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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?"
Going through it right now. Last week and probably all of this week.
Had sex yesterday, felt like i was doing it under duress. Couldnt cum so lasted forever. She came twice and had a great time all i was thinking is when is this over. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?
Going through it right now. Last week and probably all of this week.
Had sex yesterday, felt like i was doing it under duress. Couldnt cum so lasted forever. She came twice and had a great time all i was thinking is when is this over. "
Some comfort at least to know I'm not alone.
Just not finding that spark at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel it's like chocolate cake, when you eat too much it feels like you'd never have it again but when there's no chocolate cake around you'd go to any old shop for a slice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Definitely not alone there, I have had long spells of no sex and even since joining here ( not that there are too many offers here either) I'm getting to stage I am like oh why bother |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?"
It's called swinging burn out. The cure is to take a long break and come back only when you start missing swinging again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?
It's called swinging burn out. The cure is to take a long break and come back only when you start missing swinging again."
Yes that's happened to us.
Although a lack of interest in sex doesn't necessarily mean losing interest in swinging.
For me losing interest in sex is usually a sign of depression. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?
It's called swinging burn out. The cure is to take a long break and come back only when you start missing swinging again.
Yes that's happened to us.
Although a lack of interest in sex doesn't necessarily mean losing interest in swinging.
For me losing interest in sex is usually a sign of depression. "
Very true.... I noticed when work/finances stress me out. I can't get horny |
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"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?"
Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?
All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".
Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?"
Never, I'm pleased to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So we are all depressed ?
That's true my recent posts seemed rather depressive "
I can only speak for myself. My posts have been on the grumpy side. But then I'm quite enjoying being a bit more blunt.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?
Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?
All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".
Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.
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56 weeks of the year?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not alone there, I have had long spells of no sex and even since joining here ( not that there are too many offers here either) I'm getting to stage I am like oh why bother"
I know that feeling very well....going thru it at the moment...couldn't give a damn if I get it or not right now....partly due to illness and partly to can't be bothered as nothing if interest has come along!!! |
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
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"Definitely not alone there, I have had long spells of no sex and even since joining here ( not that there are too many offers here either) I'm getting to stage I am like oh why bother"
Same here, must be the time of year? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely not alone there, I have had long spells of no sex and even since joining here ( not that there are too many offers here either) I'm getting to stage I am like oh why bother
Same here, must be the time of year?"
Ditto......must be catching .
Perhaps we should all meet up to rid ourselves of this angst   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife hasnt really been into sex for 5 years, since our daughter was born. Frustrating but that's why I'm here - but not getting any here either! Oh well, I'm becoming an expert wanker... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can take it or leave it. I've not had sex since beginning of August and prior to June this year I'd not had sex since September 2014! If there's no one around to have it with I don't think about sex. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?
Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?
All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".
Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.
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56 weeks of the year bloody hell, that's a long year in your lives. I want 56 weeks in my year, just lately the years are going by too quickly, maybe that's the answer xxxxx Suzi |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?
Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?
All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".
Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.
56 weeks of the year bloody hell, that's a long year in your lives. I want 56 weeks in my year, just lately the years are going by too quickly, maybe that's the answer xxxxx Suzi "
That's elite life membership. You get an extra month each year. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?
Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?
All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".
Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.
56 weeks of the year bloody hell, that's a long year in your lives. I want 56 weeks in my year, just lately the years are going by too quickly, maybe that's the answer xxxxx Suzi
That's elite life membership. You get an extra month each year. "
Where do I sign  I need to do it quickly, it's very nearly another new year xxxxx Suzi |
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"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?
Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?
All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".
Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.
56 weeks of the year? "
it was early and on planet Nice there are 56 weeks in a year |
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"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?
Are you over tired, worried, a bit run down? Have you been ill recently?
All of those things can impact on libido. Or it could just be "one of those things".
Be kind to yourself, you don't have to be a rampant stud 56 weeks of the year. Give yourself some time off of sex and it'll sneak up on you when you least expect it.
56 weeks of the year bloody hell, that's a long year in your lives. I want 56 weeks in my year, just lately the years are going by too quickly, maybe that's the answer xxxxx Suzi "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks to all for the messages, really good to know that I'm not the only one.
I hope I snap out of it soon, but there are other things on my mind right now. Would be good to get excited about sex again!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get the irony, and yes I am probably on the wrong site for this.
But just curious, am I alone? Anyone else been through a phase where its all a bit ..meh?
Going through it right now. Last week and probably all of this week.
Had sex yesterday, felt like i was doing it under duress. Couldnt cum so lasted forever. She came twice and had a great time all i was thinking is when is this over. "
That's horrendous. I do hope the lady in question isn't reading this |
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meh! Couldn't tell you the last time I was horny 
I don't know if it's normal or not. I just figure it'll turn up when it's ready. Longest I've gone without sex though that's for sure! 
