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over a year ago
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Between us, always.
With someone else, we might if they met the strictest of criteria. They must.......
Test clear.
Be prepared to be locked in our basement.
Abstain from sex while down there.
Test clean again in 3 months.
Job done, away we go  |
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Only with a regular monogamous partner... So far in my life I've had unprotected sex five different times with two different lovers.
With a random person off here? No thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only with a regular monogamous partner... So far in my life I've had unprotected sex five different times with two different lovers.
With a random person off here? No thanks."
You don't fancy our basement then?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only with a regular monogamous partner... So far in my life I've had unprotected sex five different times with two different lovers.
With a random person off here? No thanks.
You don't fancy our basement then? "
Is there whips and chains down there?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only with a regular monogamous partner... So far in my life I've had unprotected sex five different times with two different lovers.
With a random person off here? No thanks.
You don't fancy our basement then?
Is there whips and chains down there? "
All manner of pleasure and pain causing devices  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only with a regular monogamous partner... So far in my life I've had unprotected sex five different times with two different lovers.
With a random person off here? No thanks.
You don't fancy our basement then?
Is there whips and chains down there?
All manner of pleasure and pain causing devices "
On my way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you would you ever?
It is absolutely obligatory.
To post a bareback thread at least 3 times a day."
Yeah what Fab really needs is another 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread. Those pesky bareback threads! The cheek of some people...wanting to talk about stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If we lived on a desert island, nobody arrived or left and everybody got fully tested and all men had the snip. Then 3 months later, yes.
But I don't , so it's a no from me.
MrB"
Just out of interest, on said island, why 3 months later? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We should have the option of adding bareback as an option/interest to profiles here. Maybe then these threads would be irrelevant."
Hey, it's been a few hours since someone started a shaving thread! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We should have the option of adding bareback as an option/interest to profiles here. Maybe then these threads would be irrelevant."
There is an option already......just write it into your profile text. Simples. |
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"If we lived on a desert island, nobody arrived or left and everybody got fully tested and all men had the snip. Then 3 months later, yes.
But I don't , so it's a no from me.
MrB
Just out of interest, on said island, why 3 months later? "
It can take 3 months for certain conditions to show in blood tests - so to endure they really were STD & HIV free.
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"If we lived on a desert island, nobody arrived or left and everybody got fully tested and all men had the snip. Then 3 months later, yes.
But I don't , so it's a no from me.
MrB
Just out of interest, on said island, why 3 months later? "
Hiv can take up to 3 months from infection to being detectable in an sti test . So actually, on the island, you'd need testing on arrival, then 3 months later. If all is clear then, everybody is clear. |
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"Only with a regular monogamous partner... So far in my life I've had unprotected sex five different times with two different lovers.
With a random person off here? No thanks.
You don't fancy our basement then? "
Would you supply good food while we are in quarantine? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only with a regular monogamous partner... So far in my life I've had unprotected sex five different times with two different lovers.
With a random person off here? No thanks.
You don't fancy our basement then?
Would you supply good food while we are in quarantine?"
I love to cook so only good goodnight is supplied |
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"Between us, always.
With someone else, we might if they met the strictest of criteria. They must.......
Test clear.
Be prepared to be locked in our basement.
Abstain from sex while down there.
Test clean again in 3 months.
Job done, away we go "
What creature comforts do you have in your basement ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Between us, always.
With someone else, we might if they met the strictest of criteria. They must.......
Test clear.
Be prepared to be locked in our basement.
Abstain from sex while down there.
Test clean again in 3 months.
Job done, away we go
What creature comforts do you have in your basement ? "
And have they been installed in accordance with the relevant hsc regulations? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Between us, always.
With someone else, we might if they met the strictest of criteria. They must.......
Test clear.
Be prepared to be locked in our basement.
Abstain from sex while down there.
Test clean again in 3 months.
Job done, away we go
What creature comforts do you have in your basement ?
And have they been installed in accordance with the relevant hsc regulations?"
Regulations shmegulations, fcuk all that bollocks
What reg's do you need for a blow up mattress and a bucket |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Between us, always.
With someone else, we might if they met the strictest of criteria. They must.......
Test clear.
Be prepared to be locked in our basement.
Abstain from sex while down there.
Test clean again in 3 months.
Job done, away we go
What creature comforts do you have in your basement ?
And have they been installed in accordance with the relevant hsc regulations?
Regulations shmegulations, fcuk all that bollocks
What reg's do you need for a blow up mattress and a bucket "
Have you adhered to the maximum psi when inflating the mattress?
If not it could burst, cover someone's face who then trips over the bucket and breaks their neck!
It would be like playing Russian roulette! |
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"Between us, always.
With someone else, we might if they met the strictest of criteria. They must.......
Test clear.
Be prepared to be locked in our basement.
Abstain from sex while down there.
Test clean again in 3 months.
Job done, away we go
What creature comforts do you have in your basement ?
And have they been installed in accordance with the relevant hsc regulations?
Regulations shmegulations, fcuk all that bollocks
What reg's do you need for a blow up mattress and a bucket "
Not even any shackles or a threadbare blanket ? 
What kind of dungeon are you running ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Between us, always.
With someone else, we might if they met the strictest of criteria. They must.......
Test clear.
Be prepared to be locked in our basement.
Abstain from sex while down there.
Test clean again in 3 months.
Job done, away we go
What creature comforts do you have in your basement ?
And have they been installed in accordance with the relevant hsc regulations?
Regulations shmegulations, fcuk all that bollocks
What reg's do you need for a blow up mattress and a bucket
Not even any shackles or a threadbare blanket ?
What kind of dungeon are you running ? "
A bare one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If we lived on a desert island, nobody arrived or left and everybody got fully tested and all men had the snip. Then 3 months later, yes.
But I don't , so it's a no from me.
MrB
Just out of interest, on said island, why 3 months later?
It can take 3 months for certain conditions to show in blood tests - so to endure they really were STD & HIV free.
JG x"
Oh yes, I know that, but it sounds like a remarkably well equipped desert island! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If we lived on a desert island, nobody arrived or left and everybody got fully tested and all men had the snip. Then 3 months later, yes.
But I don't , so it's a no from me.
MrB
Just out of interest, on said island, why 3 months later?
Hiv can take up to 3 months from infection to being detectable in an sti test . So actually, on the island, you'd need testing on arrival, then 3 months later. If all is clear then, everybody is clear."
A really well equipped desert island then? |
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"Only with a regular monogamous partner... So far in my life I've had unprotected sex five different times with two different lovers.
With a random person off here? No thanks.
You don't fancy our basement then?
Is there whips and chains down there?
All manner of pleasure and pain causing devices
On my way "
U need to see my sex garage |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We should have the option of adding bareback as an option/interest to profiles here. Maybe then these threads would be irrelevant."
We have the 'safe sex' option! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If we lived on a desert island, nobody arrived or left and everybody got fully tested and all men had the snip. Then 3 months later, yes.
But I don't , so it's a no from me.
MrB"
This is the definition of extreme phobia if I may say... |
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"Your very lucky having a STI clinic on your desert island thats open. Last desert island I was on it had closed due to nobody using it.
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Maybe there is airmail etc, so that tests and results could be communicated?
I've no basement but I do have sizeable cupboards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If we lived on a desert island, nobody arrived or left and everybody got fully tested and all men had the snip. Then 3 months later, yes.
But I don't , so it's a no from me.
MrB
This is the definition of extreme phobia if I may say..."
Yes, of all the issues living on a desert island would bring, the possibility of an sti myst pretty low down the list! |
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"If we lived on a desert island, nobody arrived or left and everybody got fully tested and all men had the snip. Then 3 months later, yes.
But I don't , so it's a no from me.
MrB
This is the definition of extreme phobia if I may say...
Yes, of all the issues living on a desert island would bring, the possibility of an sti myst pretty low down the list!"
Well, it was pitched as an extreme example of an isolated community.
We don't live in an isolated community, so bareback is not an option. |
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By *anm2009 OP Man
over a year ago
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The reason I ask is that us we are seeing it more and more at clubs and just attended Chams last Monday and a couple in fact the lady wanted me to bareback her and her hubby wanted to bareback my gf seems more and more are prepared to risk it because of the feel of bare sex and the feel for the woman of the cum inside her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No......
No mater the temptation....
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Not ever? You get married, you're in the hotel afterwards and she says 'let's leave the condom alone tonight' and you say 'nope can't be too careful'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just put thin cut strips of beef in the condom to approximate the bare back sensation, win-win
..then you just take as long as you need to have the steak just how you like it.. I like mine rare, so I try to limit myself to 4 minutes otherwise it's ruined.
..the steak too, for that matter... |
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Love it. did so for years. Always been STI clean too. Guess it also depends on how many and who with not only the action that determines risk. But I love bb and really sloppy wet holes, squelching as you plow away at it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love it. did so for years. Always been STI clean too. Guess it also depends on how many and who with not only the action that determines risk. But I love bb and really sloppy wet holes, squelching as you plow away at it."
I am afraid, fellow, that the action does determine the risk. But carry on believing otherwise if you wish. |
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"Love it. did so for years. Always been STI clean too. Guess it also depends on how many and who with not only the action that determines risk. But I love bb and really sloppy wet holes, squelching as you plow away at it.
I am afraid, fellow, that the action does determine the risk. But carry on believing otherwise if you wish."
I live my life, u live yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love it. did so for years. Always been STI clean too. Guess it also depends on how many and who with not only the action that determines risk. But I love bb and really sloppy wet holes, squelching as you plow away at it."
It only takes one but I'm sure you know that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If any couples or females are interested in bareback and creampies, you can message me direct if you dont want to post publically on this forum
It would be great to hear from you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have and will with responsible sane married couples like us. There are many like us healthy couples and between us we can enjoy natural sex since diseases do not transmit where they dont exist. Some people seem to believe that you get infected from bareback sex even when noone participating is actually infected. This is being phobic, not safe. |
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"We have and will with responsible sane married couples like us. There are many like us healthy couples and between us we can enjoy natural sex since diseases do not transmit where they dont exist. Some people seem to believe that you get infected from bareback sex even when noone participating is actually infected. This is being phobic, not safe."
How do you identify these sane healthy couples who are immune from infection when they play bare with people outside of this safe group? |
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You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia."
You can't have a connection with someone because they have been to gangbangs? |
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia.
You can't have a connection with someone because they have been to gangbangs? "
We have a completely different approach to swinging so we cant find common grounds to move further. Same way we never meet single men or women (we’re probably the only couple on fab not interested in single women). We only enjoy very intimate 4 some meets. I hope I answered your question.. |
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia."
Educated enough not to take risks? You are taking risks by playing bareback. You might believe you are educated, but you are just taking the same risk. That's your choice, but trying to fluff it up doesn't wash.
Presumably you know everyone in your circle so well that none of them are doing anything else outside of your circle?
It might be nice if it were true, but the pseudo science just doesn't add up. If you want to do it, that's's your choice and your risk, but you're not being more educated or engaging in more meaningful sex than the masses who are just meaninglessly fucking (safely). |
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia."
Awesome, I didn’t realise STD’s asked people to take a test before they jumped aboard.
Even more reason to study hard, a qualification makes you immune |
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia.
Awesome, I didn’t realise STD’s asked people to take a test before they jumped aboard.
Even more reason to study hard, a qualification makes you immune "
My thoughts too lol |
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia.
Awesome, I didn’t realise STD’s asked people to take a test before they jumped aboard.
Even more reason to study hard, a qualification makes you immune "
Cool, we are logging on to Open University right now, so we can get a bareback gangbang organised. Party goers must bring a health certificate (degree certificate - not sti test) |
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia.
Awesome, I didn’t realise STD’s asked people to take a test before they jumped aboard.
Even more reason to study hard, a qualification makes you immune "
Lesson 1st
STD do not have the capacity to auto-create themslelves in an environment where they are nit present. If you need a diploma to comprehend that, i feel sorry for you.
If you understood that, i can move to Lesson 2nd.
However from the manner of your reply I think you’re one of those who still believe HIV is transmited with a kiss...
FYI: its a lot easier someone like you to “jump” and say something stupid in a thread, than get infected with HIV. |
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"I don't do bb but what about when sucking cock?"
Double condom always
If bareback oral then always near an A&E - call an ambulance before you start - if handy, both get an IV antibiotics drip and tell your next to kin what you’re about to do.
Bareback oral is life threatening. Dont put yours and your partners life in danger..!!! |
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia.
Educated enough not to take risks? You are taking risks by playing bareback. You might believe you are educated, but you are just taking the same risk. That's your choice, but trying to fluff it up doesn't wash.
Presumably you know everyone in your circle so well that none of them are doing anything else outside of your circle?
It might be nice if it were true, but the pseudo science just doesn't add up. If you want to do it, that's's your choice and your risk, but you're not being more educated or engaging in more meaningful sex than the masses who are just meaninglessly fucking (safely)."
Whats wrong with all of you?
I never said I am more educated than anyone else. I only said what the medical science indicates that bareback sex between healthy people carries no risk. Is this pseudo science? Do you disagree? Do you feel you’re taking a risk not using condom with your husband?
I know our circle better than you do if i may say that, but im not not around them 24/7, yet you seem to know them better than me and you even know that they might be disease carriers.
I guess you know because ALL barebackers are likely to be diseased right?
Regarding the last bit...wow..!!!
Gongrats..!! You have the definition of meaningful sex !!! I Any more rules or advice on what meaningful sex should be for me and my wife?
Read my post again and tell me where have i tried to promote unprotected sex please.
I think its you who unreasonably jump to the opportunity to point the finger...
That’s not good manners is it?
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia.
Educated enough not to take risks? You are taking risks by playing bareback. You might believe you are educated, but you are just taking the same risk. That's your choice, but trying to fluff it up doesn't wash.
Presumably you know everyone in your circle so well that none of them are doing anything else outside of your circle?
It might be nice if it were true, but the pseudo science just doesn't add up. If you want to do it, that's's your choice and your risk, but you're not being more educated or engaging in more meaningful sex than the masses who are just meaninglessly fucking (safely).
Whats wrong with all of you?
I never said I am more educated than anyone else. I only said what the medical science indicates that bareback sex between healthy people carries no risk. Is this pseudo science? Do you disagree? Do you feel you’re taking a risk not using condom with your husband?
I know our circle better than you do if i may say that, but im not not around them 24/7, yet you seem to know them better than me and you even know that they might be disease carriers.
I guess you know because ALL barebackers are likely to be diseased right?
Regarding the last bit...wow..!!!
Gongrats..!! You have the definition of meaningful sex !!! I Any more rules or advice on what meaningful sex should be for me and my wife?
Read my post again and tell me where have i tried to promote unprotected sex please.
I think its you who unreasonably jump to the opportunity to point the finger...
That’s not good manners is it?
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Well said Sunnylovers. As a Doctor (yes medical Doctor before anyone suggests PhD) you hit the nail on the head. |
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia.
Educated enough not to take risks? You are taking risks by playing bareback. You might believe you are educated, but you are just taking the same risk. That's your choice, but trying to fluff it up doesn't wash.
Presumably you know everyone in your circle so well that none of them are doing anything else outside of your circle?
It might be nice if it were true, but the pseudo science just doesn't add up. If you want to do it, that's's your choice and your risk, but you're not being more educated or engaging in more meaningful sex than the masses who are just meaninglessly fucking (safely).
Whats wrong with all of you?
I never said I am more educated than anyone else. I only said what the medical science indicates that bareback sex between healthy people carries no risk. Is this pseudo science? Do you disagree? Do you feel you’re taking a risk not using condom with your husband?
I know our circle better than you do if i may say that, but im not not around them 24/7, yet you seem to know them better than me and you even know that they might be disease carriers.
I guess you know because ALL barebackers are likely to be diseased right?
Regarding the last bit...wow..!!!
Gongrats..!! You have the definition of meaningful sex !!! I Any more rules or advice on what meaningful sex should be for me and my wife?
Read my post again and tell me where have i tried to promote unprotected sex please.
I think its you who unreasonably jump to the opportunity to point the finger...
That’s not good manners is it?
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'Science indicates that bareback sex between healthy people carries no risk' . If by healthy you mean STI free, then that's obvious to anyone. The issue is you don't know someone is STI free, unless your circle is a completely exclusive circle with the members never playing bareback outside of it. If you know that, and are 100% certain of it, then it can work.
Your implication was, and is, that your knowledge is greater than other people phobia. That's how other posters read it too.
I have never said all barebackers are likely to be diseased. Nor would I use that terminology. They do however have a statistically higher probability to have an STI.
I've not pointed the finger or been unreasonable, and have used good manners. As a result I haven't had posts removed either. |
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Well said Sunnylovers. As a Doctor (yes medical Doctor before anyone suggests PhD) you hit the nail on the head."
So is current NHS advice that it's ok to swing bareback so long as they are sane, educated people? |
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia.
Awesome, I didn’t realise STD’s asked people to take a test before they jumped aboard.
Even more reason to study hard, a qualification makes you immune
Lesson 1st
STD do not have the capacity to auto-create themslelves in an environment where they are nit present. If you need a diploma to comprehend that, i feel sorry for you.
If you understood that, i can move to Lesson 2nd.
However from the manner of your reply I think you’re one of those who still believe HIV is transmited with a kiss...
FYI: its a lot easier someone like you to “jump” and say something stupid in a thread, than get infected with HIV."
Winner of the dumbest reply ever!
Winner of the inability to correctly process language and information.
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia.
Awesome, I didn’t realise STD’s asked people to take a test before they jumped aboard.
Even more reason to study hard, a qualification makes you immune
Lesson 1st
STD do not have the capacity to auto-create themslelves in an environment where they are nit present. If you need a diploma to comprehend that, i feel sorry for you.
If you understood that, i can move to Lesson 2nd.
However from the manner of your reply I think you’re one of those who still believe HIV is transmited with a kiss...
FYI: its a lot easier someone like you to “jump” and say something stupid in a thread, than get infected with HIV.
Winner of the dumbest reply ever!
Winner of the inability to correctly process language and information.
I feel sorry for you "
At least have an argument, dont hust say “dumb”, present an argument, cos it makes YOU look dumb.
I’m really curious to see your point of view on how can a healthy person infect another healthy person having unprotected sex...go on...tell me...!!!
Sorry if i insulted your Oxford standards.
Great...we both feel sorry for each other
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia.
Awesome, I didn’t realise STD’s asked people to take a test before they jumped aboard.
Even more reason to study hard, a qualification makes you immune
Lesson 1st
STD do not have the capacity to auto-create themslelves in an environment where they are nit present. If you need a diploma to comprehend that, i feel sorry for you.
If you understood that, i can move to Lesson 2nd.
However from the manner of your reply I think you’re one of those who still believe HIV is transmited with a kiss...
FYI: its a lot easier someone like you to “jump” and say something stupid in a thread, than get infected with HIV.
Winner of the dumbest reply ever!
Winner of the inability to correctly process language and information.
I feel sorry for you
At least have an argument, dont hust say “dumb”, present an argument, cos it makes YOU look dumb.
I’m really curious to see your point of view on how can a healthy person infect another healthy person having unprotected sex...go on...tell me...!!!
Sorry if i insulted your Oxford standards.
Great...we both feel sorry for each other
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My argument isn’t against a heathy person infecting someone else, it was your assessment that “you can tell whether someone is educated enough not to take risks”
I presented my argument earlier, don’t take offence because you took the risk not to understand it
And to that matter it’s clearly not worth me taking the risk to try and help you rise above your ability to try to understand it |
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia.
Educated enough not to take risks? You are taking risks by playing bareback. You might believe you are educated, but you are just taking the same risk. That's your choice, but trying to fluff it up doesn't wash.
Presumably you know everyone in your circle so well that none of them are doing anything else outside of your circle?
It might be nice if it were true, but the pseudo science just doesn't add up. If you want to do it, that's's your choice and your risk, but you're not being more educated or engaging in more meaningful sex than the masses who are just meaninglessly fucking (safely).
Whats wrong with all of you?
I never said I am more educated than anyone else. I only said what the medical science indicates that bareback sex between healthy people carries no risk. Is this pseudo science? Do you disagree? Do you feel you’re taking a risk not using condom with your husband?
I know our circle better than you do if i may say that, but im not not around them 24/7, yet you seem to know them better than me and you even know that they might be disease carriers.
I guess you know because ALL barebackers are likely to be diseased right?
Regarding the last bit...wow..!!!
Gongrats..!! You have the definition of meaningful sex !!! I Any more rules or advice on what meaningful sex should be for me and my wife?
Read my post again and tell me where have i tried to promote unprotected sex please.
I think its you who unreasonably jump to the opportunity to point the finger...
That’s not good manners is it?
'Science indicates that bareback sex between healthy people carries no risk' . If by healthy you mean STI free, then that's obvious to anyone. The issue is you don't know someone is STI free, unless your circle is a completely exclusive circle with the members never playing bareback outside of it. If you know that, and are 100% certain of it, then it can work.
Your implication was, and is, that your knowledge is greater than other people phobia. That's how other posters read it too.
I have never said all barebackers are likely to be diseased. Nor would I use that terminology. They do however have a statistically higher probability to have an STI.
I've not pointed the finger or been unreasonable, and have used good manners. As a result I haven't had posts removed either. "
I agree with you.
I’m only trying to say that we know some very nice couples, not hardened swingers, who we meet once every couple of months and enjoy sex with them like we do between us, like you do with your partner. Natural, or bareback if you wanna call it that.
We never had any stds and yes we do go to the clinic and get tested.
And yes we do practice safe sex as well if we dont feel right about a new couple at the “drinks” stage.
And we dont follow the army of barebacking idiots on this site.
And thats the end of it, no need to explain anything further to anyone... |
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I’d rather play Russian roulette with a machine gun.... it’s safer and always question the morals of people on here who mention bareback... seems to me that they have something they want to share ?? |
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"You can tell if the people you’re talking to are educated enough to not take risks. Natural sex between healthy people is a 0% risk and the kind of people in our swinging circle are healthy individuals. Couples who recklessly participate in bareback gangbams etc are not the couples we meet. Not because of the risk for std’s which might increas to 4-5%, but because we prefer to have a connection rather than a meaningless fuck.
Always education vs phobia.
Awesome, I didn’t realise STD’s asked people to take a test before they jumped aboard.
Even more reason to study hard, a qualification makes you immune
Lesson 1st
STD do not have the capacity to auto-create themslelves in an environment where they are nit present. If you need a diploma to comprehend that, i feel sorry for you.
If you understood that, i can move to Lesson 2nd.
However from the manner of your reply I think you’re one of those who still believe HIV is transmited with a kiss...
FYI: its a lot easier someone like you to “jump” and say something stupid in a thread, than get infected with HIV.
Winner of the dumbest reply ever!
Winner of the inability to correctly process language and information.
I feel sorry for you
At least have an argument, dont hust say “dumb”, present an argument, cos it makes YOU look dumb.
I’m really curious to see your point of view on how can a healthy person infect another healthy person having unprotected sex...go on...tell me...!!!
Sorry if i insulted your Oxford standards.
Great...we both feel sorry for each other
My argument isn’t against a heathy person infecting someone else, it was your assessment that “you can tell whether someone is educated enough not to take risks”
I presented my argument earlier, don’t take offence because you took the risk not to understand it
And to that matter it’s clearly not worth me taking the risk to try and help you rise above your ability to try to understand it "
Keyboard communication can be not very effective at times so apologies.
Now, for the sake of argument....would you participate in a bareback gangbang with strangers? Or would you fuck a stranger in a bar toilet without using condom?
No, because you clearly have the education to avoid.
Yes it’s easy to avoid but its not hard to use the same principle to accept sometimes.
Trust me the odds are you’ll end up with a beautiful experience and no std drama.
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"I’d rather play Russian roulette with a machine gun.... it’s safer and always question the morals of people on here who mention bareback... seems to me that they have something they want to share ??"
Do you have machine guns in the Middle Ages? |
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Do you have machine guns in the Middle Ages?"
playing bareback is fine in our modern, clean, educated society, stop being so backward |
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"I’d rather play Russian roulette with a machine gun.... it’s safer and always question the morals of people on here who mention bareback... seems to me that they have something they want to share ??
Do you have machine guns in the Middle Ages?
playing bareback is fine in our modern, clean, educated society, stop being so backward "
Our modern society is far from clean and educated, use protection when not sure, be selective and aim for long term relationships if bareback is your thing. |
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"I’d rather play Russian roulette with a machine gun.... it’s safer and always question the morals of people on here who mention bareback... seems to me that they have something they want to share ??"
Chlamydia? |
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"I’d rather play Russian roulette with a machine gun.... it’s safer and always question the morals of people on here who mention bareback... seems to me that they have something they want to share ??"
They do. They share cum. |
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"I’d rather play Russian roulette with a machine gun.... it’s safer and always question the morals of people on here who mention bareback... seems to me that they have something they want to share ??
Chlamydia? "
Come on now...you can do better than that...go for HIV, most married swinging couples are HIV+ with a huge urge to pass on the virus to other families with young children.... |
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