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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular you get to know what turns someone on. Although sometimes all you want is your legs parted and have a bloke balls deep inside and don't care for a repeat.
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over a year ago
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regular, if they're any good and you get on with each other.
i've had regular with a couple of guys who aren't that good in bed, did hope they were just shy and the sex would get better but it didn't. felt a bit bad telling them why i didn't want to meet them again (they asked so i was honest) but i don't see the point in meeting people and not enjoying it.
one offs are ok if you're desperate for something in particular but don't really fancy the guy overall. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"regular, if they're any good and you get on with each other.
i've had regular with a couple of guys who aren't that good in bed, did hope they were just shy and the sex would get better but it didn't. felt a bit bad telling them why i didn't want to meet them again (they asked so i was honest) but i don't see the point in meeting people and not enjoying it.
one offs are ok if you're desperate for something in particular but don't really fancy the guy overall. "
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Luckily we have a few regular friends we play with and those a great meets as we all know and trust each other and you get to know what each other like.
But at the same time we have had great fun with meets in clubs, where we didn't previously know the people.
Some of those have become repeat meets, but others weren't on fab. They were great too because of the spontaneity and unexpectedness of it.
So, can we say 'both' ??  |
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It's the trickiest question to be asked !!!
FB or regular you need to define how regular ?? All the fookin time then that could lead to the forbidden fruits which is emotions which equals ' DRAMA' !! But once every ten days or so ain't to bad !! Just watch your step that's all I say!!
But one off's there good, because They bring the thrill and excitement and the build up and the chase that sets the heart pumping the good stuff around  but wheres the cuddle afterwards in a sweaty heap !!!
Thought one personal I take them both on just let them know your still slutting it up |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Regular for me - I find the sex improves with knowledge of the other's body and likes, dislikes and kinks if applicable. I'm not averse to one offs occasionally but that's more often heat of the moment fuck-me-against-the-wall-but-please-don't-talk sort of passion when I know we really shouldn't. |
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It's the trickiest question to be asked !!!
FB or regular you need to define how regular ?? All the fookin time then that could lead to the forbidden fruits which is emotions which equals ' DRAMA' !! But once every ten days or so ain't to bad !! Just watch your step that's all I say!!
But one off's there good, because They bring the thrill and excitement and the build up and the chase that sets the heart pumping the good stuff around but wheres the cuddle afterwards in a sweaty heap !!!
personal I take them both on just let them know your still slutting it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"regular, if they're any good and you get on with each other.
i've had regular with a couple of guys who aren't that good in bed, did hope they were just shy and the sex would get better but it didn't. felt a bit bad telling them why i didn't want to meet them again (they asked so i was honest) but i don't see the point in meeting people and not enjoying it.
one offs are ok if you're desperate for something in particular but don't really fancy the guy overall. "
hoping you're not a one off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"regular, if they're any good and you get on with each other.
i've had regular with a couple of guys who aren't that good in bed, did hope they were just shy and the sex would get better but it didn't. felt a bit bad telling them why i didn't want to meet them again (they asked so i was honest) but i don't see the point in meeting people and not enjoying it.
one offs are ok if you're desperate for something in particular but don't really fancy the guy overall.
hoping you're not a one off. "
After what I learnt about you nah think this may end up a regular event
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I like both. ....my regulars are more "guys I've met before" as regular doesn't exist in my fab world....but i love the excitement of meeting someone new ...you don't get that with regular |
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"I like both. ....my regulars are more "guys I've met before" as regular doesn't exist in my fab world....but i love the excitement of meeting someone new ...you don't get that with regular "
What I was trying to say only simplified  |
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When i had my single profile i met some regular,but others i wasn't too fussed about meeting again.
As a couple ,we would like a small group of friends we can meet for meals,clubs and fun reguarly.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would love a regular friend.
Some one to explore with and hopefully have fun, both in and out of the bedroom.
But i suppose its a bit of a pipe dream on here. Too many fitter, richer and more mobile guys around.
"Sigh"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"regular, if they're any good and you get on with each other.
i've had regular with a couple of guys who aren't that good in bed, did hope they were just shy and the sex would get better but it didn't. felt a bit bad telling them why i didn't want to meet them again (they asked so i was honest) but i don't see the point in meeting people and not enjoying it.
one offs are ok if you're desperate for something in particular but don't really fancy the guy overall.
hoping you're not a one off.
After what I learnt about you nah think this may end up a regular event
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what did you learn? i'm gonna pm you... 
only thing i learned was....also gonna pm you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like both. ....my regulars are more "guys I've met before" as regular doesn't exist in my fab world....but i love the excitement of meeting someone new ...you don't get that with regular
What I was trying to say only simplified "
I'm not one for over complicating things or being too wordy. If i could have summed it up using a formula that would have been perfect for me |
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One offs because if you didnt really like someone the first time it means you shouldnt meet them again, also when you think the sex was good the next man you meet can be even better, so if you stuck to the same people you wouldnt know what you could be missing out on. I get bored with people anyway they maybe nice on your first meet then after that they start treating you like their wives, taking you for granted and not making an effort. Is too much like being married seeing the same person. Having sex is so different with each person you meet, different people are good at different things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"regular, if they're any good and you get on with each other.
i've had regular with a couple of guys who aren't that good in bed, did hope they were just shy and the sex would get better but it didn't. felt a bit bad telling them why i didn't want to meet them again (they asked so i was honest) but i don't see the point in meeting people and not enjoying it.
one offs are ok if you're desperate for something in particular but don't really fancy the guy overall.
hoping you're not a one off.
After what I learnt about you nah think this may end up a regular event
what did you learn? i'm gonna pm you...
only thing i learned was....also gonna pm you. "
 the filth! Hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have one very regular guy...a few friends I see as often as I can...and quite rarely these days the odd probable one off...but they often end up as friends and want to see me again too....but I see my regular guy more often than anyone I have before, apart from a guy I stopped playing for...so I used to play with one offs alot more often than I do now ... sex when you are connected with someone is always a much better thing....but a straight up fuck can be good |
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"regular, if they're any good and you get on with each other.
i've had regular with a couple of guys who aren't that good in bed, did hope they were just shy and the sex would get better but it didn't. felt a bit bad telling them why i didn't want to meet them again (they asked so i was honest) but i don't see the point in meeting people and not enjoying it.
one offs are ok if you're desperate for something in particular but don't really fancy the guy overall.
hoping you're not a one off.
After what I learnt about you nah think this may end up a regular event
what did you learn? i'm gonna pm you...
only thing i learned was....also gonna pm you.
the filth! Hehe"
haha.
i like having our own personal, but public, fab love in.
bonus is no-one knows wtf we're talking about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"regular, if they're any good and you get on with each other.
i've had regular with a couple of guys who aren't that good in bed, did hope they were just shy and the sex would get better but it didn't. felt a bit bad telling them why i didn't want to meet them again (they asked so i was honest) but i don't see the point in meeting people and not enjoying it.
one offs are ok if you're desperate for something in particular but don't really fancy the guy overall.
hoping you're not a one off.
After what I learnt about you nah think this may end up a regular event
what did you learn? i'm gonna pm you...
only thing i learned was....also gonna pm you.
the filth! Hehe
haha.
i like having our own personal, but public, fab love in.
bonus is no-one knows wtf we're talking about. "
Yeah all good fun sweetcheeks.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a time and a place for a one off, there's something quite liberating about knowing you'll never see someone again.
But I have more and better orgasms with repeat meets, and there's usually more laughter too |
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I like both but tend towards regular meets, as it brings the potential for much greater closeness, where physical intimacy benefits from the meeting of minds, your mutual understandings of the other etc.
One offs can be great - you can choose that you'd not like to meet again, even though you've enjoyed your time. Different people gel with you, sometimes unexpectedly - so you can develop things onwards, when this works with both sides. Sometimes visiting a remote area brings chances for one-offs, or occasional meets (if you're back in the area etc) and these can be great: such as no complications of people living too close to you.
I like a variety. |
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
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"One offs because if you didnt really like someone the first time it means you shouldnt meet them again, also when you think the sex was good the next man you meet can be even better, so if you stuck to the same people you wouldnt know what you could be missing out on. I get bored with people anyway they maybe nice on your first meet then after that they start treating you like their wives, taking you for granted and not making an effort. Is too much like being married seeing the same person. Having sex is so different with each person you meet, different people are good at different things."
They make the effort the first time, after that you just get let down x |
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"One offs because if you didnt really like someone the first time it means you shouldnt meet them again, also when you think the sex was good the next man you meet can be even better, so if you stuck to the same people you wouldnt know what you could be missing out on. I get bored with people anyway they maybe nice on your first meet then after that they start treating you like their wives, taking you for granted and not making an effort. Is too much like being married seeing the same person. Having sex is so different with each person you meet, different people are good at different things.
They make the effort the first time, after that you just get let down x"
That!...I can imagine...sorry to hear that |
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