Most single males don't get verified within in a week of joining, so you're doing well.
You get out of Fab, commensurate with what you invest: assuming that you're doing the right things and that you're attractive to others.
But some single men assume that all us women will just drop our knickers for any bloke who offers his cock. It's somewhat different to that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The verifications are from people I already knew before i joined fab lol BUT im gonna keep a positive spirit and carry on!"
Manage your expectations. Ask yourself why you are here, because this is the most important question. If your profile doesn't answer that question you won't be successful because people will just nto understand whathe your want. Now that's fine and there is a large percentage of people that use the site like that, but you have to own that.
In my opinion too many guys get baffled. They join the site wanting sex. Nothing more or less; they fail to understand that there are literally 100s of guys in their local area feeling the same. Then they come on the forum and ask for a profile critique "to improve their chances" they make a half arsed attempt to please the "saphophiles" on the forums and immediately dissuade (without knowing) 75% of the people in their area who just want sex. They have fallen at the first hurdle, their profile ends up appealing to an even smaller percentage than it did originally and now they have a bunch of "friends" who live 200+ miles away... all because they didn't understand the word "patience". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gosh its hard work on here been a single male seeking women/couples  "
Only if you let it bother you n give a shit.
I'm quite happy here with my sporadic patterns of successful meets vs dry spells.
If I found it to be hard work then that's when I'd call it a day.  |
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By *raago OP Man
over a year ago
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"Gosh its hard work on here been a single male seeking women/couples Yep I feel your pain....
Patience, and honesty is key.
But it's on a very, very long chain  "
Very, very, very long chain lol |
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