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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
Is it just me or do some profiles come across as really arrogant and arsey? No matter how attractive or sexy the images it's an instant turn off if someone comes across as a complete k**b. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, just ignore them and move on to the next one. Don't let it get to you  
Nice arse btw OP  "
Ha, it doesn't get to me, just wondered if anyone else felt the same |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Does make me wonder when I read some profiles just what possessed the owner to post them and still hope to have any success but I guess in the case of those that you describe OP it's arrogance that possessed them...I just click and move on either way  |
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I've tried all types of profile write ups.
I tried the polite. The funny. The cute. The mysterious. The list of rules.
At the moment I've tagged on the whole "I hate being told what to do" as I'm getting a lot of guys messaging me and within a short chat they are telling me to do x y z. It's just not me and I respond very badly to that approach so I've put it in my profile that I hate being told what to do.
I still had a dom message me today - saying what he was going to tell me to do. lol
But it does help act as a filter for those who *do* read profiles. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't mind coming across as a knob, helps with my filters "
I don't mind coming across as a knob or a feminist. I am definitely one, occasionally the other. It doesn't matter; I have filters on anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, lots come across like arseholes. They also tend to be the women complaining about the site and the calibre of men messaging them. I'm sure the two things aren't connected at all...
I'm totally fine with anyone thinking I'm a feminist though, since I am. Whatever the fuck that has to do with anything.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I do and the way some write it, sounds like they are a feminist, wonder how they can like it lol."
you do know it's okay to be a feminist shag? you can still go and talk to them..You don't need ovaries or anything pal
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just signed up and most of what I've come across as 'little effort applied'.
Also, what's with all the cock pics on profiles? My eyes are bleeding. "
Platinum members get free eye bleach for their first month.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely.
I see 30 stone, middle aged women on here demanding a 6'2 +, extremely attractive male model with a 9 inch cock.
The normal rules of life don't apply here, you will soon find... But it gives confidence to those who have none in their every day lives, so ultimately, I guess it's a good thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely.
I see 30 stone, middle aged women on here demanding a 6'2 +, extremely attractive male model with a 9 inch cock.
The normal rules of life don't apply here, you will soon find... But it gives confidence to those who have none in their every day lives, so ultimately, I guess it's a good thing. "
You have such a charming way with words.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely.
I see 30 stone, middle aged women on here demanding a 6'2 +, extremely attractive male model with a 9 inch cock.
The normal rules of life don't apply here, you will soon find... But it gives confidence to those who have none in their every day lives, so ultimately, I guess it's a good thing. "
They can demand what they like. People can decide what they supply and to whom. None of those undeserving women are pinning you down and forcing you to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely.
I see 30 stone, middle aged women on here demanding a 6'2 +, extremely attractive male model with a 9 inch cock.
The normal rules of life don't apply here, you will soon find... But it gives confidence to those who have none in their every day lives, so ultimately, I guess it's a good thing. "
If that's what they want and that's what the guys they meet want then what's the issue? People don't have to message the demanding profiles if they don't want to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are great swathes of people in the swinging world, fetish scene, kink scene that think they're something special - they're not. Anyone can have sex, dress in fetish wear, or get into kink - that's borne out by the massive cross-section of society you get on the huge amount of websites, and events these days.
As someone who's been involved for many years, both as an organiser of events, and a participant, I can vouch for the level of 'BIG I AM's' both online and in the flesh.
A little humour, subtlety, and modesty goes a really long way to being an interesting and engaging play partner.
Simple rule: don't be an arsehole. |
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"Definitely.
I see 30 stone, middle aged women on here demanding a 6'2 +, extremely attractive male model with a 9 inch cock.
The normal rules of life don't apply here, you will soon find... But it gives confidence to those who have none in their every day lives, so ultimately, I guess it's a good thing. "
Ooooo I'm going to start doing this. This is where I've been going wrong obviously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The single women's profiles with 18 paragraphs, bullet points and charts of their specific demands are an absolute drag and yeah, you automatically think "deluded" and click off the page. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely.
I see 30 stone, middle aged women on here demanding a 6'2 +, extremely attractive male model with a 9 inch cock.
The normal rules of life don't apply here, you will soon find... But it gives confidence to those who have none in their every day lives, so ultimately, I guess it's a good thing. "
you been reading my profile lol |
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