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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Send a message and it be ignored/deleted or send a message and get that reply of not my type?
I'm thinking I'd rather I was ignored as it saves me then pondering about why I wasn't their type. Don't worry people of fab I don't respond asking for clarification why I'm not their type and I only ponder for 5 minutes  . I try to avoid pointless message ping pong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I appreciate women and couples get a lot if messages on here. At times a little constructive criticism wouldn't go a miss. Personally I prefer a thanks but no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm indifferent! I do appreciate it when people respond to say 'thanks but no thanks' and I've had some really nice rejections! 
But I also understand why people do the delete or ignore thing too so it doesn't really bother me either way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely send messages anymore, unless it is related to something he/she/they said in the forum, ir if I really fancy the woman. Otherwise I don't message first, it avoids me to ponder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we don't actually get a lot of messages.
We're usually the ones to initiate contact, and we'd rather not log in to a bunch of thanks but no thanks messages.
We're not into feedback, we are what we are and we're not about to change ourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd rather a reply.
I can then gauge how many warm people are in here as opposed to cold side if ignoring people.
Ignore = not interested. I get it it. But it's still a colder answer than "no thanks".  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would rather neither... lol... but in the real world I do recognise that it's mostly one or the other and I would suppose I would prefer a "thanks but no thanks" reply, that's what I send out when I get messages from guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I appreciate women and couples get a lot if messages on here. At times a little constructive criticism wouldn't go a miss. Personally I prefer a thanks but no thanks. "
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