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Oops. I just messed up!
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I've just dealt with a quarter of my unread messages and cleared a lot of old messages out of my mailbox, which I'm quite pleased about.
However it can be a bit of a brain-numbing process, check profile, check message, send no thank you (mostly) and then make a note what we chatted about and what I said (I hate when someone messages me and my profile says I messaged them x weeks ago and I have no idea what was said so I try to keep notes).
This morning instead of a polite no thank you message, I managed to send someone the private note I intended to make about them.
Bollocks.
It wasn't abusive but it certainly wasn't complimentary 
Shit.
Make me feel better please! You've done worse things, right?! |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Pmsl. My private notes are mainly variations of: prick/knob/wanker, of course I have nice ones but they are from peeps I have met."
People are better off if I just don't reply to them at all sometimes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Consider it as a solid filter. 
Nothing you can do about it now. Own it. Hopefully there good natured enough to laugh along with you. I sure would.
Hilarious mistake.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Consider it as a solid filter.
Nothing you can do about it now. Own it. Hopefully there good natured enough to laugh along with you. I sure would.
Hilarious mistake. "
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Consider it as a solid filter.
Nothing you can do about it now. Own it. Hopefully there good natured enough to laugh along with you. I sure would.
Hilarious mistake. "
They will at least get honest feedback about why I said no thanks! |
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Blimey you make work for yourself! I just ignore the ones I'm not interested in, don't even delete.
I don't make notes either, I'm honest and say I get a lot of messages and can't remember what we talked about. 9 times out of 10 they can't remember either. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Run away!!! Go and hide your head under the bedclothes and wait...
In a day or two, you'll have got over it and will be able to let it go, and mark it up as one of those very silly things that we all do!
Yes, we all do them (and I've certainly done them), so you're not an your own...
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Blimey you make work for yourself! I just ignore the ones I'm not interested in, don't even delete.
I don't make notes either, I'm honest and say I get a lot of messages and can't remember what we talked about. 9 times out of 10 they can't remember either. lol"
I do delete a lot but the whole you messaged them x weeks ago thing bugs me badly.
I *know* I probably said no thanks but, well, y'know. |
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Don't feel bad....
Easily done... I once sent a text to a mate, saying how bored I was and that my date was as dull as dishwater and asked her to call me and get me out of there asap,... And who do you think I sent it to by mistake? Yup you guessed it lol...... |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Don't feel bad....
Easily done... I once sent a text to a mate, saying how bored I was and that my date was as dull as dishwater and asked her to call me and get me out of there asap,... And who do you think I sent it to by mistake? Yup you guessed it lol...... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just dealt with a quarter of my unread messages and cleared a lot of old messages out of my mailbox, which I'm quite pleased about.
However it can be a bit of a brain-numbing process, check profile, check message, send no thank you (mostly) and then make a note what we chatted about and what I said (I hate when someone messages me and my profile says I messaged them x weeks ago and I have no idea what was said so I try to keep notes).
This morning instead of a polite no thank you message, I managed to send someone the private note I intended to make about them.
Bollocks.
It wasn't abusive but it certainly wasn't complimentary
Shit.
Make me feel better please! You've done worse things, right?!"
Really impressed that you actually take your time and read all messages and reply to them
It is comendible
Don't worry about a single mistake lol |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"Some of my private notes go like this
Weird eyes
Looks 60
Boy George smile
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Is that one fella, or three?
(I'm just trialling the "search by description" feature before it rolls out to platinum members) |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I've just dealt with a quarter of my unread messages and cleared a lot of old messages out of my mailbox, which I'm quite pleased about.
However it can be a bit of a brain-numbing process, check profile, check message, send no thank you (mostly) and then make a note what we chatted about and what I said (I hate when someone messages me and my profile says I messaged them x weeks ago and I have no idea what was said so I try to keep notes).
This morning instead of a polite no thank you message, I managed to send someone the private note I intended to make about them.
Bollocks.
It wasn't abusive but it certainly wasn't complimentary
Shit.
Make me feel better please! You've done worse things, right?!
Really impressed that you actually take your time and read all messages and reply to them
It is comendible
Don't worry about a single mistake lol"
I don't reply to all.
I check the profile of nearly every person who messages though (some are missed for various reasons).
What happens after that depends in the profile. |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Oh my wordy, how did you manage that?? I would be so embarrassed. Some of my private notes go like this
Weird eyes
Looks 60
Boy George smile
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I'd dealt with quite a few messages one after another.
There's only so many times you can write a version of no thanks but good luck and make an appropriate note before your brain turns to slush and trickles out of your ears. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Some of my private notes go like this
Weird eyes
Looks 60
Boy George smile
Is that one fella, or three?
(I'm just trialling the "search by description" feature before it rolls out to platinum members)"
Haha, 3 |
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"Oh my wordy, how did you manage that?? I would be so embarrassed. Some of my private notes go like this
Weird eyes
Looks 60
Boy George smile
Many of mine are similar "
Oops  we use private notes a lot, very handy reminder of what's happened 6months ago! And as you say, we also use them for descriptions too, and they are usually not very complimentary  |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"There's a private note thing? How the hell did I not know about this? "
Yes indeedy there is and mucho useful it is too.
When one uses it properly and doesn't unintentionally message the contents of it to others! |
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"I've just dealt with a quarter of my unread messages and cleared a lot of old messages out of my mailbox, which I'm quite pleased about.
However it can be a bit of a brain-numbing process, check profile, check message, send no thank you (mostly) and then make a note what we chatted about and what I said (I hate when someone messages me and my profile says I messaged them x weeks ago and I have no idea what was said so I try to keep notes).
This morning instead of a polite no thank you message, I managed to send someone the private note I intended to make about them.
Bollocks.
It wasn't abusive but it certainly wasn't complimentary
Shit.
Make me feel better please! You've done worse things, right?!"
Add to your block list if it's a no
That way it won't matter what they think  |
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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago
coventry..ish |
"I'm sure they will forgive you,i know I would.
I doubt it.
I expect they'll be quite confused by the message actual"
No problem they might not notice and just delete.
But I think a full apology in the national press would suffice
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Blimey you make work for yourself! I just ignore the ones I'm not interested in, don't even delete.
I don't make notes either, I'm honest and say I get a lot of messages and can't remember what we talked about. 9 times out of 10 they can't remember either. lol"
Yeap this is exactly how I deal with things on here as well |
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