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"Never let strangers who can only be brave behind a keyboard hurt you. You're out here, being who you are and bravely sharing it, and the personal challenges you face which shows real strength. Some people put up threads to deliberately provoke controversy with very little thought for the actual real consequences of their "sport". Stay sparkling, you fabulous diamond. Booby hugs and Snogaroos in your general direction. Mwah. HHx " This minus the booby hugs  | |||
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"I'm so frustrated with people's _iews on what transgender is it's so frustrating but the worst thing is we have feelings and constantly getting beaten down from something we can't control really upset now" *Some* people's _iews - and hopefully a minority at that. Of course you have feelings, why on earth wouldn't you and there's just no need for unnecessary spite or criticism about who you are. It's beyond me why *some* people feel the need to be so unfeeling and insensitive about matters that don't personally affect them at all ... I mean, judge a transgender person (or anyone) on how responsibly they drive, or how considerate they are towards others by all means ... but, how an individual feels about the person/gender they identify as shouldn't be up for public debate when no-one else can possibly see inside your head or experience your feelings. That probably doesn't make much sense and I might not have phrased it very well but I wanted to respond. Please try not to let ignorant narrow mindedness drag you down. x | |||
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"I'm so frustrated with people's _iews on what transgender is it's so frustrating but the worst thing is we have feelings and constantly getting beaten down from something we can't control really upset now *Some* people's _iews - and hopefully a minority at that. Of course you have feelings, why on earth wouldn't you and there's just no need for unnecessary spite or criticism about who you are. It's beyond me why *some* people feel the need to be so unfeeling and insensitive about matters that don't personally affect them at all ... I mean, judge a transgender person (or anyone) on how responsibly they drive, or how considerate they are towards others by all means ... but, how an individual feels about the person/gender they identify as shouldn't be up for public debate when no-one else can possibly see inside your head or experience your feelings. That probably doesn't make much sense and I might not have phrased it very well but I wanted to respond. Please try not to let ignorant narrow mindedness drag you down. x" It made perfect sense to me I know exsactly what your saying ty xxxx | |||
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" Booby hugs and Snogaroos in your general direction. Mwah. HHx " Hey over here if they are going around   x
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"I'm so frustrated with people's _iews on what transgender is it's so frustrating but the worst thing is we have feelings and constantly getting beaten down from something we can't control really upset now" If you let the eediats on here get you down..You're done for!. Wink,smile and kiss yuh teeth and show them your good side. Don't let them get to you as you know you're better than that | |||
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"Don't take any notice of that inbred retard. I find it hard to believe the opinion he was sharing was actually his opinion and not a post made deliberately to cause distress. " | |||
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"I feel your pain... I noticed a post a few days ago - please correct me if I'm wrong but I believe the OP post on the thread too. In said thread a TS referred to people such as myself as "the skid marks of the community" because they have hairy legs. My reason for not shaving is because of the nature of my career and the sports I partake in. I found that post very hurtfull and the old "I must just be a weirdo" thoughts have been returning when I previously felt very accepted. Everyone has different circumstances, why can't we just live and let live "My thoughts exactly xxxxxx big loves and hugs all round I think xxx | |||
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"I'm so frustrated with people's _iews on what transgender is it's so frustrating but the worst thing is we have feelings and constantly getting beaten down from something we can't control really upset now" Stupid little narrow-minded c-units! Sending lots of hugs!  | |||
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much love and good karma. | |||
"I'm so frustrated with people's _iews on what transgender is it's so frustrating but the worst thing is we have feelings and constantly getting beaten down from something we can't control really upset now" Stay strong the haters are just that haters.x | |||
"I'm so frustrated with people's _iews on what transgender is it's so frustrating but the worst thing is we have feelings and constantly getting beaten down from something we can't control really upset now" feel for you op my only advice would be try and feel sorry for those who act badly towards you after all how bad must there own miserable lives be to attack another human being for being different . you often find that those who lash out are often very sad individuals with sad lives themselves and that sadness manifests its self in nastiness towards others especially others that are different and there fore a easy target for there frustration . | |||
"I feel your pain... I noticed a post a few days ago - please correct me if I'm wrong but I believe the OP post on the thread too. In said thread a TS referred to people such as myself as "the skid marks of the community" because they have hairy legs. My reason for not shaving is because of the nature of my career and the sports I partake in. I found that post very hurtfull and the old "I must just be a weirdo" thoughts have been returning when I previously felt very accepted. Everyone has different circumstances, why can't we just live and let live
My thoughts exactly xxxxxx big loves and hugs all round I think xxx"Thanks and same to you sweetie XxX | |||
"I'm so frustrated with people's _iews on what transgender is it's so frustrating but the worst thing is we have feelings and constantly getting beaten down from something we can't control really upset now" If they make you feel sad. They're not worth worrying about | |||
chin up and ignore the ignorant ones that feel the need to take others down to make themselves feel better...says so much about a person when they get to that level of nasty. Feel sorry for the fuckers
Why don't you post a definition of what you feel is a great and positive way to _iew you personally as a beautiful human being x | |||
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"Ty everyone I'm feeling a lot better now after a chat with an amazing couple and all of you ur all amazing xxxx" Glad you're feeling better lovely...they clearly intended to hurt & wind people up with their comments, not letting them pull you down is the best way to defeat idiots like that. Sending you a Minxy hug x | |||
"Ty everyone I'm feeling a lot better now after a chat with an amazing couple and all of you ur all amazing xxxx Glad you're feeling better lovely...they clearly intended to hurt & wind people up with their comments, not letting them pull you down is the best way to defeat idiots like that. Sending you a Minxy hug x" Awww ty xxxxx love a minxy hug xx | |||
"Ty everyone I'm feeling a lot better now after a chat with an amazing couple and all of you ur all amazing xxxx" Glad you're feeling better. At the end of the day you are who you are and it's narrow minded people that have no business being so bloody opinionated of others. Hold your head high. Xxx | |||
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"I'm so frustrated with people's _iews on what transgender is it's so frustrating but the worst thing is we have feelings and constantly getting beaten down from something we can't control really upset now" Don't get irate, educate! Rise to the challenge. | |||
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"Even if you help to change one person's attitude and understanding of transgender then it is worth it. " | |||
"I'm so frustrated with people's _iews on what transgender is it's so frustrating but the worst thing is we have feelings and constantly getting beaten down from something we can't control really upset now" Some people are just backward on their thinking. Plenty of us accept you as you are and try to understand. The physical abuse is dreadful and I would love that nobody has to endure that, ever. For the rest though, they're just challenged in their thinking. Ignore them. Be you. | |||
"Some people set out to intentionally hurt and upset. Transgender is the new black. In time you'll realise you can't change the _iews of bigots and it's an exercise in futility. Chin up, hair flick, finger snap...whatever...don't let nonentities get to you!" ^ this | |||
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"I feel your pain... I noticed a post a few days ago - please correct me if I'm wrong but I believe the OP post on the thread too. In said thread a TS referred to people such as myself as "the skid marks of the community" because they have hairy legs. My reason for not shaving is because of the nature of my career and the sports I partake in. I found that post very hurtfull and the old "I must just be a weirdo" thoughts have been returning when I previously felt very accepted. Everyone has different circumstances, why can't we just live and let live "
There are tv/ts on here that make similar bitchy comments about hairy people. I think it just shows what utterly horrible human beings they are. They must know how it feels to have such hateful words directed at them yet they do the same.
Women can be hairy too. You're no weirdo. xx | |||
"No-one can make you feel inferior without your consent.. " | |||
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"Even if you help to change one person's attitude and understanding of transgender then it is worth it. I hope you have a good support behind you to help you on your journey. Good luck and be strong. X"
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"Ty everyone had a really bad day and that pushed me over the edge people like that are so closed minded to how difficult this is for us love u all xxxx" Sadly they are allowed to breed, so there is no stopping them. | |||
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"I feel your pain... I noticed a post a few days ago - please correct me if I'm wrong but I believe the OP post on the thread too. In said thread a TS referred to people such as myself as "the skid marks of the community" because they have hairy legs. My reason for not shaving is because of the nature of my career and the sports I partake in. I found that post very hurtfull and the old "I must just be a weirdo" thoughts have been returning when I previously felt very accepted. Everyone has different circumstances, why can't we just live and let live
There are tv/ts on here that make similar bitchy comments about hairy people. I think it just shows what utterly horrible human beings they are. They must know how it feels to have such hateful words directed at them yet they do the same.
Women can be hairy too. You're no weirdo. xx"That's a lovely comment, thank you xxx | |||
" Sadly they are allowed to breed, so there is no stopping them." I think that one had been inbreeding. | |||
"I'm so frustrated with people's _iews on what transgender is it's so frustrating but the worst thing is we have feelings and constantly getting beaten down from something we can't control really upset now" You are on this site to be you. There are a lot of small minded people. Sadly I do have my _iews and puzzlements about transgender but that doesn't mean to say I should be cruel or dismissive of you. You are a person and like us all deserve to be loved. Well done for speaking out and only ever be what you want to be. BIG HUGS XXX | |||
"I'm so frustrated with people's _iews on what transgender is it's so frustrating but the worst thing is we have feelings and constantly getting beaten down from something we can't control really upset now" Put 1000 brown head matches in a box with 1 red head match and everyone will see the 1 red head. Any thing that stands out fom the crowd our brain is programmed to notice. What we do after noticing is about civilisation and education. One of the problems transgendered people have is the pantomime dame type comedy which has badly educated people to laugh at and pick on "men in frocks". Though weirdly the principle boy does not get the equal treatment in this country for women in pants? If you don't want to be noticed go with the herd, but that is not good, be yourself, and expect to get noticed, which means sometimes dealing with idiots. | |||
"I'm so frustrated with people's _iews on what transgender is it's so frustrating but the worst thing is we have feelings and constantly getting beaten down from something we can't control really upset now" OP on line there are Transgender support groups and some for younger people .. Maybe take a look as if you get low and fed-up that maybe worth a look could even help . x | |||
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"Be strong, happy and proud of who you are. These small minded individuals are very much in the minority " | |||
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"Holy shit, just read the thread. Thought they were a cool alternative couple but come across as bigots. Said it before but this forum is a spectacular filter." Probably risking a spell on the naughty step here but: I wasn't that surprised, they've said some pretty vile stuff before but managed to get away with it. They just ramped up a bit. I've met plenty of 'alternative' people who were arseholes. | |||
"If you're a fully grown adult and words still hurt, my suggestion would be: strengthen your character so that the words no longer affect you, as opposed to trying to make all the nasty unpleasant things in life go away. I thought that this safe space culture was only for spoilt millennials. This is life. People will attack you, set-backs will happen, nasty things will be said... It isn't all cuddles and rainbows and people telling you you're awesome and never will be... for anybody. It honestly astounds me how some people have survived all the years leading up to the current point in their lives, being so weak and naive. " I read a lot of your posts and think you just need a big hug. You'd probably thump me for trying, and that just makes me want to hug you more. Being sensitive is a good thing. Once you put up a wall (because that's what it is) I think you lose a part of yourself and lose a part of empathy. The most empathic people I know are also get hurt the most easily. So fuck 'em that think you should change. Choose empathy. Choose life. I know it can really hurt like fuck OP, but it's the with the problem, not you. Big hugs. You are fabulous and gorgeous OP. Give yourself a hug and here, have a bar of chocolate. | |||
" It honestly astounds me how some people have survived all the years leading up to the current point in their lives, being so weak and naive. " OK, I know you are a troll from your other posts so far, but I think this point does actually need responding to: Many of them don't. That is the point. Something like 40% of trans people attempt suicide at some point. The fact that this weekend is Trans Day of Remembrance to remember those trans people that have been KILLED due to anti-transgender violence. Does't that not say something to you? I'm not even going to respond to the 'weak and naive' comment. -Matt | |||
" It honestly astounds me how some people have survived all the years leading up to the current point in their lives, being so weak and naive. OK, I know you are a troll from your other posts so far, but I think this point does actually need responding to: Many of them don't. That is the point. Something like 40% of trans people attempt suicide at some point. The fact that this weekend is Trans Day of Remembrance to remember those trans people that have been KILLED due to anti-transgender violence. Does't that not say something to you? I'm not even going to respond to the 'weak and naive' comment. -Matt " People of every sexual orientation, race, age and gender attempt (and commit) suicide, down to a number of reasons - painful break ups, money worries, custody battles, work related stress, etc. Right now in Syria, people are being killed for being Christian. People in 90's Bosnia were killed for being Muslim. People in WW2 were killed for being Jews/Gypseys/Slavs. Hundreds of thousands of white, heterosexual men have been killed on the battlefield. Do you not see how your "offended" response reiterates my initial point? People die, people get depressed, people will hurt you, THAT'S LIFE. Those who accept that fact and find the strength to endure it will fare better than those who start bitching and whining every time they're called a name. You can respond with "OMG, that's offensive, you troll!" retorts all you like, it just shows that you are completely out of touch with the world around you. | |||
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"I'm so frustrated with people's _iews on what transgender is it's so frustrating but the worst thing is we have feelings and constantly getting beaten down from something we can't control really upset now" Try not to be upset about others _iews, chances are that these people will never be close to your heart so what they think is irrelevant to your life | |||
" It honestly astounds me how some people have survived all the years leading up to the current point in their lives, being so weak and naive. OK, I know you are a troll from your other posts so far, but I think this point does actually need responding to: Many of them don't. That is the point. Something like 40% of trans people attempt suicide at some point. The fact that this weekend is Trans Day of Remembrance to remember those trans people that have been KILLED due to anti-transgender violence. Does't that not say something to you? I'm not even going to respond to the 'weak and naive' comment. -Matt People of every sexual orientation, race, age and gender attempt (and commit) suicide, down to a number of reasons - painful break ups, money worries, custody battles, work related stress, etc. Right now in Syria, people are being killed for being Christian. People in 90's Bosnia were killed for being Muslim. People in WW2 were killed for being Jews/Gypseys/Slavs. Hundreds of thousands of white, heterosexual men have been killed on the battlefield. Do you not see how your "offended" response reiterates my initial point? People die, people get depressed, people will hurt you, THAT'S LIFE. Those who accept that fact and find the strength to endure it will fare better than those who start bitching and whining every time they're called a name. You can respond with "OMG, that's offensive, you troll!" retorts all you like, it just shows that you are completely out of touch with the world around you. " Let's break this down. 1) I am not offended. I am merely pointing out that your have demonstrated that you post to elicit a response from people, not to contribute to a conversation. That is the definition of a troll. 2) By your reasoning above, the people of Syria, Bosnia, WW2, etc are 'weak and naive'? And maybe if they had a bit of a thicker skin that they wouldn't get killed? I respectfully disagree. 3) The rate of suicide within transgender people is an order of magnitude higher than the average population. Yes, many other minority groups have increased levels of suicide rates. That does not make them weak or naive either. 4) Yes, there is some pretty shitty stuff out there in the world. In your words 'That's life'. In my mind that doesn't give someone legitimate reason to further be a dick to fellow human beings. 5) "Those who accept that fact and find the strength to endure it will fare better than those who start bitching and whining every time they're called a name." -- and what about those who can't endure it? What about those for whom deal with being insulted and shamed day in and day out for being themselves? What about for those whom that last insult is the final straw that breaks the camels back? Be that trans, fat, gay, disabled, whatever? -Matt | |||
