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When your boss is a knob......
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My boss is a knob and not a very good one at that.... He has handed his notice in yeheee and leaves 20 Jan.... The unempathanic dick basically is nice when someone else is there but when we are on our own it's like he is a small child playing kissy chase...
I work in a professional environment so unfortunately have to watch my representation but hate the throught of cutting my nose off to spite my face!..
Question is do so just suck it up as he is leaving so I would have won or go with every bone in my body which want to tell him how I feel about him???
Ps... Happy Tuesday x |
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Think I'd let him decide ie if he comes at you for 1 last pop thinking he can give him both barrels reload and give it him again. If he does the whole nicey nice bollex play along. That way it's his own doing and not you being the child. Good luck and stick the boot in for me while your there  |
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"My boss is a knob and not a very good one at that.... He has handed his notice in yeheee and leaves 20 Jan.... The unempathanic dick basically is nice when someone else is there but when we are on our own it's like he is a small child playing kissy chase...
I work in a professional environment so unfortunately have to watch my representation but hate the throught of cutting my nose off to spite my face!..
Question is do so just suck it up as he is leaving so I would have won or go with every bone in my body which want to tell him how I feel about him???
Ps... Happy Tuesday x"
It comes across like there's some Sexual tension between you both. I think an angry fuck at the leaving do it will be fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My boss is a knob and not a very good one at that.... He has handed his notice in yeheee and leaves 20 Jan.... The unempathanic dick basically is nice when someone else is there but when we are on our own it's like he is a small child playing kissy chase...
I work in a professional environment so unfortunately have to watch my representation but hate the throught of cutting my nose off to spite my face!..
Question is do so just suck it up as he is leaving so I would have won or go with every bone in my body which want to tell him how I feel about him???
Ps... Happy Tuesday x
It comes across like there's some Sexual tension between you both. I think an angry fuck at the leaving do it will be fun "
Yes I totally agree, your words choice are hiding the fact that you love him |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you thought that maybe you are actually in love with him ? "
Arrrrggggggggggggggggggggggggggg Nooooooooooooo.....
Think I would rather never have sec again lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think I'd let him decide ie if he comes at you for 1 last pop thinking he can give him both barrels reload and give it him again. If he does the whole nicey nice bollex play along. That way it's his own doing and not you being the child. Good luck and stick the boot in for me while your there "
Well he has managed to fuck up my bonus but that's not worth speaking about...
Think you are right it pains me but if Im extra nice what can he do.. I hate being false but it's only for a short while x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you thought that maybe you are actually in love with him ?
Arrrrggggggggggggggggggggggggggg Nooooooooooooo.....
Think I would rather never have sec again lol x"
Don't be afraid of the truth and embrace your deep love for him |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally, I wouldn't say anything. My attitude would be to not waste any energy interacting with him, beyond what's necessary. "
Thank you I appreciate the advice and you are most certainly right!
Do you have a ball gag I can borrow x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally, I wouldn't say anything. My attitude would be to not waste any energy interacting with him, beyond what's necessary.
Thank you I appreciate the advice and you are most certainly right!
Do you have a ball gag I can borrow x"
Told you... sexual tension there  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My boss is a knob and not a very good one at that.... He has handed his notice in yeheee and leaves 20 Jan.... The unempathanic dick basically is nice when someone else is there but when we are on our own it's like he is a small child playing kissy chase...
I work in a professional environment so unfortunately have to watch my representation but hate the throught of cutting my nose off to spite my face!..
Question is do so just suck it up as he is leaving so I would have won or go with every bone in my body which want to tell him how I feel about him???
Ps... Happy Tuesday x
It comes across like there's some Sexual tension between you both. I think an angry fuck at the leaving do it will be fun "
Nooooooo I would rather give up on sex first arrrrgggggg! Leaving do... if he has one I would rather stick pins in my eyes x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My last manager was a bitch. You didnt know wat way she was going to be, one min she would be nice as you like. Next min she would.be jumping down your throat for fuck all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My last manager was a bitch. You didnt know wat way she was going to be, one min she would be nice as you like. Next min she would.be jumping down your throat for fuck all."
That is exactly like the twat....... I hate people like that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You never know when you might come accross him again. It's possible to show people how you feel without a full on rant.   "
See I am not the only who thinks that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You never know when you might come accross him again. It's possible to show people how you feel without a full on rant.
See I am not the only who thinks that "
He is leaving the company and lives in another town so hopefully never!!!!
He would be one of the few people I would walk right on past x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think I'd let him decide ie if he comes at you for 1 last pop thinking he can give him both barrels reload and give it him again. If he does the whole nicey nice bollex play along. That way it's his own doing and not you being the child. Good luck and stick the boot in for me while your there
Well he has managed to fuck up my bonus but that's not worth speaking about...
Think you are right it pains me but if Im extra nice what can he do.. I hate being false but it's only for a short while x"
As much pleasure as it may give you to rip him a new one before he goes, if he has managed to mess up your bonus, there are probably other things he can mess up too. So possibly err on the side of caution and just play nice before he goes. The other thing is, you never know when you might need a reference and although right now, he is the last person you would ask, you never know what is down the line in 10 years. You have suffered, but now the end is in sight, enjoy! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Think I'd let him decide ie if he comes at you for 1 last pop thinking he can give him both barrels reload and give it him again. If he does the whole nicey nice bollex play along. That way it's his own doing and not you being the child. Good luck and stick the boot in for me while your there
Well he has managed to fuck up my bonus but that's not worth speaking about...
Think you are right it pains me but if Im extra nice what can he do.. I hate being false but it's only for a short while x
As much pleasure as it may give you to rip him a new one before he goes, if he has managed to mess up your bonus, there are probably other things he can mess up too. So possibly err on the side of caution and just play nice before he goes. The other thing is, you never know when you might need a reference and although right now, he is the last person you would ask, you never know what is down the line in 10 years. You have suffered, but now the end is in sight, enjoy! "
Thank you Hun it makes sense but in the he is not worth it!... luckily I work for a big firm and have done for 14 years so he is definitely the last person I would go to for a ref x |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Conduct yourself with dignity and professionalism. If you haven't told him how you feel in an appropriate fashion during the last year and explored ways of improving your working relationship, it's looks petty giving him the feedback now.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Conduct yourself with dignity and professionalism. If you haven't told him how you feel in an appropriate fashion during the last year and explored ways of improving your working relationship, it's looks petty giving him the feedback now.
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Agreed. Plus I tried something like this with a manager some years thinking there wouldn't be any repercussions. But it certainly came back to bite me later. |
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"Conduct yourself with dignity and professionalism. If you haven't told him how you feel in an appropriate fashion during the last year and explored ways of improving your working relationship, it's looks petty giving him the feedback now.
Agreed. Plus I tried something like this with a manager some years thinking there wouldn't be any repercussions. But it certainly came back to bite me later. "
Me too. Professional feedback and discussion with a boss is only successful if they're professional themselves. I think long and hard now to decide if one can live with myself if I keep quiet. Sadly I usually can't |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for last few messages and yes I have tried and sometimes it works and something it hasn't but one is for sure it is what it is! I said enough yesterday to get my point across!
Now is the time for quiet time.. stick my headphones in and wait for the clock to tick down!
BALL GAG at the ready x |
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"Think I'd let him decide ie if he comes at you for 1 last pop thinking he can give him both barrels reload and give it him again. If he does the whole nicey nice bollex play along. That way it's his own doing and not you being the child. Good luck and stick the boot in for me while your there
Well he has managed to fuck up my bonus but that's not worth speaking about...
Think you are right it pains me but if Im extra nice what can he do.. I hate being false but it's only for a short while x"
You don't need to be nice Fuck that just be normal and make it his falt |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
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"My last manager was a bitch. You didnt know wat way she was going to be, one min she would be nice as you like. Next min she would.be jumping down your throat for fuck all."
Surly that her just being a normal women  (grabs tin hat and runs for the hills) |
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He's leaving.
You just get to sit back and smile cause he won't be there to make life miserable. Don't give him the satisfaction of thinking he got to you. Be overly pleasant if anything... you'll be surprised how satisfying it is not to rise to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My last manager was a bitch. You didnt know wat way she was going to be, one min she would be nice as you like. Next min she would.be jumping down your throat for fuck all. Surly that her just being a normal women (grabs tin hat and runs for the hills)
Damn it you've got a head start, you'll be over the hill now  "
And far away...tra-la la!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Urgh!
Even though it would feel sooooooo gooood to tell him exactly what you think - there isn't a lot of point!
Soon you will never have to see him again - which is the best scenario when dealing with twats!
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Just ask whether your behaviour will support you meeting your ultimate objectives. You presumably want employment income and a good reputation? In which case you'll maintain professional clear boundaries and deal with internal anguish yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rise above it and bite your tongue for the sake of your own career. However, Sod's law means he'll probably be even more of an annoying cock from now until he leaves, so good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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From your initial post OP, I get the impression that he may have been giving you 'undesirable attention', or am I reading too much into it?
If this is the case, one wonders why you have not reported this to higher management, as it may constitute sexual harassment in the workplace. |
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I've largely been blessed by the quality and lenience of my managers over the years.
There was only one who was a knob. Clueless Bible-basher, doing his first admin management as part of an MBA in Tosspotology or sommat.
I think it was the morning when I checked the post and saw a white envelope with my name and address handwritten and thought, I kinda recognise that handwriting?
Opened it and found a slim booklet about a dissolute young man who gambled, drank and whored his way through life and then WENT TO HELL.
And I thought, my boss sent me that?
So I undermined the cunt with senior management. He didn't last 6 months. Not all my work, clearly, he was just incompetent.
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