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"I'm spending Christmas alone. Done it for three years now. No hardship, just enjoy. Xx" that's the problem I don't enjoy Christmas anymore. | |||
"I'm spending Christmas alone. Done it for three years now. No hardship, just enjoy. Xx that's the problem I don't enjoy Christmas anymore." Could you volunteer? Lots of people are on their own over Christmas and they don't want to be. Some community centres put on a lunch and need help with this. There are shelters looking for help too. Or, you could see if there are other single friends looking to just hang out together. | |||
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"I'm spending Christmas alone. Done it for three years now. No hardship, just enjoy. Xx that's the problem I don't enjoy Christmas anymore. Could you volunteer? Lots of people are on their own over Christmas and they don't want to be. Some community centres put on a lunch and need help with this. There are shelters looking for help too. Or, you could see if there are other single friends looking to just hang out together. " thanks for the advice, I will look into that thanks. | |||
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"Ahh I'm sorry to hear that, OP! I agree with Lickety, volunteering at Christmas is a really worthy thing to do and it really puts things into perspective regarding personal situations. I highly recommend it! " cheers | |||
"Ahh I'm sorry to hear that, OP! I agree with Lickety, volunteering at Christmas is a really worthy thing to do and it really puts things into perspective regarding personal situations. I highly recommend it! " It's what Christmas is really about. The best gift you can give is yourself and it's the one that gives you more back than you could ever expect. | |||
"Ahh I'm sorry to hear that, OP! I agree with Lickety, volunteering at Christmas is a really worthy thing to do and it really puts things into perspective regarding personal situations. I highly recommend it! It's what Christmas is really about. The best gift you can give is yourself and it's the one that gives you more back than you could ever expect. " are you advising him to have a wank? | |||
"I tend to spend Christmas alone these days; I buy a nice tree on the eve, climb into the loft for the decorations and make the house christmassy. I do spoil myself a little with nice food and some wine, but try not to drink too much alone (I hear its not a good thing). Depending on the weather I may have a winter walk..... ...god that all sounds so sad...." doesn't seem so bad, atleast you try to be creative mate  | |||
"I'm spending Christmas alone. Done it for three years now. No hardship, just enjoy. Xx that's the problem I don't enjoy Christmas anymore. Could you volunteer? Lots of people are on their own over Christmas and they don't want to be. Some community centres put on a lunch and need help with this. There are shelters looking for help too. Or, you could see if there are other single friends looking to just hang out together. thanks for the advice, I will look into that thanks." Do you drive and have a car? Even if you don't want to help out a lunch or shelter volunteer drivers to get people to community lunches are always in short supply. | |||
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"Ahh I'm sorry to hear that, OP! I agree with Lickety, volunteering at Christmas is a really worthy thing to do and it really puts things into perspective regarding personal situations. I highly recommend it! It's what Christmas is really about. The best gift you can give is yourself and it's the one that gives you more back than you could ever expect. are you advising him to have a wank?" Just the one. Everyone needs a hand, every now and then. | |||
"Ahh I'm sorry to hear that, OP! I agree with Lickety, volunteering at Christmas is a really worthy thing to do and it really puts things into perspective regarding personal situations. I highly recommend it! It's what Christmas is really about. The best gift you can give is yourself and it's the one that gives you more back than you could ever expect. " Your a wise woman will look into this see what I can do. | |||
"I tend to spend Christmas alone these days; I buy a nice tree on the eve, climb into the loft for the decorations and make the house christmassy. I do spoil myself a little with nice food and some wine, but try not to drink too much alone (I hear its not a good thing). Depending on the weather I may have a winter walk..... ...god that all sounds so sad.... doesn't seem so bad, atleast you try to be creative mate "I do try to be creative, this is true.... I will end up sobbing though.... this is also true, it will be mad even more sad that some of the glitter from the Christmas decorations will have rubbed off onto my fingers and then onto my face and I will be glittering whilst sobbing , this i believe is the true definition of irony | |||
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"I'm spending Christmas alone. Done it for three years now. No hardship, just enjoy. Xx that's the problem I don't enjoy Christmas anymore. Could you volunteer? Lots of people are on their own over Christmas and they don't want to be. Some community centres put on a lunch and need help with this. There are shelters looking for help too. Or, you could see if there are other single friends looking to just hang out together. thanks for the advice, I will look into that thanks. Do you drive and have a car? Even if you don't want to help out a lunch or shelter volunteer drivers to get people to community lunches are always in short supply. " yes I drive, it's an Idea | |||
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"I'm spending Christmas alone. Done it for three years now. No hardship, just enjoy. Xx that's the problem I don't enjoy Christmas anymore." Well you should. Make the best of what you have. Xx | |||
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"I've spent the last 3 Xmas's alone, but a sexy forumite is coming up to spend it with me, and I'm going down to hers for New Year "sounds great to find company over Christmas from some one on here. | |||
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"Not keen on helping strangers on a personal level . So a donation to a Cpl of homeless charities and foodbanks is how I help others. Plenty people don't even bother chucking a packet of biscuits into the collection point but have trollies overflowing. Greed. "our tesco have an all year round homeless donations box - every shop now without second thought we pop in a bag of pasta or packet soup - | |||
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"Won't be alone but I will be lonely "i understand that | |||
"Won't be alone but I will be lonely "That can be worse. | |||
"I'm spending Christmas alone. Done it for three years now. No hardship, just enjoy. Xx" embrace it | |||
"Won't be alone but I will be lonely "can you explain please  | |||
"Won't be alone but I will be lonely can you explain please "think of missing someone even though youre in a crowd | |||
"Won't be alone but I will be lonely can you explain please "You can be surrounded by many but still not have what, who or the circumstances you want. | |||
"Won't be alone but I will be lonely can you explain please
You can be surrounded by many but still not have what, who or the circumstances you want. "I get what you mean now, yes this is true | |||
"Time alone at Christmas for what ever reason, By choice or other? I have fallen out with my family years ago for personal reasons so I have no choice and I can't wait for Christmas to be over, anyone else feel the same?" Christmas is just a nother day wen your on your own | |||
"Time alone at Christmas for what ever reason, By choice or other? I have fallen out with my family years ago for personal reasons so I have no choice and I can't wait for Christmas to be over, anyone else feel the same? Christmas is just a nother day wen your on your own" this is true but it feels more empty cause you know everyone else are enjoying themselves over Christmas and your not | |||
"I'm spending Christmas alone. Done it for three years now. No hardship, just enjoy. Xx" I will be,doesn't mean anything to me really,just the greed it brings out in people What i will do is a shoe box gift again for charity with items inside like toiletries,toy gift,etc for kids who dont have anything  | |||
"Time alone at Christmas for what ever reason, By choice or other? I have fallen out with my family years ago for personal reasons so I have no choice and I can't wait for Christmas to be over, anyone else feel the same? Christmas is just a nother day wen your on your own this is true but it feels more empty cause you know everyone else are enjoying themselves over Christmas and your not" My advice? Dress the house up; have yourself a nice meal (I prefer pheasant), put up lots of sparkly lights, go for a winter walk; come home, light a few candles; light the fire (if you have one) and sip the most delicious spicy red wine you can afford, or go balls deep and buy a sparkling Shiraz (I kid you not, a sparkling red, its wrong..... but its so fucking right!), make the house smell of tangerines and christmassy things, enjoy it, for the lights, for the smalls and flavours; you are never truly alone if you enjoy all your senses | |||
Then on boxing day we will be taking H's dad for Xmas dinner in a pub. He is the only parent we have left.
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"Time alone at Christmas for what ever reason, By choice or other? I have fallen out with my family years ago for personal reasons so I have no choice and I can't wait for Christmas to be over, anyone else feel the same? Christmas is just a nother day wen your on your own this is true but it feels more empty cause you know everyone else are enjoying themselves over Christmas and your not My advice? Dress the house up; have yourself a nice meal (I prefer pheasant), put up lots of sparkly lights, go for a winter walk; come home, light a few candles; light the fire (if you have one) and sip the most delicious spicy red wine you can afford, or go balls deep and buy a sparkling Shiraz (I kid you not, a sparkling red, its wrong..... but its so fucking right!), make the house smell of tangerines and christmassy things, enjoy it, for the lights, for the smalls and flavours; you are never truly alone if you enjoy all your senses " lol I'm glad you can see the bright side to it even though you're alone sounds good | |||
"Time alone at Christmas for what ever reason, By choice or other? I have fallen out with my family years ago for personal reasons so I have no choice and I can't wait for Christmas to be over, anyone else feel the same?" Yes will be on my own again this year have done the last 6years, don't mind to much but i admit it would be nice to spend it with a woman or partner if i had the chance! | |||
"Time alone at Christmas for what ever reason, By choice or other? I have fallen out with my family years ago for personal reasons so I have no choice and I can't wait for Christmas to be over, anyone else feel the same? Christmas is just a nother day wen your on your own this is true but it feels more empty cause you know everyone else are enjoying themselves over Christmas and your not My advice? Dress the house up; have yourself a nice meal (I prefer pheasant), put up lots of sparkly lights, go for a winter walk; come home, light a few candles; light the fire (if you have one) and sip the most delicious spicy red wine you can afford, or go balls deep and buy a sparkling Shiraz (I kid you not, a sparkling red, its wrong..... but its so fucking right!), make the house smell of tangerines and christmassy things, enjoy it, for the lights, for the smalls and flavours; you are never truly alone if you enjoy all your senses lol I'm glad you can see the bright side to it even though you're alone sounds good "I did write "for the smalls..." though, but hey ho! or ho ho ho? | |||
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"It's just another day! Get rid of your TV and social media and I guarantee you won't feel as bad about it! What everyone else is doing doesn't matter! Enjoy simple things like not working and enjoying a nice meal- drink wine at 10am and have a selection box for breakfast! Chat shit on Fab and watch a really good film - big hugs to you OP xxx " | |||
"Time alone at Christmas for what ever reason, By choice or other? I have fallen out with my family years ago for personal reasons so I have no choice and I can't wait for Christmas to be over, anyone else feel the same? Christmas is just a nother day wen your on your own this is true but it feels more empty cause you know everyone else are enjoying themselves over Christmas and your not My advice? Dress the house up; have yourself a nice meal (I prefer pheasant), put up lots of sparkly lights, go for a winter walk; come home, light a few candles; light the fire (if you have one) and sip the most delicious spicy red wine you can afford, or go balls deep and buy a sparkling Shiraz (I kid you not, a sparkling red, its wrong..... but its so fucking right!), make the house smell of tangerines and christmassy things, enjoy it, for the lights, for the smalls and flavours; you are never truly alone if you enjoy all your senses lol I'm glad you can see the bright side to it even though you're alone sounds good
I did write "for the smalls..." though, but hey ho! or ho ho ho?"I do like your attitude, Wish it were that easy to think like that over being alone over Christmas. | |||
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"It's just another day! Get rid of your TV and social media and I guarantee you won't feel as bad about it! What everyone else is doing doesn't matter! Enjoy simple things like not working and enjoying a nice meal- drink wine at 10am and have a selection box for breakfast! Chat shit on Fab and watch a really good film - big hugs to you OP xxx " Cheers x | |||
"I'm going to Fuerteventura for two weeks as I hate Xmas, always find it so lonely, thoughts are with you all, I know how you feel xxx" good for you enjoy x | |||
"It's just another day! Get rid of your TV and social media and I guarantee you won't feel as bad about it! What everyone else is doing doesn't matter! Enjoy simple things like not working and enjoying a nice meal- drink wine at 10am and have a selection box for breakfast! Chat shit on Fab and watch a really good film - big hugs to you OP xxx " I did that one Christmas Day and New Year's Eve I was on my own. It was fun as it felt like a virtual party at times. | |||
"It's just another day! Get rid of your TV and social media and I guarantee you won't feel as bad about it! What everyone else is doing doesn't matter! Enjoy simple things like not working and enjoying a nice meal- drink wine at 10am and have a selection box for breakfast! Chat shit on Fab and watch a really good film - big hugs to you OP xxx " See you here then
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"Time alone at Christmas for what ever reason, By choice or other? I have fallen out with my family years ago for personal reasons so I have no choice and I can't wait for Christmas to be over, anyone else feel the same? Christmas is just a nother day wen your on your own this is true but it feels more empty cause you know everyone else are enjoying themselves over Christmas and your not My advice? Dress the house up; have yourself a nice meal (I prefer pheasant), put up lots of sparkly lights, go for a winter walk; come home, light a few candles; light the fire (if you have one) and sip the most delicious spicy red wine you can afford, or go balls deep and buy a sparkling Shiraz (I kid you not, a sparkling red, its wrong..... but its so fucking right!), make the house smell of tangerines and christmassy things, enjoy it, for the lights, for the smalls and flavours; you are never truly alone if you enjoy all your senses lol I'm glad you can see the bright side to it even though you're alone sounds good
I did write "for the smalls..." though, but hey ho! or ho ho ho? I do like your attitude, Wish it were that easy to think like that over being alone over Christmas."Chap, I am genuinely sorry that this time of year bites.... but you are letting it bite, now I know nothing about you, whether you have lost loved ones or whether you can't spend christmas with the ones you want too.... but (and I am sorry I tend to sound patronising or like a fortune cookie sometimes), you will be alright, and you know what, it's okay to spoil yourself to your means allowance and as a poster above said, eat a selection box for breakfast or whatever you want..... me? I hope its a beautiful frosty day, I will even put a stocking over the hearth and get so d*unk the night before and fill it full of weird things that I will be genuinely surprised in the morning as to what I find, one year it included a pouch of cat food  | |||
"Time alone at Christmas for what ever reason, By choice or other? I have fallen out with my family years ago for personal reasons so I have no choice and I can't wait for Christmas to be over, anyone else feel the same? Christmas is just a nother day wen your on your own this is true but it feels more empty cause you know everyone else are enjoying themselves over Christmas and your not My advice? Dress the house up; have yourself a nice meal (I prefer pheasant), put up lots of sparkly lights, go for a winter walk; come home, light a few candles; light the fire (if you have one) and sip the most delicious spicy red wine you can afford, or go balls deep and buy a sparkling Shiraz (I kid you not, a sparkling red, its wrong..... but its so fucking right!), make the house smell of tangerines and christmassy things, enjoy it, for the lights, for the smalls and flavours; you are never truly alone if you enjoy all your senses lol I'm glad you can see the bright side to it even though you're alone sounds good
I did write "for the smalls..." though, but hey ho! or ho ho ho? I do like your attitude, Wish it were that easy to think like that over being alone over Christmas.
Chap, I am genuinely sorry that this time of year bites.... but you are letting it bite, now I know nothing about you, whether you have lost loved ones or whether you can't spend christmas with the ones you want too.... but (and I am sorry I tend to sound patronising or like a fortune cookie sometimes), you will be alright, and you know what, it's okay to spoil yourself to your means allowance and as a poster above said, eat a selection box for breakfast or whatever you want.....
me?
I hope its a beautiful frosty day, I will even put a stocking over the hearth and get so d*unk the night before and fill it full of weird things that I will be genuinely surprised in the morning as to what I find, one year it included a pouch of cat food "You don't sound patronising at all, infact you have cheered me up with your views on how to deal with it | |||
"Time alone at Christmas for what ever reason, By choice or other? I have fallen out with my family years ago for personal reasons so I have no choice and I can't wait for Christmas to be over, anyone else feel the same? Christmas is just a nother day wen your on your own this is true but it feels more empty cause you know everyone else are enjoying themselves over Christmas and your not My advice? Dress the house up; have yourself a nice meal (I prefer pheasant), put up lots of sparkly lights, go for a winter walk; come home, light a few candles; light the fire (if you have one) and sip the most delicious spicy red wine you can afford, or go balls deep and buy a sparkling Shiraz (I kid you not, a sparkling red, its wrong..... but its so fucking right!), make the house smell of tangerines and christmassy things, enjoy it, for the lights, for the smalls and flavours; you are never truly alone if you enjoy all your senses lol I'm glad you can see the bright side to it even though you're alone sounds good
I did write "for the smalls..." though, but hey ho! or ho ho ho? I do like your attitude, Wish it were that easy to think like that over being alone over Christmas.
Chap, I am genuinely sorry that this time of year bites.... but you are letting it bite, now I know nothing about you, whether you have lost loved ones or whether you can't spend christmas with the ones you want too.... but (and I am sorry I tend to sound patronising or like a fortune cookie sometimes), you will be alright, and you know what, it's okay to spoil yourself to your means allowance and as a poster above said, eat a selection box for breakfast or whatever you want.....
me?
I hope its a beautiful frosty day, I will even put a stocking over the hearth and get so d*unk the night before and fill it full of weird things that I will be genuinely surprised in the morning as to what I find, one year it included a pouch of cat food "Have u even got a cat?
Love how you do Christmas | |||
"Time alone at Christmas for what ever reason, By choice or other? I have fallen out with my family years ago for personal reasons so I have no choice and I can't wait for Christmas to be over, anyone else feel the same? Christmas is just a nother day wen your on your own this is true but it feels more empty cause you know everyone else are enjoying themselves over Christmas and your not My advice? Dress the house up; have yourself a nice meal (I prefer pheasant), put up lots of sparkly lights, go for a winter walk; come home, light a few candles; light the fire (if you have one) and sip the most delicious spicy red wine you can afford, or go balls deep and buy a sparkling Shiraz (I kid you not, a sparkling red, its wrong..... but its so fucking right!), make the house smell of tangerines and christmassy things, enjoy it, for the lights, for the smalls and flavours; you are never truly alone if you enjoy all your senses lol I'm glad you can see the bright side to it even though you're alone sounds good
I did write "for the smalls..." though, but hey ho! or ho ho ho? I do like your attitude, Wish it were that easy to think like that over being alone over Christmas.
Chap, I am genuinely sorry that this time of year bites.... but you are letting it bite, now I know nothing about you, whether you have lost loved ones or whether you can't spend christmas with the ones you want too.... but (and I am sorry I tend to sound patronising or like a fortune cookie sometimes), you will be alright, and you know what, it's okay to spoil yourself to your means allowance and as a poster above said, eat a selection box for breakfast or whatever you want.....
me?
I hope its a beautiful frosty day, I will even put a stocking over the hearth and get so d*unk the night before and fill it full of weird things that I will be genuinely surprised in the morning as to what I find, one year it included a pouch of cat food
Have u even got a cat?
Love how you do Christmas "Nope, no cat... although the neighbours around here about have cats which I ahem... borrow, look I don't steal peoples cats or encourage them, they just find their way in here, I can't help it.... | |||
"Time alone at Christmas for what ever reason, By choice or other? I have fallen out with my family years ago for personal reasons so I have no choice and I can't wait for Christmas to be over, anyone else feel the same? Christmas is just a nother day wen your on your own this is true but it feels more empty cause you know everyone else are enjoying themselves over Christmas and your not My advice? Dress the house up; have yourself a nice meal (I prefer pheasant), put up lots of sparkly lights, go for a winter walk; come home, light a few candles; light the fire (if you have one) and sip the most delicious spicy red wine you can afford, or go balls deep and buy a sparkling Shiraz (I kid you not, a sparkling red, its wrong..... but its so fucking right!), make the house smell of tangerines and christmassy things, enjoy it, for the lights, for the smalls and flavours; you are never truly alone if you enjoy all your senses lol I'm glad you can see the bright side to it even though you're alone sounds good
I did write "for the smalls..." though, but hey ho! or ho ho ho? I do like your attitude, Wish it were that easy to think like that over being alone over Christmas.
Chap, I am genuinely sorry that this time of year bites.... but you are letting it bite, now I know nothing about you, whether you have lost loved ones or whether you can't spend christmas with the ones you want too.... but (and I am sorry I tend to sound patronising or like a fortune cookie sometimes), you will be alright, and you know what, it's okay to spoil yourself to your means allowance and as a poster above said, eat a selection box for breakfast or whatever you want.....
me?
I hope its a beautiful frosty day, I will even put a stocking over the hearth and get so d*unk the night before and fill it full of weird things that I will be genuinely surprised in the morning as to what I find, one year it included a pouch of cat food
Have u even got a cat?
Love how you do Christmas
Nope, no cat... although the neighbours around here about have cats which I ahem... borrow, look I don't steal peoples cats or encourage them, they just find their way in here, I can't help it...."Pauly, a pilferer of pussy -- who knew? | |||
" Nope, no cat... although the neighbours around here about have cats which I ahem... borrow, look I don't steal peoples cats or encourage them, they just find their way in here, I can't help it.... Pauly, a pilferer of pussy -- who knew? "The pussy whisperer. | |||
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"Not quite alone I suppose but I am deployed over Christmas and new year. Joys of military life! " Your doing a good job Soldier keep it up | |||
"knock it off you two, think of my reputation please" Apologies. Yes, Pauly will be alone. On his own. With no company whatsoever. And will be posting a meet request for the Christmas period in between pheasant eating and sparkling red drinking ... | |||
"Not quite alone I suppose but I am deployed over Christmas and new year. Joys of military life! Your doing a good job Soldier keep it up "I often say this during sex | |||
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"knock it off you two, think of my reputation please" what reputation | |||
"Not quite alone I suppose but I am deployed over Christmas and new year. Joys of military life! Your doing a good job Soldier keep it up
I often say this during sex " | |||
"knock it off you two, think of my reputation pleasewhat reputation" I am trying to create this impression of me being windswept and interesting, although I will have to go for a longer beard to pull off windswept.... ...picture me wandering the lonely moor on a frosty morning; not like some weird cat catcher of old Devonshire..... sigh...... https://youtu.be/BW3gKKiTvjs | |||
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"knock it off you two, think of my reputation pleasewhat reputation I am trying to create this impression of me being windswept and interesting, although I will have to go for a longer beard to pull off windswept.... ...picture me wandering the lonely moor on a frosty morning; not like some weird cat catcher of old Devonshire..... sigh...... https://youtu.be/BW3gKKiTvjs" Your hair is so much longer in that vid! And you're rocking the red.  | |||
"It's just another day! Get rid of your TV and social media and I guarantee you won't feel as bad about it! What everyone else is doing doesn't matter! Enjoy simple things like not working and enjoying a nice meal- drink wine at 10am and have a selection box for breakfast! Chat shit on Fab and watch a really good film - big hugs to you OP xxx See you here then
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"Time alone at Christmas for what ever reason, By choice or other? I have fallen out with my family years ago for personal reasons so I have no choice and I can't wait for Christmas to be over, anyone else feel the same?" Life's too short man. Sort it out with some of the family if not all of them. Only here for a short time. Not nice hearing your on your own. That's my advice. Maybe find someone from here even just don't be on your own | |||
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