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By *ild-1 OP Woman
over a year ago
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Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!! |
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"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!"
Do t do it, be better than him and also I'm guessing it could hurt innocent people x |
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By *yan19Man
over a year ago
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"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!"
Because they are menipulating assholes who use and abuse for there own good and just remember it's a lesson learned and if he ever gives you grief you could end him my dear chin up sorry to throw men under the bus hahaha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And only men do this? Some of us are easy targets, be grateful you have a heart to be hurt and to wear on your sleeve... maybe they don't... which life is more hollow? |
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By *ild-1 OP Woman
over a year ago
york |
"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!
Because they are menipulating assholes who use and abuse for there own good and just remember it's a lesson learned and if he ever gives you grief you could end him my dear chin up sorry to throw men under the bus hahaha "
Could you not throw me under a train - there's a big chance I'd survive a bus haha |
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By *ild-1 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"And only men do this? Some of us are easy targets, be grateful you have a heart to be hurt and to wear on your sleeve... maybe they don't... which life is more hollow? "
I get you - I've been heartless for 7 years but never treated people like this!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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NSA is exactly that though, that people can not bother with you when they don't want to.
fuck him anyway, he'll be back and that is when you just fuck him off for good, if he's not what you want (and it sounds like he isnt). |
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By *yan19Man
over a year ago
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"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!
Because they are menipulating assholes who use and abuse for there own good and just remember it's a lesson learned and if he ever gives you grief you could end him my dear chin up sorry to throw men under the bus hahaha
Could you not throw me under a train - there's a big chance I'd survive a bus haha "
Yeah well that's it think positive you'd survive a bus you'd survive some man being a massive tool haha |
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By *ild-1 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"NSA is exactly that though, that people can not bother with you when they don't want to.
fuck him anyway, he'll be back and that is when you just fuck him off for good, if he's not what you want (and it sounds like he isnt)."
That's what it was but he changed that!!
I have but he gets under my skin. I don't want to be with him - ever!! But I can't help but go bank and I hate me for this weakness!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!"
Look at it this way, you're one man closer to getting a good ' un. |
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By *ild-1 OP Woman
over a year ago
york |
"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!
Look at it this way, you're one man closer to getting a good ' un."
Good point !!! |
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"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!"
Frustrating, definitely but chin up, its not just men who play this game.
Is he a swinging friend or a relationship friend? |
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By *ild-1 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I was seeing a narcist of gargantuan proportions who messed with my head. Only way I got over it was block him from all modes of communication. Out of sight etc"
I've done that and he always manages to find a way!! |
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"I was seeing a narcist of gargantuan proportions who messed with my head. Only way I got over it was block him from all modes of communication. Out of sight etc
Ditto. It works.
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Would be my advice too.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"NSA is exactly that though, that people can not bother with you when they don't want to.
fuck him anyway, he'll be back and that is when you just fuck him off for good, if he's not what you want (and it sounds like he isnt).
That's what it was but he changed that!!
I have but he gets under my skin. I don't want to be with him - ever!! But I can't help but go bank and I hate me for this weakness!!!! "
nobodies got under mine luckily.
i just treat everyone as NSA now, no 'favours' or special treatment without commitment on their behalf as far as i'm concerned. |
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By *ild-1 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
probably the same reason some women do it "
I'm not saying women don't do it , doesn't matter about gender it's always wrong |
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"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!"
Why would he or anyone else want to be around someone who could ruin their life? Its nsa sex, so why would you? You sound like you have become too emotionally involved but you can only blame yourself for this as its your life to value. Show some self respect and move on. Don't get into the same situation again
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Easily said I know but try to take the positives from the situation and learn from the disappointment. You may have a weakness for him but don't let him exploit it. As the other posters have said you're one man closer to a good one. Good luck! |
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By *ild-1 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"This just sounds like yet another case of a woman unable to distinguish between NSA and an actual relationship...most likely with a married guy"
That's how you see it - oneanted nothjng more but he begged for more and sadly I fell for it. I've spent the last 10 years with NSA friends and never had these issues!! It's not all black and white is it |
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By *ild-1 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"This just sounds like yet another case of a woman unable to distinguish between NSA and an actual relationship...most likely with a married guy
That's how you see it - oneanted nothjng more but he begged for more and sadly I fell for it. I've spent the last 10 years with NSA friends and never had these issues!! It's not all black and white is it "
I wanted nothing more / typed too quick lol |
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"I was seeing a narcist of gargantuan proportions who messed with my head. Only way I got over it was block him from all modes of communication. Out of sight etc
I've done that and he always manages to find a way!! "
He clearly knows you'll succumb.
Respect yourself a bit more and ignore. No response. Nothing. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I was seeing a narcist of gargantuan proportions who messed with my head. Only way I got over it was block him from all modes of communication. Out of sight etc
I've done that and he always manages to find a way!!
He clearly knows you'll succumb.
Respect yourself a bit more and ignore. No response. Nothing. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!"
You don't sound very nice to me Op. Who would consider purposefully ruining another persons life and probably the life of a few innocents when it's a better option all round to just walk away.
It sounds like NSA gone wrong. Walk away or live with the hurt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was seeing a narcist of gargantuan proportions who messed with my head. Only way I got over it was block him from all modes of communication. Out of sight etc
I've done that and he always manages to find a way!! "
Really?!
If you defriended him off all social media, made it known to any mutual friend your intent, changed your number & blocked all unknown numbers would he 'always manage to find away'....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!"
Why? Because you let them. |
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By *ild-1 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!
You don't sound very nice to me Op. Who would consider purposefully ruining another persons life and probably the life of a few innocents when it's a better option all round to just walk away.
It sounds like NSA gone wrong. Walk away or live with the hurt."
I get what you are saying but possibly a rant on here rather than ruin his life as he has mine. My bad monkey !! |
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By *ild-1 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!
Why? Because you let them."
Yeah maybe I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!
You don't sound very nice to me Op. Who would consider purposefully ruining another persons life and probably the life of a few innocents when it's a better option all round to just walk away.
It sounds like NSA gone wrong. Walk away or live with the hurt.
I get what you are saying but possibly a rant on here rather than ruin his life as he has mine. My bad monkey !!"
It can be cathartic to rant online, just remember on here it sticks around, you can't delete it. I've been there myself. |
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"Why do some men think they can play you - pick you up & drop you when it suits???
I'm fighting demons tonight as I could ruin his life as he knows it but that's not me but why the hell should I hurt alone!!!!
You don't sound very nice to me Op. Who would consider purposefully ruining another persons life and probably the life of a few innocents when it's a better option all round to just walk away.
It sounds like NSA gone wrong. Walk away or live with the hurt.
I get what you are saying but possibly a rant on here rather than ruin his life as he has mine. My bad monkey !!"
Block, delete, have a vent in the Forum, put the kettle on, have a biccie. ..and breath |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This just sounds like yet another case of a woman unable to distinguish between NSA and an actual relationship...most likely with a married guy
That's how you see it - oneanted nothjng more but he begged for more and sadly I fell for it. I've spent the last 10 years with NSA friends and never had these issues!! It's not all black and white is it I wanted nothing more / typed too quick lol "
So if you wanted nothing more, what exactly is the problem then? |
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Not really having a clue what the details are I can't really comment that much. Was he cheating,if so you either ride with the crap he gives you or have some respect for yourself,but like I say we don't have details so could be anything. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Fucking drama. You've gotten involved with a married guy. He's shagging when he wants and so are you. You are just as bad as he is if a moral compass was to be applied. So ideas of "ruining someones life" could easily bite you as hard.
If your compass is content being the extra woman then carry on doing what you are doing, otherwise maybe realise that this is NSA for him and it's been an experience but it might be time to get some different chips. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was seeing a narcist of gargantuan proportions who messed with my head. Only way I got over it was block him from all modes of communication. Out of sight etc"
Ditto. Feels empowering too.. |
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"Maibe they are married and got no time for extras lol.
They have when it suits !!"
but you still CHOOSE to sleep with married guys so I'm not sure why you are upset? 80% of the men on here are married or in relationships and I know women know that on here so don't get upset about being played its the risk you take. |
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