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The clique

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

This is a post where we all can sit around the table and talk about the fab clique.

You won't get squirted at or even black balled so speak out.Name them.Point out why others avoid the forums due to them.

Let's make fab fun for all and not just the ones that are addicted to the forums.The ones that knock a round off over big words not sex.lets do as bravetart did and declare FREEDOM!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

bravetart got hung drawn and quartered no? (then eaten presumably..waste of tart otherwise)

think i'll let folk get on and find my own fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"bravetart got hung drawn and quartered no? (then eaten presumably..waste of tart otherwise)

think i'll let folk get on and find my own fun

You have been silenced haven't you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"bravetart got hung drawn and quartered no? (then eaten presumably..waste of tart otherwise)

think i'll let folk get on and find my own fun

You have been silenced haven't you

say what now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

They can sit there in there cardigans trying to be Intellects but they will never take away our FREEDOM!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you diss the clique they come out to get you.

Be afraid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you diss the clique they come out to get you.

Be afraid

i hear if you say 'clique' three times into a mirror they appear behind you tutting and rolling their eyes at you

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

No matter where you go on line or in real life there will be people who know each other. They have been on longer or are more active.

I don't think its a clique or people trying to exclude others.

For the most part new posters are welcomed.

Its like everything in life.. it is what you make it.

Yes, some people may post very strong views and others may be sensitive to them. However its an adult site so not really the place for people who are easily shocked or offended.

Jump in,join in and stick to some basic principles of treating others as you wish to be treated and you won't go far wrong.

Oh and don't take it too seriously.. its an internet forum not real life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you diss the clique they come out to get you.

Be afraid

i hear if you say 'clique' three times into a mirror they appear behind you tutting and rolling their eyes at you"

My bedroom would be chocka!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you diss the clique they come out to get you.

Be afraid

i hear if you say 'clique' three times into a mirror they appear behind you tutting and rolling their eyes at you"

Pffffft.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple over a year ago

home sweet home

"No matter where you go on line or in real life there will be people who know each other. They have been on longer or are more active.

I don't think its a clique or people trying to exclude others.

For the most part new posters are welcomed.

Its like everything in life.. it is what you make it.

Yes, some people may post very strong views and others may be sensitive to them. However its an adult site so not really the place for people who are easily shocked or offended.

Jump in,join in and stick to some basic principles of treating others as you wish to be treated and you won't go far wrong.

Oh and don't take it too seriously.. its an internet forum not real life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We never mention the C word

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman over a year ago

nottingham

"We never mention the C word

What cake?

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"No matter where you go on line or in real life there will be people who know each other. They have been on longer or are more active.

I don't think its a clique or people trying to exclude others.

For the most part new posters are welcomed.

Its like everything in life.. it is what you make it.

Yes, some people may post very strong views and others may be sensitive to them. However its an adult site so not really the place for people who are easily shocked or offended.

Jump in,join in and stick to some basic principles of treating others as you wish to be treated and you won't go far wrong.

Oh and don't take it too seriously.. its an internet forum not real life.

Interesting post and I agree with most of what you say but and this is a big but there is something not quite right with the forums on here and it seems to me one of the cliques on here as there I more than one actively tries to get some people suspended or banned from the forums by complaining about a opinion to the mods as a group .

Do I have evidence if this no has it happened to me no have I seen suspect behavior and a permanent bans that after reading the thread in question make no sense unless pressure was applied to a mod by a group of people yes .

If thus is happening like I suspect the mods need to get a handle on it because once a clique does it once they will keep doing it ruining the forums in the process

I've nodded on forums in the past seen the behavior in talking about first hand so anyone saying such behavior doesn't happen really needs to open there eyes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you diss the clique they come out to get you.

Be afraid

i hear if you say 'clique' three times into a mirror they appear behind you tutting and rolling their eyes at you"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We never mention the C word

What cake?

Ok, we never mention any C word, or Haribos (the hardened members)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Members of the so called 'clique' can't even stand one another

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No matter where you go on line or in real life there will be people who know each other. They have been on longer or are more active.

I don't think its a clique or people trying to exclude others.

For the most part new posters are welcomed.

Its like everything in life.. it is what you make it.

Yes, some people may post very strong views and others may be sensitive to them. However its an adult site so not really the place for people who are easily shocked or offended.

Jump in,join in and stick to some basic principles of treating others as you wish to be treated and you won't go far wrong.

Oh and don't take it too seriously.. its an internet forum not real life.

If thus is happening like I suspect the mods need to get a handle on it because once a clique does it once they will keep doing it ruining the forums in the process

I've nodded on forums in the past seen the behavior in talking about first hand so anyone saying such behavior doesn't happen really needs to open there eyes "

I very much doubt a permanent ban is given based just on one thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have learned not to take the forums too seriously, the odd barbed comment here and there still occurs. But I mostly let it go above my head tbh.

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

...here we go again...

*yawns, and wanders off in search of tea...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...here we go again...

*yawns, and wanders off in search of tea..."
two sugars if the kettles on please,

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"...here we go again...

*yawns, and wanders off in search of tea... two sugars if the kettles on please, "

Of course...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No matter where you go on line or in real life there will be people who know each other. They have been on longer or are more active.

I don't think its a clique or people trying to exclude others.

For the most part new posters are welcomed.

Its like everything in life.. it is what you make it.

Yes, some people may post very strong views and others may be sensitive to them. However its an adult site so not really the place for people who are easily shocked or offended.

Jump in,join in and stick to some basic principles of treating others as you wish to be treated and you won't go far wrong.

Oh and don't take it too seriously.. its an internet forum not real life.

If thus is happening like I suspect the mods need to get a handle on it because once a clique does it once they will keep doing it ruining the forums in the process

I've nodded on forums in the past seen the behavior in talking about first hand so anyone saying such behavior doesn't happen really needs to open there eyes "

How do you "see" that someone has received a ban?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love this thread already.

I love you OP.

I love all you posters.

Can everyone in this thread be I a 'new ' clique? I'll start a new thread about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We Clique & Creak when we get out of bed on a morning but its just old age

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"We never mention the C word

Cock?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No matter where you go on line or in real life there will be people who know each other. They have been on longer or are more active.

I don't think its a clique or people trying to exclude others.

For the most part new posters are welcomed.

Its like everything in life.. it is what you make it.

Yes, some people may post very strong views and others may be sensitive to them. However its an adult site so not really the place for people who are easily shocked or offended.

Jump in,join in and stick to some basic principles of treating others as you wish to be treated and you won't go far wrong.

Oh and don't take it too seriously.. its an internet forum not real life.

New posters are welcomed? My arse are they.

I've been on here years and there has always been talk of cliques but nowhere near as common as it is now. Nor have there ever been as many comments from regular posters about the clique and often saying that they post less as a result.

There is a group on here that hijacks threads with in jokes, that cannot ignore there there sycophantic tendancies, that insist on commenting even when they have nothing to say (I mean seriously these inane cake,popcorn, pull up a chair comments - just why?) and who on occasion jump on new posters as sport.

There is a reason these threads are more and common and there's a reason why some posters get incredibly defensive about them.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"No matter where you go on line or in real life there will be people who know each other. They have been on longer or are more active.

I don't think its a clique or people trying to exclude others.

For the most part new posters are welcomed.

Its like everything in life.. it is what you make it.

Yes, some people may post very strong views and others may be sensitive to them. However its an adult site so not really the place for people who are easily shocked or offended.

Jump in,join in and stick to some basic principles of treating others as you wish to be treated and you won't go far wrong.

Oh and don't take it too seriously.. its an internet forum not real life.

New posters are welcomed? My arse are they.

There is a reason these threads are more and common and there's a reason why some posters get incredibly defensive about them. "

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it that time of the month again? Clique threads are as regular as the movements of the planets. Kepler would be proud! This thread will also follow a well trodden path.

I'm not sure there is a clique, more a bunch of people who spend far to much time looking at the forums and chasing each other's tails posting inane crap that really should be done via PM.

Like the movement of the planets, these same people believe that these fora are the foci of ellipses of the swinging world.

Often the forum can feel like space as nobody can hear you scream, mainly because you're drowned out by the rest of the bollocks spoken.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is definitely a group that stick together on here. I've even had one PM asking me not to say anything in disagreement against one member or they get very upset. I'll say what I like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is definitely a group that stick together on here. I've even had one PM asking me not to say anything in disagreement against one member or they get very upset. I'll say what I like. "

I had a similar message a while back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not sure there is a clique,more a bunch of people who spend far to much time looking at the forums and chasing each other's tails posting inane crap that really should be done via PM.

Exactly

And that's the clique summed up perfectly

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By *loppsyWoman over a year ago

marlow

I don't normally bother posting on threads like this but seriously.........I'm relatively new to Fab and even newer to the forums. Yes there is a core of people who post on the forums but I have always found them friendly and not 'cliquey' at all.

Anyway I've got my tea and cake...... carry on xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is definitely a group that stick together on here. I've even had one PM asking me not to say anything in disagreement against one member or they get very upset. I'll say what I like. "

I was blocked en masse last Valentines Day of all days for saying I hoped that any unhappily single people would find someone to share Valentines with next time around.

One (now UNLOS) clique member (clearly unhappily single!) went on one about how dare I suggest all single people were unhappy (I hadn't) and when I challenged that I never said that at all (evidenced by the exact words in my post) all her mates piled in too! The clique in all its glory!

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple over a year ago

home sweet home

"Is it that time of the month again? Clique threads are as regular as the movements of the planets. Kepler would be proud! This thread will also follow a well trodden path.

I'm not sure there is a clique, more a bunch of people who spend far to much time looking at the forums and chasing each other's tails posting inane crap that really should be done via PM.

Like the movement of the planets, these same people believe that these fora are the foci of ellipses of the swinging world.

Often the forum can feel like space as nobody can hear you scream, mainly because you're drowned out by the rest of the bollocks spoken."

That's exactly how it is. Some of us have met in real life or have being in touch by message for a while. It's not as much as clique as some people clique with eachother, others don't.

I get ignored all the time . It doesn't bother me.

Although if I got a message from someone telling me what can and can't say I will tell them to fuck off.

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't normally bother posting on threads like this but seriously.........I'm relatively new to Fab and even newer to the forums. Yes there is a core of people who post on the forums but I have always found them friendly and not 'cliquey' at all.

Anyway I've got my tea and cake...... carry on xx "

As a new forum member. Don't you think it would be easier for somebody to bring this up in a new thread to go and copy and paste from another one?

Everyone can cross reference our previous answers to such bollox.

I'd hate to think I'm recycling old material and jokes.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

What clique? Nobody asked me to join!

*retreats to sit on the fence and offer popcorn, cake and other delicious things to unsuspecting passers-by

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What clique? Nobody asked me to join!

*retreats to sit on the fence and offer popcorn, cake and other delicious things to unsuspecting passers-by "

What cake have you got on the go? Could do with a slice this morning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyway I've got my tea and cake...... carry on xx "

What was the initiation like? ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always imagine the clique to be like the the main characters from Clueless or Mean Girls. Yes. Even the men

They're made up characters based on stereotypes too. I'm not a believer in the clique. People have formed bonds for good sport or bad. If you don't like what someone has to say then skip it. No drama.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

"What clique? Nobody asked me to join!

*retreats to sit on the fence and offer popcorn, cake and other delicious things to unsuspecting passers-by

What cake have you got on the go? Could do with a slice this morning"

What type would you like?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What clique? Nobody asked me to join!

*retreats to sit on the fence and offer popcorn, cake and other delicious things to unsuspecting passers-by

What cake have you got on the go? Could do with a slice this morning

What type would you like?

Something simple like me - a good Victoria sandwich

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

How does one know if someone is part of THE clique?

They all watch The Powerpuff Girls

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes the forums have there clique gang and its a bit like being back at school

I just join in a thread if i have a mind to and often my comment will be ignored and i bothered nope i enjoy the forums love the banter end of

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

"What clique? Nobody asked me to join!

*retreats to sit on the fence and offer popcorn, cake and other delicious things to unsuspecting passers-by

What cake have you got on the go? Could do with a slice this morning

What type would you like?

Something simple like me - a good Victoria sandwich

One slice of Victoria sandwich coming up x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"[Removed by poster at 29/11/16 07:13:27]"

Don't do it Pauly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And in the last few messages you've been proved right!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it that time of the month again? Clique threads are as regular as the movements of the planets. Kepler would be proud! This thread will also follow a well trodden path.

I'm not sure there is a clique, more a bunch of people who spend far to much time looking at the forums and chasing each other's tails posting inane crap that really should be done via PM.

Like the movement of the planets, these same people believe that these fora are the foci of ellipses of the swinging world.

Often the forum can feel like space as nobody can hear you scream, mainly because you're drowned out by the rest of the bollocks spoken."

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By *loppsyWoman over a year ago

marlow

Anyway I've got my tea and cake...... carry on xx

What was the initiation like? ?

Well can't give away any details............. but worth it for the cake

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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And in the last few messages you've been proved right!"

Would you like a slice of cake?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by the Clique at 29/11/16 07:16:27]"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So... this is a thread where you can public out people and brand them with the word clique...

This is a thread where you can name people

This is a thread where you want to make fab fun for "all" whilst trying to force other's off, where you believe regular posters don't have sex (lol)...

Not exactly freedom is it?

"I do think that swinging should be about fun and friendships NOT drama so that's why Im here:- friendships smiles and spontaneous fun."

Practice what you preach eh OP

I'm sorry some feel excluded... but ultimately that is their choice... join in or don't.... failure to ignite a conversation is not based on whether you are in a clique or not, it is based on whether you have posted something interesting/funny, but I guess if a thread fails, it's the "cliques" fault....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interesting post and I agree with most of what you say but and this is a big but there is something not quite right with the forums on here and it seems to me one of the cliques on here as there I more than one actively tries to get some people suspended or banned from the forums by complaining about a opinion to the mods as a group. "

Yes, there's definitely some problems here. A clique of older men (usually the "dominant" type) who try and get younger women suspended and banned from the site as fakes when they disagree with their viewpoints in the forum. Dreadful behaviour. Just because they couldn't handle a difference in opinion.

Wait, how many people do you need to make it a clique? Can it be just one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is a post where we all can sit around the table and talk about the fab clique.

You won't get squirted at or even black balled so speak out.Name them.Point out why others avoid the forums due to them.

Let's make fab fun for all and not just the ones that are addicted to the forums.The ones that knock a round off over big words not sex.lets do as bravetart did and declare FREEDOM!!!!!!!!!!!"

I can't be the only one that is envisaging a scene similar to the bell ringing nun...."Shame. Shame. Shame! !"?

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

Wait, how many people do you need to make it a clique? Can it be just one?

Think there has to be more than one, otherwise they wouldn't clique! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 29/11/16 07:13:27]

Don't do it Pauly!"

Have we met?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So... this is a thread where you can public out people and brand them with the word clique...

This is a thread where you can name people

This is a thread where you want to make fab fun for "all" whilst trying to force other's off, where you believe regular posters don't have sex (lol)...

Not exactly freedom is it?

"I do think that swinging should be about fun and friendships NOT drama so that's why Im here:- friendships smiles and spontaneous fun."

Practice what you preach eh OP

the amount of people who blame this so-called clique for comments of theirs being ignored is laughable. I'm pretty sure everyone who uses the forums has had a comment ignored on here. There's no conspiracy behind it

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"[Removed by poster at 29/11/16 07:13:27]

Don't do it Pauly!

Have we met? "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 29/11/16 07:13:27]

Don't do it Pauly!

Have we met?

No "

Want to?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"[Removed by poster at 29/11/16 07:13:27]

Don't do it Pauly!

Have we met?

Want to?

Do you dribble?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 29/11/16 07:13:27]

Don't do it Pauly!

Have we met?

Want to?

Do you dribble?

If you sit to one side you won't see it

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By *he Big Five OhhMan over a year ago

bristol

I've got a click... it's my age

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So... this is a thread where you can public out people and brand them with the word clique...

This is a thread where you can name people

This is a thread where you want to make fab fun for "all" whilst trying to force other's off, where you believe regular posters don't have sex (lol)...

Not exactly freedom is it?

"I do think that swinging should be about fun and friendships NOT drama so that's why Im here:- friendships smiles and spontaneous fun."

Practice what you preach eh OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do I have to go to work? can't we have this at night or the weekend?

The Clique exists alright, by not trying to exist they exist all the same. They may may have lost their original cheerleader but by god the "step in" is more than a match, may not be any twirls or pixie dust....yet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No matter where you go on line or in real life there will be people who know each other. They have been on longer or are more active.

I don't think its a clique or people trying to exclude others.

For the most part new posters are welcomed.

Its like everything in life.. it is what you make it.

Yes, some people may post very strong views and others may be sensitive to them. However its an adult site so not really the place for people who are easily shocked or offended.

Jump in,join in and stick to some basic principles of treating others as you wish to be treated and you won't go far wrong.

Oh and don't take it too seriously.. its an internet forum not real life.

Exactly this, very well worded.

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By *eaded_BazMan over a year ago

Truro

Surely if you are trying to rally support in your opinion that there is a clique, are you not inciting clique mentality.

Don't take this site, the forums, the people on them and yourself so seriously.

Some people chat privately, some openly and some are just voyeurs. You will find this type of behaviour in all walks of life.

I comment on and start the odd thread, whether I get comments about it is not a problem and don't feel like I've been cliqued if I don't, I think those who seek to exclude others are soon found out.

You know chatting on here and meeting in real life are not mutually exclusive.

Just enjoy this and the characters within.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So... this is a thread where you can public out people and brand them with the word clique...

This is a thread where you can name people

This is a thread where you want to make fab fun for "all" whilst trying to force other's off, where you believe regular posters don't have sex (lol)...

Not exactly freedom is it?

"I do think that swinging should be about fun and friendships NOT drama so that's why Im here:- friendships smiles and spontaneous fun."

Practice what you preach eh OP

I can see both sides of this. I don't think fir a minute the clique make a conscious (or unconscious for that matter ( decision to ignore and blank people. But equally posts get lost, threads get derailed by their actions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So... this is a thread where you can public out people and brand them with the word clique...

This is a thread where you can name people

This is a thread where you want to make fab fun for "all" whilst trying to force other's off, where you believe regular posters don't have sex (lol)...

Not exactly freedom is it?

"I do think that swinging should be about fun and friendships NOT drama so that's why Im here:- friendships smiles and spontaneous fun."

Practice what you preach eh OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wait, how many people do you need to make it a clique? Can it be just one?

I'll be in a clique with you as I agree with your posts all the time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been on and off this site for a few years but only started using the forums around 6 months ago. As a new poster I was welcomed and found everyone really friendly, and now as a 'regular' poster I still find the same in the most part. There are a few people who seem to try to be offended by everything on here, or purposefully start an argument, but I'm not sure they're all in it together.

I'm still on the whole rather oblivious to there being an actual 'clique'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I can honestly say I don't report other people's posts...I don't message other people about forum posters....I welcome new posters (when it's pointed out to me that they are new (green arrow will help you here) and I am sick and tired of defending my right to post inane banter on a regular basis without some miseryfuck feeling excluded and dishing out the word "clique"...

Laughably it's the same miseryfucks that then go on to claim that regular forum posters take the forum too seriously.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Golly gosh I have been back on the forums a few weeks after my fanatical. This is the first C thread.

There are people , like myself who regularly post on the forums. I ad a wonderful warm welcome from friends old and new.

OP , just go with the flow , enjoy the site . That's what I do . Make some new chums and if your lucky like I have been you may meet a few splendidly spitting people .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Golly gosh I have been back on the forums a few weeks after my fanatical. This is the first C thread.

There are people , like myself who regularly post on the forums. I ad a wonderful warm welcome from friends old and new.

OP , just go with the flow , enjoy the site . That's what I do . Make some new chums and if your lucky like I have been you may meet a few splendidly spitting people .

and you haven't met the best yet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My sub-personalities wanted to form a clique but couldn't agree who was in or out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...here we go again...

*yawns, and wanders off in search of tea... two sugars if the kettles on please,

Of course...

And some ginger cake please....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My sub-personalities wanted to form a clique but couldn't agree who was in or out."

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My sub-personalities wanted to form a clique but couldn't agree who was in or out.

Who said that?"

thats my line mr

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My sub-personalities wanted to form a clique but couldn't agree who was in or out.

Who said that?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Golly gosh I have been back on the forums a few weeks after my fanatical. This is the first C thread.

There are people , like myself who regularly post on the forums. I ad a wonderful warm welcome from friends old and new.

OP , just go with the flow , enjoy the site . That's what I do . Make some new chums and if your lucky like I have been you may meet a few splendidly spitting people .

and you haven't met the best yet

Ha ha well who knows what the future may bring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I can honestly say I don't report other people's posts...I don't message other people about forum posters....I welcome new posters (when it's pointed out to me that they are new (green arrow will help you here) and I am sick and tired of defending my right to post inane banter on a regular basis without some miseryfuck feeling excluded and dishing out the word "clique"...

Laughably it's the same miseryfucks that then go on to claim that regular forum posters take the forum too seriously.....

Said Pauly. Seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Golly gosh I have been back on the forums a few weeks after my fanatical. This is the first C thread.

There are people , like myself who regularly post on the forums. I ad a wonderful warm welcome from friends old and new.

OP , just go with the flow , enjoy the site . That's what I do . Make some new chums and if your lucky like I have been you may meet a few splendidly spitting people .

Totally agree although you can keep the spitting - each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Golly gosh I have been back on the forums a few weeks after my fanatical. This is the first C thread.

There are people , like myself who regularly post on the forums. I ad a wonderful warm welcome from friends old and new.

OP , just go with the flow , enjoy the site . That's what I do . Make some new chums and if your lucky like I have been you may meet a few splendidly spitting people .

Totally agree although you can keep the spitting - each to their own

Whoops boiling autocarrot spiffing lol not spitting that would be awful lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Laughably it's the same miseryfucks that then go on to claim that regular forum posters take the forum too seriously.....

Said Pauly. Seriously.

Gotta love irony!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"This is a post where we all can sit around the table and talk about the fab clique.

You won't get squirted at or even black balled so speak out.Name them.Point out why others avoid the forums due to them.

Let's make fab fun for all and not just the ones that are addicted to the forums.The ones that knock a round off over big words not sex.lets do as bravetart did and declare FREEDOM!!!!!!!!!!!"

Lets make the forums fun by naming, sharing and blaming individuals.... No thanks, not my idea of fun. I'll just stick to ignoring the people and posts I don't like (except this in cos I'm making a point

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Oh OP, I'm a tad disappointed. I thought you were going to mention wombles or cover your clique message up in 'ghetto' language moaning about people who use big words as you've done several times before.

There's not a clique. It can be vomit inducing at times with it's love ins, it can appear slightly sycophantic (dat be da bum lick) and down right argumentative but you find the same people posting on the same threads because that's what they like naturally (unless of course it's a well executed facade). Join in where you want OP but don't blame a lack of success on a clique - everyone gets ignored at times, just get on with it.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"This is a post where we all can sit around the table and talk about the fab clique.

You won't get squirted at or even black balled so speak out.Name them.Point out why others avoid the forums due to them.

Let's make fab fun for all and not just the ones that are addicted to the forums.The ones that knock a round off over big words not sex.lets do as bravetart did and declare FREEDOM!!!!!!!!!!!

). "

Yeah

[ banned ]

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the OP starts a thread about naming the clique & doesn't offer any names up, hmmmmm.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My sub-personalities wanted to form a clique but couldn't agree who was in or out.

Who said that?

thats my line mr

Plagiarists'r'us

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"This is a post where we all can sit around the table and talk about the fab clique.

You won't get squirted at or even black balled so speak out.Name them.Point out why others avoid the forums due to them.

Let's make fab fun for all and not just the ones that are addicted to the forums.The ones that knock a round off over big words not sex.lets do as bravetart did and declare FREEDOM!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah

[ banned ]"

Who's banned?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just think of a different term for clique, many people on here don't seem to like it. All you're referring to are a bunch of regulars who spend time talking to one another and may or may not have met in person and are seen in every area of life. The only thing is, not everyone was part of the group to start with, you had to work your way in (if you can be bothered), it's just about joining in and to some extent, on here, posting/commenting regularly to get noticed.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is definitely a group that stick together on here. I've even had one PM asking me not to say anything in disagreement against one member or they get very upset. I'll say what I like. "

Really?!

People take the shite that's spouted on here waaay to seriously.

I'd make a point disagreeing with the said person & the one that PM'd me wherever possible.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is definitely a group that stick together on here. I've even had one PM asking me not to say anything in disagreement against one member or they get very upset. I'll say what I like.

Really?!

People take the shite that's spouted on here waaay to seriously.

I'd make a point disagreeing with the said person & the one that PM'd me wherever possible."

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

I think it's ok to disagree with people, I often do

For me I have my own thoughts about things

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By *loppsyWoman over a year ago

marlow

"Golly gosh I have been back on the forums a few weeks after my fanatical. This is the first C thread.

There are people , like myself who regularly post on the forums. I ad a wonderful warm welcome from friends old and new.

OP , just go with the flow , enjoy the site . That's what I do . Make some new chums and if your lucky like I have been you may meet a few splendidly spitting people .

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"This is a post where we all can sit around the table and talk about the fab clique.

You won't get squirted at or even black balled so speak out.Name them.Point out why others avoid the forums due to them.

Let's make fab fun for all and not just the ones that are addicted to the forums.The ones that knock a round off over big words not sex.lets do as bravetart did and declare FREEDOM!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah

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Who's banned?! "

I meant, I will get banned; but the idea sounds fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

no clique - just familiarity

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ooooh do I get to be in the clique or am I an outcast now?

Seriously though... some of us need to get out more. When your life is reduced to tearing apart other people on an Internet forum and your getting kicks out of it, no matter how much you tell yourself you're cool about that, you're really not and deep down you know it. Go read a book, watch a movie, get a hobbit (or even a hobby - gotta love autocarrot!) but don't kid yourself into thinking it makes you better than the person who's happy pottering round in a forum posting inane banter with friends until they're scorned by someone with bigger issues. It doesn't.

Admin run the forums as part of the site. They choose the rules and we help them with that because as members we abide by the rules they set. As a Mod I'm no more interested in the petty squabbles than I am in currant affairs or religion. If someone breaks the rules and I catch them then they take the naughty step they're given and don't bitch about it. If you're still whinging about unfair treatment because you don't think you've done anything wrong then you need to go read the rules.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyone willing to post the names of those in the clique?

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Haha @ currant!

You get the drift!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"...here we go again...

*yawns, and wanders off in search of tea..."

Same,but coffee...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ooooh do I get to be in the clique or am I an outcast now?

jolly well said , never take the forums to seriously and chaps and chappesses let's just be a tad nicer to one another

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by the Clique at 29/11/16 07:16:27]"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ooooh do I get to be in the clique or am I an outcast now?

jolly well said , never take the forums to seriously and chaps and chappesses let's just be a tad nicer to one another

Fuck you and stick that last stupid idea of yours, up your hole!

*mods. This is clearly a joke.

Walking taff. You know I'm kidding.!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone willing to post the names of those in the clique?"

yeah right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone willing to post the names of those in the clique?

yeah right"

I've looked and can't find any names anywhere.

I even looked for the 'leader' and there's nothing.

I think the new Clique killed them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone willing to post the names of those in the clique?"

Everyone who has posted on this thread.

Except me of course

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Fuck you and stick that last stupid idea of yours, up your hole!

That'll be the most action my hole has seen this year!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone willing to post the names of those in the clique?

yeah right

I've looked and can't find any names anywhere.

I even looked for the 'leader' and there's nothing.

I think the new Clique killed them.

They're all gaffer taped up in the back of my van, I'm awaiting instructions on what to do with them

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Golly gosh I have been back on the forums a few weeks after my fanatical. This is the first C thread.

There are people , like myself who regularly post on the forums. I ad a wonderful warm welcome from friends old and new.

OP , just go with the flow , enjoy the site . That's what I do . Make some new chums and if your lucky like I have been you may meet a few splendidly spitting people .

Totally agree although you can keep the spitting - each to their own

Whoops boiling autocarrot spiffing lol not spitting that would be awful lol

What about the fanatical,what's that then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck you and stick that last stupid idea of yours, up your hole!

That'll be the most action my hole has seen this year!

I'm Glad I helped out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Golly gosh I have been back on the forums a few weeks after my fanatical. This is the first C thread.

There are people , like myself who regularly post on the forums. I ad a wonderful warm welcome from friends old and new.

OP , just go with the flow , enjoy the site . That's what I do . Make some new chums and if your lucky like I have been you may meet a few splendidly spitting people .

Totally agree although you can keep the spitting - each to their own

Whoops boiling autocarrot spiffing lol not spitting that would be awful lol

What about the fanatical,what's that then?

Whoops I should review my posts , fabbatical lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone willing to post the names of those in the clique?

yeah right

I've looked and can't find any names anywhere.

I even looked for the 'leader' and there's nothing.

I think the new Clique killed them.

They're all gaffer taped up in the back of my van, I'm awaiting instructions on what to do with them

Are you sure that was the clique? And not just kidnapped your hotlist?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone willing to post the names of those in the clique?

yeah right"

Didn't someone recently post a list o names and then left the site, but the list was removed?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone willing to post the names of those in the clique?

Everyone who has posted on this thread.

And me of course

Fify.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone willing to post the names of those in the clique?

Everyone who has posted on this thread.

And me of course

Fify.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I rarely use it as it is a clique of mostly over opionated people on the rare occasion there is something worth reading it usually gets spoilt

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I have to admit to having a lady wank over certain big words. I think I'm in the clique.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone willing to post the names of those in the clique?

yeah right

I've looked and can't find any names anywhere.

I even looked for the 'leader' and there's nothing.

I think the new Clique killed them.

They're all gaffer taped up in the back of my van, I'm awaiting instructions on what to do with them

Are you sure that was the clique? And not just kidnapped your hotlist?

Shhhhhhhh

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Ooooh do I get to be in the clique or am I an outcast now?

Well said that girl of the dirty variety!

Move on folks really! Surely there are better things to be doing on a Tuesday morning!?

Personally I'm off to meet a new lovely for a social as a prelude to filthy sex.... As sex is what I'm actually here for! (I know you're all shocked!

)

Have a great day clique or otherwise!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

An observation.....people who spend a considerable amount of time in the forums, who want to be popular & be 'friends' with all and sundry gravitate to others of a similar nature. A group is formed as they all have a vested interest in keeping it going.

A clique isn't necessarily a bad thing but it can make those that don't want to sign up to the ideal feel sidelined at times.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone willing to post the names of those in the clique?

yeah right

Didn't someone recently post a list o names and then left the site, but the list was removed?"

Yes, the thread ran for a while before being removed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What have I missed?

I opted to drive half the length of the country and get my bottom fucked by a team of black men in Chams instead of posting rubbish for a change. (Boasting

)

What I miss?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love big breasts and curves and plus size ladies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ooooh do I get to be in the clique or am I an outcast now?

Here, have a thumb

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By *iver2015Woman over a year ago

middlesbrough

Do the people in the clique know that they're in it or do they think they're outsiders?

If they all think they're outsiders then does the clique really exist?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What have I missed?

I opted to drive half the length of the country and get my bottom fucked by a team of black men in Chams instead of posting rubbish for a change. (Boasting

)

What I miss?

Ooh lucky you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ooooh do I get to be in the clique or am I an outcast now?

Well said that girl of the dirty variety!

Move on folks really! Surely there are better things to be doing on a Tuesday morning!?

Personally I'm off to meet a new lovely for a social as a prelude to filthy sex.... As sex is what I'm actually here for! (I know you're all shocked!

)

Have a great day clique or otherwise!

I missed the original post of this.

And that says something.

We make freinds and immediately notice people we become familiar with.

I like it to 'making new friends'.

But, have I got anything better to do than enjoy some banter? No.

and these clique threads are hillarious. I get to see how people act. And don't we all enjoy getting to know people here?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

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By *iberatedPairCouple over a year ago

Suffolk

Go find a hobby. Or learn not to be so paranoid.

I feel for you if this is how you think.

If said clique does exist. I am deeply sorry I have offended you. Feel free to message is and you can come around and discuss over a cup of tea like to civilised adults.

( shakes his head as he has a busy day at work and just cannot believe people think this way )

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What have I missed?

I opted to drive half the length of the country and get my bottom fucked by a team of black men in Chams instead of posting rubbish for a change. (Boasting

)

What I miss?

Ooh lucky you

I know

Boasting black man's bitch. That's me.

Soooo. This clique.... who dares to talk of the forum inner circle?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do the people in the clique know that they're in it or do they think they're outsiders?

If they all think they're outsiders then does the clique really exist? "

Too deep for me!

*you won't here me say that again

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

Send it to me too! /curious if I made the cut!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ffs!

Been here under various guises for 8 years.

Post or don't post. No one really cares!

Except when you openly call someone a cunt- then the mods care pretty fast!

Grow up and suck it up- tread it like a kids playground and you can't go far wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes the forums have there clique gang and its a bit like being back at school

I just join in a thread if i have a mind to and often my comment will be ignored and i bothered nope i enjoy the forums love the banter end of"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

Send it to me too! /curious if I made the cut!

Ooooppps. Sssshhhhh.

Teacher approaching

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

She was, 'er over there, him definitely. Oh and they are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is the only clique where members have no idea they're part of it...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

Send it to me too! /curious if I made the cut!

Me too... I want to be nosey and judgemental!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh who gives a shite, really. Get over it.

Also, no one gets a permanent ban because of one or two reports from "the clique". More like a sustained and targeted campaign of cuntiness that's been witnessed by the mods.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

Send it to me too! /curious if I made the cut!

Ooooppps. Sssshhhhh.

Teacher approaching

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bbbbrrrrrr.

This heater in my chameleons guest room is losing the battle this morning.

Rachael changes subject while the teacher's hanging around.

Did I mention all those black guys and my pleasantly sore bottom?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bbbbrrrrrr.

This heater in my chameleons guest room is losing the battle this morning.

Rachael changes subject while the teacher's hanging around.

Did I mention all those black guys and my pleasantly sore bottom?

Like a dinosaur?

Megasaurarse?

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By *emplarWarriorMan over a year ago

Nottingham

"Oh who gives a shite, really. Get over it.

Also, no one gets a permanent ban because of one or two reports from "the clique". More like a sustained and targeted campaign of cuntiness that's been witnessed by the mods. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh who gives a shite, really. Get over it.

Also, no one gets a permanent ban because of one or two reports from "the clique". More like a sustained and targeted campaign of cuntiness that's been witnessed by the mods. "

'Cuntiness'

Great word, think I'll campaign for it's addition to the Oxford

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bbbbrrrrrr.

This heater in my chameleons guest room is losing the battle this morning.

Rachael changes subject while the teacher's hanging around.

Did I mention all those black guys and my pleasantly sore bottom?

Like a dinosaur?

Megasaurarse?

Yep. Just like a dinosaur

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Has she gone yet?

Rachael peeps out from under the duvet. Looks around.

Oooo

careful with that thing. It nearly went up my botty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh who gives a shite, really. Get over it.

Also, no one gets a permanent ban because of one or two reports from "the clique". More like a sustained and targeted campaign of cuntiness that's been witnessed by the mods. "

Who gives a shit?

Some do....some don't!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

Send it to me too! /curious if I made the cut!

I never said that!

. I can't remember myself who made the cut

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

She was, 'er over there, him definitely. Oh and they are."

You were on it wasn't you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

She was, 'er over there, him definitely. Oh and they are.

You were on it wasn't you

No, I distinctly remember we weren't and it still PISSES ME OFF to this day!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

She was, 'er over there, him definitely. Oh and they are.

You were on it wasn't you

No, I distinctly remember we weren't and it still PISSES ME OFF to this day!

Me neither,you do realise all the best people weren't on it don't you

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

She was, 'er over there, him definitely. Oh and they are.

You were on it wasn't you

No, I distinctly remember we weren't and it still PISSES ME OFF to this day!

Yeah but who made the list... don't they know who we are?!

*flicks hair*

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

There is a perception of a clique. In reality if you look at the posts of frequent posters, many don't agree with each other, lots dont meet. Some do agree with each other and do meet.

Post whatever you like. People who disagree with you or take offence, you won't want to meet anyway.

The fear factor of posting and being 'shot down' is just that, a fear factor. Just go for it and use the forum how you like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is a perception of a clique. In reality if you look at the posts of frequent posters, many don't agree with each other, lots dont meet. Some do agree with each other and do meet.

Post whatever you like. People who disagree with you or take offence, you won't want to meet anyway.

The fear factor of posting and being 'shot down' is just that, a fear factor. Just go for it and use the forum how you like."

This gets a

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol @ the clique aka sheep

Baaaaa baaaaa

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No matter where you go on line or in real life there will be people who know each other. They have been on longer or are more active.

I don't think its a clique or people trying to exclude others.

For the most part new posters are welcomed.

Its like everything in life.. it is what you make it.

Yes, some people may post very strong views and others may be sensitive to them. However its an adult site so not really the place for people who are easily shocked or offended.

Jump in,join in and stick to some basic principles of treating others as you wish to be treated and you won't go far wrong.

Oh and don't take it too seriously.. its an internet forum not real life.

New posters are welcomed? My arse are they.

There is a reason these threads are more and common and there's a reason why some posters get incredibly defensive about them. "

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't know who the clique are and we really don't care who they are.

We certainly ain't part of it and would never wish to be.

Same in virtual life as real life really.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

She was, 'er over there, him definitely. Oh and they are.

You were on it wasn't you

No, I distinctly remember we weren't and it still PISSES ME OFF to this day!

I wasn't on it either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is a perception of a clique. In reality if you look at the posts of frequent posters, many don't agree with each other, lots dont meet. Some do agree with each other and do meet.

Post whatever you like. People who disagree with you or take offence, you won't want to meet anyway.

The fear factor of posting and being 'shot down' is just that, a fear factor. Just go for it and use the forum how you like."

When I was new I used to have the fear factor of being shot down, if was fairly brutal a few years ago.

Now I don't give a shit & say what I want albeit in a reasonable way. If you want to meet me then at least you'll know the real me, not a sweetened up version.

and you're only as popular as the next person on here, Fabs is a fickle place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

She was, 'er over there, him definitely. Oh and they are.

You were on it wasn't you

No, I distinctly remember we weren't and it still PISSES ME OFF to this day!

I wasn't on it either

Keep telling me who wasn't on it. I can whittle it down to who was.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

She was, 'er over there, him definitely. Oh and they are.

You were on it wasn't you

No, I distinctly remember we weren't and it still PISSES ME OFF to this day!

Me neither,you do realise all the best people weren't on it don't you

I saw a copy of the list and I think all the best people WERE on it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

She was, 'er over there, him definitely. Oh and they are.

You were on it wasn't you

No, I distinctly remember we weren't and it still PISSES ME OFF to this day!

I wasn't on it either

We're outcasts

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"No matter where you go on line or in real life there will be people who know each other. They have been on longer or are more active.

I don't think its a clique or people trying to exclude others.

For the most part new posters are welcomed.

Its like everything in life.. it is what you make it.

Yes, some people may post very strong views and others may be sensitive to them. However its an adult site so not really the place for people who are easily shocked or offended.

Jump in,join in and stick to some basic principles of treating others as you wish to be treated and you won't go far wrong.

Oh and don't take it too seriously.. its an internet forum not real life.

New posters are welcomed? My arse are they.

There is a reason these threads are more and common and there's a reason why some posters get incredibly defensive about them.

Agreed!"

So should the frequent posters not post? Or joke with their virtual and real friends?

I agree jumping on people does happen, and that comes from all quarters, not just regulars.

Why does it matter if a regular posts on a thread? Just answer the post you want to answer and ignore the hijack posts.

Everybody makes the forum.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"An observation.....people who spend a considerable amount of time in the forums, who want to be popular & be 'friends' with all and sundry gravitate to others of a similar nature. A group is formed as they all have a vested interest in keeping it going.

A clique isn't necessarily a bad thing but it can make those that don't want to sign up to the ideal feel sidelined at times.

Exactly - it's a bit cliquey here. So what! !!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Someone wait for the mods to go offline

then stick the list up again,I can't remember who was on it

She was, 'er over there, him definitely. Oh and they are.

You were on it wasn't you

No, I distinctly remember we weren't and it still PISSES ME OFF to this day!

Me neither,you do realise all the best people weren't on it don't you

I saw a copy of the list and I think all the best people WERE on it

Cheeky,they so weren't!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is definitely a group that stick together on here. I've even had one PM asking me not to say anything in disagreement against one member or they get very upset. I'll say what I like.

I was blocked en masse last Valentines Day of all days for saying I hoped that any unhappily single people would find someone to share Valentines with next time around.

I remember that, you really hit a nerve there.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't believe in cliques. I was told a while ago that I had made 'that' list which I was surprised about because I'm mostly ignored, plus, I don't remember filling in any forms

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As the sun sets on yet another highly entertaining click thread

, let's have the plastics back where they belong, the geeks in their corner, the emos in their coffins, the jocks can go back to preening themselves, the fuglies in their boxes, and the teachers can all feck off.

PS, it was a deliberate typo for shitty comedy effect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't believe in cliques. I was told a while ago that I had made 'that' list which I was surprised about because I'm mostly ignored, plus, I don't remember filling in any forms

I've a form for you here to sign! It is legally binding.

*Don't read the small print please.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is the thread where people get banned, right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cake, Hariono, or popcorn anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never allowed my self to feel included ,,,,,,never allowed myself to feel excluded, never felt intimidated ..... never felt like an outsider ,,,,, just float in float out doing my own thing ....

The truth being I've been coming too the lounge longer than most and over that time witnessed 1000's of regular posters come go, but I've never seen the formation of a permanent clique....... so basically unless you can top that with hard evidence all you clique mongers are talking utter bollix .....

In your faces

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"...here we go again...

*yawns, and wanders off in search of tea... two sugars if the kettles on please,

Of course...

And some ginger cake please...."

Would that be stem ginger, or sticky ginger cake?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We took this down in 6 hrs. Cool

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"This is a post where we all can sit around the table and talk about the fab clique.

You won't get squirted at or even black balled so speak out.Name them.

You would get banned though.

To your OP , I would be the first to say sometimes the forum isn't a welcoming place but in the main it can be fun and a minefield of information.

To other comments, it wouldn't matter how many people report a post, unless it broke rules you wouldn't get a ban.The reports don't go to the mods and the mods are not encouraged to have people mailing them about the forum. If they do get mail the mods steer people to Admin themselves. That way the mods shouldn't be accused of what was implied further up.

I just saw a good piece of advice on another thread where the people left, it might be apt for this as I think people do take things too seriously.

Lighten up you can't spend your entire lives being angry with everyone who has an opinion that's not yours.

Open your minds and your hearts life is too short

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