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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do you know when swinging isn't for you anymore?
Is it when it all seems to much hassle for little return? The thrill of the chase perhaps disappeared?
Or when you look through profiles and can't see any that grab your attention anymore?
Maybe when reading the forums they just seem so full of shite these days?
And I know in all the above cases, the common denominator is me. Is it time to move on?
And if so, I'll have to broach the subject tomorrow as I suspect only one might want to give up!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you could change how you do things and see how that goes?
i don't hardly meet now, not many guys float my boat any more really. but i still want to meet, just got really fussy about who with ages ago.
if i ever get a good enough excuse to stop meeting i probably will. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe a sabbatical is required.
To be honest, the swinging doesn't bother me but it just doesn't seem much fun or exciting at the moment. Does that make sense?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe a sabbatical is required.
To be honest, the swinging doesn't bother me but it just doesn't seem much fun or exciting at the moment. Does that make sense?
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Yes it does. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This lifestyle can leave you feeling jaded. Especially when you feel you've been there, done that and got a wardrobe full of t-shirts. When that happens it's time to do something different, at least for a while, until your appetite returns or you find a different more satisfying hobby |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"This lifestyle can leave you feeling jaded. Especially when you feel you've been there, done that and got a wardrobe full of t-shirts. When that happens it's time to do something different, at least for a while, until your appetite returns or you find a different more satisfying hobby"
First read of that I read it as "or you find a different more satisfying hubby" and was all  
Wise advice though, take some time out OP, re-assess what you're looking for, talk to your other half, tell them how you're feeling and why, then if/when you're ready step back into it.
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