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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago
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After talking to some couples at clubs and reading a few recent threads about various problems couples and single ladies experience, I'm actually pretty glad to be a single male. 
We have it pretty easy compared to the others it seems.
Now I never thought I'd say that!  |
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over a year ago
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"After talking to some couples at clubs and reading a few recent threads about various problems couples and single ladies experience, I'm actually pretty glad to be a single male.
We have it pretty easy compared to the others it seems.
Now I never thought I'd say that! "
Yeah but V-v-V-v-Viccy-boi-boi-boi,,,,, sticking to buying your own drinks all night in clubs, with surreptitiously extracted coinage from that booby-trapped man-purse of yours, can make you appear a tad miserly….
Now I’m not saying you are,,,, I just said, it an look that way…!.
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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago
Beeston |
"After talking to some couples at clubs and reading a few recent threads about various problems couples and single ladies experience, I'm actually pretty glad to be a single male.
We have it pretty easy compared to the others it seems.
Now I never thought I'd say that!
Yeah but V-v-V-v-Viccy-boi-boi-boi,,,,, sticking to buying your own drinks all night in clubs, with surreptitiously extracted coinage from that booby-trapped man-purse of yours, can make you appear a tad miserly….
Now I’m not saying you are,,,, I just said, it an look that way…!.
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I only go to clubs that serve free drinks!! 
...and you leave my poor coin pouch out of this you deviant, it doesn't have long left in this world as it is! *wipes a tear* |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I echo the above... I am blissfully happy as a single guy in the world of swinging.
I make my own opportunities and am fully accountable for the great times and not so good times.
Albeit, I have never ever sent a proactive message asking for meets, my preference is meeting up at socials and seeing if we click. I am not everyones cup of tea.. and they may not be mine. This saves me the frustration of no replies, deleted messages and being blocked.
An around happier journey in swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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aghhhhh,,,,,,"can" look that way,,,,!!!! can starts with a frick'in "c"..... fuk-fuk- frickty -fuk  |
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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago
Beeston |
It was a few recent threads that got me thinking this.
The 'how often do you meet' one made me realise their aren't actually hordes of couples and single ladies at it every spare minute of the day. Most only seem to get 1 or 2 meets a month or less.
Other threads made me think this too, the one about how difficult it is to get the 4 way attraction of a another couple and then translate that into a meet was an eye opener as well. Something a couple I was chatting to at a club recently said was true as well. |
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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago
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Another odd one; as the father of a young child who stays with me for half the week, I actually find this is sometimes an advantage in meeting couples or single mums who appreciate the fact I know how valuable their playtime is and how hard it can be to organise meets.
Not that I'm recommending having a kid and breaking up with your wife though fellas! I'd give this up like a shot to go back to that. 
But the dynamics of the whole scene fascinate me. |
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I'm not at it every spare minute of the day. You're lucky if I meet someone once every six months! I am the shittest swinger alive cause I'm soooooooooooo fussy!!
I was a bigger slut before I found the swinging scene! Having recently compiled a list of all the people I've had sex with... there are WAY more before I started swinging. Funny I had this conversation with a friend on Saturday too... I think the swinging scene raises your standards! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After talking to some couples at clubs and reading a few recent threads about various problems couples and single ladies experience, I'm actually pretty glad to be a single male.
We have it pretty easy compared to the others it seems.
Now I never thought I'd say that! "
I (Wishy) swung far more frequently as a single male than I ever have as a couple. Iguess singles have that luxury of whoever, whenever, whatever and don't have to take a partner's considerations into account. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah it is complicated. We like to have group fun at ours but often couples want to know in advance who else is coming and if they all want this before confirming we just don't manage to get there.
This weekend we had 3 couples coming but for one reason or another none of them made it, so we made good use of mirrors instead!
We would be happy to have singles of both sexes too, but it's difficult to get a more-or-less balance. So if there are any of you out there who would like to pair up and join us for an evening of fun in Medway do message us via the fem? (we have no single guys preference as we had too many messages from them). |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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Yes meeting couples is definitely tricky...Half the time Mr says No when I would and vice versa.
Then you have to get the other couple to like the look of both of us......
Then when you do find 4 way attraction it takes forever to find a suitable date that all can do lol |
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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago
Beeston |
I've kind of got this half formed idea in my head to organise a 'monthly night out' event at a pub somewhere.
Not exactly a social or a night out, but kind of something in-between. Just a load of local swingers meeting up once a month in a pub for a chat and a laugh and to 'network' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes meeting couples is definitely tricky...Half the time Mr says No when I would and vice versa.
Then you have to get the other couple to like the look of both of us......
Then when you do find 4 way attraction it takes forever to find a suitable date that all can do lol "
That's why we like group fun, more flexibubble. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've kind of got this half formed idea in my head to organise a 'monthly night out' event at a pub somewhere.
Not exactly a social or a night out, but kind of something in-between. Just a load of local swingers meeting up once a month in a pub for a chat and a laugh and to 'network' "
can you move down here first please? |
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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago
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"I've kind of got this half formed idea in my head to organise a 'monthly night out' event at a pub somewhere.
Not exactly a social or a night out, but kind of something in-between. Just a load of local swingers meeting up once a month in a pub for a chat and a laugh and to 'network'
can you move down here first please?"
Well I do visit that area now and again...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've kind of got this half formed idea in my head to organise a 'monthly night out' event at a pub somewhere.
Not exactly a social or a night out, but kind of something in-between. Just a load of local swingers meeting up once a month in a pub for a chat and a laugh and to 'network'
can you move down here first please?
Well I do visit that area now and again... "
get a f on your team and we can play a "friendly" |
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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago
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"I've kind of got this half formed idea in my head to organise a 'monthly night out' event at a pub somewhere.
Not exactly a social or a night out, but kind of something in-between. Just a load of local swingers meeting up once a month in a pub for a chat and a laugh and to 'network'
can you move down here first please?
Well I do visit that area now and again...
get a f on your team and we can play a "friendly" "
Well it's normally when I stay at the mother-in-laws, I'll check with her and let you know. |
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"yeah it is complicated. We like to have group fun at ours but often couples want to know in advance who else is coming and if they all want this before confirming we just don't manage to get there.
This weekend we had 3 couples coming but for one reason or another none of them made it, so we made good use of mirrors instead!
We would be happy to have singles of both sexes too, but it's difficult to get a more-or-less balance. So if there are any of you out there who would like to pair up and join us for an evening of fun in Medway do message us via the fem? (we have no single guys preference as we had too many messages from them). "
Sorry... I'm just being nosey but you sound surprised that people want to know in advance who's going?
I wouldn't go to a small gathering for group fun without knowing who was going to be there. That's even more difficult to arrange than it is arranging something as a couple for just the two of you.
I like the social networking idea though... like the last thursday of the month in a pub or something and everyone is welcome. That would totally work for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've kind of got this half formed idea in my head to organise a 'monthly night out' event at a pub somewhere.
Not exactly a social or a night out, but kind of something in-between. Just a load of local swingers meeting up once a month in a pub for a chat and a laugh and to 'network'
can you move down here first please?
Well I do visit that area now and again...
get a f on your team and we can play a "friendly"
Well it's normally when I stay at the mother-in-laws, I'll check with her and let you know. "
mind, Joe likes a mature lady |
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By *nvictus OP Man
over a year ago
Beeston |
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I like the social networking idea though... like the last thursday of the month in a pub or something and everyone is welcome. That would totally work for me. "
I might just try this and report back. I could start a trend. |
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I like the social networking idea though... like the last thursday of the month in a pub or something and everyone is welcome. That would totally work for me.
I might just try this and report back. I could start a trend. "
Yeah... keep me posted! I might do the same! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the social networking idea though... like the last thursday of the month in a pub or something and everyone is welcome. That would totally work for me.
I might just try this and report back. I could start a trend. "
and another for MILs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single female with no kids I can only agree! I can meet who I choose, when I choose, only 2 schedules to work round or 3 at most and I don't have to worry about 4-way attraction! |
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I have regular get togethers with my closest friend off another swinging site.. Maybe I have open the invite to my new forum friends if anyone is interested.. You get to meet me and new peeps what more could you want.. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being a single swinger. Used to be a couple and it was difficult finding that 4 way connection. Now I just please myself over what I want and how I want it. Wouldnt want it any other way now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I echo the above... I am blissfully happy as a single guy in the world of swinging.
I make my own opportunities and am fully accountable for the great times and not so good times.
Albeit, I have never ever sent a proactive message asking for meets, my preference is meeting up at socials and seeing if we click. I am not everyones cup of tea.. and they may not be mine. This saves me the frustration of no replies, deleted messages and being blocked.
An around happier journey in swinging"
good reply that, i think i will do this... im starting to think it's better just "see what happens" I think to, messaging people on here can be a slight waste of time... especially if you are a "guy looking for cples/ladies" Cples and ladies can't see the real you just through a face picture.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I echo the above... I am blissfully happy as a single guy in the world of swinging.
I make my own opportunities and am fully accountable for the great times and not so good times.
Albeit, I have never ever sent a proactive message asking for meets, my preference is meeting up at socials and seeing if we click. I am not everyones cup of tea.. and they may not be mine. This saves me the frustration of no replies, deleted messages and being blocked.
An around happier journey in swinging
good reply that, i think i will do this... im starting to think it's better just "see what happens" I think to, messaging people on here can be a slight waste of time... especially if you are a "guy looking for cples/ladies" Cples and ladies can't see the real you just through a face picture.
cool post "
says he of the cock pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have certainly had more fun as a single. I always wanted to meet more than what my then hubby did. And trying to find a 4 way connections was soooo hard. I was never one for taking one for the team.
Would i turn the clock back?. No!
But what i have come across since being on my own. Is that some guys who i have met in the past. Dont like the idea of me playing with others.
Like why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have certainly had more fun as a single. I always wanted to meet more than what my then hubby did. And trying to find a 4 way connections was soooo hard. I was never one for taking one for the team.
Would i turn the clock back?. No!
But what i have come across since being on my own. Is that some guys who i have met in the past. Dont like the idea of me playing with others.
Like why? "
i think it's great for singles to go out and explore... good on you... i would love to find a woman who loves to play with others... love the thought of my f..k buddie to go with others while i watch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I definately think couples have it tough, they have to have a 4 way connection.. good luck to em I say
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Couples meets don't do it for us, but having so much hassles with finding a single female. Thank god for single men...
Katie x |
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"I definately think couples have it tough, they have to have a 4 way connection.. good luck to em I say
Couples meets don't do it for us, but haviung so much hassles with finding a single female. Thank god for single men...
Katie x "
Amen to that.
Mistress |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple we tend to have more meets with single guys but we do meet couples. My biggest problem with couples is that many seem surprised that I want to have sex with my own partner. Most of them want to swap and stick to playing with that new playmate but swinging to me means all parties joined together on the bed, all a bundle of arms, legs and tongues. I have one to one sex all the time, when I swing I want soimething different. Sometimes I feel the other couple think I'm being possessive and jealous when I reach for my own man to indulge in naughtiness. I've heard people say 'well you get to have him all the time' but he's not a library book out on loan, I like a fourway mass of bodies, all interlinked like a train, something unusual.
Single guys understand this and have no problem sharing me, they don't mind that I want my own guy to go down on me as well as them, I love two guys hands all over me, but we make it clear that my man is always actively involved (well he has tried to watch, he lasts about 2 minutes).
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I think single males have it easy. Shower and stick some clothes on job done lol.
Now being a woman is entirely different lol.
In my opinion a single guy needs two qualities, to be easy going and respectful.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a couple we tend to have more meets with single guys but we do meet couples. My biggest problem with couples is that many seem surprised that I want to have sex with my own partner. Most of them want to swap and stick to playing with that new playmate but swinging to me means all parties joined together on the bed, all a bundle of arms, legs and tongues. I have one to one sex all the time, when I swing I want soimething different. Sometimes I feel the other couple think I'm being possessive and jealous when I reach for my own man to indulge in naughtiness. I've heard people say 'well you get to have him all the time' but he's not a library book out on loan, I like a fourway mass of bodies, all interlinked like a train, something unusual.
Single guys understand this and have no problem sharing me, they don't mind that I want my own guy to go down on me as well as them, I love two guys hands all over me, but we make it clear that my man is always actively involved (well he has tried to watch, he lasts about 2 minutes).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hooray lets here it for the single guy! Swinging ladies and couples do hold all the power cards but single guys through shear numbers and straightforward randiness provide the solid backbone to keep it interesting.... the single guys that understand this seem to do pretty well out of it  |
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"I've kind of got this half formed idea in my head to organise a 'monthly night out' event at a pub somewhere.
Not exactly a social or a night out, but kind of something in-between. Just a load of local swingers meeting up once a month in a pub for a chat and a laugh and to 'network' "
we organised a meet and greet a few months back, put it in forums and told those interested to reply to us,out of about 20 cpls and a few singles thast replyed 6 cpls and 1 single turned up, was a brll nite, but some took offence taht a personal invite wasnt sent to them, now there is about 6/8 cpls and we meet every 4/6 weeks for a nite out its not a social or M&G. its all friends meeting up for drinks and a bit of craic and it seems to be working so far. so i would go for it, you never know what can happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Doesn't it depend on who the single guy wants to meet? I enjoy meeting couples where both the M and F are bi or curious, but they seem very few and far between. Most couples in general seem very anti-single guys - I'm not one of those annoying pro-active ones that sends messages to everyone either, I tend to wait until someone messages me and then I respond. |
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