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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i had a meet today up for yesterday which meant what it was
meet with a _iew for sex  simple
the people who messaged me was varied and a few who i message me alot i said come on then we will meet
and then didnt get back in touch 
so have you had it where people are all mouth
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some like the "idea" of a meet but when it actually becomes too real then they bottle it for what ever reason. but there are however plenty who do meet on here . if theyve not answered after afew messages then just think posative ,at least youve not wasted your time on them not showing up and you can move on to someone who will. xx |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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Some people lose their nerve or am I being too charitable?
At least you didn't waste time travelling a long way to be stood up! There are a lot of people who meet and play on here. Look forward to meeting them. Have fun!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i had a meet today up for yesterday which meant what it was
meet with a _iew for sex simple
the people who messaged me was varied and a few who i message me alot i said come on then we will meet
and then didnt get back in touch
so have you had it where people are all mouth
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yes this does seem to happen, our theory is that they have other meets on the cards and are preparing back up. The least they could do is give you a firm yes or no, if they much us about we don't forget and I don't suppose you will either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i had a meet today up for yesterday which meant what it was
meet with a _iew for sex simple
the people who messaged me was varied and a few who i message me alot i said come on then we will meet
and then didnt get back in touch
so have you had it where people are all mouth
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I have had a couple but its all part and parcel of swinging. Some people just get cold feet. |
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"can honestly say I have not been let down. I have had people cancel or postpone and for what sounded like genuine reasons, but maybe I am being naive there."
same here... had a meet canceled today... but they were celerbrating the birth of their 1st grandchild and they did forwarn us it may happen.. just rearranged a date.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i had a meet today up for yesterday which meant what it was
meet with a _iew for sex simple
the people who messaged me was varied and a few who i message me alot i said come on then we will meet
and then didnt get back in touch
so have you had it where people are all mouth
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yup. welcome to my world.
its them not you. your fine xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its the way of swinging isnt it, if you asked them to meet, and they didnt respond, then obviously they just didnt want to.
We have this type of thread from single guys all the time dont we. Its not any different for any gender on here. There are people who genuinely want to meet, and there are those that dont, but like to play the game.
Like the single guys are told, it takes time. Dont be disheartened - move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But I certainly wouldnt keep them on friends list or converse with them again if you had asked and they just blatently ignored until after the event. It is very rude, but you have to get tough with it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the last 8 months I have had 18 arranged meets
10 after setting the date and time, I never heard from again or they left site
5 cancelled last min (of which 3 gave no excuse at all)
3 were no shows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last 8 months I have had 18 arranged meets
10 after setting the date and time, I never heard from again or they left site
5 cancelled last min (of which 3 gave no excuse at all)
3 were no shows"
ouch |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
I've experienced No Shows for various reasons, or "last minute" phone calls or texts to say the other people have changed their minds, but the worst was this.
I'd arranged to see a couple, with whom I'd been messaging and talking to for a couple of weeks. They'd decent verifications on their Profile etc, so they appeared OK. The date of the meet was set and I drove about 120 miles down the M1 to an agreed Junction where I was to ring them; they'd then meet up with me to show me the way to their home.
All went OK; I got to the M1 Junction and I called them; they said they'd only be 10 minutes! Thirty minutes later, they hadn't appeared, so I phoned them, to be told "Oh, we've changed our minds! Hope you haven't had a wasted journey!"
I didn't know whether to scream or cry! |
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In the last 5 years i will say 5 years as a cut off point. Ive never had a no show. No straight forward cancellations without arrangements for another time.
Ive had quite a few where we have had to rearrange or hold on for awhile. Think i must be due for one |
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i dont do daytimes hun x
