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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's Dorians birthday this weekend and I am at a loss for what to do - if anything.
He hates receiving gifts and hates birthdays and Christmas but I really want to do something for him.
But i find myself short of cash. So buying something is out of the question. Bjs are out of the question as I have a throat infection.
Finding another fem is damn near impossible up our way and a couple is just not an option until I'm better.
Any suggestions?
Or do you think I should just not bother seeing he hates celebrating it anyway?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as a husband that also hates birthdays and being fussed over. I'd suggest nothing more than telling him happy birthday and leave it at that.
It bugs me every year when the dreaded question gets asked 'what do you want for your birthday'
My answer is always 'to allow it to slip by unnoticed'  |
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"Speaking as a husband that also hates birthdays and being fussed over. I'd suggest nothing more than telling him happy birthday and leave it at that.
It bugs me every year when the dreaded question gets asked 'what do you want for your birthday'
My answer is always 'to allow it to slip by unnoticed' "
No new tie,socks,nice pullover?! . Do you really not like having a little pressie? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Speaking as a husband that also hates birthdays and being fussed over. I'd suggest nothing more than telling him happy birthday and leave it at that.
It bugs me every year when the dreaded question gets asked 'what do you want for your birthday'
My answer is always 'to allow it to slip by unnoticed'
No new tie,socks,nice pullover?! . Do you really not like having a little pressie?"
I can hand on heart say that I'm just not fussed about it. People remembering that it's my birthday is all I ask for. Most forget 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I nice gesture would be appropriate as it costs nothing and isn't too much of a fuss; cook a nice meal, watch his favourite film together and/or give him a relaxing massage. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well if he does truly hate birthday's then yes ignore it. I'm not sure I could do that though,maybe just make a little fuss of him in small way's,cup's of coffee,meal or just a small gift."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My ex was the same. Then I started making a small fuss, with something as simple as a meal or something. He then started expecting it. "
We've been together 3 years and I've always gotten him a present for birthdays and Christmas but every year he moans and groans about it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Speaking as a husband that also hates birthdays and being fussed over. I'd suggest nothing more than telling him happy birthday and leave it at that.
It bugs me every year when the dreaded question gets asked 'what do you want for your birthday'
My answer is always 'to allow it to slip by unnoticed' "
Good point  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I nice gesture would be appropriate as it costs nothing and isn't too much of a fuss; cook a nice meal, watch his favourite film together and/or give him a relaxing massage. X"
Cooking isn't my thing. I'd probably burn the house down or burn the food. I'm not great at it haha but yeah the rest I can do |
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"My ex was the same. Then I started making a small fuss, with something as simple as a meal or something. He then started expecting it.
We've been together 3 years and I've always gotten him a present for birthdays and Christmas but every year he moans and groans about it"
If he still moans after you've actually given him the gift I'd definitely not bother! |
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"My ex was the same. Then I started making a small fuss, with something as simple as a meal or something. He then started expecting it.
We've been together 3 years and I've always gotten him a present for birthdays and Christmas but every year he moans and groans about it
If he still moans after you've actually given him the gift I'd definitely not bother!"
Go out and buy yourself a little present instead  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know what I meant.
I'm with Bad Nanna, slip into something sexy and let him give you oral
Sounds like it would be a happy birthday to me lol
bigc"
Lol I don't see that as much of an award as he can do that any other day ahha.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My ex was the same. Then I started making a small fuss, with something as simple as a meal or something. He then started expecting it.
We've been together 3 years and I've always gotten him a present for birthdays and Christmas but every year he moans and groans about it
If he still moans after you've actually given him the gift I'd definitely not bother!
Go out and buy yourself a little present instead "
No money to buy anything haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cook him a nice steak and chips for dinner then you for desert.  "
Good one
He wouldn't eat my steak if I made it haha. Also steak is expensive I'm looking for something extra cheap ahha |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"My ex was the same. Then I started making a small fuss, with something as simple as a meal or something. He then started expecting it.
We've been together 3 years and I've always gotten him a present for birthdays and Christmas but every year he moans and groans about it"
thing is , will he moan and groan if you don't mention it at all..i had this, caused a massive row and several days sulking from someone who 'wasn't bothered'... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cook him a nice steak and chips for dinner then you for desert.
Good one
He wouldn't eat my steak if I made it haha. Also steak is expensive I'm looking for something extra cheap ahha"
How about a bag of pork scratchings and a quick grope |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cook him a nice steak and chips for dinner then you for desert.
Good one
He wouldn't eat my steak if I made it haha. Also steak is expensive I'm looking for something extra cheap ahha
How about a bag of pork scratchings and a quick grope "
Don't think he likes pork scratchings haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cook him a nice steak and chips for dinner then you for desert.
Good one
He wouldn't eat my steak if I made it haha. Also steak is expensive I'm looking for something extra cheap ahha
How about a bag of pork scratchings and a quick grope
Don't think he likes pork scratchings haha"
Lol oh well just tell him you thought about it... after all it's the thought that counts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A birthday treat for me would be Mrs dirty acting like a slut and making me centre of attention!
Things like surprising me by being overly eager to to strip me off and get me naked even simple things like her taking complete control taking it nice and slow and making it last is a nice touch!
Also little things like her stopping every now and then to suck me off whilst making lots of eye contact I find is hot and to really top it off I like it when she makes sure my cock is nice and wet and then goes for anal (without me having to hint) by being on top and sliding her self slowly onto it until it's nice and deep!
Hope that helps
Mr nice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A birthday treat for me would be Mrs dirty acting like a slut and making me centre of attention!
Things like surprising me by being overly eager to to strip me off and get me naked even simple things like her taking complete control taking it nice and slow and making it last is a nice touch!
Also little things like her stopping every now and then to suck me off whilst making lots of eye contact I find is hot and to really top it off I like it when she makes sure my cock is nice and wet and then goes for anal (without me having to hint) by being on top and sliding her self slowly onto it until it's nice and deep!
Hope that helps
Mr nice "
I'm severely ill so think sex is off the table till I get better. I do things like this anyway as.I love giving him attention and I love to please him |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A nice meal ... bottle of wine
...... bingo "
Shit at cooking and don't know fuck all about wine.. sure he doesn't like wine anyway.. he's more of a whisky guy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cook him a nice steak and chips for dinner then you for desert.
Good one
He wouldn't eat my steak if I made it haha. Also steak is expensive I'm looking for something extra cheap ahha
How about a bag of pork scratchings and a quick grope
Don't think he likes pork scratchings haha
Lol oh well just tell him you thought about it... after all it's the thought that counts "
Haha that's what they always say anyway. I don't thing he'd mind anyway as he hates getting gifts |
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