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So how many people did you have sex with in 2016?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm up to a grand total of three.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not enough

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

What, all together? All added up in total?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2,,and very happy with both of em

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

a pretty poor four

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Only 1

2017 will hopefully be a better year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

0 the same in 2015 and 2014 :/ lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One single tv one single female and two cpls

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Does oral count?

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

One

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One single tv one single female and two cpls

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oh so that's 6 people 1 boy 2TV's 3ladies x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One person

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

One but we had a lot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1, and very happy with that fact based on recent experiences.

-Mr

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By *itzhallMan over a year ago

birchington

Just 2 for me..... 1 male 1 female

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 but 4 times

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

"Does oral count?

You mean talking about it?

Don't think so, no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not playing this game. Had fun but now feel a bit slutty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't remember

2 or 3 I think. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only the 1. The years not over with yet so my mission is to double my score

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it not a bit soon for this? I have high hopes for a bit of festive romance!

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By *rimo4uMan over a year ago

north kensington w10

"I'm up to a grand total of three.

About 0 i think, but the years not over yet! Applications please lol..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Eleven (11) I might have missed one or two.... sorry

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

A handful and only 10 times in total. This year has been taken up with one person who rarely has sex with me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh god,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

16,456

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

6 but none since july

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Is it not a bit soon for this? I have high hopes for a bit of festive romance!

I don't. Good luck with yours.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I believe my total this year is 7

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

None.

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By *iffraffMan over a year ago

Gloucester

Erm.................

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just the 1, which is probably the first time in a decade I've been able to say that it;s not been 15-20 and it;s been great

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. THE MOORLANDS. BARMOUTH.

Oh dear. I have completely lost count. If you base it on at least 6 per month approx. Then 15 plus just on new years eve alone.

Plus hubby in between meets.

And this year isn't over yet.

To conclude LOTS

xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it not a bit soon for this? I have high hopes for a bit of festive romance!

I don't. Good luck with yours."

Why on earth not, 'tis the season of giving after all!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If your right hand counts then I lost count.yet again i think it's the reason i wear glasses

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By *oddyWoman over a year ago

between havant and chichester

2 for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"16,456

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That must of been a Norwich home game (

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Six multiple times with all. Fun year!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One. If my wife counts?

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By *opitinpeteMan over a year ago

tipton

Can you count different courgettes?????

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Is it not a bit soon for this? I have high hopes for a bit of festive romance!

I don't. Good luck with yours.

Why on earth not, 'tis the season of giving after all!"

I'm fussy and only fancy those who are fussy and therefore don't fancy me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eleven (11) I might have missed one or two.... sorry"

actually I just did a recount, it was 14.... to be fair, I am getting old and memory lapses are common....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it not a bit soon for this? I have high hopes for a bit of festive romance!

I don't. Good luck with yours.

Why on earth not, 'tis the season of giving after all!

I'm fussy and only fancy those who are fussy and therefore don't fancy me.

Haha, nothing wrong with being fussy - you never know your mr fussy could turn up in time for Xmas! Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not enough but some good times were had

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it not a bit soon for this? I have high hopes for a bit of festive romance!

I don't. Good luck with yours.

Why on earth not, 'tis the season of giving after all!

I'm fussy and only fancy those who are fussy and therefore don't fancy me.

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Different ladies.. 2 and 1 m/f couple..

...years not over yet though. I'm ever hopeful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not enough. Its probably the first year I could count them on two hands. Must try harder next year

Doll x

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

We're supposed to keep a tally?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One ...but alot of times

found a good one on here no need for others atm

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman over a year ago

Hereabouts

I can't remember...

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman over a year ago

nottingham

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

"Not playing this game. Had fun but now feel a bit slutty

I'm with you on that - but it's in my name

I've had a number, it's just that I'm not sure what the actual number is. A hint, it's probably not 1.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Full penetration I think 13, my husband I think 4. No idea how many people we've both done soft play with at parties but a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

20ish

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By *ollyGWoman over a year ago

Southampton

6 men, 2 women

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I thought the numbers would be generally higher even taking into account those who might consider upping their number to make themselves look good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only 3 but enjoyed them all

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By *oodbuddy 51Man over a year ago

Puerto Rico Gran Canaria

Ah I dont count. To me its quality meets over quantity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I'm in the wrong place with my 0 for 3 years lol

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

One, Mr N. It's been really tough finding time to meet this year due to family responsibilities.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman over a year ago

Hereabouts

At least 6

I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 extras plus my very gorgeous Mr Flossie

All mmf, no 121 meets...

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

About 15

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After reading back through all the im apps... seems more than I remember. Chuffed actually, it's been fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought the numbers would be generally higher even taking into account those who might consider upping their number to make themselves look good. "

So did we , but this is the forum after all ....

Anyway , we wouldn't be on a site like this unless we enjoyed the purpose of such a place , and our number is considerably higher than the average thus far .

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By *eliz NelsonMan over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"16,456

That must of been a Norwich home game (

If Norwich go on a good FA cup run, we may have to take Miss Innocent some refreshments down....half-time oranges

Oh! Err 7 here

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By *rs DCouple over a year ago

far

"Does oral count?

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was going to ask the same thing x

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I thought the numbers would be generally higher even taking into account those who might consider upping their number to make themselves look good.

So did we , but this is the forum after all ....

Anyway , we wouldn't be on a site like this unless we enjoyed the purpose of such a place , and our number is considerably higher than the average thus far ."

I've counted my veris and disregarded the repeat meets and only counted men as a half meet and it's 12.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does oral count?

are you a clinton ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought the numbers would be generally higher even taking into account those who might consider upping their number to make themselves look good.

So did we , but this is the forum after all ....

Anyway , we wouldn't be on a site like this unless we enjoyed the purpose of such a place , and our number is considerably higher than the average thus far ."

I love you guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

6 individuals. Some of them more than once.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

One...but the year's not over yet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

8 guys including regular fb friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

None this year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It depends what you class as 'sex'. I played with several and some we met more than once but i have only had full sex with one ...

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By *strokeC100Couple over a year ago

chester

Me- one. Wife-four+me

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By *rgyll_LadMan over a year ago

Around

4 so far

... But a month to go..

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By *ild-1Woman over a year ago

york

"Not playing this game. Had fun but now feel a bit slutty

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm starting to feel like a tart....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm up to a grand total of three.

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Why the red face? My total is a big fat zero!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let's hope that this thread isn't a true reflection of swinging , especially as the forums are open to see for anyone on the net .

Most people out there looking for sex , would assume a swinging site would be the perfect place to find it .

While we accept that fab is whatever each and every member wants it to be , it seems that engaging in NSA sexual encounters isn't very high on many people's agenda .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 250 roughly

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By *rs DCouple over a year ago

far

About 5 cocks on fridays almost every friday at the glory hole

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm starting to feel like a tart...."

I know I'm a tart! That's why I'm here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought the numbers would be generally higher even taking into account those who might consider upping their number to make themselves look good. "

I need to up my game

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's hope that this thread isn't a true reflection of swinging , especially as the forums are open to see for anyone on the net .

Most people out there looking for sex , would assume a swinging site would be the perfect place to find it .

While we accept that fab is whatever each and every member wants it to be , it seems that engaging in NSA sexual encounters isn't very high on many people's agenda ."

Hit the nail on the head. I just wish timewasters and those just on here to chat and not meet would find another website to join because I do value my time and its a shame so many spoil it for others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All I'm prepared to say is it is in double figures.....I'll leave the rest to the forumites!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm starting to feel like a tart....

I know I'm a tart! That's why I'm here

Fair enough, I quite like being a tart to be honest. and I think just over 1 a month isn't too bad, its not easy to find peeps down here in Devon......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's hope that this thread isn't a true reflection of swinging , especially as the forums are open to see for anyone on the net .

Most people out there looking for sex , would assume a swinging site would be the perfect place to find it .

While we accept that fab is whatever each and every member wants it to be , it seems that engaging in NSA sexual encounters isn't very high on many people's agenda .

How am I wasting your time, or spoiling fab for you?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

December is going to be my crowning glory for 2016. School's almost out and I'm about to leave the country again

So some time to fill in over the next week, then it's Santa's cumming.

I'm assuming a 52 week year's score, playing it conservatively. But I stopped counting not long after I left secondary school.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's hope that this thread isn't a true reflection of swinging , especially as the forums are open to see for anyone on the net .

Most people out there looking for sex , would assume a swinging site would be the perfect place to find it .

While we accept that fab is whatever each and every member wants it to be , it seems that engaging in NSA sexual encounters isn't very high on many people's agenda ."

Yup my numbers seem very high in the forum. But my numbers are quite standard for someone who attends a swing swing party about once a month, some would say quite tame.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's hope that this thread isn't a true reflection of swinging , especially as the forums are open to see for anyone on the net .

Most people out there looking for sex , would assume a swinging site would be the perfect place to find it .

While we accept that fab is whatever each and every member wants it to be , it seems that engaging in NSA sexual encounters isn't very high on many people's agenda .

How am I wasting your time, or spoiling fab for you? "

Did i say it was you specifically ? chill out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm going to have a good think and get back to you. I have an horrendously bad memory.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's hope that this thread isn't a true reflection of swinging , especially as the forums are open to see for anyone on the net .

Most people out there looking for sex , would assume a swinging site would be the perfect place to find it .

While we accept that fab is whatever each and every member wants it to be , it seems that engaging in NSA sexual encounters isn't very high on many people's agenda .

How am I wasting your time, or spoiling fab for you?

Did i say it was you specifically ? chill out"

You said "those just on here to chat and not meet" so still my question stands.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm starting with 8 definites. There's a couple I'm not sure were this year or last year. I may amend my number as I remember more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's hope that this thread isn't a true reflection of swinging , especially as the forums are open to see for anyone on the net .

Most people out there looking for sex , would assume a swinging site would be the perfect place to find it .

While we accept that fab is whatever each and every member wants it to be , it seems that engaging in NSA sexual encounters isn't very high on many people's agenda .

How am I wasting your time, or spoiling fab for you?

Did i say it was you specifically ? chill out

You said "those just on here to chat and not meet" so still my question stands. "

I mean for those who say they meet on their profile but they havent had any meets .. just like to chat or look at photos.

Personally I can never understand why anyone would join fabs if they do not want to meet...thats what its about.. or used to be. There are plenty of social websites around to chat on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's hope that this thread isn't a true reflection of swinging , especially as the forums are open to see for anyone on the net .

Most people out there looking for sex , would assume a swinging site would be the perfect place to find it .

While we accept that fab is whatever each and every member wants it to be , it seems that engaging in NSA sexual encounters isn't very high on many people's agenda .

How am I wasting your time, or spoiling fab for you?

Did i say it was you specifically ? chill out

You said "those just on here to chat and not meet" so still my question stands.

I mean for those who say they meet on their profile but they havent had any meets .. just like to chat or look at photos.

Personally I can never understand why anyone would join fabs if they do not want to meet...thats what its about.. or used to be. There are plenty of social websites around to chat on. "

That's true. But not many let you say "cunt".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's hope that this thread isn't a true reflection of swinging , especially as the forums are open to see for anyone on the net .

Most people out there looking for sex , would assume a swinging site would be the perfect place to find it .

While we accept that fab is whatever each and every member wants it to be , it seems that engaging in NSA sexual encounters isn't very high on many people's agenda ."

I really don't think people are going to be put off joining the site because they've looked on the forum and seen that a few people who've posted haven't had sex with many people.

It might even hearten and encourage others who would have been put off by accusations that they were unworthy of being here or wasting people's time if they were only able to meet a few times a year.

But that's been buggered up now, so I'd say we're back in a neutral position.

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan over a year ago

Fylde

Funny that this question causes conflict.

Hard to answer. Professionally or personally?

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Ern let me see ......

Is I've lost count a good enough answer?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

A girl should never kiss and tell

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan over a year ago

Fylde

"A girl should never kiss and tell

She could do the kissing tho. Over and over again

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i really hate this arguement... because it assumes that everyone has to go at the same pace otherwise people look down on them...

its rubbish.....

some people are looking for something more specific than others...

some people have to be at a point when they feel 110% comfortable to play...

I am not going to criticize those people....

as for me..... my 2016 has been good with the people that i liked.... i have no regrets.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i really hate this arguement... because it assumes that everyone has to go at the same pace otherwise people look down on them...

its rubbish.....

some people are looking for something more specific than others...

some people have to be at a point when they feel 110% comfortable to play...

I am not going to criticize those people....

as for me..... my 2016 has been good with the people that i liked.... i have no regrets....."

If you read what I said, its for those whose profile says they are looking to meet but they never do. I chat with them.. for days, weeks but they never seem to want to arrange a meet. I know everyone has their own pace and there is nothing wrong with that.

I think fabs has changed and it used to be about swinging .. not so much now, sadly.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

i really hate this arguement... because it assumes that everyone has to go at the same pace otherwise people look down on them...

its rubbish.....

some people are looking for something more specific than others...

some people have to be at a point when they feel 110% comfortable to play...

I am not going to criticize those people....

as for me..... my 2016 has been good with the people that i liked.... i have no regrets....."

Exactly, my lack of numbers is not due to lack of trying, I know what I want and will not compromise it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Funny that this question causes conflict.

Hard to answer. Professionally or personally?"

Are you an escort ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So where does it say in *the rules* if you're looking for NSA sex that you have to fuck loads of people?!

I think my tally is 4, all more than once.

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan over a year ago

Fylde

"Funny that this question causes conflict.

Hard to answer. Professionally or personally?

Are you an escort ?"

I am not an escort no.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm confusing myself now. I know 6 are definites because I've been seeing some of them for years and others regularly, this year. Others I can't remember if they were this year or last year. This year has gone so quickly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Funny that this question causes conflict.

Hard to answer. Professionally or personally?

Are you an escort ?

I am not an escort no. "

Ah, I think I understand now.

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

0 same as any other year gon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i really hate this arguement... because it assumes that everyone has to go at the same pace otherwise people look down on them...

its rubbish.....

some people are looking for something more specific than others...

some people have to be at a point when they feel 110% comfortable to play...

I am not going to criticize those people....

as for me..... my 2016 has been good with the people that i liked.... i have no regrets.....

I think fabs has changed and it used to be about swinging .. not so much now, sadly."

You need to take the blame in this too. Why are you chatting to keep for weeks/months without meeting? If you're chatting to someone thn ask them to meet and if they say no, then move on if that's what you want to do.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I think fabs has changed and it used to be about swinging .. not so much now, sadly."

i really don't care if it takes people 6 weeks, 6 months or 6 years to find their feet in the swinging scene, I think that the "peer pressure" put on by some doesn't help.... and i think thats what your original comment does...

it took me years to get to where i am now from where i started.... and i dipped my toes in very very gently at the beginning....

so many people are so focused that the end result is the be all and end all that they forget for a lot of people is it as much about the journey!

if you had told me i would be where i am now from where i started i would have said you were barking!

the great thing about this place is that there enough people that you can find people who go at your speed and your pace....... if you come across some who don't, you can always walk on by!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A girl should never kiss and tell

Probably cant count that high

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought the numbers would be generally higher even taking into account those who might consider upping their number to make themselves look good.

So did we , but this is the forum after all ....

Anyway , we wouldn't be on a site like this unless we enjoyed the purpose of such a place , and our number is considerably higher than the average thus far ."

So is mine to be honest. I can't remember every person but it's definitely in double figures.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan over a year ago

chester

Full sex is zero

Giving oral is quite a lot

Receiving oral is zero

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im not taking the blame for timewasters. I give up after a week or so without getting anywhere but its them who message me .. every now and again and I wonder why if they have no intention of meeting. So when i say chatting for weeks or months.. intermittently not continous chat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i really hate this arguement... because it assumes that everyone has to go at the same pace otherwise people look down on them...

its rubbish.....

some people are looking for something more specific than others...

some people have to be at a point when they feel 110% comfortable to play...

I am not going to criticize those people....

as for me..... my 2016 has been good with the people that i liked.... i have no regrets.....

I think fabs has changed and it used to be about swinging .. not so much now, sadly."

This is a fair comment , those who say they want to meet and don't are ever more common . As are those who arrange meets and don't show up .

We chat with lots on here who we know we will never meet , but that's clear from the start .

The dreamers who constantly let others down are the bane of the site .

We are in the swinging is about meeting up and having fun with others camp .

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By *r_PinkMan over a year ago

london stratford

wow fucking wee..............

reading this thread has made me feel quite a "hardened swinger".....

5 fems

2 cpls

+ a hell of a lot of gropes at fetish clubs!

aint I the bell of the ball

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

4or 5 not sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't keep count.

But if I did it would be 1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reading some of these I don't feel so bad now

it's been a naughty year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And no, not Pamela and her sisters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

666

But the devil is in the detail....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm with Monalott on this, given that this is a site for swinging it's fair to expect that people are here to meet and have fun. It just needs a little more honesty and transparency about expectations.

Some of the tentative conversation or people that chat with no intention of meeting is just leading on and a waste of everyone's time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i really hate this arguement... because it assumes that everyone has to go at the same pace otherwise people look down on them...

its rubbish.....

some people are looking for something more specific than others...

True if I was a fisherman this profile is me sitting in the corner of the clubhouse watching some twats at the bar saying "it was this big!". My rod and line is over at my couples profile. The line is cast, the bait is set, but the lake is empty...

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By *ndigo40Woman over a year ago

secret town

"I'm up to a grand total of three.

Yes about three for me as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of the tentative conversation or people that chat with no intention of meeting is just leading on and a waste of everyone's time."

I've chatted to a lot of people yet not felt the desire to have sex with them. Are we here to pity fuck people we aren't attracted to?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

None. Not really trying as i don't think casual encounters are for me at the moment.

I did have two social meets from the site and they were nice chaps

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By *eryBigGirlWoman over a year ago

East Yorkshire

This year due to health sadly it's 0 but hopefully next year things will change

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of the tentative conversation or people that chat with no intention of meeting is just leading on and a waste of everyone's time.

I've chatted to a lot of people yet not felt the desire to have sex with them. Are we here to pity fuck people we aren't attracted to? "

No not at all, I think the point is to be clear that there's no attraction so there's no ambiguity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of the tentative conversation or people that chat with no intention of meeting is just leading on and a waste of everyone's time.

I've chatted to a lot of people yet not felt the desire to have sex with them. Are we here to pity fuck people we aren't attracted to?

No not at all, I think the point is to be clear that there's no attraction so there's no ambiguity"

How long would you say is long enough to talk to see if there's attraction?

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I'm genuinely shocked at the low numbers for a swinging site! And feeling somewhat of a slut in comparison but hey I am so no need to dress it up! I have no idea how many as I don't count, gave that stupid task up years ago. I know it's not as many as past years as I've focused on better quality lovers to sate the insatiable but still more than most...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of the tentative conversation or people that chat with no intention of meeting is just leading on and a waste of everyone's time."

Depends. We're not actually here to meet (well not any more). It's just that we prefer clubs and parties. But nobody can possibly say that we don't play on use this site for swinging.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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4...but I'm in bed with one now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How long would you say is long enough to talk to see if there's attraction?

Lol, good question!

As long as it takes, I guess if you're waiting to see if there's an attraction there's an underlying sincerity which is different to just leading someone on indefinitely?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ain't tellin'.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

When I saw the thread title, I guessed correctly the inevitable crappy 'people don't meet enough for a swingers sites' type comments by certain posters. The supposed non-judgemental nature of swingers is a laugh. I've met this year. I'll meet next year with as many as I'm comfortable and willing and able to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Quite a few times but not nearly enough! It's been a rollercoaster year and is not finishing on a high!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have just fucked 2, but that was my goal as now the total is at 30, which I wanted to round up on a even number before the new year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I saw the thread title, I guessed correctly the inevitable crappy 'people don't meet enough for a swingers sites' type comments by certain posters. The supposed non-judgemental nature of swingers is a laugh. I've met this year. I'll meet next year with as many as I'm comfortable and willing and able to meet."

You should always expect some moaners on a forum.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"4...but I'm in bed with one now

Oi! Put the phone down!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I have just fucked 2, but that was my goal as now the total is at 30, which I wanted to round up on a even number before the new year

Had you been more agreeable, it could have been 31. I had it all planned - down the gym "oh no, jonas, I've dropped my bar bell, pick it up for us"...

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"4...but I'm in bed with one now

So get off here and enjoy bird!

Tut!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1 might be 3 times though

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Well I have scanned through the responses and apart from feeling slightly slutty all I can say is I HAD A BETTER 2016 THAN MOST OF YOU LOT!

Although admittedly I was making up for lost time at one point! (and I took many weeks out to have a total radical hysterectomy!) lmfao

Oh Happy Hanky!

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By *onnie and JohnCouple over a year ago

andover

we all use this site in different ways..

we use it as a tool to meet as in face to face liked minded people..

some use the forms to only chat, other's users spend time in the cam rooms, just like a profile its a reflection of the personally

we are more then happy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

666, since that number I didn't manage to get a smile of a woman !

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"1 might be 3 times though

I didn't count repeat meets and men only counted as half a meet cos it's too easy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have just fucked 2, but that was my goal as now the total is at 30, which I wanted to round up on a even number before the new year

Had you been more agreeable, it could have been 31. I had it all planned - down the gym "oh no, jonas, I've dropped my bar bell, pick it up for us"...

"
lol yes, that is a good one steve, on a back day with the barbell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I have scanned through the responses and apart from feeling slightly slutty all I can say is I HAD A BETTER 2016 THAN MOST OF YOU LOT!

Although admittedly I was making up for lost time at one point! (and I took many weeks out to have a total radical hysterectomy!) lmfao

Oh Happy Hanky!

Some people

I live my sex life through others these days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have just fucked 2, but that was my goal as now the total is at 30, which I wanted to round up on a even number before the new year

I always aim for an even number too

Or if not it has to be a multiple of 5

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

4 but only one from fab, and I'm still waiting for a verification so I'm not sure if I should count it lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Just 1 for me

Jack has had 3 or 4 .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have just fucked 2, but that was my goal as now the total is at 30, which I wanted to round up on a even number before the new year

I always aim for an even number too

Or if not it has to be a multiple of 5

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That is good you do it too and it is something about the even number that is good to finish on and yeah 5 is a good number too as it is half way to 10

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By *lue NarwhalMan over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

In the last 2 days... None

Anything before that is too long ago to remember...

I think I might have, but then again I might have thought I may have or may not have thought that, even though I may have or have not had..

Either way, I'm not sure...

If anyone remembers me, could they send the answer to - Po box 69, didigetashag, London

Still, the positive of memory loss is that I meet new people every day...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Four goddammit

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Well I have scanned through the responses and apart from feeling slightly slutty all I can say is I HAD A BETTER 2016 THAN MOST OF YOU LOT!

Although admittedly I was making up for lost time at one point! (and I took many weeks out to have a total radical hysterectomy!) lmfao

Oh Happy Hanky!

Some people

I live my sex life through others these days"

Cum visit up here, we can live a bit of it together

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Two. Mrs as of today is up to 5

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not playing this game. Had fun but now feel a bit slutty

Ha ha I'm the same

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think I'll start posting on Seesides' 'no meet Wednesday' threads

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I'm up to a grand total of three.

Although I've not been keeping count, I guess it must be around a dozen or so....

Cal

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

"A girl should never kiss and tell

Probably cant count that high

How rude doris

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

And the year isn't over yet... There's still some time for fun....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 and see 2 of them still

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

5 so far.

Last year was better. 18 roughly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Swingers site seems tame right

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Swingers site seems tame right"

I said something similar earlier - I thought people would have had more sex with more people - at least once every 3 weeks or so.

Even so, it has been the dryest year on record and this just proves the point.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Swingers site seems tame right"

But is it a swingers site or an instashag site?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Just a handfull's worth,I haven't been feeling it greatly this year to be honest which isn't good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I have scanned through the responses and apart from feeling slightly slutty all I can say is I HAD A BETTER 2016 THAN MOST OF YOU LOT!

Although admittedly I was making up for lost time at one point! (and I took many weeks out to have a total radical hysterectomy!) lmfao

Oh Happy Hanky!

Some people

I live my sex life through others these days

Cum visit up here, we can live a bit of it together

I would really love to do that

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i am sure my 2017 will hopefully be as good as my 2016 has been....

I have many people on my 2017 list of people i have to eventually cross paths with.....

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"666, since that number I didn't manage to get a smile of a woman ! "

Nice pic

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Swingers site seems tame right

But is it a swingers site or an instashag site? "

The only way to be true swingers is to fuck frequently. We don't want others to think that they won't be drowning in pussy juices/cum when they sign up. We've let the general randy public down now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

None. I think I need to get out more, or become less fussy haha!

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