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Oh God...not another size thread
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK so it's not what your all thinking 
Just curious about general size of a person, and why some people put 'average' when they obviously are far from it.
How many of us on here are genuine in what we put on our profiles? |
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Maybe they see themselves as average. It's up to them to define themselves. I don't feel there is anything deceptive about it.
The reader can look at the pictures and decide they're not for them. Makes no odds to the persons self description. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm 6 n 1/4 inches fully hard. I'd say that puts me firmly into the 'bang average' section.
No lying on my part."
Wasn't asking about cock size... I was questioning body size.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine says fabulous. I clearly am.
The body type descriptors are subjective, and basically pointless so I'm not sure why people get so het up about which of the list of drop down options someone has chosen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many would click obese if the option was there?"
I probably would. But I'm not even convinced that many people look at the body type part, it never occurs to me to do so. That's what photos are for. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"As people have already mentioned, being 'average' is subjective. Just look at their pictures and make up your own mind. "
But what if the pictures on display are super close ups of certain parts and they do not show full body pics? Is that not false advertising of sorts?
Sometimes it is just not possible to make up your own mind based on the pictures on display......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As people have already mentioned, being 'average' is subjective. Just look at their pictures and make up your own mind.
But what if the pictures on display are super close ups of certain parts and they do not show full body pics? Is that not false advertising of sorts?
Sometimes it is just not possible to make up your own mind based on the pictures on display......
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In that situation wouldn't you make up your mind to avoid? Super close up photos of disparate body parts tell you everything you need to know. |
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"OK so it's not what your all thinking
Just curious about general size of a person, and why some people put 'average' when they obviously are far from it.
How many of us on here are genuine in what we put on our profiles? "
Your version of "average " may not be mine.
And with the changes that are happening in the population these days what you think is average may have been bigiven a few decades ago so it's not as simple as that.
I put what I'm happy with on my own profile (after all it is mine!)
If I'm in conversation with someone then I always make sure they understand what size I am. |
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"Maybe they see themselves as average. It's up to them to define themselves. I don't feel there is anything deceptive about it.
The reader can look at the pictures and decide they're not for them. Makes no odds to the persons self description. "
I agree  |
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"How many would click obese if the option was there?
I'm clinically obese. I'm a size 10. I'm 9.5 stone, but for my height I should be 7.5 stone apparently. "
So that kind of proves the BMI thing is total bollocks  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"As people have already mentioned, being 'average' is subjective. Just look at their pictures and make up your own mind.
But what if the pictures on display are super close ups of certain parts and they do not show full body pics? Is that not false advertising of sorts?
Sometimes it is just not possible to make up your own mind based on the pictures on display......
In that situation wouldn't you make up your mind to avoid? Super close up photos of disparate body parts tell you everything you need to know. "
Of course I would, I was just playing devils advocate. But we all know 'some' men don't and then complain afterwards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As people have already mentioned, being 'average' is subjective. Just look at their pictures and make up your own mind.
But what if the pictures on display are super close ups of certain parts and they do not show full body pics? Is that not false advertising of sorts?
Sometimes it is just not possible to make up your own mind based on the pictures on display......
In that situation wouldn't you make up your mind to avoid? Super close up photos of disparate body parts tell you everything you need to know.
Of course I would, I was just playing devils advocate. But we all know 'some' men don't and then complain afterwards"
Yeah, I don't have a lot of sympathy for them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there is an online test which will allow you to input some details and will give you a new nationality based on your answers; if you type in:
what country is my bmi most like...
I am Eritrean and I quite like the idea of that
I have not linked the website because I am not sure if we can link websites but its on the beeb! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I am an athelete and I see myself in the premier league with the top guys 
How does a 6 pack make you a top guy though?"
How does a 6 pack make him an athlete? Or is Shaggy a secret Olympian?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is an online test which will allow you to input some details and will give you a new nationality based on your answers; if you type in:
what country is my bmi most like...
I am Eritrean and I quite like the idea of that
I have not linked the website because I am not sure if we can link websites but its on the beeb! "
I've done that one before. I think I was Samoa or something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am an athelete and I see myself in the premier league with the top guys
How does a 6 pack make you a top guy though?"
It dont but with the same kind of body I meant lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am an athelete and I see myself in the premier league with the top guys
How does a 6 pack make you a top guy though?
How does a 6 pack make him an athlete? Or is Shaggy a secret Olympian? "
It dont but I got the same kind of stamina you know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is an online test which will allow you to input some details and will give you a new nationality based on your answers; if you type in:
what country is my bmi most like...
I am Eritrean and I quite like the idea of that
I have not linked the website because I am not sure if we can link websites but its on the beeb! "
other interesting facts (feel like I am talking to myself here... it's okay Pauly, go with it)
I have a lower BMI than 100% of males in my age group in the UK (I am not sure thats possible, unless I truly am the skinniest 41 year old in Britain, in which case I want a medal or a spot in the Guinness book of records)
I have a lower BMI than 96% of the males in my age group, globally.... wow I made the top 4% of something! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I am an athelete and I see myself in the premier league with the top guys
How does a 6 pack make you a top guy though?
How does a 6 pack make him an athlete? Or is Shaggy a secret Olympian? It dont but I got the same kind of stamina you know."
You have the same stamina as a marathon runner? You'll be in demand then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is an online test which will allow you to input some details and will give you a new nationality based on your answers; if you type in:
what country is my bmi most like...
I am Eritrean and I quite like the idea of that
I have not linked the website because I am not sure if we can link websites but its on the beeb!
I've done that one before. I think I was Samoa or something "
Found it. Yep. Samoa. And a higher BMI than 91% of women in the country. Which explains why I see hardly any people fatter than me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am an athelete and I see myself in the premier league with the top guys
How does a 6 pack make you a top guy though?
How does a 6 pack make him an athlete? Or is Shaggy a secret Olympian? It dont but I got the same kind of stamina you know.
You have the same stamina as a marathon runner? You'll be in demand then. "
lol and no, but would be fun to be an olympian, more the stamina in the gym I meant there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is an online test which will allow you to input some details and will give you a new nationality based on your answers; if you type in:
what country is my bmi most like...
I am Eritrean and I quite like the idea of that
I have not linked the website because I am not sure if we can link websites but its on the beeb!
other interesting facts (feel like I am talking to myself here... it's okay Pauly, go with it)
I have a lower BMI than 100% of males in my age group in the UK (I am not sure thats possible, unless I truly am the skinniest 41 year old in Britain, in which case I want a medal or a spot in the Guinness book of records)
I have a lower BMI than 96% of the males in my age group, globally.... wow I made the top 4% of something!"
I have a higher BMI than 96% of the women in my age group globally. I think yours is probably a better accolade than mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is an online test which will allow you to input some details and will give you a new nationality based on your answers; if you type in:
what country is my bmi most like...
I am Eritrean and I quite like the idea of that
I have not linked the website because I am not sure if we can link websites but its on the beeb!
other interesting facts (feel like I am talking to myself here... it's okay Pauly, go with it)
I have a lower BMI than 100% of males in my age group in the UK (I am not sure thats possible, unless I truly am the skinniest 41 year old in Britain, in which case I want a medal or a spot in the Guinness book of records)
I have a lower BMI than 96% of the males in my age group, globally.... wow I made the top 4% of something!
I have a higher BMI than 96% of the women in my age group globally. I think yours is probably a better accolade than mine "
we should just have sex with one another until one of us pops our clogs... put Darwins survival of the fittest to the test... |
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"I am an athelete and I see myself in the premier league with the top guys
How does a 6 pack make you a top guy though?It dont but with the same kind of body I meant lol."
I guess so, though I don't find the big 6 pack thing attractive. I like slim men so to me they are 'top' men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is an online test which will allow you to input some details and will give you a new nationality based on your answers; if you type in:
what country is my bmi most like...
I am Eritrean and I quite like the idea of that
I have not linked the website because I am not sure if we can link websites but its on the beeb!
other interesting facts (feel like I am talking to myself here... it's okay Pauly, go with it)
I have a lower BMI than 100% of males in my age group in the UK (I am not sure thats possible, unless I truly am the skinniest 41 year old in Britain, in which case I want a medal or a spot in the Guinness book of records)
I have a lower BMI than 96% of the males in my age group, globally.... wow I made the top 4% of something!
I have a higher BMI than 96% of the women in my age group globally. I think yours is probably a better accolade than mine
we should just have sex with one another until one of us pops our clogs... put Darwins survival of the fittest to the test..."
Well if it's for science...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is an online test which will allow you to input some details and will give you a new nationality based on your answers; if you type in:
what country is my bmi most like...
I am Eritrean and I quite like the idea of that
I have not linked the website because I am not sure if we can link websites but its on the beeb!
other interesting facts (feel like I am talking to myself here... it's okay Pauly, go with it)
I have a lower BMI than 100% of males in my age group in the UK (I am not sure thats possible, unless I truly am the skinniest 41 year old in Britain, in which case I want a medal or a spot in the Guinness book of records)
I have a lower BMI than 96% of the males in my age group, globally.... wow I made the top 4% of something!
I have a higher BMI than 96% of the women in my age group globally. I think yours is probably a better accolade than mine
we should just have sex with one another until one of us pops our clogs... put Darwins survival of the fittest to the test...
Well if it's for science... "
that has never worked before...... I need a defibrillator people!! I may be dead already!! something is awry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many would click obese if the option was there?"
I would. It's not like I can hide the fact I'm obese all the way through a sexual encounter. In fact for me I like to make sure they realise my pics are just from good angles to save disappointment when they actually meet me  |
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"there is an online test which will allow you to input some details and will give you a new nationality based on your answers; if you type in:
what country is my bmi most like...
I am Eritrean and I quite like the idea of that
I have not linked the website because I am not sure if we can link websites but its on the beeb!
other interesting facts (feel like I am talking to myself here... it's okay Pauly, go with it)
I have a lower BMI than 100% of males in my age group in the UK (I am not sure thats possible, unless I truly am the skinniest 41 year old in Britain, in which case I want a medal or a spot in the Guinness book of records)
I have a lower BMI than 96% of the males in my age group, globally.... wow I made the top 4% of something!"
Gorgeous body though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there is an online test which will allow you to input some details and will give you a new nationality based on your answers; if you type in:
what country is my bmi most like...
I am Eritrean and I quite like the idea of that
I have not linked the website because I am not sure if we can link websites but its on the beeb!
other interesting facts (feel like I am talking to myself here... it's okay Pauly, go with it)
I have a lower BMI than 100% of males in my age group in the UK (I am not sure thats possible, unless I truly am the skinniest 41 year old in Britain, in which case I want a medal or a spot in the Guinness book of records)
I have a lower BMI than 96% of the males in my age group, globally.... wow I made the top 4% of something!
I have a higher BMI than 96% of the women in my age group globally. I think yours is probably a better accolade than mine
we should just have sex with one another until one of us pops our clogs... put Darwins survival of the fittest to the test...
Well if it's for science...
that has never worked before...... I need a defibrillator people!! I may be dead already!! something is awry "
Does that mean I won? Woohoo! |
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"How many would click obese if the option was there?
I would. It's not like I can hide the fact I'm obese all the way through a sexual encounter. In fact for me I like to make sure they realise my pics are just from good angles to save disappointment when they actually meet me
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Me too, I always tell guys I am not slim but ever so hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this thread has gone weird.... I don't like it anymore, people are being nice....
I am so confused right now.... logging..... people this is a swinging site for the gods sake!! I am not used to people liking what they see or offering ((the sex thingy!! ))  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am an athelete and I see myself in the premier league with the top guys
How does a 6 pack make you a top guy though?It dont but with the same kind of body I meant lol.
I guess so, though I don't find the big 6 pack thing attractive. I like slim men so to me they are 'top' men "
That is good too and yes, it is all about what we like. |
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"this thread has gone weird.... I don't like it anymore, people are being nice....
I am so confused right now.... logging..... people this is a swinging site for the gods sake!! I am not used to people liking what they see or offering ((the sex thingy!! )) "
But you are soooo damn sexy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"this thread has gone weird.... I don't like it anymore, people are being nice....
I am so confused right now.... logging..... people this is a swinging site for the gods sake!! I am not used to people liking what they see or offering ((the sex thingy!! )) "
I'm keeping out of it now.... I usually get threads closed quicker than a slimfast meal can be made. |
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From my experience men tend to think better of their bodies and will put athletic or average when they might be more 'curvy'.
Size 10-14 women will put fat because they think it's better to say fat and have people tell them oh no you're not you're gorgeous.
Women size 14-18 are told by the media, the NHS and anyone else who likes to take a pot shot that they are fat. Even though they can have a perfectly in proportion, fantastic figure.
Over size 18 and we are more likely to have wobbly bits but we can still be sexy. Though we are actually fat, where the slim women claiming to be are just out for compliments or have serious body issues.
In my experience |
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"From my experience men tend to think better of their bodies and will put athletic or average when they might be more 'curvy'.
Size 10-14 women will put fat because they think it's better to say fat and have people tell them oh no you're not you're gorgeous.
Women size 14-18 are told by the media, the NHS and anyone else who likes to take a pot shot that they are fat. Even though they can have a perfectly in proportion, fantastic figure.
Over size 18 and we are more likely to have wobbly bits but we can still be sexy. Though we are actually fat, where the slim women claiming to be are just out for compliments or have serious body issues.
In my experience "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" until you meet in person you can never tell - i hold my hands up to only posting pics that make me look better 'in my eyes'
Can I still be fabulous? "
you so can miss honey xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm always really careful about this as I don't want to misrepresent my body. I've even put my dress size on my profile. As I'm 5'7, I carry it a bit better but I always send a full length picture to anyone I'm going to meet.
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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"Mine says fabulous. I clearly am.
The body type descriptors are subjective, and basically pointless so I'm not sure why people get so het up about which of the list of drop down options someone has chosen."
Could not agree more... You do have a fabulous body.
As for me. I put average, coz that's what I think my body type is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I put curvy cos I am curvy. It's just my curves are bigger then some. Think the alps compared to Snowdonia. They are all beautiful mountains. xxx
Perfectly described x"
Thank you. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's all subjective to a point. Not everyone has the same perception of slim, curvy etc.
Pictures are definitely the best way to describe body type. No one is ever going to mistake my close up massive arse picture for that of an average sized woman. I haven't had the memo to say my pictures aren't an accurate representation of what I look like yet anyway. |
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" until you meet in person you can never tell - i hold my hands up to only posting pics that make me look better 'in my eyes'
Can I still be fabulous?
you so can miss honey xxxxxx "
They didn't have elf like as an option and I can't be a hobbit as as my feet are small |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" until you meet in person you can never tell - i hold my hands up to only posting pics that make me look better 'in my eyes'
Can I still be fabulous?
you so can miss honey xxxxxx
They didn't have elf like as an option and I can't be a hobbit as as my feet are small "
Are they hairy though? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I'm currently a size 14. Statistically that probably puts me somewhere in the average category when you throw my height into the mix. However I have spent my entire life being a fat girl and being restricted in my clothing options, am still a large rather than a medium when buying online and grew up seeing much thinner women than me portrayed as average despite the actual statistics so feel like claiming my size is average might be misleading as a result. So I have pictures and not just closeups so people can make their own minds up. |
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"How many of us on here are genuine in what we put on our profiles? "
I wouldn't have the self confidence to put anything other than 'average', though in my case it's probably the most accurate. We then just let our photos give a more accurate picture (assuming everyone makes an allowance for the fact we're obviously holding our breath )
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" until you meet in person you can never tell - i hold my hands up to only posting pics that make me look better 'in my eyes'
Can I still be fabulous?
you so can miss honey xxxxxx
They didn't have elf like as an option and I can't be a hobbit as as my feet are small
Are they hairy though? "
No. I wax them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" until you meet in person you can never tell - i hold my hands up to only posting pics that make me look better 'in my eyes'
Can I still be fabulous?
you so can miss honey xxxxxx
They didn't have elf like as an option and I can't be a hobbit as as my feet are small "
I have weirdly small feet for my height!
At 5'7, my feet are a 4.5/5. I legit reckon it's why my balance is so shit! |
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"I honestly don't think I have ever looked at what people put as their body type on their profile, I simply look at the pics to see if there's an attraction"
Ditto.
One look is worth a thousand words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" until you meet in person you can never tell - i hold my hands up to only posting pics that make me look better 'in my eyes'
Can I still be fabulous?
you so can miss honey xxxxxx
They didn't have elf like as an option and I can't be a hobbit as as my feet are small "
no your feet dont flap hahahah - pretty little hobbitses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As people have already mentioned, being 'average' is subjective. Just look at their pictures and make up your own mind.
But what if the pictures on display are super close ups of certain parts and they do not show full body pics? Is that not false advertising of sorts?
Sometimes it is just not possible to make up your own mind based on the pictures on display......
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Even when full body pictures are shown it can be hard to really decide (for me) if the person has described themselves fairly. I do see some pictures where one picture is yes then on another no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The "other half" put me as ample, personally I would put me as large, I am fat, but thinner than I was, I have boobs, bum and wobbly bits, our profile states my size, I don't need a label to do that |
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