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over a year ago
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person."
because they want to.
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As long as they dont cancel and meet someone else instead as that's just bad manners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they're like a dog with 2 dicks they don't know which to lick first and sometimes they opt for the meet where they think they're going to get laid easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person."
same reason women and couples do it probably. A change of heart and they don't wanna break it to you for whatever reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person."
Wellcome to a mans world  |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person."
I don't like saying this but the truth is they just weren't that into you sadly .
women do the same it is what it is and if I was you op I'd not give them a second thought or a second look in. after all who really wants to be the back up person not me and I'm guess nether do you deep down ether . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Wellcome to a mans world "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person."
why would you want to re-arrange if they already had an arrangement with you?(unless they specified they had been talking to someone else as they talked to you)...but if they cancelled to meet someone else and essentially wasted your time, then yeah..thats not decent.
however...all groups do this on fab...some people wouldnt do it..I have friends that will tell me that they have a chance of meeting someone new(fine by me), but as long as I havent put my fab life on hold for meeting them its all cool with me...and they are likewise.I know they wouldnt let me down if it was all arranged ie times n place though. |
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That's human nature usually guys get a bad rap on here for these things but could and ladies do it all the time the other day I arranged a meet in next town over only to find she had met someone else after she cancelled on me but I understand it's nature to seek out the best mate it happens a lot in the animal kingdom so why not here on fab shit I know but it's in our dna |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person."
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums? |
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"That's human nature usually guys get a bad rap on here for these things but could and ladies do it all the time the other day I arranged a meet in next town over only to find she had met someone else after she cancelled on me but I understand it's nature to seek out the best mate it happens a lot in the animal kingdom so why not here on fab shit I know but it's in our dna"
Nail and head..just don't lie about it. I'd always be honest
Maybe why I don't have much friends lol |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?"
straight in guns blazing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person."
Probably for exactly the same reason as some women and some couples do it.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?"
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?"
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men? |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?"
holly shit is that really called for take a chill pill jesus talk about trying to start something . |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
straight in guns blazing "
As always..sometimes it's best to not ay |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?"
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
holly shit is that really called for take a chill pill jesus talk about trying to start something ."
That's how the forums are getting nowadays..just folk trying to cause shit.. |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok"
Is that code for something?..green arrow? |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
holly shit is that really called for take a chill pill jesus talk about trying to start something .
That's how the forums are getting nowadays..just folk trying to cause shit.."
Not trying to cause shit  now try to keep on topic please! |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?"
oooft...harsh. but true. |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?"
Green arrow next to OPs name although to be fair it doesn't show what I'm taking about anyway so forgive me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?"
press on the green arrow next to the forum poster and it takes you to the recent threads they posted on/ started |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
holly shit is that really called for take a chill pill jesus talk about trying to start something .
That's how the forums are getting nowadays..just folk trying to cause shit..
Not trying to cause shit now try to keep on topic please!"
You said bashing men..I don't feel bashed so I'm on topic..stop insisting otherwise please  |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?
press on the green arrow next to the forum poster and it takes you to the recent threads they posted on/ started "
Oh..Yeh,no i won't be doing that thanks. I'm talking about this thread and not remotely bothered about a different one. Thanks though mate. I guess you'll need a sympathy high if you feel like you've been bashed? |
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Grass is greener elsewhere...
It's happened me, you, trans folk, single blokes, couples, everyone here. It's shit and annoying (if I arrange a meet, I won't arrange a backup, kinda rude) but that's the way it goes unfortunately. It's not like you can get a refund on rejection |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?"
Wouldn't mind a bashing off you  |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person."
Of course you'd never find a Woman doing anything like that ever would you. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?
Green arrow next to OPs name although to be fair it doesn't show what I'm taking about anyway so forgive me "
well if that's the case don't you think you owe the op a public apology after basically calling her a man hater ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?
Green arrow next to OPs name although to be fair it doesn't show what I'm taking about anyway so forgive me
well if that's the case don't you think you owe the op a public apology after basically calling her a man hater ?"
No a public spanking would be just  |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?
Green arrow next to OPs name although to be fair it doesn't show what I'm taking about anyway so forgive me
well if that's the case don't you think you owe the op a public apology after basically calling her a man hater ?"
Was thinking the same ting |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?
Green arrow next to OPs name although to be fair it doesn't show what I'm taking about anyway so forgive me
well if that's the case don't you think you owe the op a public apology after basically calling her a man hater ?
No a public spanking would be just "
no not by me you can if you want but me no |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Usually cos they have got what they percive as a better offer. Most folk on here don't chat to just one person at a time. So say I'm talking to sexyjack and averagebutnicejoe. Averagebutnicejoe arranges a meet with me a few days ago for tonight. Then 2hr before the meet time sexyjack messages n says hey get your ass here n take my big fat cock. I'm like sorry averagebutnicejoe something's cum up. xxx |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?
Green arrow next to OPs name although to be fair it doesn't show what I'm taking about anyway so forgive me
well if that's the case don't you think you owe the op a public apology after basically calling her a man hater ?
Was thinking the same ting"
Sigh, sorry but she should have worded it "why do PEOPLE" not men |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?
Green arrow next to OPs name although to be fair it doesn't show what I'm taking about anyway so forgive me
well if that's the case don't you think you owe the op a public apology after basically calling her a man hater ?"
the green arrow only shows your last X amount of threads.
There is form from the o.p to post guy bashing threads and very negative threads..people notice this. |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?
Green arrow next to OPs name although to be fair it doesn't show what I'm taking about anyway so forgive me
well if that's the case don't you think you owe the op a public apology after basically calling her a man hater ?
Was thinking the same ting
Sigh, sorry but she should have worded it "why do PEOPLE" not men"
Now bend over  |
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If i cancel it's bcz i can't meet anyone..and if it's to meet someone else,better,whatever I would be honest. Maybe that's why people either love me or hate me. Too much energy to think of a lie and then have to have the conversation when I'm verified by them. #Awkward |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?
Green arrow next to OPs name although to be fair it doesn't show what I'm taking about anyway so forgive me
well if that's the case don't you think you owe the op a public apology after basically calling her a man hater ?
Was thinking the same ting
Sigh, sorry but she should have worded it "why do PEOPLE" not men
Now bend over "
Ooo yes please |
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?
Green arrow next to OPs name although to be fair it doesn't show what I'm taking about anyway so forgive me
well if that's the case don't you think you owe the op a public apology after basically calling her a man hater ?
Was thinking the same ting
Sigh, sorry but she should have worded it "why do PEOPLE" not men"
That's totally different then lol |
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If they're telling the truth to you, then it's your decision upon whether you'd ever meet them.
Some meets may also be much more convenient - such as closer, or they're accom, when the guy finds it harder to accom.
Social meets first allow you to get a better feel for someone, rather than just meeing blind and straight to the sex.
Some people will also offer a sexual range that others don't - and it may be that their interests are perked by something different.
Have frequent communication agreed to prior to a meet, so that you know with as much notice as possible, should plans change.
Those of us who post into the forum are also more visible to everyone, compared to users who don't use the forum. It's possible that we may say something that puts a potential meet off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?
Green arrow next to OPs name although to be fair it doesn't show what I'm taking about anyway so forgive me
well if that's the case don't you think you owe the op a public apology after basically calling her a man hater ?
Was thinking the same ting
Sigh, sorry but she should have worded it "why do PEOPLE" not men
Now bend over
Ooo yes please "
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"Why do men at times cancel a meet and instead of rearanging another meet at a later date with you, they go and get a meet with another person.
Because they realise the person they were planing to meet keeps posting men bashing threads on the forums?
Ouch!. No need for that though. I thought it was a honest question..I didn't feel bashed and do you stick up for all men?
Do you obviously haven't green arrowed then? Ok
Is that code for something?..green arrow?
Green arrow next to OPs name although to be fair it doesn't show what I'm taking about anyway so forgive me
well if that's the case don't you think you owe the op a public apology after basically calling her a man hater ?
the green arrow only shows your last X amount of threads.
There is form from the o.p to post guy bashing threads and very negative threads..people notice this."
Looking at a forum posters green arrow and reading their threads and responses can give you a pretty damn good idea of their attitude and _iewpoint on numerous subjects. You can then make a judgement, perhaps after making arrangements, whether or not you fancy spending some quality time with them or not. |
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