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Tell me the truth, I won't take offence
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok I'll be brutally honest if that's what you want.
That sounds like hard work to me. I'm just a simple boy and I'd be too afraid to say something that could be interpreted slightly wrong and out of context and then get the full volley of verbals 
Which is a shame as your pics look damn hot!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I'll be brutally honest if that's what you want.
That sounds like hard work to me. I'm just a simple boy and I'd be too afraid to say something that could be interpreted slightly wrong and out of context and then get the full volley of verbals
Which is a shame as your pics look damn hot!
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if you keep saying you are simple often enough, people might start believing you   |
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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Ok I'll be brutally honest if that's what you want.
That sounds like hard work to me. I'm just a simple boy and I'd be too afraid to say something that could be interpreted slightly wrong and out of context and then get the full volley of verbals
Which is a shame as your pics look damn hot!
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Don't get my wrong, I'm lovely but when someone messages me asking for an honest opinion on something then I'll give it and I don't expect sulking in return. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!
Ya get me? "
Even with your husband? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I'll be brutally honest if that's what you want.
That sounds like hard work to me. I'm just a simple boy and I'd be too afraid to say something that could be interpreted slightly wrong and out of context and then get the full volley of verbals
Which is a shame as your pics look damn hot!
Don't get my wrong, I'm lovely but when someone messages me asking for an honest opinion on something then I'll give it and I don't expect sulking in return. "
So, it was a statement, not a request. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!
Ya get me?
Even with your husband?
I'm not married "
But you're in a relationship, are you brutally honest with them. |
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Out of curiosity, why has this turned into a snide-fest at the OP? Admittedly I've never really understood forum politics ever since the old days of free WAP on o2 and the unbridled hostility deeply ingrained in the various mobile chat sites, but lurking around here I always got the impression she was pretty much in with the in crowd.  |
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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago
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Quit getting your knickers in a twist (those who're banging on about my partner). I was honest to someone who asked me to be. He then went in a mood over it. That's the whole premise. If you'd like to know the ins and outs of my private life then tough titties. I'm not offended by your comments, I can just see the same one being rolled out by someone else until I reference it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quit getting your knickers in a twist (those who're banging on about my partner). I was honest to someone who asked me to be. He then went in a mood over it. That's the whole premise. If you'd like to know the ins and outs of my private life then tough titties. I'm not offended by your comments, I can just see the same one being rolled out by someone else until I reference it.
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You should have made that clear in your OP. I'm indifferent about what happened. It's not really thread worthy in my opinion, but then I post some utter crap myself. You're honesty to him pissed him off. Worse things can happen in life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often find that those that use the term 'brutally honest' have a tendency to use that as way of being cruel and callous. There's a way of being honest without brutality being involved |
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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I often find that those that use the term 'brutally honest' have a tendency to use that as way of being cruel and callous. There's a way of being honest without brutality being involved"
Well I wasn't that ok? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often find that those that use the term 'brutally honest' have a tendency to use that as way of being cruel and callous. There's a way of being honest without brutality being involved
Well I wasn't that ok? "
Here, have a snickers |
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By *iver2015 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I often find that those that use the term 'brutally honest' have a tendency to use that as way of being cruel and callous. There's a way of being honest without brutality being involved
Well I wasn't that ok?
Here, have a snickers"
Can I have a flake instead? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!
Ya get me?
Even with your husband?
I'm not married "
Well you're obviously not brutally honest with whoever you're in a relationship with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quit getting your knickers in a twist (those who're banging on about my partner). I was honest to someone who asked me to be. He then went in a mood over it. That's the whole premise. If you'd like to know the ins and outs of my private life then tough titties. I'm not offended by your comments, I can just see the same one being rolled out by someone else until I reference it.
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Ah I see I should have known. 
"Fab-book". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This op makes my head hurt and confuzzles me therefore I am starting to get a bit pissed off with it
And if brutally honest is what the op wants, then I think she has body odour and yes, her bum probably does look big in that!
Lash away with that sharp oral protrusion! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off.
Hold tight... the new forum fatty haters are in the building"
. Hahahaaaa yes I thought that too (Kat) xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off.
Hold tight... the new forum fatty haters are in the building. Hahahaaaa yes I thought that too (Kat) xx"
Just pretend you can't see them, and maybe they'll go away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off.
Hold tight... the new forum fatty haters are in the building"
I think you'll find they've been here for a while  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I join in? Fat people piss me the fuck off.
Hold tight... the new forum fatty haters are in the building. Hahahaaaa yes I thought that too (Kat) xx
Just pretend you can't see them, and maybe they'll go away "
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"I'm so glad I'm not the only one who says it as it is x "
No one says it as it is. They can only say things as they see it. Or lie. Which most graceless, egotistical, socially inept folk pass off as honesty. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm so glad I'm not the only one who says it as it is x
No one says it as it is. They can only say things as they see it. Or lie. Which most graceless, egotistical, socially inept folk pass off as honesty. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe in honesty, but I also believe in sprinkling a little sugar on top. I'd prefer to be kind honest, rather than brutally honest. "
I agree with that. In all honesty, people who are mean and dress it up as being honest, just annoy me. Fair enough, if someone has asked for complete honesty, then you should give it, but you can still be diplomatic... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup I get told I'm brutal an blunt a lot, I see it as being honest. I'm not going to say what they want to hear, or sugar coat it, I'll say what they've asked for in the way it needs to be said. If they take offence then that's their problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy once messaged me picking apart my grammar on my profile. I gave him a bit of a round of it, calmed down and saw he had a point (albeit a very small one). We had been chatting really well up until that point so I took it on the chin and apologized for the tirade. I now see him (and his super awesome gf) regularly and I'm probably the happiest I've been in a long while. And to think, I could have missed out on all of that, based on one snap judgement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A little sugar on top works for me
Liking the new avatar
More to come over the next couple of weeks
Oooh nice! I'll look forward to seeing them "
Not as much as I look forward to whatever you add to your portfolio  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe in honesty, but I also believe in sprinkling a little sugar on top. I'd prefer to be kind honest, rather than brutally honest.
I agree with that. In all honesty, people who are mean and dress it up as being honest, just annoy me. Fair enough, if someone has asked for complete honesty, then you should give it, but you can still be diplomatic..."
Very true. I wouldn't want to hurt someone's feelings. There's a way to say something truthful, without having to make the other person feel bad about themselves . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you like Nutella ?
On fruity Ryvita? It's a thing of wonder
You eat fruity Ryvita? You've just gone down in my estimation young Sir. "
Nutella and freshly sliced Tiger baguette |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Challenge accepted
A person can be honest with grace and empathy, or they can ride roughshod over others and call it 'being honest'. Its best to work out the difference early."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A guy once messaged me picking apart my grammar on my profile. I gave him a bit of a round of it, calmed down and saw he had a point (albeit a very small one). We had been chatting really well up until that point so I took it on the chin and apologized for the tirade. I now see him (and his super awesome gf) regularly and I'm probably the happiest I've been in a long while. And to think, I could have missed out on all of that, based on one snap judgement. "
Always suspected grammar correction made the ladys moist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok time out.....what the hell is this thread about......Nutella......sharp tongued northern birds or people not liking us fatties???"
All of the above? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok time out.....what the hell is this thread about......Nutella......sharp tongued northern birds or people not liking us fatties???"
Nutella its so much nicer |
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"Challenge accepted
A person can be honest with grace and empathy, or they can ride roughshod over others and call it 'being honest'. Its best to work out the difference early.
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+1 it takes guts to be gentle and kind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!
Ya get me?
Yes I do."
Can you explain it to me then? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!
Ya get me?
Yes I do.
Can you explain it to me then?"
Ssssh, I was just making pretend...
How are you my forum friend?.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!
Ya get me?
Yes I do.
Can you explain it to me then?
Ssssh, I was just making pretend...
How are you my forum friend?.. "
I'm good thanks.....you? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!
Ya get me?
Yes I do.
Can you explain it to me then?
Ssssh, I was just making pretend...
How are you my forum friend?..
I'm good thanks.....you?"
Good thanks..had a busy day in the forums, really must get a hobby.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a brutally honest, Northern bird with a sharp tongue. Unless you truly want what you've asked for then don't ask for it!
Ya get me?
Yes I do.
Can you explain it to me then?
Ssssh, I was just making pretend...
How are you my forum friend?..
I'm good thanks.....you?
Good thanks..had a busy day in the forums, really must get a hobby.. "
There's always the chat rooms too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Friends would say I'm brutally honest, I'd just say I was honest but I only give it when I'm asked directly my opinion on something. I expect the same in return, I prefer to know everything about anything even if it's bad or upsetting. I don't like being caught off guard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you like Nutella ?
On fruity Ryvita? It's a thing of wonder
You eat fruity Ryvita? You've just gone down in my estimation young Sir. "
Perfect snack madam. I defy you to try it and not be delighted.
Alternative being chilli Ryvita and peanut butter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Challenge accepted
A person can be honest with grace and empathy, or they can ride roughshod over others and call it 'being honest'. Its best to work out the difference early."
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