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By *Carver- OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Seriously, what is going on there? I seem to see it all the time here. I can understand not seeking men at all, and I can understand a couple's disclaimer that the male half doesn't want to play that way. But to be so overtly prejudiced against other bi people that you won't even consider them as individuals? Either you're just another straight woman who's been coerced into putting on a show for a man, or you have some serious self-loathing to sort out.
Anyone who replies below with "just a preference" is going to get honked at by the Unexamined Biphobia Goose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously, what is going on there? I seem to see it all the time here. I can understand not seeking men at all, and I can understand a couple's disclaimer that the male half doesn't want to play that way. But to be so overtly prejudiced against other bi people that you won't even consider them as individuals? Either you're just another straight woman who's been coerced into putting on a show for a man, or you have some serious self-loathing to sort out.
Anyone who replies below with "just a preference" is going to get honked at by the Unexamined Biphobia Goose."
but it is just a preference i find it a turn off...Im not here for other peoples sexual needs .. so am not going to go with someone that doesnt turn me on...
I have no self or other loathing issues and anyone that knows me knows I do not get coerced into anything... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't worry about it. If they're doing something you don't like. Just look elsewhere. I doubt threads like this will change peoples minds "
Exactly this, don't worry about other people's preferences, just look for the people that do and will meet people like yourself. I know it feels like you're missing out but really you're not, would you want to meet people who discriminate solely based on your sexuality? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Vanessa is nudging on the bi- playful spectrum but I am totally straight (not Fab straight)
Neither of us hate on anyone else's choices, we just pick people who match our preferences.
As my Uncle Ben used to say before the freak accident involving Gamma Radiation, a toxic spill, a random mutagenic black ops programme and an alien DNA hybrid from another dimension..
"I want doesn't always get..(unless you ask really nicely..or bring cake)" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try to concentrate on our common interests with people - turn ons, kinks, fantasies etc. Mutual respectful fun.
We try not to concern ourselves with what people don't like about us, although we don't appreciate hostility.
But threads like this aren't going to change that. In fact they're more likely to create vitriol on both sides. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really get why it would be a problem if no bi play is part of the rules for a couple then surely the guy is fine with sticking to that...just because ya like both doesn't mean that things have to go that way...plus...if bi guys are anything like me... I like women...but don't wanna play with all of them!  |
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By *Carver- OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Seriously, what is going on there? I seem to see it all the time here. I can understand not seeking men at all, and I can understand a couple's disclaimer that the male half doesn't want to play that way. But to be so overtly prejudiced against other bi people that you won't even consider them as individuals? Either you're just another straight woman who's been coerced into putting on a show for a man, or you have some serious self-loathing to sort out.
Anyone who replies below with "just a preference" is going to get honked at by the Unexamined Biphobia Goose.but it is just a preference i find it a turn off...Im not here for other peoples sexual needs .. so am not going to go with someone that doesnt turn me on...
I have no self or other loathing issues and anyone that knows me knows I do not get coerced into anything... "
HONK HONK
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
I have nothing for nor against bi-guys
But when my boyfriend and I are meeting a couple where the guy is bi, we simply state "no play between the men"; so far, we have met couples with bi-men and haven't had anyone crossing the boundary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't fancy campy/queeny men or butch women (Twirl doesn't either) so I can understand it from that perspective. But to write off people based solely on sexuality is ignorance. Happily I wouldn't want to meet such people, so I'm happy with people being open about their ignorance  |
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"Seriously, what is going on there? I seem to see it all the time here. I can understand not seeking men at all, and I can understand a couple's disclaimer that the male half doesn't want to play that way. But to be so overtly prejudiced against other bi people that you won't even consider them as individuals? Either you're just another straight woman who's been coerced into putting on a show for a man, or you have some serious self-loathing to sort out.
Anyone who replies below with "just a preference" is going to get honked at by the Unexamined Biphobia Goose."
This is a bit niche? |
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"Seriously, what is going on there? I seem to see it all the time here. I can understand not seeking men at all, and I can understand a couple's disclaimer that the male half doesn't want to play that way. But to be so overtly prejudiced against other bi people that you won't even consider them as individuals? Either you're just another straight woman who's been coerced into putting on a show for a man, or you have some serious self-loathing to sort out.
Anyone who replies below with "just a preference" is going to get honked at by the Unexamined Biphobia Goose.
This is a bit niche?"
More Nietzsche, I 'think'  |
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"Seriously, what is going on there? I seem to see it all the time here. I can understand not seeking men at all, and I can understand a couple's disclaimer that the male half doesn't want to play that way. But to be so overtly prejudiced against other bi people that you won't even consider them as individuals? Either you're just another straight woman who's been coerced into putting on a show for a man, or you have some serious self-loathing to sort out.
Anyone who replies below with "just a preference" is going to get honked at by the Unexamined Biphobia Goose.
This is a bit niche?
More Nietzsche, I 'think' "
I'm bi, therefore I am?
Or is that putting Descartes before the horse...? |
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"Seriously, what is going on there? I seem to see it all the time here. I can understand not seeking men at all, and I can understand a couple's disclaimer that the male half doesn't want to play that way. But to be so overtly prejudiced against other bi people that you won't even consider them as individuals? Either you're just another straight woman who's been coerced into putting on a show for a man, or you have some serious self-loathing to sort out.
Anyone who replies below with "just a preference" is going to get honked at by the Unexamined Biphobia Goose.
This is a bit niche?
More Nietzsche, I 'think'
I'm bi, therefore I am?
Or is that putting Descartes before the horse...?"
I'm bi, therefore we both are.
You're a hoot someone who makes my brain go 'ping' (on occasion, don't get cocky  ) |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Seriously, what is going on there? I seem to see it all the time here. I can understand not seeking men at all, and I can understand a couple's disclaimer that the male half doesn't want to play that way. But to be so overtly prejudiced against other bi people that you won't even consider them as individuals? Either you're just another straight woman who's been coerced into putting on a show for a man, or you have some serious self-loathing to sort out.
Anyone who replies below with "just a preference" is going to get honked at by the Unexamined Biphobia Goose.
This is a bit niche?
More Nietzsche, I 'think'
I'm bi, therefore I am?
Or is that putting Descartes before the horse...?
I'm bi, therefore we both are.
You're a hoot someone who makes my brain go 'ping' (on occasion, don't get cocky ) "
im bi therefore we both are...hahaha i love it, what a chat up line..i might steal  |
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