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That awkward moment
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is it awkward? This is fab; a website; they can state their preference for sexual liaisons within it....
.... a club; a social area where you meet all kinds of people both inside and outside your preferences; unless of course they hit on you; in which case they have flexible preferences.... think I might be missing something.... if you state no blacks or asians on your profile does it make you racist? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In person and in profile can be two completely different personas. I've often met people, had a wonderful time, traded fab names then struggled to reconcile that it's the same person as I would never have replied to an opening message from them.
Preferences are a funny thing though. As a smoker, I've met a few who 'won't meet smokers' and as a fat bird I've met a fee who only meet size 14 or under. They must have been desperate - or so it seems when I get home and read their profile. I don't tend to meet them a 2nd time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know when I meet people in clubs that have "no skinny bald dudes" on their profile.... I don't find it awkward... I just adjust my toupee, make sure my sumo suit is fully inflated and dive straight in.... |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"In person and in profile can be two completely different personas. I've often met people, had a wonderful time, traded fab names then struggled to reconcile that it's the same person as I would never have replied to an opening message from them.
Preferences are a funny thing though. As a smoker, I've met a few who 'won't meet smokers' and as a fat bird I've met a fee who only meet size 14 or under. They must have been desperate - or so it seems when I get home and read their profile. I don't tend to meet them a 2nd time. "
I get told I am nicer in person than my profile - obviously I have an ugly looking bum and cock 
But seriously though I am slightly different than profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know when I meet people in clubs that have "no skinny bald dudes" on their profile.... I don't find it awkward... I just adjust my toupee, make sure my sumo suit is fully inflated and dive straight in...."
I never ask someone their age when at a club either, they could alter that to suit, but it's a preference that is flexible and just there to limit messages (when I allow them). In person I have got along great with men who I've then found on here and they're older than my limit, but it doesn't put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know when I meet people in clubs that have "no skinny bald dudes" on their profile.... I don't find it awkward... I just adjust my toupee, make sure my sumo suit is fully inflated and dive straight in....
I never ask someone their age when at a club either, they could alter that to suit, but it's a preference that is flexible and just there to limit messages (when I allow them). In person I have got along great with men who I've then found on here and they're older than my limit, but it doesn't put me off."
I'm in by a year (41 year old men shouldn't fist pump... but meh) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think that some of you are missing the point. I'm saying that when you meet the person which I have done they seem to come across a little bit uncomfortable. I don't care I'm happy to talk to anyone I like the other guy said the line of "I have black friends you know". I have no issue it's just something that I've seen and I find it hilarious. What I do love about fab is how people can sometimes be sooo different to in person. I'm a joker and look at the comedy value in everything even this post. So when people are saying I have a chip Or an issue is funny cus I just have a sick sense of humour and those that have met me know this and can concur! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why is it awkward? This is fab; a website; they can state their preference for sexual liaisons within it....
.... a club; a social area where you meet all kinds of people both inside and outside your preferences; unless of course they hit on you; in which case they have flexible preferences.... think I might be missing something.... if you state no blacks or asians on your profile does it make you racist?"
I'm not saying racist just saying it's funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they have that as their preference and then you have deliberately approached them in a club, knowing that you aren't what they are looking for, it kinda suggests that you are looking for a confrontation.
Chips, shoulders. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When you have seen someone's profile and it states no blacks or Asians and you meet them at a club .... 
So funny to watch people try to run from a conversation hahahahaha
why... just because we are not attracted sexually to someone doesn't mean we wont talk to someone  "
Can you not see the comedy value ? Like saying ( imagine a blackadder sketch)
"That Jim is a baldy gimel.... he's standing right behind me isn't he "! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If they have that as their preference and then you have deliberately approached them in a club, knowing that you aren't what they are looking for, it kinda suggests that you are looking for a confrontation.
Chips, shoulders. "
No not approached come across....
Jeez guys lighten up. In passing or they see you and flee.
It's happened once and the person I met said in her message to me I don't do blacks then I was talking to a girl who was her friend in the club and she came over and introduced her self. That's when it started |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"When you have seen someone's profile and it states no blacks or Asians and you meet them at a club ....
So funny to watch people try to run from a conversation hahahahaha
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wasn't me ether fella 
and its only awkward for them not you in my humble opinion . |
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" I think that some of you are missing the point. I'm saying that when you meet the person which I have done they seem to come across a little bit uncomfortable. I don't care I'm happy to talk to anyone I like the other guy said the line of "I have black friends you know". I have no issue it's just something that I've seen and I find it hilarious. What I do love about fab is how people can sometimes be sooo different to in person. I'm a joker and look at the comedy value in everything even this post. So when people are saying I have a chip Or an issue is funny cus I just have a sick sense of humour and those that have met me know this and can concur! "
do you memorize everyones profile and then ask their username. Maybe its something you say that puts them off. Im sure theyve spoken to black or asian people before |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When you have seen someone's profile and it states no blacks or Asians and you meet them at a club ....
So funny to watch people try to run from a conversation hahahahaha
wasn't me ether fella
and its only awkward for them not you in my humble opinion . "
That's what I'm
Saying I find it funny ! |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"If they have that as their preference and then you have deliberately approached them in a club, knowing that you aren't what they are looking for, it kinda suggests that you are looking for a confrontation.
Chips, shoulders. "
listen mate your trolling is a joke I've met this fella he's a joker al right great company and totally down to earth fella there isn't a chip on shoulder in sight . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know when I meet people in clubs that have "no skinny bald dudes" on their profile.... I don't find it awkward... I just adjust my toupee, make sure my sumo suit is fully inflated and
dive straight in...."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You guys are savage haha
But you're right OP has the issue and should let it drop.
Oh hello 
Evening missy i'm the new guy on the block. ha  "
I'll take care of you haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" I think that some of you are missing the point. I'm saying that when you meet the person which I have done they seem to come across a little bit uncomfortable. I don't care I'm happy to talk to anyone I like the other guy said the line of "I have black friends you know". I have no issue it's just something that I've seen and I find it hilarious. What I do love about fab is how people can sometimes be sooo different to in person. I'm a joker and look at the comedy value in everything even this post. So when people are saying I have a chip Or an issue is funny cus I just have a sick sense of humour and those that have met me know this and can concur! do you memorize everyones profile and then ask their username. Maybe its something you say that puts them off. Im sure theyve spoken to black or asian people before"
Nope that would be crazy I just remembered hers from the pics she put up and it was in the conversation. Too serious this is just a family give flashback.
I was bored and typing out loud |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they have that as their preference and then you have deliberately approached them in a club, knowing that you aren't what they are looking for, it kinda suggests that you are looking for a confrontation.
Chips, shoulders.
listen mate your trolling is a joke I've met this fella he's a joker al right great company and totally down to earth fella there isn't a chip on shoulder in sight . "
How was that trolling? Mate, fella, pal, geezer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think he's trying to be a thread killer
well said fella how are you on this damp dreary Monday night "
All good buddy tunes on fab on the phone having a good old perv and all that |
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