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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi peeps. Tried unsuccessfully to introduce my wife into swinging, but it's not for her and she's not keen to verify to others members that I have permission to play on my own. As own marital bed sees no action these days, I have decided to see discreet fun for myself, as I have no intention of leaving my wife and an alternative outlet for my high sex drive is my favoured option to keep equilibrium..
As this site is mainly for swinging couples or singles who'd like to join couples, I thought it might be a good idea to look for a website for married singles looking to have discreet fun outside of there own marriage.
What is the best free site/group to join that you know of ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi peeps. Tried unsuccessfully to introduce my wife into swinging, but it's not for her and she's not keen to verify to others members that I have permission to play on my own. As own marital bed sees no action these days, I have decided to see discreet fun for myself, as I have no intention of leaving my wife and an alternative outlet for my high sex drive is my favoured option to keep equilibrium..
As this site is mainly for swinging couples or singles who'd like to join couples, I thought it might be a good idea to look for a website for married singles looking to have discreet fun outside of there own marriage.
What is the best free site/group to join that you know of ????"
So just to clarify that.
Your wife knows what you plan? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The famous infidelity-specific sites are totally hideous.
Plenty of people manage to meet each other on here, don't believe everything you read in the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The suggestion I have is this:
Hang around hotel bars near either the NEC, Olympia or ExCeL.... nothing screams "affair" more than a conference away from home.... the booze on the company; the handiness of a hotel room; the "being far from home" all mix into a melting pot of discreet indiscretion...
Note I am a single skinny guy; I used to hang around outside the ballet in tight fitting jeans in the hope that the ladies that had enjoyed the evenings entertainment wanted to take some home with them.....
what? What did I say? |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
It's a trip to the naughty step if folk post other sites names...I'm sure there's a well known search engine that will help though.. rhyme s with frugal..  |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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The OP confuses me. If she's "not keen" to verify permission to others, does that mean permission exists, but she doesn't want to be confronted with it, ie "fine, do what you like, I'm having nothing to do with it"?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The OP confuses me. If she's "not keen" to verify permission to others, does that mean permission exists, but she doesn't want to be confronted with it, ie "fine, do what you like, I'm having nothing to do with it"?
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That makes perfect sense to me. There are plenty of people whose partners want no part in giving "permission". Don't ask, don't tell type arrangements. Although tbh it's easier to just say cheating because small minds can understand that more easily and avoid accordingly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi peeps. Tried unsuccessfully to introduce my wife into swinging, but it's not for her and she's not keen to verify to others members that I have permission to play on my own. As own marital bed sees no action these days, I have decided to see discreet fun for myself, as I have no intention of leaving my wife and an alternative outlet for my high sex drive is my favoured option to keep equilibrium..
As this site is mainly for swinging couples or singles who'd like to join couples, I thought it might be a good idea to look for a website for married singles looking to have discreet fun outside of there own marriage.
What is the best free site/group to join that you know of ????
So just to clarify that.
Your wife knows what you plan?"
No wife doesn't know my plan. When we've spoken about her being off sex, she has always said I should find another lady to have fun with, but that she doesn't want to know about it and it mustn't effect our current life. xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"only got fab to go off - sure google will offer a zillion choices"
Yeah, google offered so many choices, I thought asking here might narrow it down a bit xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good luck op . You are being honest so it's up to those that hopefully meet you to decide x  "
Thanks guys... I try to keep it real or there's no point xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Illicit encounters
It's free
Thanks, I'll check it out xx"
It's not free if you actually want to get anywhere with it and send and read messages. Bloody expensive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Illicit encounters
It's free
Thanks, I'll check it out xx
It's not free if you actually want to get anywhere with it and send and read messages. Bloody expensive! "
It may be free for women but it ain't for guys! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The OP confuses me. If she's "not keen" to verify permission to others, does that mean permission exists, but she doesn't want to be confronted with it, ie "fine, do what you like, I'm having nothing to do with it"?
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You have it in one. She doesn't want to be confronted with it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The OP confuses me. If she's "not keen" to verify permission to others, does that mean permission exists, but she doesn't want to be confronted with it, ie "fine, do what you like, I'm having nothing to do with it"?
That makes perfect sense to me. There are plenty of people whose partners want no part in giving "permission". Don't ask, don't tell type arrangements. Although tbh it's easier to just say cheating because small minds can understand that more easily and avoid accordingly. "
I like the theory.. whittle out the Ines that won't be interested any way x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Illicit encounters
It's free
Thanks, I'll check it out xx
It's not free if you actually want to get anywhere with it and send and read messages. Bloody expensive!
It may be free for women but it ain't for guys! "
That's what happens On all the other sites I've tried, it claims to be free, but when I try to read any messages it requires payment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a trip to the naughty step if folk post other sites names...I'm sure there's a well known search engine that will help though.. rhyme s with frugal.. "
I was made to promise not to use Bugle.com ever again after the last disaster. Who'd of thought a Russian wife could be so hard to get rid of  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex husband (RIP) played away and I used to sit at home thinking "he's late for dinner....he's either having an affair or he's laying dead in the street".
I always hoped it was the street!
I hope you can work it out...it's not easy and I respect your honesty. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"The OP confuses me. If she's "not keen" to verify permission to others, does that mean permission exists, but she doesn't want to be confronted with it, ie "fine, do what you like, I'm having nothing to do with it"?
That makes perfect sense to me. There are plenty of people whose partners want no part in giving "permission". Don't ask, don't tell type arrangements. Although tbh it's easier to just say cheating because small minds can understand that more easily and avoid accordingly. "
Yes, I understand the principle as well, I just wasn't clear that that WAS the principle.
Since confirmed. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Illicit encounters
It's free
Thanks, I'll check it out xx
It's not free if you actually want to get anywhere with it and send and read messages. Bloody expensive!
It may be free for women but it ain't for guys!
That's what happens On all the other sites I've tried, it claims to be free, but when I try to read any messages it requires payment "
Then choose to invest in your future satisfaction. Or don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The OP confuses me. If she's "not keen" to verify permission to others, does that mean permission exists, but she doesn't want to be confronted with it, ie "fine, do what you like, I'm having nothing to do with it"?
That makes perfect sense to me. There are plenty of people whose partners want no part in giving "permission". Don't ask, don't tell type arrangements. Although tbh it's easier to just say cheating because small minds can understand that more easily and avoid accordingly.
Yes, I understand the principle as well, I just wasn't clear that that WAS the principle.
Since confirmed."
Ah, gotcha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just do what every other man does on this site..........lie!!   
EVERY other man??? Really.... "
Exactly! Don't believe everything you read! At least from him anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex husband (RIP) played away and I used to sit at home thinking "he's late for dinner....he's either having an affair or he's laying dead in the street".
I always hoped it was the street!
I hope you can work it out...it's not easy and I respect your honesty."
Think I've worked it out - he was Playing dead in the street?
Silly fellow! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Illicit encounters
It's free
Thanks, I'll check it out xx
It's not free if you actually want to get anywhere with it and send and read messages. Bloody expensive!
It may be free for women but it ain't for guys!
That's what happens On all the other sites I've tried, it claims to be free, but when I try to read any messages it requires payment "
Be very careful. 99% of those sites are scams full of fake profiles. Then just want to fleece you. Google is your friend. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would have thought you'd do ok on this site."
I have made a few friends, and there are some interesting genuine people on here. However I've not managed to engage with anyone local who I have made a connection with.... yet. I'm certainly not throwing in the towel, I had a thought that there might be a group more suited to people in my position xx |
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