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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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Sumone from fab walking on the street or in a coffee shop or in a shop or sumthing.... Wood you stop and say hi to them ?
If yes Plees say y
If no Plees say y
Senceatball arnsers Plees. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have, I saw a local lady in the Post Office. She has public face pics and distinctive hair.
No I wouldn't say anything (and didn't) because privacy and discretion is important to a lot of people, myself included. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unless we actually knew them well enough, probably not. Some people wouldn't mind being approached in vanilla life, some people would, so we wouldn't like to take the risk of offending them or freaking them out by doing so. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Yes I probably would. But if be discreet about it and hopefully neither of us would find it too award 
Would you ?? "
If I noticed sumone from fab I recarnised then yes I wood. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be pissed off if someone approached me in public saying they were from here and recognised me. Reason being, I'm normally with my child when out in public. If they had to make it known that they saw me then a message on here would be enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be pissed off if someone approached me in public saying they were from here and recognised me. Reason being, I'm normally with my child when out in public. If they had to make it known that they saw me then a message on here would be enough. "
This. If we were with our kiddies which we usually are then you would see Mama Lion come out to play.
If we were without our kiddies then it wouldn't bother us.
Eve. X |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'd be pissed off if someone approached me in public saying they were from here and recognised me. Reason being, I'm normally with my child when out in public. If they had to make it known that they saw me then a message on here would be enough. "
I didount say you say your from hear...I sed wood you say hi.
Cos just saying hi wood be enuff to find out if thay recarnice you or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be pissed off if someone approached me in public saying they were from here and recognised me. Reason being, I'm normally with my child when out in public. If they had to make it known that they saw me then a message on here would be enough.
This. If we were with our kiddies which we usually are then you would see Mama Lion come out to play.
If we were without our kiddies then it wouldn't bother us.
Eve. X"
As per the OP. I'm assuming they are in their own. If with friends / family then no. Why would you want to embarrass a stranger in public. That's not acceptable in any walk of life. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends how well I know them. I've bumped into a woman who was part of a couple before and we stopped and had a little chat, I bumped into the couple again and we stopped and had a chat, only this time I had my kids with me.
If it was just someone id seen at a club, or recognised their pics, I'd say nothing. |
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I wouldnt but ive had someone come up to me id spoken to on here they had seen me loads but was the first time they had the chance to do it discretly.
Only time it would bother me is if i was looking like shit or took it upon themselves to start screaming down the street at the tip of therd voices. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I'd be pissed off if someone approached me in public saying they were from here and recognised me. Reason being, I'm normally with my child when out in public. If they had to make it known that they saw me then a message on here would be enough.
This. If we were with our kiddies which we usually are then you would see Mama Lion come out to play.
If we were without our kiddies then it wouldn't bother us.
Eve. X"
We've had smiles & nods when with the kids which is fine.
We wouldn't approach of we hadn't met previously, but someone we knew IF they were on their own then yes we would.
S |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll just make it clear I sed wood you say hi ?
Hi being all you say !"
Wouldn't even say hi, or acknowledge them. To us it's simply respecting their privacy. And it would be creepy if somebody did it to us, so we imagine most other people would be the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be pissed off if someone approached me in public saying they were from here and recognised me. Reason being, I'm normally with my child when out in public. If they had to make it known that they saw me then a message on here would be enough.
I didount say you say your from hear...I sed wood you say hi.
Cos just saying hi wood be enuff to find out if thay recarnice you or not."
No I wouldn't because I don't say hello to random people, I smile at elderly people but usually when I'm out in public I'm either working or I'm in a rush to get somewhere. |
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"I'd be pissed off if someone approached me in public saying they were from here and recognised me. Reason being, I'm normally with my child when out in public. If they had to make it known that they saw me then a message on here would be enough.
I didount say you say your from hear...I sed wood you say hi.
Cos just saying hi wood be enuff to find out if thay recarnice you or not.
No I wouldn't because I don't say hello to random people, I smile at elderly people but usually when I'm out in public I'm either working or I'm in a rush to get somewhere. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. I've even passed guys I've met in the street and not acknowledged them...I make it clear that this is what will happen if we ever bump into each other though.
I'd be mightily pissed off if some random from Fab encroached on my private life and approached me in public. A message on here is all I want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go about in my own little world so probably wouldn't notice anyone to be fair.
Someone can say hi to me if I'm alone. But if with my kids then back off and keep walking! |
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"Sumone from fab walking on the street or in a coffee shop or in a shop or sumthing.... Wood you stop and say hi to them ?
If yes Plees say y
If no Plees say y
Senceatball arnsers Plees."
If they were alone and we'd met then yes.
If they were with someone else then no.
If we'd never met then no. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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Under the turm swingers are ment to be friendly its interesting a lot of people woodount even say hi if thay sor sumone thay have seen on hear.
Im not juging anyone and im not telling anyone wot to do.
So Plees don't get the rong idear.
But its interesting that a lot of people on a socil website won't be as socil of the web.
On hear people say hi and lots other things to sumone thay have never even seen b4 and think nuthing of it. But won't even say hi to sumone of the web thay have seen b4 on the web ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll just make it clear I sed wood you say hi ?
Hi being all you say !
Wouldn't even say hi, or acknowledge them. To us it's simply respecting their privacy. And it would be creepy if somebody did it to us, so we imagine most other people would be the same. "
I'd find it creepy too. I find it creepy enough getting messages saying "hey, I saw you today at..." even though it's never actually been me they've seen. |
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"Under the turm swingers are ment to be friendly its interesting a lot of people woodount even say hi if thay sor sumone thay have seen on hear.
Im not juging anyone and im not telling anyone wot to do.
So Plees don't get the rong idear.
But its interesting that a lot of people on a socil website won't be as socil of the web.
On hear people say hi and lots other things to sumone thay have never even seen b4 and think nuthing of it. But won't even say hi to sumone of the web thay have seen b4 on the web ???"
I dont feel you are judging anyone here.. just curious what people would do given the circumstances. |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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Absolutely not!
I would have absolutely no idea if they would want to be approached while off fab, I wouldn't know who they were with.
I would smile (wouldn't be able to help myself) or would it be a cheeky grin?
I would then possibly message on fab, but only if we had spoken before otherwise it would be more than a little creepy |
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Nope...
1) we have a life away from fab and the two NEVER meet
2) 9 times out of ten we have dax's son with us, so again nope
3) unless we knew each other really well.....and i am talking REALLY well we wouldnt approach because you dont know whos with them.
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"I'd be pissed off if someone approached me in public saying they were from here and recognised me. Reason being, I'm normally with my child when out in public. If they had to make it known that they saw me then a message on here would be enough.
This. If we were with our kiddies which we usually are then you would see Mama Lion come out to play.
If we were without our kiddies then it wouldn't bother us.
Eve. X"
Same here!
I've had guys message me on my old profile saying they spotted me in my local supermarket! I told them to feel free to say hi in future as long as I wasn't with the kids! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope!
Fab life and nilla life are 2 separate, unless we knew the person very well and they didn't mind... but usually we don't even make eye contact with other members on here in everyday life.
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Under the turm swingers are ment to be friendly its interesting a lot of people woodount even say hi if thay sor sumone thay have seen on hear.
Im not juging anyone and im not telling anyone wot to do.
So Plees don't get the rong idear.
But its interesting that a lot of people on a socil website won't be as socil of the web.
On hear people say hi and lots other things to sumone thay have never even seen b4 and think nuthing of it. But won't even say hi to sumone of the web thay have seen b4 on the web ???"
Thing is this isn't supposed to be a social website, its supposed to be a place to get sex in all its lovely forms, Treat it as a sex site first the social side is a bonus, swap them round and itll turn to shit.
You as a single guy saying hi to a girl you've met before may be fine, saying it to her while she's shopping with hubby who doesn't even know this place exists and maybe you never even knew he did either is not going to end well..
As said if we'd met in a club & knew them by name we probably would if they were on their own anyone else forget it..
S |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I wouldn't, I wouldn't look or acknowledge them at all and I would not be happy to be approached either
Swinging is just a hobby to me and I keep it separate to my 'real life'. If I'd been involved in a threesome the night before and saw that person in Asda the next day I would look through them with no acknowledgement of ever having met them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. duck of the bay (remember him?) and I live near each other and our kids went to clubs in the same place. We just used to raise our eyebrows in a 'alright mate' kinda way
I would be pretty pissed off if anyone else just randomly started chatting to me tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I knew them well and had chatted then I might say hi, beyond that not a chance. Viewing someone's pictures and knowing what they look like doesn't infer any form of connection or intimacy |
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