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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So walking into work today I was talking to another employee who is far my superior but I get on well with. We were talking about how she's having problems with her legs and then she looked at me and said she needs a handsome young man to massage her ass....
Am I looking into this too much. Am I just being neive and stupid because I've been thinking about that ass all day
Ps. She's about 20 years older than me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So walking into work today I was talking to another employee who is far my superior but I get on well with. We were talking about how she's having problems with her legs and then she looked at me and said she needs a handsome young man to massage her ass....
Am I looking into this too much. Am I just being neive and stupid because I've been thinking about that ass all day
Ps. She's about 20 years older than me "
Get that arse massaged!! Don't hang about she might find someone else  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well it certainly fits with your older woman fantasy (green arrow) but my advice? Don't go there - she has the ability to make your work life a misery if things go wrong.
If this was a male senior colleague saying this to a 20 yo female junior employee then imagine the outrage! 
Inappropriate and unprofessional of her!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""If there's... anything else I can help with, just let me know"
But mixing business and pleasure is always a bad idea IMO.
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That depends on what your job involves I would say. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"So walking into work today I was talking to another employee who is far my superior but I get on well with. We were talking about how she's having problems with her legs and then she looked at me and said she needs a handsome young man to massage her ass....
Am I looking into this too much. Am I just being neive and stupid because I've been thinking about that ass all day
Ps. She's about 20 years older than me "
I'm sorry to be the voice of reason here op but its a work environment and If I was you I'd forget about the whole incident because trust me no good will come out of it .
if you ignore this advice so be it but trust me no good will come on you pissing in your own bed . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She pointed and said right there"
Well if that's true then that's a sexual harassment case you have right there my friend! Get your solicitor on it, imagine the £££ compensation!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She pointed and said right there
Well if that's true then that's a sexual harassment case you have right there my friend! Get your solicitor on it, imagine the £££ compensation! "
It's just his word against hers. Nothing would come of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So walking into work today I was talking to another employee who is far my superior but I get on well with. We were talking about how she's having problems with her legs and then she looked at me and said she needs a handsome young man to massage her ass....
Am I looking into this too much. Am I just being neive and stupid because I've been thinking about that ass all day
Ps. She's about 20 years older than me
I'm sorry to be the voice of reason here op but its a work environment and If I was you I'd forget about the whole incident because trust me no good will come out of it .
if you ignore this advice so be it but trust me no good will come on you pissing in your own bed . "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She pointed and said right there
Well if that's true then that's a sexual harassment case you have right there my friend! Get your solicitor on it, imagine the £££ compensation!
It's just his word against hers. Nothing would come of it."
Think of all the other young impressionable lads that she might be doing this too as well though! People that may be intimidated by her position and seniority and in fear for their jobs!
Nothing may come of it but it might send a warning shot across the bow of a potential corporate sexual predator! Or is it only men that can abuse their position!?
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"So walking into work today I was talking to another employee who is far my superior but I get on well with. We were talking about how she's having problems with her legs and then she looked at me and said she needs a handsome young man to massage her ass....
Am I looking into this too much. Am I just being neive and stupid because I've been thinking about that ass all day
Ps. She's about 20 years older than me "
what was your response to what she said? |
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"I kinda just laughed ot off"
possibly blown it then..
even now someone could be massaging merrily away..
any of your other colleagues tomorrow have a jaunty air and a spring in their step, could be them.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She pointed and said right there
Well if that's true then that's a sexual harassment case you have right there my friend! Get your solicitor on it, imagine the £££ compensation!
It's just his word against hers. Nothing would come of it.
Think of all the other young impressionable lads that she might be doing this too as well though! People that may be intimidated by her position and seniority and in fear for their jobs!
Nothing may come of it but it might send a warning shot across the bow of a potential corporate sexual predator! Or is it only men that can abuse their position!?
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Margaret Thatcher the milk snatcher |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's never a good idea to mix business and pleasure. It rarely ends well. Ever heard of the saying 'don't shit where you eat' OP? Besides, it could genuinely have been a tongue in cheek comment, not necessarily a come on. |
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"She pointed and said right there
Well if that's true then that's a sexual harassment case you have right there my friend! Get your solicitor on it, imagine the £££ compensation! "
That is interesting though, isn't it? Even I was about to simply tell the OP just to treat it as a bit of fun, and yet, if the sexes were reversed...
It makes one wonder, is it sexist to assume that a 20yr old woman needs the full weight of an Industrial Tribunal behind her, whereas a man is expected just to be able to deal with it himself? 
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OP: I had something similar (though more extreme) when I was 18, with the wife of the couple who took me in. She enjoyed the attention, as did I, and she was safe in the knowledge that I was too shy to ever do anything about it.
I suspect this woman considers you to be the same.
Mr ddc |
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