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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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I'm in a well-known coffee chain ordering some food that's not unusual you nay think but the thing is I've left a play partner restrained on her bed with a doxy magic wand duck taped to her and stuffed down her panties
I'm thinking when I get back I should really put a end to msuch torture but I cant help thinking I should sit there and drink my cinnamon latte first while o eat this rather nice looking chocolate ginger bread muffin I've brought
So what do you think end the heavenly torture soon as I get back or add to it by sitting opposite her and drinking my coffee while I eat my rather delish looking muffin
I've brought her coffee and a muffin to because she loves then but cant help thinking I should make her wait for hers |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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I'm just outside hers now as for making my own I already washed up her plates and puts from yesterday telling her off as I did it to set the tone for the fun to come .hence why I left her to her torture in the first place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd see that as a red flag actually, the idea is hot yes but there are no safety measures in place, if she's tied completely and an emergency happens while you're having your coffee then she's fked |
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I'm just outside hers now as for making my own I already washed up her plates and puts from yesterday telling her off as I did it to set the tone for the fun to come .hence why I left her to her torture in the first place "
At least heat her coffee up...there's limits and there's hard limits .
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"I'd see that as a red flag actually, the idea is hot yes but there are no safety measures in place, if she's tied completely and an emergency happens while you're having your coffee then she's fked"
I agree, the idea is hot but I wouldn't be up for it. I would not be left in the house alone while restrained, its just too risky. By all means leave me upstairs while you went downstairs for a while, yes, but not go out and just leave me. All it takes is a minor electrical fault to start a small fire and you are dead because you can't get out of the house. |
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"Exactly, I obviously don't know the guy or what experience he has but at this point in time he'd go down in my book as a fake or inexperienced dom "
The trouble is, it isn't even just that: I'm sure the OP is sensible enough to have safeguards in place, but someone else might read this, and copy it, without realising that one important factor.
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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Not a word from the OP for the last 33 minutes. Bet she's giving him a right bollocking, chucked his coffee over him, and the ultimate insult...... crushed that muffin into thousands of crumbs xxxxx Suzi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a word from the OP for the last 33 minutes. Bet she's giving him a right bollocking, chucked his coffee over him, and the ultimate insult...... crushed that muffin into thousands of crumbs xxxxx Suzi "
Hope so lol, a 'dom' that treats a Sub like this dosent deserve her |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I'm sure the OP would of discussed how this morning was going to pan out for them. If she wasn't happy about being left and she said so he would of respected that.
Now, me I would do anything for a flat white and a piece of Costas carrot cake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to work with a bloke who said he did something similar and he said that he left her there all day and when he came back, she had shat her self and then he cracked an egg over her head for some reason.
Dont know how true it was, but it certainly made me chuckle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For all we know she might live above a coffee shop, I'm inclined to give him the benefit of the doubt.
I hope their little adventure is going well and that her coffee is still hot when she gets to enjoy it! |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"I'm sure the OP would of discussed how this morning was going to pan out for them. If she wasn't happy about being left and she said so he would of respected that.
Now, me I would do anything for a flat white and a piece of Costas carrot cake "
Of coarse she knew what was going to happen I was twenty minutes down the road people watching her on a certain appt the whole time .Jesus some in here are just a bunch of safety nuts gone mad . The lady in question has no history of seizures or epilepsy.she is not a lady who enjoys to much pain past a light spanking so one has to find other way to really get her into the zone I want her in and the zone she wants to be in
Dear god do people really think I don't have the best interests of my play partners at heart in all I do because that way I get to enjoy the best of what they has to offer me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure the OP would of discussed how this morning was going to pan out for them. If she wasn't happy about being left and she said so he would of respected that.
Now, me I would do anything for a flat white and a piece of Costas carrot cake
Of coarse she knew what was going to happen I was twenty minutes down the road people watching her on a certain appt the whole time .Jesus some in here are just a bunch of safety nuts gone mad . The lady in question has no history of seizures or epilepsy.she is not a lady who enjoys to much pain past a light spanking so one has to find other way to really get her into the zone I want her in and the zone she wants to be in
Dear god do people really think I don't have the best interests of my play partners at heart in all I do because that way I get to enjoy the best of what they has to offer me "
We can only go by what you said, what did u expect? U know as well as we do that there are too many nuts and fakes out there |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think you may need a visit to the chemist on the way home to buy some soothing lotion because her clit will be red flipping raw.
Bad Man!!!!!"
Which is what she wants she wants to feel it the following day hence her liking rather large toys to |
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Dear god do people really think I don't have the best interests of my play partners at heart in all I do because that way I get to enjoy the best of what they has to offer me "
No, I didn't think that, but can you at least accept the point I was making in my second post?
There are many if us who have leant stuff from this forum.
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think you may need a visit to the chemist on the way home to buy some soothing lotion because her clit will be red flipping raw.
Bad Man!!!!!"
Which is what she wants she wants to feel it the following day or two
Hence needing someone with a lot of restrain who will push her limits when it comes to things like forced orgasms or edging or orgasm denial all things I rather like doing as they appeal to my masculinity |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Did you eat your muffin or bring it back?
Iv invested in the story now and need to know
Focus on the real issue, people "
She had made a bit of a mess the doxy has a habit of doing that to her so I ran a bath for her jumped in with her as well as putting her bed sheets in the washing machine we had the coffee and muffin in the bath
I'm now about to start round two but we only have a hour left as she us working from home today but must start before 2pm . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you eat your muffin or bring it back?
Iv invested in the story now and need to know
Focus on the real issue, people
She had made a bit of a mess the doxy has a habit of doing that to her so I ran a bath for her jumped in with her as well as putting her bed sheets in the washing machine we had the coffee and muffin in the bath
I'm now about to start round two but we only have a hour left as she us working from home today but must start before 2pm ."
Muffin in the bath? You pervert. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you may need a visit to the chemist on the way home to buy some soothing lotion because her clit will be red flipping raw.
Bad Man!!!!!
Which is what she wants she wants to feel it the following day or two
Hence needing someone with a lot of restrain who will push her limits when it comes to things like forced orgasms or edging or orgasm denial all things I rather like doing as they appeal to my masculinity "
Bad Man in a Good Way...I've just bought a Hitachi belt for the same sort of experience!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I don't know about you but the OP had me sold when he said he was in a coffee shop ordering food!
Hot chocolate with all the trimmings and a cake (optional) anyone? |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"I think you may need a visit to the chemist on the way home to buy some soothing lotion because her clit will be red flipping raw.
Bad Man!!!!!
Which is what she wants she wants to feel it the following day or two
Hence needing someone with a lot of restrain who will push her limits when it comes to things like forced orgasms or edging or orgasm denial all things I rather like doing as they appeal to my masculinity
Bad Man in a Good Way...I've just bought a Hitachi belt for the same sort of experience!!!"
Hitachi belt I will have to look that up. have you tried a we-vibe with the phone app and remote for those times when you cant be there in the flesh but you can be in spirit |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Looking forward to her verification later!"
there will be no veri for the simple reason she's not on this site or any site long story and is a regular play partner of mine for just over three years now .
hence me having no qualms about leaving her for twenty minutes to show my absolute control over my lust for her
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"I think you may need a visit to the chemist on the way home to buy some soothing lotion because her clit will be red flipping raw.
Bad Man!!!!!
Which is what she wants she wants to feel it the following day or two
Hence needing someone with a lot of restrain who will push her limits when it comes to things like forced orgasms or edging or orgasm denial all things I rather like doing as they appeal to my masculinity "
I love mr SnT doing this. Edging and forced orgasms whilst being tied to the bed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone left me alone in restraints for about half an hour once and I fell asleep. ..... There's times I wish i could be left alone for half an hour"
Yeah, I think he thought it would build anticipation but he underestimated just how much I like a nap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking forward to her verification later!
there will be no veri for the simple reason she's not on this site or any site long story and is a regular play partner of mine for just over three years now .
hence me having no qualms about leaving her for twenty minutes to show my absolute control over my lust for her
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That's very convenient in relation to this long story! |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Looking forward to her verification later!
there will be no veri for the simple reason she's not on this site or any site long story and is a regular play partner of mine for just over three years now .
hence me having no qualms about leaving her for twenty minutes to show my absolute control over my lust for her
That's very convenient in relation to this long story! "
convenient or not the facts are the facts I have no control over them . |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Someone left me alone in restraints for about half an hour once and I fell asleep. ..... There's times I wish i could be left alone for half an hour
Yeah, I think he thought it would build anticipation but he underestimated just how much I like a nap."
if you can go a sleep with a doxy wand stuffed down your knickers I will tip my hat to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone left me alone in restraints for about half an hour once and I fell asleep. ..... There's times I wish i could be left alone for half an hour
Yeah, I think he thought it would build anticipation but he underestimated just how much I like a nap.
if you can go a sleep with a doxy wand stuffed down your knickers I will tip my hat to you "
Haha, there wasn't...but I go numb after a little while so I could probably manage it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone left me alone in restraints for about half an hour once and I fell asleep. ..... There's times I wish i could be left alone for half an hour
Yeah, I think he thought it would build anticipation but he underestimated just how much I like a nap.
if you can go a sleep with a doxy wand stuffed down your knickers I will tip my hat to you "
That's quite some ropework if you can keep a wand in placed firmly in position without adjustment for 20 minutes
See you at the Shibari Olympics OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never go off and leave a woman shackled to my shagging symbient, I would take her with me, gaffa tapped to the machine and a skate board just kidding I would be there watching to make sure she did not burn out the motor. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Someone left me alone in restraints for about half an hour once and I fell asleep. ..... There's times I wish i could be left alone for half an hour
Yeah, I think he thought it would build anticipation but he underestimated just how much I like a nap.
if you can go a sleep with a doxy wand stuffed down your knickers I will tip my hat to you
That's quite some ropework if you can keep a wand in placed firmly in position without adjustment for 20 minutes
See you at the Shibari Olympics OP "
Clingfilm makes the job super easy
my rope skills are not that great at the minute but I'm working on them for those who need to feel physically restrained although I have a preference for mental restraining myself as it feels more real to me in the fact my play partners are staying put out of real respect for me and there need for me to carry on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm absolutely appalled OP! Really?? I'm truly disgusted..... How could you go to bloody Costa?? Should have gone to an independent coffee shop... Cheaper and you are serving the wider community |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to do this with my.old sub fb. He required to be tied and restrained with a scolds bridle for.good.measure whilst I, his mistress went to tesco for an hour. My.biggest fear was that he could choke or that I could be in an accident. He lived alone in a remote area.
We did this a few times before anxiety and unease crept in on my part so I put an end to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking forward to her verification later!
there will be no veri for the simple reason she's not on this site or any site long story and is a regular play partner of mine for just over three years now .
hence me having no qualms about leaving her for twenty minutes to show my absolute control over my lust for her
That's very convenient in relation to this long story!
convenient or not the facts are the facts I have no control over them ."
Err |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"She had made a bit of a mess the doxy has a habit of doing that to her so I ran a bath for her jumped in with her as well as putting her bed sheets in the washing machine we had the coffee and muffin in the bath
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She had to drink cold Costa coffee? That's all I am getting from this thread. I know you're into dominating your partner but that's unnecessarily cruel OP. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"She had made a bit of a mess the doxy has a habit of doing that to her so I ran a bath for her jumped in with her as well as putting her bed sheets in the washing machine we had the coffee and muffin in the bath
She had to drink cold Costa coffee? That's all I am getting from this thread. I know you're into dominating your partner but that's unnecessarily cruel OP."
errrrr I don't dominate anyone I seduce the right to deliver sex in a way that works for my masculinity and my play partners desires to be played with in a certain way
but I could see how it may look to someone not into BDSM or D/s fun I can assure you she was a willing participant otherwise I wouldn't have played with her in such a way .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought a good dom put the safety and well being of the sub before anything"
Yes yes yes
All fantasy or dangerous play
It's probably a bit 'meh' for her |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm absolutely appalled OP! Really?? I'm truly disgusted..... How could you go to bloody Costa?? Should have gone to an independent coffee shop... Cheaper and you are serving the wider community
you trying to D me from the bottom naughty I will have to have a quite word in your ear when your right on the edge desperate for a finishing touch about trying that "
Is this what I sound like when I describe sexual things, feel like I want to scrub myself with a brillo. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"errrrr I don't dominate anyone I seduce the right to deliver sex in a way that works for my masculinity and my play partners desires to be played with in a certain way
but I could see how it may look to someone not into BDSM or D/s fun I can assure you she was a willing participant otherwise I wouldn't have played with her in such way "
Oh, yeah... I have no interest in BDSM. That must be it. I can't believe she agreed to the cold coffee. That masculinity of yours must work a treat. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm absolutely appalled OP! Really?? I'm truly disgusted..... How could you go to bloody Costa?? Should have gone to an independent coffee shop... Cheaper and you are serving the wider community
you trying to D me from the bottom naughty I will have to have a quite word in your ear when your right on the edge desperate for a finishing touch about trying that
Is this what I sound like when I describe sexual things, feel like I want to scrub myself with a brillo. "
wash more often darling and you wont need to use a brillo |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"I used to do this with my.old sub fb. He required to be tied and restrained with a scolds bridle for.good.measure whilst I, his mistress went to tesco for an hour. My.biggest fear was that he could choke or that I could be in an accident. He lived alone in a remote area.
We did this a few times before anxiety and unease crept in on my part so I put an end to it."
You just step outside the room and let him think you've left him? That way... he's safe and you're on hand. Meanwhile, he's stimulated. |
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"She had made a bit of a mess the doxy has a habit of doing that to her so I ran a bath for her jumped in with her as well as putting her bed sheets in the washing machine we had the coffee and muffin in the bath
She had to drink cold Costa coffee? That's all I am getting from this thread. I know you're into dominating your partner but that's unnecessarily cruel OP.
errrrr I don't dominate anyone I seduce the right to deliver sex in a way that works for my masculinity and my play partners desires to be played with in a certain way
but I could see how it may look to someone not into BDSM or D/s fun I can assure you she was a willing participant otherwise I wouldn't have played with her in such a way .
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Is your 'masculinity' a fact that is out of your control? |
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"I'm absolutely appalled OP! Really?? I'm truly disgusted..... How could you go to bloody Costa?? Should have gone to an independent coffee shop... Cheaper and you are serving the wider community
you trying to D me from the bottom naughty I will have to have a quite word in your ear when your right on the edge desperate for a finishing touch about trying that
Is this what I sound like when I describe sexual things, feel like I want to scrub myself with a brillo.
wash more often darling and you wont need to use a brillo "
Nah situations like this only a brillo would suffice, or maybe one of those soap filled sponges, or wire wool. |
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"I'm absolutely appalled OP! Really?? I'm truly disgusted..... How could you go to bloody Costa?? Should have gone to an independent coffee shop... Cheaper and you are serving the wider community
you trying to D me from the bottom naughty I will have to have a quite word in your ear when your right on the edge desperate for a finishing touch about trying that
Is this what I sound like when I describe sexual things, feel like I want to scrub myself with a brillo. " yours are always funny not dangerous |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"She had made a bit of a mess the doxy has a habit of doing that to her so I ran a bath for her jumped in with her as well as putting her bed sheets in the washing machine we had the coffee and muffin in the bath
She had to drink cold Costa coffee? That's all I am getting from this thread. I know you're into dominating your partner but that's unnecessarily cruel OP.
errrrr I don't dominate anyone I seduce the right to deliver sex in a way that works for my masculinity and my play partners desires to be played with in a certain way
but I could see how it may look to someone not into BDSM or D/s fun I can assure you she was a willing participant otherwise I wouldn't have played with her in such a way .
Is your 'masculinity' a fact that is out of your control? "
om never out of control between the sheets that's my own kink /
a kink I used to hate about myself but as I got older i learned to except the fact i was different .
not a easy thing to except because lets be honest here lots of people like to attack those that are different at every opportunity they can get |
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Someone did something very similar to me once. We didn't agree this as how the scenario would fold out.
I don't know what gave him the bigger shock, walking into the bedroom seeing the restraints empty or me launching myself at him from the bathroom, twatting him over the head with a shoe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She had made a bit of a mess the doxy has a habit of doing that to her so I ran a bath for her jumped in with her as well as putting her bed sheets in the washing machine we had the coffee and muffin in the bath
She had to drink cold Costa coffee? That's all I am getting from this thread. I know you're into dominating your partner but that's unnecessarily cruel OP.
errrrr I don't dominate anyone I seduce the right to deliver sex in a way that works for my masculinity and my play partners desires to be played with in a certain way
but I could see how it may look to someone not into BDSM or D/s fun I can assure you she was a willing participant otherwise I wouldn't have played with her in such a way .
Is your 'masculinity' a fact that is out of your control?
om never out of control between the sheets that's my own kink /
a kink I used to hate about myself but as I got older i learned to except the fact i was different .
not a easy thing to except because lets be honest here lots of people like to attack those that are different at every opportunity they can get "
Fully accept you are different. |
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"errrrr I don't dominate anyone I seduce the right to deliver sex in a way that works for my masculinity and my play partners desires to be played with in a certain way
but I could see how it may look to someone not into BDSM or D/s fun I can assure you she was a willing participant otherwise I wouldn't have played with her in such a way .
Is your 'masculinity' a fact that is out of your control? "
I'm glad I wasn't the only one who picked up on that phrase as odd. But I freely admit to being a total innocent in these matters.
It's all lost in "hours" now, but I also found the timings of the responses interesting too: how "I'm going back now to finish her off" became "I'm going to post on the forum every few minutes".
But again, what do I know about it all
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"Someone did something very similar to me once. We didn't agree this as how the scenario would fold out.
I don't know what gave him the bigger shock, walking into the bedroom seeing the restraints empty or me launching myself at him from the bathroom, twatting him over the head with a shoe "
Wow, what a cock! |
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"errrrr I don't dominate anyone I seduce the right to deliver sex in a way that works for my masculinity and my play partners desires to be played with in a certain way
but I could see how it may look to someone not into BDSM or D/s fun I can assure you she was a willing participant otherwise I wouldn't have played with her in such a way .
Is your 'masculinity' a fact that is out of your control?
I'm glad I wasn't the only one who picked up on that phrase as odd. But I freely admit to being a total innocent in these matters.
It's all lost in "hours" now, but I also found the timings of the responses interesting too: how "I'm going back now to finish her off" became "I'm going to post on the forum every few minutes".
But again, what do I know about it all
" i picked up on the timings as well |
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"errrrr I don't dominate anyone I seduce the right to deliver sex in a way that works for my masculinity and my play partners desires to be played with in a certain way
but I could see how it may look to someone not into BDSM or D/s fun I can assure you she was a willing participant otherwise I wouldn't have played with her in such a way .
Is your 'masculinity' a fact that is out of your control?
I'm glad I wasn't the only one who picked up on that phrase as odd. But I freely admit to being a total innocent in these matters.
It's all lost in "hours" now, but I also found the timings of the responses interesting too: how "I'm going back now to finish her off" became "I'm going to post on the forum every few minutes".
But again, what do I know about it all
" and i dont think he responded to what you asked him either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone did something very similar to me once. We didn't agree this as how the scenario would fold out.
I don't know what gave him the bigger shock, walking into the bedroom seeing the restraints empty or me launching myself at him from the bathroom, twatting him over the head with a shoe
Wow, what a cock!"
What, me or him? |
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"i picked up on the timings as well
{High-fives DS}
That's what I like about these forums, no matter how weird I think I am, there's always someone to say "No, I do that too"
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over a year ago
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"errrrr I don't dominate anyone I seduce the right to deliver sex in a way that works for my masculinity and my play partners desires to be played with in a certain way
but I could see how it may look to someone not into BDSM or D/s fun I can assure you she was a willing participant otherwise I wouldn't have played with her in such a way .
Is your 'masculinity' a fact that is out of your control?
I'm glad I wasn't the only one who picked up on that phrase as odd. But I freely admit to being a total innocent in these matters.
It's all lost in "hours" now, but I also found the timings of the responses interesting too: how "I'm going back now to finish her off" became "I'm going to post on the forum every few minutes".
But again, what do I know about it all
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I can't help thinking the actual facts have got totally out of control here but sure the attention has been gratifying. |
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Have to say, being left tied up is something I have fantasised about but even with someone I know and trust implicitly I would never want them to leave the premises of where we are playing.
The op might dismiss the safety concerns of others but I think that is another severely worrying trait in itself
It is when 'games' like this go wrong and end up in the news papers that give swinging, BDSM etc bad reputations. |
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"Someone did something very similar to me once. We didn't agree this as how the scenario would fold out.
I don't know what gave him the bigger shock, walking into the bedroom seeing the restraints empty or me launching myself at him from the bathroom, twatting him over the head with a shoe
Wow, what a cock!
What, me or him? "
Him! For doing it without agreement |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"errrrr I don't dominate anyone I seduce the right to deliver sex in a way that works for my masculinity and my play partners desires to be played with in a certain way
but I could see how it may look to someone not into BDSM or D/s fun I can assure you she was a willing participant otherwise I wouldn't have played with her in such a way .
Is your 'masculinity' a fact that is out of your control?
I'm glad I wasn't the only one who picked up on that phrase as odd. But I freely admit to being a total innocent in these matters.
It's all lost in "hours" now, but I also found the timings of the responses interesting too: how "I'm going back now to finish her off" became "I'm going to post on the forum every few minutes".
But again, what do I know about it all
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ok you are well with in your rights to question my integrity and even to question the truth to this post but in doing so please don't invent quotes like "I'm going back now to finish her off"
those are your disrespectful words not mine . as for masculinity my masculinity is it so hard to believe that how I view myself as a man is also put of my sexuality .
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sounds fantastic op . Glad you both had a great time xxxx "
thanks we did she's under a lot of pressure at work at the moment so in need of a reset far more often than she normally needs . not that I'm complaining as feeling needed is a rather nice feeling |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought a good dom put the safety and well being of the sub before anything"
tbh that's absolutely shocking behaviour of someone in your care . If she's got any sense she won't play with you again ! |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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When I hear of anyone being tied up here I always think of the woody Allen film crimes and misdemeanors when his sister met a guy and he tied her up and it didn't go well
"Strange men are defecating on my sister" |
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