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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Even though we all know that we do respond to some biological basic urges, yet we are social creatures.
-Do you think sexual tastes/preferences can be acquired ? In other words do you think your sexual preferences come from nurture or nature ?
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I've acquired a few new ones over the years that I didn't know I liked until I tried them because I hadn't thought about them previously. But all the others? I knew I liked them before I tried them. If that makes sense. They were innate.
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"Even though we all know that we do respond to some biological basic urges, yet we are social creatures.
-Do you think sexual tastes/preferences can be acquired ? In other words do you think your sexual preferences come from nurture or nature ?
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Definitely both except I was straight then became bi. Some cock up somewhere, I always thought. |
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"Hmm. Interesting question. Let me go ask my mom what her sexual tastes are and then I'll be able to give a more informed repsonse. Brb."
I could tell you if you wanted? |
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"Hmm. Interesting question. Let me go ask my mom what her sexual tastes are and then I'll be able to give a more informed repsonse. Brb.
I could tell you if you wanted?"
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Apart from the basic instinct to procreate, everything else is nurtured.
We're influenced by all sorts of external stimuli as we grow older, that sense of adventure and play is what makes us who we are  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hmm. Interesting question. Let me go ask my mom what her sexual tastes are and then I'll be able to give a more informed repsonse. Brb.
I could tell you if you wanted?"
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I'd say a bit of both, but pretty certain finding (and enjoying) my Dad's stash of porn films when I was younger pushed me along my path of perviness
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"Apart from the basic instinct to procreate, everything else is nurtured.
We're influenced by all sorts of external stimuli as we grow older, that sense of adventure and play is what makes us who we are "
If everything has been nurtured, do you think what we are is what we are really are then? if we have been influenced by external stimuli, how can be sure that the choice we make, is really a personal choice?
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Apart from the basic instinct to procreate, everything else is nurtured.
We're influenced by all sorts of external stimuli as we grow older, that sense of adventure and play is what makes us who we are
If everything has been nurtured, do you think what we are is what we are really are then? if we have been influenced by external stimuli, how can be sure that the choice we make, is really a personal choice?
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We can't. But when you consider the sheer amount of external stimuli then we somehow know instinctively which ones attract us and which ones don't. So nature does play a part. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Apart from the basic instinct to procreate, everything else is nurtured.
We're influenced by all sorts of external stimuli as we grow older, that sense of adventure and play is what makes us who we are
If everything has been nurtured, do you think what we are is what we are really are then? if we have been influenced by external stimuli, how can be sure that the choice we make, is really a personal choice?
We can't. But when you consider the sheer amount of external stimuli then we somehow know instinctively which ones attract us and which ones don't. So nature does play a part."
Definitely, but if nature plays a part as well, how do I know if I am captain of my own ship ? |
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I would say Nature, what you like is what you like. The extreme is peodophlia, who would choose that ?
Very out there I grant, but having read the ops post it's the first thing that came to mind. |
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"I would say Nature, what you like is what you like. The extreme is peodophlia, who would choose that ?
Very out there I grant, but having read the ops post it's the first thing that came to mind."
Actually you may have a point, even if I hate those people, they do claim that they can't help themselves... where do we put that then ?
Nature or Nurture?
Are some of us born already broke then ? |
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"Apart from the basic instinct to procreate, everything else is nurtured.
We're influenced by all sorts of external stimuli as we grow older, that sense of adventure and play is what makes us who we are
If everything has been nurtured, do you think what we are is what we are really are then? if we have been influenced by external stimuli, how can be sure that the choice we make, is really a personal choice?
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when i first had sex (i have to be vague here) i was a clean sheet, id never seen porn or discussed sex
I was doing stuff that i didnt know had names or anything. I was just doing stuff. When porno mags where passed around i didnt take much notice. I never was and still dont have any interest in anyone elses sex life
My influences came from my own thoughts, finding myself in different situations and from more experienced people i had sex with.
Its only in even recent times ive discovered some of the names for stuff.
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"I would say Nature, what you like is what you like. The extreme is peodophlia, who would choose that ?
Very out there I grant, but having read the ops post it's the first thing that came to mind.
Actually you may have a point, even if I hate those people, they do claim that they can't help themselves... where do we put that then ?
Nature or Nurture?
Are some of us born already broke then ? "
A horrifying thought. |
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"I would say Nature, what you like is what you like. The extreme is peodophlia, who would choose that ? "
Very out there I grant, but having read the ops post it's the first thing that came to
Interesting (and rather brave) point. On the other hand though, in the vast, vast majority of cases paedophiles have a familiar pattern of "traumas," usually in childhood, that influenced them just as, say, finding a stash of porn in your dad's wardrobe may influence you to have a thing for redheads, or chubby funsters, or lactating lovelies in adult life. For example, almost all convicted paedophiles were themselves sexually abused as children. |
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"Even though we all know that we do respond to some biological basic urges, yet we are social creatures.
-Do you think sexual tastes/preferences can be acquired ? In other words do you think your sexual preferences come from nurture or nature ?
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Nature. It's programmed. |
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"Even though we all know that we do respond to some biological basic urges, yet we are social creatures.
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They can no doubt be acquired, but I have kept to my innate ones, just suits me!  |
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"Even though we all know that we do respond to some biological basic urges, yet we are social creatures.
-Do you think sexual tastes/preferences can be acquired ? In other words do you think your sexual preferences come from nurture or nature ?
They can no doubt be acquired, but I have kept to my innate ones, just suits me! "
Which are ? How can you tell the difference between the innate and nurtured ones? |
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I think that while there are innate sexual urges, some of the things I now enjoy have been due to me stripping away assumed constraints due to my upbringing and social conditioning. Willingness to experiment has blown away some of the things I would have dismissed and avoided at an earlier age. I'm pretty sure I wasn't born with my sexual orientation but rather it developed over my lifetime, albeit it may have been innate but just needed uncovering. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In other words do you think your sexual preferences come from nurture or nature ?
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My sexual preferences are and have been pretty fucking static.
But my *understanding* of my OWN preferences are a helluva lot more clearer since being on here. |
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