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Fisting - a realist expectation?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Of the many ladies I've had the pleasure of playing with, I've only been able to insert a full fist into one of them. However lots of female profiles indicate fisting as like/favourite, I've only got small hands so question whether you ladies actually like/have been fisted... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah i love it i need warmed up first tho but its something i really enjoy if done correctly"
I'm the same, I've found not everyone can manage to fist because they don't know how, some try to just go straight in when that obviously won't work, it feels amazing when done right tho |
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OP maybe it says more about your fisting skills than the lady you are trying to fist.
I have a bit of a love/hate relationship with fisting. It is something i have tried a few times and when the person doing it is skilled it is fantastic. Unfortunately many don't do it properly, it is bloody painful and not in a good way.
Severe pain both during and for a week afterwards, bleeding and a urinary tract infection is not sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of the many ladies I've had the pleasure of playing with, I've only been able to insert a full fist into one of them. However lots of female profiles indicate fisting as like/favourite, I've only got small hands so question whether you ladies actually like/have been fisted..."
Maybe the ladies with fisting listed as an interest prefer fisting other people?
It does get boring when blokes assume it's the other way round... |
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"Of the many ladies I've had the pleasure of playing with, I've only been able to insert a full fist into one of them. However lots of female profiles indicate fisting as like/favourite, I've only got small hands so question whether you ladies actually like/have been fisted...
Maybe the ladies with fisting listed as an interest prefer fisting other people?
It does get boring when blokes assume it's the other way round..."
Yep, I'm a fister. Hate the assumption that I'm a receiver.
Lube, lube, relax, more lube
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its a bit of a crime fisting!!  Why ruin a perfectly tight vagina? But each to their own lol"
Babies come from there too do you consider their vagina's ruined, they shrink back. As said when done right oh my it's fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its a bit of a crime fisting!! Why ruin a perfectly tight vagina? But each to their own lol"
They don't get "ruined".
The vaguna is surrounded by incredibly good muscles. Indeed, the more you work them out, the fitter they get.
Suggesting that women's vaginas get "ruined" by things such as non-extreme fisting is nothing more than shaming women for enjoying something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its a bit of a crime fisting!! Why ruin a perfectly tight vagina? But each to their own lol
They don't get "ruined".
The vaguna is surrounded by incredibly good muscles. Indeed, the more you work them out, the fitter they get.
Suggesting that women's vaginas get "ruined" by things such as non-extreme fisting is nothing more than shaming women for enjoying something."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its a bit of a crime fisting!! Why ruin a perfectly tight vagina? But each to their own lol"
Haha women's vaginas were made to stretch during arousal, and also during contractions. It does go back to its normal size pretty quickly. Being on a swingers site, and having a less vanilla mentality (one would assume), I'm surprised you do not know this. It's not practicing pelvic floor exercises that can cause looseness  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if according to Yorkie321b it can be a very painful experience, why go through all of that. buying a 12" dildo with girth makes more sense to me "
So you choose to ignore all the comments from the women who love it? To be fair, you don't like it. But it's not really anything to do with you if others do. So you really shouldn't be offering unsolicited advice on alternatives, just because you don't understand why some like it. A little jusdgemental perhaps? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its a bit of a crime fisting!! Why ruin a perfectly tight vagina? But each to their own lol
And make sure you dont kiss girls either
cos they could get pregnant "
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Massively indifferent towards it, hubby (big man hands) and girls (with girl Hands!!!) have done it and it's 'meh' - it's worth noting though, I only orgasm through clitoral stimulation not vaginal/Penatration |
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