here, a not insignificant number of women currently getting a lot of attention would never get a meet...
But at the moment they are just doing what guys would do if the roles were reversed. Who can blame them?"
Don't you think women compromise too? If I only went for "men that exactly matched my image of physical perfection, with personalities to match" I wouldn't have met a single person on this site. Get over yourself. |
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"Glad I don't meet then. I would hate to think a man was compromising in order to meet me, as I'm sure would some other women.... Unless it was Jensen Ackles..Then I would swallow my ego and ride that man .
Like it or not everybody compromises to some degree. In your case clearly the compromise is that he wouldn't be Jensen Ackles...lol"
Huge compromise! |
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"All men have a choice of preference. Are you saying that you would lower your personal standard in order to get a meet? Surely you have turned down a woman, as she didn't meet your physical preference? That's also what women do... But on a larger scale. I think that's the point that was being made. Women may have a larger pool, but men say no to women they are not attracted to also... Just on a smaller scale.
Yes of course guys turn down women. However if we had our choice we'd only go for women that exactly matched our image of physical perfection, with personalities to match. Unfortunately Kylie is already taken. So we make compromises. Your own 'attractiveness' and 'desire' to meet someone will effect the level of compromise you need/are willing to make. That's not the same as just going with anyone and there are women clearly that are physically (and otherwise) beyond compromise. However, because of the MF ratio on here, women generally have to make much fewer compromises.
Let's be blunt. If the MF ratio was reversed on here, a not insignificant number of women currently getting a lot of attention would never get a meet...
But at the moment they are just doing what guys would do if the roles were reversed. Who can blame them?
Don't you think women compromise too? If I only went for "men that exactly matched my image of physical perfection, with personalities to match" I wouldn't have met a single person on this site. Get over yourself. "
This is very true. You have a larger pool to choose from, but the choices are essentially the same. |
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"Don't you think women compromise too? If I only went for "men that exactly matched my image of physical perfection, with personalities to match" I wouldn't have met a single person on this site. Get over yourself. "
What have you been smoking, attitude girl? Read the thread. I didn't say women didn't compromise. I said they compromised less (by which I mean on average; so no good using an anecdote as 'proof') x |
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"Don't you think women compromise too? If I only went for "men that exactly matched my image of physical perfection, with personalities to match" I wouldn't have met a single person on this site. Get over yourself.
What have you been smoking, attitude girl? Read the thread. I didn't say women didn't compromise. I said they compromised less (by which I mean on average; so no good using an anecdote as 'proof') x"
Where have I used an anecdote, grumpy lad?
Women only have to compromise less if the men they are being compared to are prepared to compromise more in order to get their dick wet. If men are fucking women they don't find attractive because they are so desperate to get laid, that's their problem and they will get zero sympathy from me. If the ratios were reversed, I'd still meet the same people I meet now. If they weren't available to me because they were meeting other women, I just wouldn't meet. |
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"Don't you think women compromise too? If I only went for "men that exactly matched my image of physical perfection, with personalities to match" I wouldn't have met a single person on this site. Get over yourself.
What have you been smoking, attitude girl? Read the thread. I didn't say women didn't compromise. I said they compromised less (by which I mean on average; so no good using an anecdote as 'proof') x
Where have I used an anecdote, grumpy lad?
Women only have to compromise less if the men they are being compared to are prepared to compromise more in order to get their dick wet. If men are fucking women they don't find attractive because they are so desperate to get laid, that's their problem and they will get zero sympathy from me. If the ratios were reversed, I'd still meet the same people I meet now. If they weren't available to me because they were meeting other women, I just wouldn't meet. "
I didn't say you'd USED an anecdote, I said DON'T use an anecdote. And it's pedantic boy to you...lol.
Anyway you then went on to offer yourself as an example. Maybe you're not typical. I don't claim I am which is why I talk generally rather than about myself... |
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"Don't you think women compromise too? If I only went for "men that exactly matched my image of physical perfection, with personalities to match" I wouldn't have met a single person on this site. Get over yourself.
What have you been smoking, attitude girl? Read the thread. I didn't say women didn't compromise. I said they compromised less (by which I mean on average; so no good using an anecdote as 'proof') x
Where have I used an anecdote, grumpy lad?
Women only have to compromise less if the men they are being compared to are prepared to compromise more in order to get their dick wet. If men are fucking women they don't find attractive because they are so desperate to get laid, that's their problem and they will get zero sympathy from me. If the ratios were reversed, I'd still meet the same people I meet now. If they weren't available to me because they were meeting other women, I just wouldn't meet.
I didn't say you'd USED an anecdote, I said DON'T use an anecdote. And it's pedantic boy to you...lol.
Anyway you then went on to offer yourself as an example. Maybe you're not typical. I don't claim I am which is why I talk generally rather than about myself..."
I think I'm quite typical. Otherwise I wouldn't have offered myself as an example. Reading what other women have said, I'm not out of step at all. |
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So.. As a very general rule (and forumites excepted)
If it's a couple that messages a man or woman assume it's a man unless they are verified by other users and have photos of both.
If it's a woman that messages a man or a woman assume that that woman is part of a couple. (Read the profile down to the last line where they say, also have a FB/bf etc..)
Generally speaking at least if you get a message from a single man, however appalling the message, however unimaginative the photos, and however poor the profile, it'll still be a bloke. |
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"Don't you think women compromise too? If I only went for "men that exactly matched my image of physical perfection, with personalities to match" I wouldn't have met a single person on this site. Get over yourself.
What have you been smoking, attitude girl? Read the thread. I didn't say women didn't compromise. I said they compromised less (by which I mean on average; so no good using an anecdote as 'proof') x
Where have I used an anecdote, grumpy lad?
Women only have to compromise less if the men they are being compared to are prepared to compromise more in order to get their dick wet. If men are fucking women they don't find attractive because they are so desperate to get laid, that's their problem and they will get zero sympathy from me. If the ratios were reversed, I'd still meet the same people I meet now. If they weren't available to me because they were meeting other women, I just wouldn't meet.
I didn't say you'd USED an anecdote, I said DON'T use an anecdote. And it's pedantic boy to you...lol.
Anyway you then went on to offer yourself as an example. Maybe you're not typical. I don't claim I am which is why I talk generally rather than about myself...
I think I'm quite typical. Otherwise I wouldn't have offered myself as an example. Reading what other women have said, I'm not out of step at all. "
No you're not out of step... I'm with Ruby on this one . |
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If men are fucking women they don't find attractive because they are so desperate to get laid, that's their problem "
this
I'd never fuck anyone I wasn't attracted to, never have done and see no reason to start now. |
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If men are fucking women they don't find attractive because they are so desperate to get laid, that's their problem
this
I'd never fuck anyone I wasn't attracted to, never have done and see no reason to start now. "
Same. I'll fuck women that I don't want a relationship with, but I still have to be attracted to them. Might as well gave a wanky otherwise... |
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THIS SAYS IT ALL ABOUT SINGLE MEN ON THIS SITE.we say more the the once about one line messages will just be deleted
and bloked. we always get them but today had 56 of them in less then two hours that says it all it really does .do not think i have to say fucking sad cunts but i will .read the profiles |
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"THIS SAYS IT ALL ABOUT SINGLE MEN ON THIS SITE"
It doesn't say it ALL about single men on this site, it says SOMETHING about SOME single men on this site.
So if a guy reads your profile and writes a decent message with obvious thought in it do you always reply? |
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over a year ago
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"Getting a bit fed up with men who are part of a so called cpl,sending me messages saying wife at work or on holiday, Would you like to meet me.
It does say (No single men)on my profile.
If wife or girlfriend not in then you are playing as a single man.So (No)i don't want to meet you.
Now when your wife girlfriend comes home and she wants to play then maybe.
Rant over x "
Well why not ask to see them on cam? You might like them. "You could then politely leave a veri for them to say.. "
Speed up the process when the wife is home |
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"Getting a bit fed up with men who are part of a so called cpl,sending me messages saying wife at work or on holiday, Would you like to meet me.
It does say (No single men)on my profile.
If wife or girlfriend not in then you are playing as a single man.So (No)i don't want to meet you.
Now when your wife girlfriend comes home and she wants to play then maybe.
Rant over x
Well why not ask to see them on cam? You might like them. "You could then politely leave a veri for them to say.. "
Speed up the process when the wife is home "
yes we always replay to a message that is not a shit one liner and as for web cam why the fuck would we waste our time doing that for somone that cannot even read a profile.sad fuckers |
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"Filters are there for a reason  "
iwe had a good look and cannot see the box to tick thats says no fucking sad cunts only people with a brain .can you please tell me where it is |
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"Filters are there for a reason iwe had a good look and cannot see the box to tick thats says no fucking sad cunts only people with a brain .can you please tell me where it is"
You basically have to filter everyone and initiate contact yourself. If you're still talking to 'fucking sad cunts', you only have yourself to blame.  |
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"Filters are there for a reason iwe had a good look and cannot see the box to tick thats says no fucking sad cunts only people with a brain .can you please tell me where it is
You basically have to filter everyone and initiate contact yourself. If you're still talking to 'fucking sad cunts', you only have yourself to blame. "
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