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Feeling very down today..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry if I upset anyone with my rant about the John Lewis advert, wasn't my intention.
Everything feels like it's getting on top of me, ads is being fantastic with me but I'm finding life a little hard right now.
Sorry again if I went off in one x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been trying to stay strong for a while and just feel like today it's hit me like a giant hammer in the head. Doesn't help my facefuck on this day reminded me of one of the most painful times of my life this morning.
Thanks guys, think I'm going to have a good cry and let it all out x |
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"I've been trying to stay strong for a while and just feel like today it's hit me like a giant hammer in the head. Doesn't help my facefuck on this day reminded me of one of the most painful times of my life this morning.
Thanks guys, think I'm going to have a good cry and let it all out x"
Tomorrow is a brand new day... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Turn the memories off on devilbook I don't know why they do it...not like I want to be reminded of an ex or anything like that..."
Can I do that? I'll look into it. I can't bear the thought of a week of reminders coming up |
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"Turn the memories off on devilbook I don't know why they do it...not like I want to be reminded of an ex or anything like that...
Can I do that? I'll look into it. I can't bear the thought of a week of reminders coming up "
You can turn them off...can't remember how... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been trying to stay strong for a while and just feel like today it's hit me like a giant hammer in the head. Doesn't help my facefuck on this day reminded me of one of the most painful times of my life this morning.
Thanks guys, think I'm going to have a good cry and let it all out x"
It's a reminder of a time you were strong enough to get through... look at the positive.
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"I've been trying to stay strong for a while and just feel like today it's hit me like a giant hammer in the head. Doesn't help my facefuck on this day reminded me of one of the most painful times of my life this morning.
Thanks guys, think I'm going to have a good cry and let it all out x"
This is why I rarely go on facefuck anymore...hope the fog lifts soon sweet!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh look at that you can! That's one thing of my list.
I had my decree nisi on Tuesday which is lovely but was also mine and ads proper anniversary which was kind of strange, which also ironically is two days before me and the ex husband split up (2 years ago) so I'm having all these mixed things going on and just brings back horrible painful memories of how I used to Be, I'm having huge money issues which doesn't help and feeling a bit isolated down here. I know In a few weeks those things will change but at the moment it feels like everything is closing in around me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh look at that you can! That's one thing of my list.
I had my decree nisi on Tuesday which is lovely but was also mine and ads proper anniversary which was kind of strange, which also ironically is two days before me and the ex husband split up (2 years ago) so I'm having all these mixed things going on and just brings back horrible painful memories of how I used to Be, I'm having huge money issues which doesn't help and feeling a bit isolated down here. I know In a few weeks those things will change but at the moment it feels like everything is closing in around me"
Think about who you are now as opposed to who you used to be. Sometimes things happen for the best. You can hate me for saying it, I know I do, but try and look for a positive in every situation and I find that helps me get through it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry if I upset anyone with my rant about the John Lewis advert, wasn't my intention.
Everything feels like it's getting on top of me, ads is being fantastic with me but I'm finding life a little hard right now.
Sorry again if I went off in one x
G x" Im going thru pretty much the same honey , hurts like hell don't it , people say it will get easier , I hope so , can't wait
Keep ur chin up xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh look at that you can! That's one thing of my list.
I had my decree nisi on Tuesday which is lovely but was also mine and ads proper anniversary which was kind of strange, which also ironically is two days before me and the ex husband split up (2 years ago) so I'm having all these mixed things going on and just brings back horrible painful memories of how I used to Be, I'm having huge money issues which doesn't help and feeling a bit isolated down here. I know In a few weeks those things will change but at the moment it feels like everything is closing in around me
Think about who you are now as opposed to who you used to be. Sometimes things happen for the best. You can hate me for saying it, I know I do, but try and look for a positive in every situation and I find that helps me get through it. "
Ads says the same, he says I am different to how I was last year in a good way, I find it hard sometimes. I am generally stronger than I was and I am more confident than I was but small dates hit me right in the gut. You are right though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry if I upset anyone with my rant about the John Lewis advert, wasn't my intention.
Everything feels like it's getting on top of me, ads is being fantastic with me but I'm finding life a little hard right now.
Sorry again if I went off in one x
G x" altho we've never met , u can pm me if u want a rant or a shoulder to cry on , I'v got a good ear .... just saying coz know it's tough x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry if I upset anyone with my rant about the John Lewis advert, wasn't my intention.
Everything feels like it's getting on top of me, ads is being fantastic with me but I'm finding life a little hard right now.
Sorry again if I went off in one x
G xaltho we've never met , u can pm me if u want a rant or a shoulder to cry on , I'v got a good ear .... just saying coz know it's tough x"
Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cry it out, have some chocolate and then a big cuddle with Adz, focus on all the positives going on. We all have our down days hope your feeling better soon lovely X
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been going through a really tough time and if it wasn't for my best friend and someone who has spent 2 days going on about one person I would of seriously lost the plot by now..."
Apart from ads I don't have anyone else to talk too |
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No need for apologies, I hope you come through the other side soon.
Just remember we all can't be up at it 24/7 365 days of the year. It makes us human and appreciate the good times more. Keep smiling x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been going through a really tough time and if it wasn't for my best friend and someone who has spent 2 days going on about one person I would of seriously lost the plot by now...
Apart from ads I don't have anyone else to talk too "
I hope you both feel better soon. You can always chat on here. Not always ideal I know but might help.
I felt like I over reacted to a thread earlier too, so must be one of those days.
Sarah |
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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago
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Shit happens.
I lost the job I adore on Monday due to the schools budget cuts. I've spent this week just crying on and off. I miss my friends and the kids. It's like grief.
I just keep listening to Maximo Park - Apply Some Pressure
"What happens when you lose everything? You just start again, you start all over again". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shit happens.
I lost the job I adore on Monday due to the schools budget cuts. I've spent this week just crying on and off. I miss my friends and the kids. It's like grief.
I just keep listening to Maximo Park - Apply Some Pressure
"What happens when you lose everything? You just start again, you start all over again". "
Shit - sorry to hear that.
Hopefully won't be long before you are back doing something you can enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Shit happens.
I lost the job I adore on Monday due to the schools budget cuts. I've spent this week just crying on and off. I miss my friends and the kids. It's like grief.
I just keep listening to Maximo Park - Apply Some Pressure
"What happens when you lose everything? You just start again, you start all over again". "
Well that's just crap, sorry to hear that.
I put on happy music on YouTube and Coldplay was the first song on...didn't make me happy but found solice with buble lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been going through a really tough time and if it wasn't for my best friend and someone who has spent 2 days going on about one person I would of seriously lost the plot by now...
Apart from ads I don't have anyone else to talk too "
I can appreciate where you're coming from, I only have my Mrs to talk to about certain stuff and I sometimes feel like I'm overloading her.
As for the Christmas advert rant, I totally agree and everyone is entitled to a rant every now and again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the love ladies and gents, all the kind messages were really touching. Made me realise I'm not alone at all.
Ads and I made cakes this evening so that was good and had a good chat with my mum about stuff. Have to say she is turning into the mum I've always wanted this past year. She obviously adores ads
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everything feels like it's getting on top of me, ads is being fantastic with me but I'm finding life a little hard right now.
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Hey it could be worse.
I mean you could wake up to discover Donald Trump is president elect.
oh wait.... |
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"We all have rants, but while ee rant we might be ranting at someone else having equal amount of shit going off.
Noone knows whats going off in peoples lives"
I saw a quote on devilbook "always be kind to others as you don't know what are going through" |
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Everything feels like it's getting on top of me, ads is being fantastic with me but I'm finding life a little hard right now.
Hey it could be worse.
I mean you could wake up to discover Donald Trump is president elect.
oh wait.... "
Fuckin' tell me about it!
5hrs sleep and then I was sooo distraught I had to fuck and random.
A black day. |
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