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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question for you. If you saw someone you'd not met on here in the street, would you approach them and say "Hi, I'm on Fab too"?"
Given people tend to be wary of strangers asking about their sex lives, I'd probably approach and ask 'don't I know you from somewhere?' and take my time, let them get comfortable talking to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. But I did have a message 3 weeks ago, off one half of a couple who said they saw me go into my local hospital, and that they considered approaching, but didn't want to freak me out haha. They just pm'd me later, to tell me.... I was grateful they didn't approach me in public! |
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"Nope. "
Lol that's a slam dunking "nope"... Guess best way to look at it is if you're not out of the closet and frequented gay clubs in another city some distance from yours.... Would you appreciate someone randomly coming to you in your town and saying " I recognise you from that fast club last night ".... So knows who could be within ear shot lol |
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No we wouldn't. For one thing I don't think you can ever be 100% sure it's the same person and for another you have no idea if their children/partner/parents/vicar are just round the corner.
But paramount is the need to respect people's privacy. |
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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago
coventry..ish |
"No. But I did have a message 3 weeks ago, off one half of a couple who said they saw me go into my local hospital, and that they considered approaching, but didn't want to freak me out haha. They just pm'd me later, to tell me.... I was grateful they didn't approach me in public! "
Good for you,im glad they didn't creep you out.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt because you don't know how people are gonna react.
on the flip side I'd be delighted if someone recognised me..I have no issue with being stopped and asked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd never approach someone due to 100% respecting their privacy.
I'd have no issue with anyone approaching me though.
So if you see a white van man in lincs come and introduce yourself...its me!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hell no!!!!!
I've had it happen to me when I've been out and was fuming
I don't blame you,friggin idiots."
Had it happen once when I was out shopping with my daughter
And on a night out with friends
Was not amused on both occasions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd never approach someone due to 100% respecting their privacy.
I'd have no issue with anyone approaching me though.
So if you see a white van man in lincs come and introduce yourself...its me! "
Is it sign written with your profile name ?
Shit loads of white vans in the area |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question for you. If you saw someone you'd not met on here in the street, would you approach them and say "Hi, I'm on Fab too"?"
Would you like to be recognised? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope.
Lol that's a slam dunking "nope"... Guess best way to look at it is if you're not out of the closet and frequented gay clubs in another city some distance from yours.... Would you appreciate someone randomly coming to you in your town and saying " I recognise you from that fast club last night ".... So knows who could be within ear shot lol"
Well it's a lazy Sunday so I'm in the mood for one word answers.
Plus I've answered this sort of question before with more detail at least 3 or 4 times before.
And I've lost patience with taking time with posts and being ignored, so I canna be bovvered  |
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"No. But I did have a message 3 weeks ago, off one half of a couple who said they saw me go into my local hospital, and that they considered approaching, but didn't want to freak me out haha. They just pm'd me later, to tell me.... I was grateful they didn't approach me in public! "
The same has happened to us in more than one occasion.
One asked if that was us in Asda & another if that was us in the local kids library.
Definitely don't want to be approached in public.
Have given 'the nod' to a couple of people we have met with, when seen in normal surroundings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd never approach someone due to 100% respecting their privacy.
I'd have no issue with anyone approaching me though.
So if you see a white van man in lincs come and introduce yourself...its me!
Is it sign written with your profile name ?
Shit loads of white vans in the area "
It isn't...but it's an idea!
I'm sure that if you got the wrong white van man they wouldn't complain.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I literally had my first encounter the other day. I looked at her. She looked at me. We definitely recognised each other from here  even though I used to talk to her, I wouldn't go up to her and say anything though. That shit's awkward and wierd |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"Question for you. If you saw someone you'd not met on here in the street, would you approach them and say "Hi, I'm on Fab too"?"
That would depend on whether they were alone, what time it was, and similar circumstances.
It has nothing to do with privacy and totally to do with tactfully approacing another person with causing distress |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Question for you. If you saw someone you'd not met on here in the street, would you approach them and say "Hi, I'm on Fab too"?"
I asked this a cupall of days agow and most wos a no.
I can see Thar vue to. |
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It has happened to me 3 times........
First a girl in McDonalds, with her hubby and 3 kids, standing right behind me in the queue.
Second at a car boot sale she was standing behind a stall with her hubby,
And third in a restaurant a girl eating dinner with all of her family.
All 3 had been in my bed just days before.
All 3 occasions I just blanked them and walked away as quickly as possible to avoid embarrassment.
Discretion is the key! |
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"Question for you. If you saw someone you'd not met on here in the street, would you approach them and say "Hi, I'm on Fab too"?
I asked this a cupall of days agow and most wos a no.
I can see Thar vue to."
I thought I'd answered this question recently 
It would depend on the circumstances. |
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I wouldn't approach another, but I think I'd be rather flattered if someone actually recognised and remembered me lol.
If it's someone I'd spoken to then I don't think I'd mind, providing I wasn't out with my son or anything.
In fact I may very well piss my pants if someone approached me and literally said "fancy a fuck" then wandered off. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Just have to be careful.
Several times I've had messages saying I was seen in a particular place or asking if I worked in a particular place. Each time they were wrong. They could've approached an innocent person.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i had a lady smile at me in asda once. i went out to the car to find a message from her saying i was a cute in real life.
How did she know what car was yours  "
That is a GREAT question! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had someone message me on here saying you're the woman that works on reception in the gym aren't you!
Sadly it wasn't the gym guy that I fancy, had he actually said that to me whilst I was in work I would've been very embarrassed.  |
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"i had a lady smile at me in asda once. i went out to the car to find a message from her saying i was a cute in real life.
How did she know what car was yours
That is a GREAT question! "
Stalker lol |
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