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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A conversation with a female friend on here sparked this question.
Would women prefer to meet a guy, let him take her out for a few cocktails, a meal, even a show*, before they retired to his place for fun (the bfe if you like) or just meet and get straight down to it?
I think I'd quite like the first but then I'm not a woman...
[*By show I don't mean a West End musical. It could be anything; music, comedy, casino, any form of 'entertainment'] |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first one, though not everything you've said. A drink is fine, though I have met men on here for a meal first before anything sexual took place.
I get a lot more sexual satisfaction when I've met someone socially first. This doesn't mean it's the right way for everyone but it is the right way for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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people do this on here..
drinks, dinner etc can all be classed as having a social..
it's entirely up to them whether they then go on to have some fun or not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"people do this on here..
drinks, dinner etc can all be classed as having a social..
it's entirely up to them whether they then go on to have some fun or not "
I'd draw the line at going to the theatre though  |
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"A conversation with a female friend on here sparked this question.
Would women prefer to meet a guy, let him take her out for a few cocktails, a meal, even a show*, before they retired to his place for fun (the bfe if you like) or just meet and get straight down to it?
I think I'd quite like the first but then I'm not a woman...
[*By show I don't mean a West End musical. It could be anything; music, comedy, casino, any form of 'entertainment']"
It depends if they are fwb or fb material. There are people I enjoy spending time with as well as having sex, and there are those with whom that just doesn't work.
Both are valued in their own right - horses for courses!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"lol,,this is a swinging site not a dating site."
Except it's not really as black and white as that. Many people on here are also on dating sites for example. I don't think you are either just looking for a relationship or a fuck. There's plenty of grey in the middle... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A conversation with a female friend on here sparked this question.
Would women prefer to meet a guy, let him take her out for a few cocktails, a meal, even a show*, before they retired to his place for fun (the bfe if you like) or just meet and get straight down to it?
I think I'd quite like the first but then I'm not a woman...
[*By show I don't mean a West End musical. It could be anything; music, comedy, casino, any form of 'entertainment']"
You mean you can enjoy each other's company and enjoy the sex together? Far out man! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I don't get a lot of time for meets so I like to make a night of it drinks, meal, hotel but with costs shared evenly. Possibly more like a date than a meet, but I've not come across anyone that's found it a problem so far  |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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nothing beats a date op for getting one into the right frame of mind for doing ones best work between the sheets .
emotions heighten sex so if there's genuine attraction emotionally as well as physically then that's even better in my opinion .
all the best sex I've ever had has been when I'm emotionally as well as physically attracted to the woman so taking her out for a meal dating style or even better going away for a naughty weekend with her is guaranteed to deliver a truly unforgettable memory . which is what I'm looking for memories that will last something fucking for fucking sake never delivers in my experience . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always try and meet for a drink or two beforehand. Just makes for a better meet overall, your both more relaxed, any awkwardness is gone and just makes the whole thing more enjoyable.
Plus it's nice spending time with someone and getting to know them. |
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