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"i'd never expect anyone to want to fuck me and get stroppy if they didn't want to, so i'm better than people like that." was just about to say this...or something very similar.. I do know at least 1 person that has a massive superiority complex ...its the reason we fell out | |||
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"I don't think I am, I know I am better than some people on here. " Have to agree | |||
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"I don't think I am, I know I am better than some people on here. " So you know these people then do you? You're looking for sex, like everyone else. Why are you better than anyone else? | |||
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"Depends on the context. I think Fabs is a fairly even playing field so I would say I'm better than some & not as good as some others." Better in what context? | |||
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"I don't think I am, I know I am better than some people on here. " Same here. There are as many cretins as there are nice people on the site. | |||
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"I don't think I am, I know I am better than some people on here. So you know these people then do you? You're looking for sex, like everyone else. Why are you better than anyone else?" Because I've seen other people's profiles, I've spoken to people who are abusive, Ive spoken to people who clearly aren't intillectual in the slightest, I've spoken to people who take drugs (they are lowlifes) I've even met someone who had an abusive nature.......need I carry on ? | |||
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"Of course I'm bloody amazing. I'm being sarcastic in case any daft twit doesn't get sarcasm. No not at all we treat everyone the way we would want to be treated unless they are rude towards us. Well said ~Mia" | |||
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"Yes, now kneel before me, puny human " wish i had thought of this reply. | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. " I'm well aware what this site is about, thank you. | |||
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"I'm in the top 0.001% for sure" He genuinely believes this too. | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. I'm well aware what this site is about, thank you. " Oh sorry, my opinion. If you don't like it, you don't have to comment. | |||
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"No, but the longer I'm on here the more I realise how much I don't like middle aged men, because of what comes out of their mouths. There are few exceptions. " | |||
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"I don't think I am, I know I am better than some people on here. So you know these people then do you? You're looking for sex, like everyone else. Why are you better than anyone else? Because I've seen other people's profiles, I've spoken to people who are abusive, Ive spoken to people who clearly aren't intillectual in the slightest, I've spoken to people who take drugs (they are lowlifes) I've even met someone who had an abusive nature.......need I carry on ?" We are low lifes too some drug users. | |||
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"No, but the longer I'm on here the more I realise how much I don't like middle aged men, because of what comes out of their mouths. There are few exceptions. " I said a few exceptions | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. " By that reckoning we all piss and we all shit. That doesn't make us all equal. I consider myself (ourselves) better than many for all sorts of reasons in much the same way that I admire others for things I could only dream of. | |||
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"No, but the longer I'm on here the more I realise how much I don't like middle aged men, because of what comes out of their mouths. There are few exceptions. I said a few exceptions " | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. By that reckoning we all piss and we all shit. That doesn't make us all equal. I consider myself (ourselves) better than many for all sorts of reasons in much the same way that I admire others for things I could only dream of." | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. By that reckoning we all piss and we all shit. That doesn't make us all equal. I consider myself (ourselves) better than many for all sorts of reasons in much the same way that I admire others for things I could only dream of." OK, so why are you better than others on here? | |||
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"Depends on the context. I think Fabs is a fairly even playing field so I would say I'm better than some & not as good as some others." This. I'm the first to admit that sometimes I look at people and think well I'm not that bad. Its a self preservation thing. That said there are other times I feel pretty crap about myself because I'll never look as good as some others. Its just the same as anything in life really. | |||
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"Good to see why it was such a good question... examples of good and bad dotted all around now... oh well... fuck it lol" Those examples are only your opinion. Others' may differ. | |||
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"I must admit I don't get abusive messages on here or if I do, it's very rare. Maybe that's a factor in thinking you're better than others?" I get men being abusive when I reject them. But I have high standards and if they don't match them then I won't meet them. I'm well aware some people may not have the high standards that I do. | |||
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"I do yea. I'd like to think most people who have interacted with me would think the same too. That's not being arrogant either, it's just a fact that a lot of the guys on here have set the bar really, really, really low. " Very well said. I get slated for setting my standards high but I won't lower them for anyone. | |||
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"I do yea. I'd like to think most people who have interacted with me would think the same too. That's not being arrogant either, it's just a fact that a lot of the guys on here have set the bar really, really, really low. " How have you set the bar any higher? | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. By that reckoning we all piss and we all shit. That doesn't make us all equal. I consider myself (ourselves) better than many for all sorts of reasons in much the same way that I admire others for things I could only dream of." | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. By that reckoning we all piss and we all shit. That doesn't make us all equal. I consider myself (ourselves) better than many for all sorts of reasons in much the same way that I admire others for things I could only dream of. OK, so why are you better than others on here?" There are multiple reasons and I'm about to go to bed and shag Twirl so I can't really be arsed... however to leave you with what you evidently crave... I consider my self better than the halfwit selfish fuckwits who care about nobody other than themselves. I consider myself better than the mindless wankers who regurgitate shit they hear from others with an original thought of their own. I consider myself fortunate to be about to go to bed and fuck my wife rather than spending the rest of the evening moaning about the attitudes of others. There's much more... but I'm going to bed | |||
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"I do yea. I'd like to think most people who have interacted with me would think the same too. That's not being arrogant either, it's just a fact that a lot of the guys on here have set the bar really, really, really low. Very well said. I get slated for setting my standards high but I won't lower them for anyone." How have you set your standards high? Would mine be higher if I didn't find anyone you have met attractive, or want to fuck them? | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. By that reckoning we all piss and we all shit. That doesn't make us all equal. I consider myself (ourselves) better than many for all sorts of reasons in much the same way that I admire others for things I could only dream of. OK, so why are you better than others on here? There are multiple reasons and I'm about to go to bed and shag Twirl so I can't really be arsed... however to leave you with what you evidently crave... I consider my self better than the halfwit selfish fuckwits who care about nobody other than themselves. I consider myself better than the mindless wankers who regurgitate shit they hear from others with an original thought of their own. I consider myself fortunate to be about to go to bed and fuck my wife rather than spending the rest of the evening moaning about the attitudes of others. There's much more... but I'm going to bed " I'll consider myself better because of the language you use. Ergo, I am better than you. | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. By that reckoning we all piss and we all shit. That doesn't make us all equal. I consider myself (ourselves) better than many for all sorts of reasons in much the same way that I admire others for things I could only dream of. OK, so why are you better than others on here? There are multiple reasons and I'm about to go to bed and shag Twirl so I can't really be arsed... however to leave you with what you evidently crave... I consider my self better than the halfwit selfish fuckwits who care about nobody other than themselves. I consider myself better than the mindless wankers who regurgitate shit they hear from others with an original thought of their own. I consider myself fortunate to be about to go to bed and fuck my wife rather than spending the rest of the evening moaning about the attitudes of others. There's much more... but I'm going to bed " Well said, goodnight and sleep well next to your gorgeous wife. | |||
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"Depends on the context. I think Fabs is a fairly even playing field so I would say I'm better than some & not as good as some others. Better in what context?" If you take the broader spectrum of 22000+ profiles on here ~ I know I will be better looking, funnier, intelligent than some of my counterparts ~ likewise I'll be lesser to some of them too. That's life, whether you like it or not we're not all equal. However there is no reason to treat people differently or look down on them. | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. By that reckoning we all piss and we all shit. That doesn't make us all equal. I consider myself (ourselves) better than many for all sorts of reasons in much the same way that I admire others for things I could only dream of. OK, so why are you better than others on here? There are multiple reasons and I'm about to go to bed and shag Twirl so I can't really be arsed... however to leave you with what you evidently crave... I consider my self better than the halfwit selfish fuckwits who care about nobody other than themselves. I consider myself better than the mindless wankers who regurgitate shit they hear from others with an original thought of their own. I consider myself fortunate to be about to go to bed and fuck my wife rather than spending the rest of the evening moaning about the attitudes of others. There's much more... but I'm going to bed I'll consider myself better because of the language you use. Ergo, I am better than you. " I was about to say how many swear words can a person use in a couple of sentences....you beat me to it lol | |||
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"I don't think I am, I know I am better than some people on here. So you know these people then do you? You're looking for sex, like everyone else. Why are you better than anyone else? Because I've seen other people's profiles, I've spoken to people who are abusive, Ive spoken to people who clearly aren't intillectual in the slightest, I've spoken to people who take drugs (they are lowlifes) I've even met someone who had an abusive nature.......need I carry on ?" Profiles I've found don't necessarily match the person behind it. Neither does being intellectual. Abusive people, I agree. | |||
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"I do yea. I'd like to think most people who have interacted with me would think the same too. That's not being arrogant either, it's just a fact that a lot of the guys on here have set the bar really, really, really low. How have you set the bar any higher? " By not being abusive, by not being vulgar, by not being disrespectful and by not being a liar. | |||
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"Depends on the context. I think Fabs is a fairly even playing field so I would say I'm better than some & not as good as some others. Better in what context? If you take the broader spectrum of 22000+ profiles on here ~ I know I will be better looking, funnier, intelligent than some of my counterparts ~ likewise I'll be lesser to some of them too. That's life, whether you like it or not we're not all equal. However there is no reason to treat people differently or look down on them." | |||
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"In what way? Aren't we all better and worse than eachother in different ways? " I'm still confused. Are we talking better in terms of looks, sexually, intelligence, etc? | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. By that reckoning we all piss and we all shit. That doesn't make us all equal. I consider myself (ourselves) better than many for all sorts of reasons in much the same way that I admire others for things I could only dream of. OK, so why are you better than others on here? There are multiple reasons and I'm about to go to bed and shag Twirl so I can't really be arsed... however to leave you with what you evidently crave... I consider my self better than the halfwit selfish fuckwits who care about nobody other than themselves. I consider myself better than the mindless wankers who regurgitate shit they hear from others with an original thought of their own. I consider myself fortunate to be about to go to bed and fuck my wife rather than spending the rest of the evening moaning about the attitudes of others. There's much more... but I'm going to bed I'll consider myself better because of the language you use. Ergo, I am better than you. I was about to say how many swear words can a person use in a couple of sentences....you beat me to it lol" Standards are all subjective. I may feel strongly attracted to someone, you may not and vice versa. Does that make our standards higher, or different? | |||
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"Depends on the context. I think Fabs is a fairly even playing field so I would say I'm better than some & not as good as some others. Better in what context? If you take the broader spectrum of 22000+ profiles on here ~ I know I will be better looking, funnier, intelligent than some of my counterparts ~ likewise I'll be lesser to some of them too. That's life, whether you like it or not we're not all equal. However there is no reason to treat people differently or look down on them." I disagree..murderers, paedophiles, rapists, drug dealers...I most certainly am not equal to all people. | |||
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"Depends on the context. I think Fabs is a fairly even playing field so I would say I'm better than some & not as good as some others. Better in what context? If you take the broader spectrum of 22000+ profiles on here ~ I know I will be better looking, funnier, intelligent than some of my counterparts ~ likewise I'll be lesser to some of them too. Fair and honest comment That's life, whether you like it or not we're not all equal. However there is no reason to treat people differently or look down on them. I disagree..murderers, paedophiles, rapists, drug dealers...I most certainly am not equal to all people." | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. I'm well aware what this site is about, thank you. Oh sorry, my opinion. If you don't like it, you don't have to comment." Isn't this thread you stating you are better than those who think they are better than others? If it isn't it wouldn't be an issue that would anger you. I know for fact that I am the only me on here. I am therefore better than anyone trying to be me on here. My 100% me could do with improving, none of us is perfect (even the awesome ones). I will be judged as inferior by others for some things and others will think I am better than them for other things. Then there are those that think I'm up my arse because I don't agree with their world _iew and I say so. Or because I use a wide ranging vocabulary and don't like to dumb down my language just because others think I should that I am trying to be superior. People are being judgemental all the time. It's the way it is. | |||
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"I don't think I am, I know I am better than some people on here. So you know these people then do you? You're looking for sex, like everyone else. Why are you better than anyone else? Because I've seen other people's profiles, I've spoken to people who are abusive, Ive spoken to people who clearly aren't intillectual in the slightest, I've spoken to people who take drugs (they are lowlifes) I've even met someone who had an abusive nature.......need I carry on ? Profiles I've found don't necessarily match the person behind it. Neither does being intellectual. Abusive people, I agree. " Ah, so you're suddenly changing your mind....interesting..... | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. " Why does it make you furious? That's a pretty heightened emotion to have on a site like this. | |||
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"Yes, it takes hard work to have a 6pack " But it's well worth the work by what i can see | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. Why does it make you furious? That's a pretty heightened emotion to have on a site like this." Very valid point. | |||
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"Yes, it takes hard work to have a 6pack But it's well worth the work by what i can see " Thanks and yes it is. I like your pic as well there, very nice | |||
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"Yes, it takes hard work to have a 6pack But it's well worth the work by what i can see Thanks and yes it is. I like your pic as well there, very nice " Oh you make me blush | |||
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"Well, I am English so that automatically makes me better than any foreigner on here but I do consider myself no more or less better than fellow countrymen." How does being English automatically make you better than any foreigner? | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. " sounds like you been on the cooking sherry. Yes i do think im better than some. Get over it | |||
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"Some on here think they are but I'm not one of them x" | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. sounds like you been on the cooking sherry. Yes i do think im better than some. Get over it" | |||
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"Yes, it takes hard work to have a 6pack But it's well worth the work by what i can see Thanks and yes it is. I like your pic as well there, very nice Oh you make me blush " Nice. I am sending 3 virtual kisses xxx | |||
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"This is thread is making my brain hurt! "Better" is so subjective, its unmeasurable. I cant tell if I'm too d*unk or too sober to understand why people are getting all worked up about something so meaningless." People on Fab can get worked up over fresh air though. | |||
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"Yes, it takes hard work to have a 6pack But it's well worth the work by what i can see Thanks and yes it is. I like your pic as well there, very nice Oh you make me blush Nice. I am sending 3 virtual kisses xxx " Just 3 kisses ? | |||
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"Well, I am English so that automatically makes me better than any foreigner on here but I do consider myself no more or less better than fellow countrymen. How does being English automatically make you better than any foreigner?" It makes him better because he would rather castrate himself than show any emotion and he has a copy of the daily mail stuck up his ass. And I hope he has a sense of humour.... | |||
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"Absolutely not better than anyone on here. I've been surprised by men who I thought would be out of me league have me hotlisted Fab attention is just that lol" Dunno why that could be | |||
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"Well, I am English so that automatically makes me better than any foreigner on here but I do consider myself no more or less better than fellow countrymen. How does being English automatically make you better than any foreigner?" Not just foreigners, aliens too. Of course England is better than everyone else, that's why we are in the middle of the map. | |||
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"Yes I probably do...but is there anything wrong with valuing yourself? I judge people and I'm pretty sure they judge me, but I still treat others how I'd like to be treated. " Nothing wrong at all. | |||
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"Yes, it takes hard work to have a 6pack But it's well worth the work by what i can see Thanks and yes it is. I like your pic as well there, very nice Oh you make me blush Nice. I am sending 3 virtual kisses xxx Just 3 kisses ?" I will send you 7 more xxxxxxx | |||
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"We're all different and it's subjective what and who is better for you. Snobbery isn't attractive Imo." Being and doing are not the same. I know lots of people are better than me at giving blowjobs for instance. I can't deep throat in the first place and doing it doesn't turn me on | |||
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"We're all different and it's subjective what and who is better for you. Snobbery isn't attractive Imo. Being and doing are not the same. I know lots of people are better than me at giving blowjobs for instance. I can't deep throat in the first place and doing it doesn't turn me on " and whats that to do with anything. I dont do anal when i meet someone, whoopy do thats why its a swinging site, theres enough people for a variety of things. If you want to concentrate on negatives thats your own problem. | |||
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"Everyone sees themselves as the good guy in the story that is their life. Do you think Hitler thought we was the most evil guy in the world? No of course he didn't, he thought he was right, and everything he did was reasonable and logical in his mind, it was just all the other people who were nuts. Its perfectly natural and normal to think you are "better" than other people, otherwise your self esteem would be so low you wouldn't get out of bed. We are all constantly judging people and comparing ourselves, judging on the type of car people drive, or the type of crisps that they eat, or their hair cut, or the clothes they wear, or the job they do, or how they talk, or how their kids behave, or what paper they read or a million other tiny things. " Or how others think they're better than some. | |||
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"No of course not but i'm aware because of how i look some may think i might think i am. We are all the same under the shadow of the sun so respect our fellow man we are equals " "British are slutty trash no class on the whole." Don't you mean we are all the same under the shadow of the sun ... unless we are British? | |||
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"Everyone sees themselves as the good guy in the story that is their life. Do you think Hitler thought we was the most evil guy in the world? No of course he didn't, he thought he was right, and everything he did was reasonable and logical in his mind, it was just all the other people who were nuts. Its perfectly natural and normal to think you are "better" than other people, otherwise your self esteem would be so low you wouldn't get out of bed. We are all constantly judging people and comparing ourselves, judging on the type of car people drive, or the type of crisps that they eat, or their hair cut, or the clothes they wear, or the job they do, or how they talk, or how their kids behave, or what paper they read or a million other tiny things. Or how others think they're better than some. " My self esteem isn't low and I don't feel I'm better than anyone on here. I'm different, not better. | |||
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"Everyone sees themselves as the good guy in the story that is their life. Do you think Hitler thought we was the most evil guy in the world? No of course he didn't, he thought he was right, and everything he did was reasonable and logical in his mind, it was just all the other people who were nuts. Its perfectly natural and normal to think you are "better" than other people, otherwise your self esteem would be so low you wouldn't get out of bed. We are all constantly judging people and comparing ourselves, judging on the type of car people drive, or the type of crisps that they eat, or their hair cut, or the clothes they wear, or the job they do, or how they talk, or how their kids behave, or what paper they read or a million other tiny things. Or how others think they're better than some. My self esteem isn't low and I don't feel I'm better than anyone on here. I'm different, not better. " No? So you don't think your better than ISIS or a paedophile, or mass murderer for example? | |||
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"Everyone sees themselves as the good guy in the story that is their life. Do you think Hitler thought we was the most evil guy in the world? No of course he didn't, he thought he was right, and everything he did was reasonable and logical in his mind, it was just all the other people who were nuts. Its perfectly natural and normal to think you are "better" than other people, otherwise your self esteem would be so low you wouldn't get out of bed. We are all constantly judging people and comparing ourselves, judging on the type of car people drive, or the type of crisps that they eat, or their hair cut, or the clothes they wear, or the job they do, or how they talk, or how their kids behave, or what paper they read or a million other tiny things. Or how others think they're better than some. My self esteem isn't low and I don't feel I'm better than anyone on here. I'm different, not better. No? So you don't think your better than ISIS or a paedophile, or mass murderer for example? " philosophically nobody is. everybody has a different idea of what their purpose should be and can be. you can look down on others for their actions, it's easier to do if you don't understand what is behind those actions, which is why we look upon certain hate groups as ignorant -because they usually are. everybody has a different experience of life, different circumstances. i think myself fortunate i'm not a *whatever thing you hate here* because my life made it so i wouldn't end up like that. i had a mentality set and the circumstances for that to happen so that i didn't become *whatever shitty thing you wanna hate here*. but no, we're all the same. we're all capable of becoming *whatever someone hates*. | |||
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"Everyone sees themselves as the good guy in the story that is their life. Do you think Hitler thought we was the most evil guy in the world? No of course he didn't, he thought he was right, and everything he did was reasonable and logical in his mind, it was just all the other people who were nuts. Its perfectly natural and normal to think you are "better" than other people, otherwise your self esteem would be so low you wouldn't get out of bed. We are all constantly judging people and comparing ourselves, judging on the type of car people drive, or the type of crisps that they eat, or their hair cut, or the clothes they wear, or the job they do, or how they talk, or how their kids behave, or what paper they read or a million other tiny things. Or how others think they're better than some. My self esteem isn't low and I don't feel I'm better than anyone on here. I'm different, not better. No? So you don't think your better than ISIS or a paedophile, or mass murderer for example? " I don't know any of those who are on here. If they were, I wouldn't want to meet them because of their behaviour and character. I wouldn't think I'm better than them, although my behaviour would be. | |||
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"We're all different and it's subjective what and who is better for you. Snobbery isn't attractive Imo. Being and doing are not the same. I know lots of people are better than me at giving blowjobs for instance. I can't deep throat in the first place and doing it doesn't turn me on and whats that to do with anything. I dont do anal when i meet someone, whoopy do thats why its a swinging site, theres enough people for a variety of things. If you want to concentrate on negatives thats your own problem." I was giving a reason why I don't think I'm better at things than anyone else that's all. | |||
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"Everyone sees themselves as the good guy in the story that is their life. Do you think Hitler thought we was the most evil guy in the world? No of course he didn't, he thought he was right, and everything he did was reasonable and logical in his mind, it was just all the other people who were nuts. Its perfectly natural and normal to think you are "better" than other people, otherwise your self esteem would be so low you wouldn't get out of bed. We are all constantly judging people and comparing ourselves, judging on the type of car people drive, or the type of crisps that they eat, or their hair cut, or the clothes they wear, or the job they do, or how they talk, or how their kids behave, or what paper they read or a million other tiny things. Or how others think they're better than some. My self esteem isn't low and I don't feel I'm better than anyone on here. I'm different, not better. No? So you don't think your better than ISIS or a paedophile, or mass murderer for example? philosophically nobody is. everybody has a different idea of what their purpose should be and can be. you can look down on others for their actions, it's easier to do if you don't understand what is behind those actions, which is why we look upon certain hate groups as ignorant -because they usually are. everybody has a different experience of life, different circumstances. i think myself fortunate i'm not a *whatever thing you hate here* because my life made it so i wouldn't end up like that. i had a mentality set and the circumstances for that to happen so that i didn't become *whatever shitty thing you wanna hate here*. but no, we're all the same. we're all capable of becoming *whatever someone hates*." I bloody love your comments. You're always so clear. | |||
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"I think I have a better profile than others on this site " After my first ' night ' on here have to say horrible people but hey its over. | |||
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"I think I have a better profile than others on this site " Noce crumpets x | |||
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"Some do " In all honesty Yeh I am but then again I don't have self eestem issues. However I am realist and know that there are people on here that are better looking, better figures etc - That's life. Just cos I value my own worth doesn't mean I'm up my own arse - something which people love to throw at you if you have any confidence on here. | |||
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"Some do " I think I'm better than some people in general: don't we all? | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. " In that context I do see your point as I've often smiled at the "we have standards, "not working through the site", "quality over quantity" snooty profiles showing them the target of a ten man bukkake, cum dripping off them so they resemble a plasterers bag, close up of their ring piece as they pound away bareback while others watch...doesn't make me angry find it funny, the irony of it all. | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. " Depends what the interpretation of 'better' is - and I'd wager most of us are interpreting that slightly differently so everyone isn't commenting from exactly the same baseline. I've already said above that we all have different attributes but that doesn't make anyone better - just different. But - sitting on the fence here - is someone who accepts rejection on here gracefully better, for example, than someone who follows that up with a email full of vile abuse and insults? It's a subjective thing for sure! | |||
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"Some do " I do. I'm better than Bottleman6. | |||
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"We don't worry about other people's choices or what they do , we try to be happy and better ourselves. Encourage and help others on the way. MrsSB " | |||
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"Everyone sees themselves as the good guy in the story that is their life. Do you think Hitler thought we was the most evil guy in the world? No of course he didn't, he thought he was right, and everything he did was reasonable and logical in his mind, it was just all the other people who were nuts. Its perfectly natural and normal to think you are "better" than other people, otherwise your self esteem would be so low you wouldn't get out of bed. We are all constantly judging people and comparing ourselves, judging on the type of car people drive, or the type of crisps that they eat, or their hair cut, or the clothes they wear, or the job they do, or how they talk, or how their kids behave, or what paper they read or a million other tiny things. Or how others think they're better than some. My self esteem isn't low and I don't feel I'm better than anyone on here. I'm different, not better. No? So you don't think your better than ISIS or a paedophile, or mass murderer for example? philosophically nobody is. everybody has a different idea of what their purpose should be and can be. you can look down on others for their actions, it's easier to do if you don't understand what is behind those actions, which is why we look upon certain hate groups as ignorant -because they usually are. everybody has a different experience of life, different circumstances. i think myself fortunate i'm not a *whatever thing you hate here* because my life made it so i wouldn't end up like that. i had a mentality set and the circumstances for that to happen so that i didn't become *whatever shitty thing you wanna hate here*. but no, we're all the same. we're all capable of becoming *whatever someone hates*." | |||
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"I don't think my brand of "looking for sex" is better than anyone else's brand of looking for sex. But I do think I'm better looking, more intelligent, a better person than some I've encountered and I think that's perfectly normal." | |||
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"Depends what the interpretation of 'better' is - and I'd wager most of us are interpreting that slightly differently so everyone isn't commenting from exactly the same baseline. I've already said above that we all have different attributes but that doesn't make anyone better - just different." | |||
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"Shallow insecure attention seeking ... " Who is, OP? | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. I'm well aware what this site is about, thank you. Oh sorry, my opinion. If you don't like it, you don't have to comment." Jeeezus did Norwich lose again | |||
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"I think I have a better profile than others on this site After my first ' night ' on here have to say horrible people but hey its over. " We had a rough intro too so we get where you're coming from. Good job we were already forum savvy, seen some come, get chewed up, spat out and never return, shame really. As for the question, no we don't. We're definitely different to so many but try to match ourselves up with those with similarities in many, many aspects, whether that be meets, forum, in life, whatever. On the flip side we don't consider others to better either. | |||
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"I don't think my brand of "looking for sex" is better than anyone else's brand of looking for sex. But I do think I'm better looking, more intelligent, a better person than some I've encountered and I think that's perfectly normal." | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. I'm well aware what this site is about, thank you. Oh sorry, my opinion. If you don't like it, you don't have to comment. Isn't this thread you stating you are better than those who think they are better than others? If it isn't it wouldn't be an issue that would anger you. I know for fact that I am the only me on here. I am therefore better than anyone trying to be me on here. My 100% me could do with improving, none of us is perfect (even the awesome ones). I will be judged as inferior by others for some things and others will think I am better than them for other things. Then there are those that think I'm up my arse because I don't agree with their world _iew and I say so. Or because I use a wide ranging vocabulary and don't like to dumb down my language just because others think I should that I am trying to be superior. People are being judgemental all the time. It's the way it is. " Well stated Lickety, lady after my own heart x | |||
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"This makes me fucking furious that some on here think they are better than others. It's such bullshit. No, love, you're still on a site looking for men/women to fuck. Don't kid yourself it's any more than that. I'm well aware what this site is about, thank you. Oh sorry, my opinion. If you don't like it, you don't have to comment.Jeeezus did Norwich lose again " Hahahaha well said. could understand if it was about Football, alas, it was only about a certain playful lady x | |||
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"Better in what way ? " In many ways, as many people have posted in comments above | |||
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"Depends on the context. I think Fabs is a fairly even playing field so I would say I'm better than some & not as good as some others. Better in what context? If you take the broader spectrum of 22000+ profiles on here ~ I know I will be better looking, funnier, intelligent than some of my counterparts ~ likewise I'll be lesser to some of them too. That's life, whether you like it or not we're not all equal. However there is no reason to treat people differently or look down on them." Couldn't put it better myself xx | |||
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"I think the term 'better than' is inflammatory and divisive really. We are all different and whilst I don't always appreciate the way some people can be, I don't feel it makes me 'better' than them. We have differing standards and ways of approach that's all. " "Inflammatory and divisive"? I see it more as Aspirational, don't we all want to better ourselves? As for being English and better than, we must be or why would so many foreigners want to live here, speak our language and adopt our culture? Ps, don't read The Mail,far too alarmist, and emotions are over rated as far as I'm concerned, bit common don't you think? | |||
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""No one can make you feel inferior with your consent." - Eleanor Roosevelt I am responsible for creating the comparisons that from time to time make me feel less 'better' than others. I focus on my strengths and that is what makes me the best 'Seduced' there is. I am unique. We all are. We should remember that. " *without | |||
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"Bottom feeding scum. Morals of a sewer rat, (they're known for low morality). " That's exactly what our fishmonger said yesterday when we attempted to purchase a grey mullet, put us right off! | |||
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"Distancing myself from the fucking playground that exists here at times, with the ganging up on new posters and petty squabbles that happen. The constant need for validation and neediness.The inane popcorn comment and snuggles shite. Yes, thank fuck " Aw I love snuggles | |||
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"Distancing myself from the fucking playground that exists here at times, with the ganging up on new posters and petty squabbles that happen. The constant need for validation and neediness.The inane popcorn comment and snuggles shite. Yes, thank fuck " Omg you've muttered the S word before midday | |||
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"Distancing myself from the fucking playground that exists here at times, with the ganging up on new posters and petty squabbles that happen. The constant need for validation and neediness.The inane popcorn comment and snuggles shite. Yes, thank fuck " Sums it up for me too I don't look down on people and don't judge them bit I'm glad I don't act like a lot if the posters on here | |||
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"Some do " Some certainly do , but we certainly don't . We are exactly the same as anyone else on here , whether they be gym fit super models or any other shape , size or age . We tend not to put ourselves on a pedestal , and don't judge anyone . It may be true that we have our own standards as to who we want to meet , but that doesn't mean we think we are better than those we choose not to meet at all . | |||
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"Distancing myself from the fucking playground that exists here at times, with the ganging up on new posters and petty squabbles that happen. The constant need for validation and neediness.The inane popcorn comment and snuggles shite. Yes, thank fuck " ^^^ what he said | |||
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"Distancing myself from the fucking playground that exists here at times, with the ganging up on new posters and petty squabbles that happen. The constant need for validation and neediness.The inane popcorn comment and snuggles shite. Yes, thank fuck " What he said | |||
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"Some do " Would saying no mean, you would then be obliged to shag everyone who sent you a message. If it does,then I definitely am. | |||
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