"Does this have to be such a cold unfriendly place?
It is what you make it. "
I was about to write the exact same reply
I've made a few very close friends on here that I now know outside the scene. I also have some nice friends in the scene. If you look for it in the right places you'll find it over time. Doesn't happen overnight though |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Like attracts like.
If you're finding it cold and unfriendly why hang around?
It was four years ago this month I met my first forum friend. We went to the theatre and although she doesn't come on the forum any more I will still see her if I'm in her part of the country.
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"Does this have to be such a cold unfriendly place?"
Nope. I choose to meet those that are looking for more than cold, clinical sex and less than full blown relationship.
Makes for a good basis of a friendship
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"Does this have to be such a cold unfriendly place?
Nope. I choose to meet those that are looking for more than cold, clinical sex and less than full blown relationship.
Makes for a good basis of a friendship
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It's nice that something has the exact same outlook as me. I don't want coldness, just close intimate friendships |
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"Like attracts like.
If you're finding it cold and unfriendly why hang around?
It was four years ago this month I met my first forum friend. We went to the theatre and although she doesn't come on the forum any more I will still see her if I'm in her part of the country.
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I hang around in the hope of finding a good intimate friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Heavens no I have made some simply super friends on here who I have met and we are chums
Talking of friends, have you heard from Vara?"
Sadly no and greatly missed
I hope my chum is jolly happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like most things in life, you get out of it what you put in, so if you come across as cold and unfriendly then others will reflect your negative energy right back at you, look at the replies here, some are positive and some reflect your own negativity, mostly the people we have met through the forum's and the site are happy smiley peoples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've got a few people I'd consider friends on here its a friendly place
It's not always a friendly place for men tho"
It can be. I have only met hostility personally on the very rare occasion. I joined in conversations and games until a few people started noticing me. I put a bit of thought into my profile and my pictures based on what I was learning. I was friendly and tried to have a laugh and soon I found this place was a friendly place to hang out. 3 years later I'm still here because I enjoy the camaraderie and I can post crap from time to time and not get any grief. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got a few people I'd consider friends on here its a friendly place
It's not always a friendly place for men tho"
I came here as a single guy and have some good friends (was at a friends tonight as it goes..she was the first person I met through fab) I met my gf through here and I've a couple more mates I stop in on when I'm in their part of the country so it can also be bloody lovely for men on balance |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I've got a few people I'd consider friends on here its a friendly place
It's not always a friendly place for men tho
I came here as a single guy and have some good friends (was at a friends tonight as it goes..she was the first person I met through fab) I met my gf through here and I've a couple more mates I stop in on when I'm in their part of the country so it can also be bloody lovely for men on balance "
And a few more who hope you'll drop by sometime if you're in their part of the country |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Heavens no I have made some simply super friends on here who I have met and we are chums
Talking of friends, have you heard from Vara?
Sadly no and greatly missed
I hope my chum is jolly happy "
Me too |
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"I've got a few people I'd consider friends on here its a friendly place
It's not always a friendly place for men tho"
Really? My boyfriend has more fab friends than I do... So not all men. So maybe take a look at what you're doing wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest it's nice to be nice isn't it? I am polite and respectful to most. Without any agenda, with all respect to most its take it or leave it, I don't have to be nice I just am. Whether people like it or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a friend on here but I don't like to admit who it is through fear of retribution!
is it Sydney? are you the mole?!"
No, I'm friends with someone in the cl.....no, sorry, I've said too much! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how i would love to have friends on here but i never know what to say "
you know when you talk to people in real life..You just chat or whatever. just do that.
It's just people behind the profiles and forum posts..sitting at home drinking tea or whatever, watching telly in pyjamas or whatever..be yourself and like attracts like just like in normal life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how i would love to have friends on here but i never know what to say
you know when you talk to people in real life..You just chat or whatever. just do that.
It's just people behind the profiles and forum posts..sitting at home drinking tea or whatever, watching telly in pyjamas or whatever..be yourself and like attracts like just like in normal life "
This |
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By *essiCouple
over a year ago
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"Does this have to be such a cold unfriendly place?"
Nope, a fair amount of variety on here as on other sites, friends made and found, still in contact with some and others not but that is life and how things roll...enjoy |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"how i would love to have friends on here but i never know what to say
you know when you talk to people in real life..You just chat or whatever. just do that.
It's just people behind the profiles and forum posts..sitting at home drinking tea or whatever, watching telly in pyjamas or whatever..be yourself and like attracts like just like in normal life "
Yes ^ this!
I get loads of messages saying versions of "can we chat?"
Just chat ffs.
Sometimes I reply to the can we chat messages to say sure and they reply asking what I want to know.
Um, I don't, you messaged me.
If you want to chat, chat! If they're interested they'll reciprocate. |
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"I did not think this was an unfriendly place .... i think its quite friendly to be honest with you .... "
I think I am nice and friendly to everyone I speak to, but sometimes I get really nasty messages from females. Maybe it's something singles males get that females dont |
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"Does this have to be such a cold unfriendly place?"
You make it sound like a freezer in the back of an old cafe.
It's not, it's the patisserie selection on show in a classy upmarket foodie boutique. |
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