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Girl who is Keeping fit is sexy ??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im now doing situps in bed. Ill post proof too!!
Nah im ok just saying i love girls in gym pants and tops.
Its the same for you guys ... is a fit bod on a girl best or curves?
I battle with my weigh sometimes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about all the other body shapes?
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I wouldn't worry, I've seen various threads and posts putting down women that work out or want to be muscular and toned.
Most people will happily tell me how I'm making my body look disgusting and unattractive..they say this to my face. Not one or two folk...loads!
I've never once said anything negative to a person about their body shape.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about all the other body shapes?
I wouldn't worry, I've seen various threads and posts putting down women that work out or want to be muscular and toned.
Most people will happily tell me how I'm making my body look disgusting and unattractive..they say this to my face. Not one or two folk...loads!
I've never once said anything negative to a person about their body shape.
Eve. X"
It's your body, no one has the right to tell you what you can or can't do with it. If you want to get toned up then so be it, it's your choice.
Some people should keep their thoughts to themselves if they don't like it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What about all the other body shapes?
I wouldn't worry, I've seen various threads and posts putting down women that work out or want to be muscular and toned.
Most people will happily tell me how I'm making my body look disgusting and unattractive..they say this to my face. Not one or two folk...loads!
I've never once said anything negative to a person about their body shape.
Eve. X
It's your body, no one has the right to tell you what you can or can't do with it. If you want to get toned up then so be it, it's your choice.
Some people should keep their thoughts to themselves if they don't like it "
Couldn't agree more, I blew up at one of my work colleagues after taking crap all week for my eating habits and gym routine.
I asked her why she found it acceptable to say that to me but would never tell a person that they are disgusting and overweight/underweight. They were speechless at first and then admitted they would never do that but felt the need to express their opinion on my body type but couldn't explain why. She did apologise and did see my point.
There was a tread about women who do bodybuilding etc yesterday, made me feel crappy about myself. Tis life though. There are body types of all shapes and sizes and I will never please everyone.
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
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I adore a fit body and work to keep mine in some sort of decent shape.
However, beautiful eyes, smile and personality trump everything! Don't really care what shape someone is in if they have those. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While we all have preferences a person comfortable in their own skin will always be more attractive than one that isn't. But no one body type is 'best' and people that argue one is are pretty short sighted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about all the other body shapes?
I wouldn't worry, I've seen various threads and posts putting down women that work out or want to be muscular and toned.
Most people will happily tell me how I'm making my body look disgusting and unattractive..they say this to my face. Not one or two folk...loads!
I've never once said anything negative to a person about their body shape.
Eve. X"
Women who do weight lifting are incredibly dedicated and I personally love it when they can squat and bench press more than guys at the gym!
There's this stupid misconception that just because you want to lift weights, that you're building huge muscles.
I have no idea why people need to comment on anyone's body. People are such dicks! |
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I don't have a gym fit bod. But I could probably out lift and out run a lot of the women that claim to have.
But at the end of the day it's about what you find attractive. So go forth and seek my friend!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about all the other body shapes?
I wouldn't worry, I've seen various threads and posts putting down women that work out or want to be muscular and toned.
Most people will happily tell me how I'm making my body look disgusting and unattractive..they say this to my face. Not one or two folk...loads!
I've never once said anything negative to a person about their body shape.
Eve. X
Women who do weight lifting are incredibly dedicated and I personally love it when they can squat and bench press more than guys at the gym!
There's this stupid misconception that just because you want to lift weights, that you're building huge muscles.
I have no idea why people need to comment on anyone's body. People are such dicks! "
Aww thanks doll! If people realised how hard it was for women to build muscle, they may reconsider ha ha.
I don't understand the urge either. It's crazy, variety is the spice of life as they say.
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"I too have learnt that the only acceptable answer is "face".
Mr ddc
There's nothing wrong with having preferences... "
True, but if anyone who comments on someone's body shape is a dick, then it makes expressing them too difficult for someone like me to successfully navigate.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I too have learnt that the only acceptable answer is "face".
Mr ddc
There's nothing wrong with having preferences...
True, but if anyone who comments on someone's body shape is a dick, then it makes expressing them too difficult for someone like me to successfully navigate.
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Did you actually see Eve's original post? She said that someone at work came and commented on her body without her asking for an opinion. Those people are dicks. The one's who don't realise they can make you feel truly terrible about yourself.
Please don't twist my reply to someone else to mean other things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I too have learnt that the only acceptable answer is "face".
Mr ddc
There's nothing wrong with having preferences...
True, but if anyone who comments on someone's body shape is a dick, then it makes expressing them too difficult for someone like me to successfully navigate.
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Not true doll, definitely feel free to express your preferences!
It's possible to do so without actually slating any particular body types. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own obviously, for me personally I ain't a fan of the gym social media clan...
If you go the gym just go the god damn gym "
Yeah with you on that! When I do look at my Facebook my news feed is filled with gym selfies and meal prep pictures! |
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Please don't twist my reply to someone else to mean other things. "
Tbf that isn't your only reply to people who have dared express a preference. You have form.
Which is why I'm sticking to "face".
Surely that can't be contentious? |
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"It's possible to do so without actually slating any particular body types.
Eve. X"
Sadly it really isn't, if you state one, the others all take umbrage.
It is safer to keep one's preferences to oneself, which of course is what they want you to do... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please don't twist my reply to someone else to mean other things.
Tbf that isn't your only reply to people who have dared express a preference. You have form.
Which is why I'm sticking to "face".
Surely that can't be contentious? "
I'm afraid I'm going to have to completely disagree with you there.
I'm a firm believer that everyone has a preference. I'm quite strong in my opinions about body shapes and sizes and don't agree when people are negative about them. I think you'll find that the only time I have commented is if someone has been overly negative, harsh or judgmental about a body size. Be it slim or bigger. Also, some generalise on here, which I will comment on.
I'd be interested to see these replies you speak of... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about an unfit bod in gym clothes!  "
That's more like it 
I'd rather that than a me planet of the apes person, they drink that yellow stuff in tins... |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Face, personality, that's it first & foremost for us really, shape, size, whatever are secondary if we click we click..
Admire the "push" people have to keep a toned body, but not the look at me Fab feeds I get, I'd rather see a clothed pic of you walking a dog tbh rather than sweaty cleavages & arsecracks half way through 20 sets of xyz
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about an unfit bod in gym clothes!
That's more like it
I'd rather that than a me planet of the apes person, they drink that yellow stuff in tins... "
What the f**k is that stuff they d*unk in tins?
The chavs round here walk round the streets drinking it, all 3 and a half stone of them wet through so it can't be doing anything for building mass
It does seem quite trendy within the local chav community though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about an unfit bod in gym clothes!
That's more like it
I'd rather that than a me planet of the apes person, they drink that yellow stuff in tins...
What the f**k is that stuff they d*unk in tins?
The chavs round here walk round the streets drinking it, all 3 and a half stone of them wet through so it can't be doing anything for building mass
It does seem quite trendy within the local chav community though "
It's an energy drink called Monster in these parts... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about an unfit bod in gym clothes!
That's more like it
I'd rather that than a me planet of the apes person, they drink that yellow stuff in tins...
What the f**k is that stuff they d*unk in tins?
The chavs round here walk round the streets drinking it, all 3 and a half stone of them wet through so it can't be doing anything for building mass
It does seem quite trendy within the local chav community though
It's an energy drink called Monster in these parts..."
This is like a milk shake I believe
I believe it's supposed to be a high protein drink to build muscle but it obviously don't work |
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"How about an unfit bod in gym clothes!
That's more like it
I'd rather that than a me planet of the apes person, they drink that yellow stuff in tins...
What the f**k is that stuff they d*unk in tins?
The chavs round here walk round the streets drinking it, all 3 and a half stone of them wet through so it can't be doing anything for building mass
It does seem quite trendy within the local chav community though
It's an energy drink called Monster in these parts...
This is like a milk shake I believe
I believe it's supposed to be a high protein drink to build muscle but it obviously don't work "
Yeah, you have to actually train as well for it to work. Twocking and swaggering around with no shirt on and a thickset dog on a piece of string don't really count... |
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Sooooo, how's this thread doing...
Let's see:
Gym-fit guy says "hi" - thread full in under an hour.
Gym-fit woman says "hi" - 9 hours later, 40 posts in, hardly a single complimentary post.
Is there not a better example of Tall-Poppy Syndrome on Fab, and how a small, and sometimes extremely aggressive, minority can force their insecurities onto others?
I wonder if there are any examples of people posting on both threads...
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I feel guilty now, OP, so may I apologise, and be the first to say you are very attractive, and welcome to the forums.
(unless you've blocked shorties, obvs)
Mr ddc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a women with six pack. Major turn on for me. I don't mind a women with has some strength as well.
I admire lots of people who find the time to look after there bodies even if they ain't ripped to hell but they go gym and make an effort. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Sooooo, how's this thread doing...
Let's see:
Gym-fit guy says "hi" - thread full in under an hour.
Gym-fit woman says "hi" - 9 hours later, 40 posts in, hardly a single complimentary post.
Is there not a better example of Tall-Poppy Syndrome on Fab, and how a small, and sometimes extremely aggressive, minority can force their insecurities onto others?
I wonder if there are any examples of people posting on both threads...
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I feel guilty now, OP, so may I apologise, and be the first to say you are very attractive, and welcome to the forums.
(unless you've blocked shorties, obvs)
Mr ddc"
I sort of passed this thread by when it first was posted - I didn't see any introductory message or greeting and thought it would be about gymming which to me is an unnecessary evil (although I admire those who push through that barrier).
I believe that by inaccurately describing it as Tall Poppy syndrome (being fit isn't a high status) there's projection of your inner feelings that it should be resulting in the inaccurate interpretation of the thread as being projected insecurities. There are better examples of Tall Poppy syndrome as this thread is not one.
Anyways, welcome OP! Sorry for failing to see it as an introductory thread, I hope you settle in well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I didn't see it as an introductory thread, either. In fact it's asking about people's preferences. Whereas the other thread was someone introducing themselves by saying hello... |
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"I didn't see it as an introductory thread, either. In fact it's asking about people's preferences. Whereas the other thread was someone introducing themselves by saying hello..."
I often check the green arrow if it is a name I don't recognise. I think it is important not to scare off the newbies, otherwise who are we left with on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't see it as an introductory thread, either. In fact it's asking about people's preferences. Whereas the other thread was someone introducing themselves by saying hello...
I often check the green arrow if it is a name I don't recognise. I think it is important not to scare off the newbies, otherwise who are we left with on here? "
Yeah, it's hard being a newbie here. I totally agree it's important not to scare anyone off.
The OP posted 26 weeks ago though... |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"I didn't see it as an introductory thread, either. In fact it's asking about people's preferences. Whereas the other thread was someone introducing themselves by saying hello..."
The other thread was an introductory thread with nothing atall that mentioned gym or body trype. This is a comp different thread and no comparison I agree blue eyes |
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"The OP posted 26 weeks ago though... "
That's right. Once.
They tried again 20 weeks ago. Once.
Also a fortnight ago. Twice.
I hope they'll find this time more to their liking and hang around, what do you think? |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"I didn't see it as an introductory thread, either. In fact it's asking about people's preferences. Whereas the other thread was someone introducing themselves by saying hello...
I often check the green arrow if it is a name I don't recognise. I think it is important not to scare off the newbies, otherwise who are we left with on here?
Yeah, it's hard being a newbie here. I totally agree it's important not to scare anyone off.
The OP posted 26 weeks ago though... "
Yes and the post the other day was his first post introducing himself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sooooo, how's this thread doing...
Let's see:
Gym-fit guy says "hi" - thread full in under an hour.
Gym-fit woman says "hi" - 9 hours later, 40 posts in, hardly a single complimentary post.
Is there not a better example of Tall-Poppy Syndrome on Fab, and how a small, and sometimes extremely aggressive, minority can force their insecurities onto others?
I wonder if there are any examples of people posting on both threads...
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I feel guilty now, OP, so may I apologise, and be the first to say you are very attractive, and welcome to the forums.
(unless you've blocked shorties, obvs)
Mr ddc"
Do we actually know that it's the female of the couple who has posted this thread? I'm not aware that he or she was describing themselves as gym fit either, as opposed to commenting on a physique and clothing they liked to see on others.
Anyway, like Meli, I think it's an inaccurate comparison between two completely different types of threads, posted at different times of day. And if your comparison thread is the one I'm thinking of, a lot of the posts on that were as a result of his dismissive comments about other men, and people objecting to that. A lot of fawning as well, of course. But I think you're trying to make this into something that it's not. |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"I didn't see it as an introductory thread, either. In fact it's asking about people's preferences. Whereas the other thread was someone introducing themselves by saying hello...
I often check the green arrow if it is a name I don't recognise. I think it is important not to scare off the newbies, otherwise who are we left with on here? "
But their not newbies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The OP posted 26 weeks ago though...
That's right. Once.
They tried again 20 weeks ago. Once.
Also a fortnight ago. Twice.
I hope they'll find this time more to their liking and hang around, what do you think? "
I know you're pushing for the double standards argument, but the other thread popularity was actually, like Ruby said, as a result of some not-so-nice comments. |
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"Do we actually know that it's the female of the couple who has posted this thread?"
She said "I'm doing sit-ups. I'll post proof" and had a pic of her doing sit-ups. There status says "hi". So yes, I think that confirms it as a LAM thread.
The fact that the sit-up pic has now been removed after the reaction this thread received? Who knows.
As you know, I just like to call-out bullshit" and make people think. If they choose not to do so, that is not my business. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do we actually know that it's the female of the couple who has posted this thread?
She said "I'm doing sit-ups. I'll post proof" and had a pic of her doing sit-ups. There status says "hi". So yes, I think that confirms it as a LAM thread.
The fact that the sit-up pic has now been removed after the reaction this thread received? Who knows.
As you know, I just like to call-out bullshit" and make people think. If they choose not to do so, that is not my business."
I didn't see that pic. So I can only comment on what the thread actually says. Which doesn't say whether it's the male or female, doesn't say "I'm a gym fit woman" and doesn't say "I'm new, hello." You've ignored the rest of my post, and that's fine, but I don't class it as bullshit. There are many fine examples on here on a daily basis of double standards and bullshit, I remain completely unconvinced that this is one of them. |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"Do we actually know that it's the female of the couple who has posted this thread?
She said "I'm doing sit-ups. I'll post proof" and had a pic of her doing sit-ups. There status says "hi". So yes, I think that confirms it as a LAM thread.
The fact that the sit-up pic has now been removed after the reaction this thread received? Who knows.
As you know, I just like to call-out bullshit" and make people think. If they choose not to do so, that is not my business."
I did see the picture. And I do think it was a LAM thread though I'm with you on that |
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"Do we actually know that it's the female of the couple who has posted this thread?
She said "I'm doing sit-ups. I'll post proof" and had a pic of her doing sit-ups. There status says "hi". So yes, I think that confirms it as a LAM thread.
The fact that the sit-up pic has now been removed after the reaction this thread received? Who knows.
As you know, I just like to call-out bullshit" and make people think. If they choose not to do so, that is not my business.
I didn't see that pic. So I can only comment on what the thread actually says. Which doesn't say whether it's the male or female, doesn't say "I'm a gym fit woman" and doesn't say "I'm new, hello." You've ignored the rest of my post, and that's fine, but I don't class it as bullshit. There are many fine examples on here on a daily basis of double standards and bullshit, I remain completely unconvinced that this is one of them. "
Meh. I saw the word "gym", I saw the word "fit", I paraphrased in order to enhance the similarities.
As for the rest, yes, everyone ignored my point about why "hi guys do you prefer fit women"(paraphrasing again, but it's there if you look) achieved such a different response, too.
Plus ça change, eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do we actually know that it's the female of the couple who has posted this thread?
She said "I'm doing sit-ups. I'll post proof" and had a pic of her doing sit-ups. There status says "hi". So yes, I think that confirms it as a LAM thread.
The fact that the sit-up pic has now been removed after the reaction this thread received? Who knows.
As you know, I just like to call-out bullshit" and make people think. If they choose not to do so, that is not my business.
I didn't see that pic. So I can only comment on what the thread actually says. Which doesn't say whether it's the male or female, doesn't say "I'm a gym fit woman" and doesn't say "I'm new, hello." You've ignored the rest of my post, and that's fine, but I don't class it as bullshit. There are many fine examples on here on a daily basis of double standards and bullshit, I remain completely unconvinced that this is one of them.
Meh. I saw the word "gym", I saw the word "fit", I paraphrased in order to enhance the similarities.
As for the rest, yes, everyone ignored my point about why "hi guys do you prefer fit women"(paraphrasing again, but it's there if you look) achieved such a different response, too.
Plus ça change, eh? "
No, they didn't. Your point was comparing two threads. People commented specifically on that. So yes, the thread the other night *did* receive a different response. It was a completely different type of thread, for reasons which have been pointed out. |
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By *eliWoman
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"Do we actually know that it's the female of the couple who has posted this thread?
She said "I'm doing sit-ups. I'll post proof" and had a pic of her doing sit-ups. There status says "hi". So yes, I think that confirms it as a LAM thread.
The fact that the sit-up pic has now been removed after the reaction this thread received? Who knows.
As you know, I just like to call-out bullshit" and make people think. If they choose not to do so, that is not my business.
I didn't see that pic. So I can only comment on what the thread actually says. Which doesn't say whether it's the male or female, doesn't say "I'm a gym fit woman" and doesn't say "I'm new, hello." You've ignored the rest of my post, and that's fine, but I don't class it as bullshit. There are many fine examples on here on a daily basis of double standards and bullshit, I remain completely unconvinced that this is one of them.
Meh. I saw the word "gym", I saw the word "fit", I paraphrased in order to enhance the similarities.
As for the rest, yes, everyone ignored my point about why "hi guys do you prefer fit women"(paraphrasing again, but it's there if you look) achieved such a different response, too.
Plus ça change, eh? "
A different response due to it not being what either poster stated. If both posters were to have started the introductory message at similar times the response would have been similar. I understand there is umbrage on your part due to lack of appreciation for 'fit' women but I fail to see how two threads so different are accurate comparative tools to peddle your point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I too have learnt that the only acceptable answer is "face".
Mr ddc
There's nothing wrong with having preferences...
True, but if anyone who comments on someone's body shape is a dick, then it makes expressing them too difficult for someone like me to successfully navigate.
Did you actually see Eve's original post? She said that someone at work came and commented on her body without her asking for an opinion. Those people are dicks. The one's who don't realise they can make you feel truly terrible about yourself.
Please don't twist my reply to someone else to mean other things. "
l agree that those people are dicks but you can't let someone else make you feel terrible about yourself. l can genuinely say that despite any hateful messages l've had, it has never made me feel bad about my body or myself. |
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A different response due to it not being what either poster stated. If both posters were to have started the introductory message at similar times the response would have been similar. I understand there is umbrage on your part due to lack of appreciation for 'fit' women but I fail to see how two threads so different are accurate comparative tools to peddle your point."
So you don't find it in any way interesting that not a single man was comfortable about saying "I find fit women sexy" despite the evidence of hot pics?
No umbrage on my part, I just thought I smelled something fishy, and wondered if I was alone.
It seems I am.
Which is fine.
I still haven't disclosed my preference, which you would find ironic if you knew... |
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By *eliWoman
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"So you don't find it in any way interesting that not a single man was comfortable about saying "I find fit women sexy" despite the evidence of hot pics?
No umbrage on my part, I just thought I smelled something fishy, and wondered if I was alone.
It seems I am.
Which is fine.
I still haven't disclosed my preference, which you would find ironic if you knew... "
No, I don't find it particularly interesting. People post how they wish, when they wish. An attempt to correlate it in order to get across a point is not something my mind would do. I guess I just think differently. Your preference in what? Fit men or women? Body types? Women? Cars? I'm not being facetious but I genuinely do not know and the ellipses have only added to the insurmountable task of deciphering that final sentence. |
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