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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Fit body or pretty face must pick one only

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Well let's put it this way, I'm not just a pretty face

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fit body or pretty face must pick one only"

Fit body ...with a bag over her head... problem solved lol

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Eye holes in a paper bag, greatest lay I ever had"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends to what extremities the alternatives are.

How fat is the body? How ugly is the face?

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Fit body or pretty face must pick one only

Fit body ...with a bag over her head... problem solved lol

You've pulled, mate

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

""Eye holes in a paper bag, greatest lay I ever had""

PLACEBO - Nancy Boy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PBxuq_eWW94

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Depends to what extremities the alternatives are.

How fat is the body? How ugly is the face? "

See you've got a handsome face but a bit of puppy fat we need to burn off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""Eye holes in a paper bag, greatest lay I ever had""

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

fit body.. make up works wonders these days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Face.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Body

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Face. I like a nice face.

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By *ilfy85Woman over a year ago

Beckwithshaw

It's hard to pick lol x

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

"Fit body or pretty face must pick one only

Fit body ...with a bag over the head... problem solved lol

Exactly..!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Face

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Face, you can work on a body.

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By *reenleavesCouple over a year ago

North Wales

Face. It's much harder to make a connection with a BOB-FOC.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Face ... a body has had little importance in my experiences

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By *adyDangerWoman over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink

Face

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Face and send them off to the gym

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Face for sure!

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man over a year ago

nr you but not too near

Pretty face any day of the week

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man over a year ago

nr you but not too near

"Face and send them off to the gym"
yep n stand outside eating cake n winding up those gym bunnies/gym junkies

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By *iver2015Woman over a year ago

middlesbrough

Pretty face always wins.

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By *BW star and DocCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Face definitely for me but I think the Mr would say body

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pretty face I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm I allowed both I'm greedy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Curvy body and innocent looking face please

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By *enny79TV/TS over a year ago

chesterfield

Got to b face

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Face.. it's the eyes and smile that win..

However I see there is nothing about personality. A pretty face/fit body can still be a cnut. Which is more likely to put me off..

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Fit body and handsome face for me. With a nice smile, nice teeth and wicked sense of humour.

Throw in a big cock and win, win, win xxxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

face definatley

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"Curvy body and innocent looking face please

Sounds like me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fit body or pretty face must pick one only"

Face. Couldn't shag a fugly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

BYOB

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

I will never have a fit body. And pretty is in the eye of the beholder. But out of the arbitrary choice of two options I would go with face.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is when I hope people prefer a decent face over a decent body...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Curvy body and innocent looking face please

That's me to a tee

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to find their face attractive, but I don't think that equates to "pretty". I like kind faces.

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By *hunkyThighsMan over a year ago

Gloucester

"I have to find their face attractive, but I don't think that equates to "pretty". I like kind faces. "

Aren't we commenting on the person above....incredible body. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fit body or pretty face must pick one only"

Are we talking for one night only or for a longer period of time?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A pretty face. This is why I feel it's important to swop face pictures, yet I've been accused of being shallow for wanting to see people's faces before I meet them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The face is more important to me, but it doesn't have to be pretty, or handsome or stunning etc.

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By *loppsyWoman over a year ago

marlow

Well I don't have a fit body........ not sure I have a pretty face but it's ok I think x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Faces, that I find interesting. We both are drawn to faces. Good job as my body isn't fit although Mr is very physically fit.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as there is a mental connection it doesn't really matter for me.

I'm sure there are boundaries so I'm not saying I'm anyone's

Well I am but you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A face for me. I've never been hung up on a body type

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Face, you can work on a body. "

some also appear to get plastic surgery & boob jobs

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By *loppsyWoman over a year ago

marlow

"Well I don't have a fit body........ not sure I have a pretty face but it's ok I think x"

For me I guess it's the face that does it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fit body or pretty face must pick one only

Are we talking for one night only or for a longer period of time?"

Just to add face in more important to me but if we are talking one night and extremes I want someone who can physically perform

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fit body or pretty face must pick one only

Are we talking for one night only or for a longer period of time?

Just to add face in more important to me but if we are talking one night and extremes I want someone who can physically perform"

It's not only the slim types who can physically perform... Just saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fit body or pretty face must pick one only

Are we talking for one night only or for a longer period of time?

Just to add face in more important to me but if we are talking one night and extremes I want someone who can physically perform

It's not only the slim types who can physically perform... Just saying

I know that, I'm saying extremes like can barely move

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fit body or pretty face must pick one only

Are we talking for one night only or for a longer period of time?

Just to add face in more important to me but if we are talking one night and extremes I want someone who can physically perform

It's not only the slim types who can physically perform... Just saying

I know that, I'm saying extremes like can barely move"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fit body or pretty face must pick one only

Are we talking for one night only or for a longer period of time?

Just to add face in more important to me but if we are talking one night and extremes I want someone who can physically perform

It's not only the slim types who can physically perform... Just saying

I know that, I'm saying extremes like can barely move"

Would that also be someone who is slim,with no muscle definition, a pot belly, saggy boobs and no energy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Face

Paying particular attention to

Eyes

Smile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fit body or pretty face must pick one only

Are we talking for one night only or for a longer period of time?

Just to add face in more important to me but if we are talking one night and extremes I want someone who can physically perform

It's not only the slim types who can physically perform... Just saying

I know that, I'm saying extremes like can barely move

Would that also be someone who is slim,with no muscle definition, a pot belly, saggy boobs and no energy? "

Yes I didn't mention size if that's what you are getting at

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If had to choose wld say pretty face! I'm attracted to different body types cldnt pick 1 over another

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By *icassolifelikeMan over a year ago

Luton

I'm neither! It's all in my personality!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This can apply to men too.. But with men and women I'll always be swayed by their face, particularly their eyes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would choose face. ..but i don't go for pretty. I prefer interesting faces.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan over a year ago

Mold

Dr Hook said it right

And I've a plentiful supply of paper bags for my face

But you need eye holes, the eyes have it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its all about the face for me

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By *otScot2930Man over a year ago

Rothienorman

pretty face and sexy eyes all the way anything else can be overlooked

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

""Eye holes in a paper bag, greatest lay I ever had""

didn't you get claustrophobic ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fit body

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nice handsome face always. Gotta have that connection though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fit body

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By *udistnorthantsMan over a year ago

Desborough

Pretty face

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Face

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Neither

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pretty face.

My definition of a good body varies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How can you possibly say....

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Neither "

Choose woman choose!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc"

I'm really curious as to why you think that because someone doesn't treat their body as kindly as they should, that you think it'd have a direct effect on how they'd treat you...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have neither.... I choose breathing...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc

I'm really curious as to why you think that because someone doesn't treat their body as kindly as they should, that you think it'd have a direct effect on how they'd treat you..."

I'm a little flummoxed by that comment too...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A pretty face always makes me melt

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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Face

I like to See a good face when I look down

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A pretty face I would hope as my body needs a lot of work lol

But I'm pretty confident I'm pretty

without sounding conceited lol

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"I'm really curious as to why you think that because someone doesn't treat their body as kindly as they should, that you think it'd have a direct effect on how they'd treat you...

I'm a little flummoxed by that comment too...

I think it's his brand on contentious humour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I reckon both would be good..but personality means a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Face

I like to See a good face when I look down

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

.......when thought about properly that's a tough one but ......

1.to have sex and sex only with body

2.and to actually be with face..... waking up next to a great body's nice but if she turns to you and looks like a beast that morning would you have is about to drop

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Face x my body went south years ago lol make up for it with mad skills, self confidence and the personality lol x

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc

I'm really curious as to why you think that because someone doesn't treat their body as kindly as they should, that you think it'd have a direct effect on how they'd treat you...

I'm a little flummoxed by that comment too...

Really?

Neither of you think one's personality is an indicator of possible behaviour?

Perhaps it's just me then, I did start by saying I'm considered weird. I'm not very good at "people"

{shrugs}

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc"

I think it shows you how that person might possibly treat their own body, but even then your assumption could be far from the reality of the reason their body may not be "fit". I would really like to understand how you extrapolate that to mean they would treat your body in one way or another? And here is where I make an assumption myself for the purposes of clarity -- are you suggesting that someone fat may force feed you?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc

I'm really curious as to why you think that because someone doesn't treat their body as kindly as they should, that you think it'd have a direct effect on how they'd treat you...

I'm a little flummoxed by that comment too...

Really?

Neither of you think one's personality is an indicator of possible behaviour?

Perhaps it's just me then, I did start by saying I'm considered weird. I'm not very good at "people"

{shrugs}"

How does it show their *personality*?

Do all fit people have good personalities?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc

I'm really curious as to why you think that because someone doesn't treat their body as kindly as they should, that you think it'd have a direct effect on how they'd treat you...

I'm a little flummoxed by that comment too...

Really?

Neither of you think one's personality is an indicator of possible behaviour?

Perhaps it's just me then, I did start by saying I'm considered weird. I'm not very good at "people"

{shrugs}"

As someone who's overweight, I can definitely say it has absolutely no bearing on my personality or how I treat others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc

I force feed all my meets. But then, as can be seen from my face, I also pin them down and apply copious amounts of makeup to them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's *true I'm sorry to say. I once met someone with tattoos..... now they call me "the illustrated man"!

*completely made up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc

I force feed all my meets. But then, as can be seen from my face, I also pin them down and apply copious amounts of makeup to them. "

LOL

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"I force feed all my meets. But then, as can be seen from my face, I also pin them down and apply copious amounts of makeup to them. "

Why are you not bi Ruby? That sounds so hot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I force feed all my meets. But then, as can be seen from my face, I also pin them down and apply copious amounts of makeup to them.

Why are you not bi Ruby? That sounds so hot."

I don't think I need to be bi for a forced makeup application meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I force feed all my meets. But then, as can be seen from my face, I also pin them down and apply copious amounts of makeup to them.

Why are you not bi Ruby? That sounds so hot.

I don't think I need to be bi for a forced makeup application meet

On my way to Newcastle, can you squeeze me in a wetsuit and teach me spreadsheets too? Phwoaaaar.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I force feed all my meets. But then, as can be seen from my face, I also pin them down and apply copious amounts of makeup to them.

Why are you not bi Ruby? That sounds so hot.

I don't think I need to be bi for a forced makeup application meet

On my way to Newcastle, can you squeeze me in a wetsuit and teach me spreadsheets too? Phwoaaaar. "

Oh God, that reminds me when I tried to put a wetsuit on and got stuck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I force feed all my meets. But then, as can be seen from my face, I also pin them down and apply copious amounts of makeup to them.

Why are you not bi Ruby? That sounds so hot.

I don't think I need to be bi for a forced makeup application meet

On my way to Newcastle, can you squeeze me in a wetsuit and teach me spreadsheets too? Phwoaaaar. "

Pick us up on route

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I force feed all my meets. But then, as can be seen from my face, I also pin them down and apply copious amounts of makeup to them.

Why are you not bi Ruby? That sounds so hot.

I don't think I need to be bi for a forced makeup application meet

On my way to Newcastle, can you squeeze me in a wetsuit and teach me spreadsheets too? Phwoaaaar.

Pick us up on route

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By *ubcapper0Man over a year ago

Nottingham

My regular says its my face she likes, but then she spends most of her time sat on it...go figure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc

I'm really curious as to why you think that because someone doesn't treat their body as kindly as they should, that you think it'd have a direct effect on how they'd treat you...

I'm a little flummoxed by that comment too...

Really?

Neither of you think one's personality is an indicator of possible behaviour?

Perhaps it's just me then, I did start by saying I'm considered weird. I'm not very good at "people"

{shrugs}"

I don't think personality type is determined by body type, and behaviour characteristics. I also don't think it's an indicater to how they will treat someone else's body, hence my confusion. I'm not trying to be combative. Just never heard that before. It's a completely new one on me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A gorgeous face on a genuine woman is what I look for... hard part is seeing a face pic before anything else on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I force feed all my meets. But then, as can be seen from my face, I also pin them down and apply copious amounts of makeup to them.

Why are you not bi Ruby? That sounds so hot.

I don't think I need to be bi for a forced makeup application meet

On my way to Newcastle, can you squeeze me in a wetsuit and teach me spreadsheets too? Phwoaaaar.

Pick us up on route

So that's a wetsuit donning, lipstick wearing Excel masterclass? If you can bring a bag of Kettle Crisps and I get to call someone a cunt that's like my ideal night out.

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By *0sKidMan over a year ago

Newport

And there's me wondering why I don't get many replies..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I force feed all my meets. But then, as can be seen from my face, I also pin them down and apply copious amounts of makeup to them.

Why are you not bi Ruby? That sounds so hot.

I don't think I need to be bi for a forced makeup application meet

On my way to Newcastle, can you squeeze me in a wetsuit and teach me spreadsheets too? Phwoaaaar.

Pick us up on route

So that's a wetsuit donning, lipstick wearing Excel masterclass? If you can bring a bag of Kettle Crisps and I get to call someone a cunt that's like my ideal night out. "

Cheese, Sipsmith gin and a glass dildo too. Appreciate that you'll just be taking the glass dildo home alone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh God, that reminds me when I tried to put a wetsuit on and got stuck."

It's because of your personality!

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I force feed all my meets. But then, as can be seen from my face, I also pin them down and apply copious amounts of makeup to them.

Why are you not bi Ruby? That sounds so hot.

I don't think I need to be bi for a forced makeup application meet

On my way to Newcastle, can you squeeze me in a wetsuit and teach me spreadsheets too? Phwoaaaar.

Pick us up on route

So that's a wetsuit donning, lipstick wearing Excel masterclass? If you can bring a bag of Kettle Crisps and I get to call someone a cunt that's like my ideal night out. "

Point the camera at the spreadsheet and call me a cunt...

(I know, such a stereotypical line...

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh God, that reminds me when I tried to put a wetsuit on and got stuck.

It's because of your personality!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc

Ok, I'll come back to all of these later, just making the white sauce to go with the ginger syrup sponge.

While you wait, perhaps you could dwell on why you all seem to be assuming I am talking solely about overweight people, and why none of the fugly people have questioned those who said "face"...

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By *ollyGWoman over a year ago

Southampton

Face for me x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc

Ok, I'll come back to all of these later, just making the white sauce to go with the ginger syrup sponge.

While you wait, perhaps you could dwell on why you all seem to be assuming I am talking solely about overweight people, and why none of the fugly people have questioned those who said "face"... "

Haha others have said body, and not been asked to elaborate, or even questioned. Your comment was just very odd as an explanation as to why you preferred body. Some people are obviously going to be curious as to what you mean.

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By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

As the vicar said to the actress you don’t look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"As the vicar said to the actress you don’t look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire"

Then why do we bother with ornaments on them and a mirror above?

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"As the vicar said to the actress you don’t look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire

Then why do we bother with ornaments on them and a mirror above?"

Amazing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc

Ok, I'll come back to all of these later, just making the white sauce to go with the ginger syrup sponge.

While you wait, perhaps you could dwell on why you all seem to be assuming I am talking solely about overweight people, and why none of the fugly people have questioned those who said "face"... "

I was clear in saying I would use "fat" as an example to illustrate my point. So at no point have I said that is solely what you are talking about -- happy to hear what you did mean, as I did say I would like to understand your opinion having read it and not understood the leap you made. I've not questioned others as I've not had reason to personally, I will review and see if anyone else made the leaps as you did that jarred with me -- but I think as it was the "treating of body to not be fit" = "a personality type" = "will treat you in a set way" point that you made was the one I'm seeking clarification on that your push back there is redundant. Again really happy to hear your view, just genuinely not comprehending your logic, nothing more. Hope the sauce goes well. I'm on a diet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Omg, another thread which shows how weird we are

We tend to go more on body pics than faces. How one treats one's body shows much more about one's personality, and how you might treat ours. Doesn't it?

Mr ddc

Ok, I'll come back to all of these later, just making the white sauce to go with the ginger syrup sponge.

While you wait, perhaps you could dwell on why you all seem to be assuming I am talking solely about overweight people, and why none of the fugly people have questioned those who said "face"...

Also I'll be offline for a bit but will definitely come back later, as I would like to understand.

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By *odramafunCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

That is tough! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Face.. it's the eyes and smile that win..

However I see there is nothing about personality. A pretty face/fit body can still be a cnut. Which is more likely to put me off.."

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"As the vicar said to the actress you don’t look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire

Then why do we bother with ornaments on them and a mirror above?"

To be fair, that's simply an argument for me to wear earrings and a rubber mask of the person we're meeting...

Right, where was I...

So, are you all saying that often people with stunning bodies can't sometimes be a little narcissistic or shallow? Are you saying that often overweight people don't sometimes have body-confidence issues that manifests in a tendency to be a little overly-aggressive? Are you saying that people who spend all their time down the gym might, perhaps have less in common with someone with a dad-bod and a fondness for puddings? Are you saying that short people may not occasionally come across as having a chip on their shoulder, or tall people may come across as being a tad superior?

How can the way you treat yourself honestly not reflect upon your personality? And why does that have to be an issue? Are we not all different? Do we not all have different tastes? And why is it so much more odd than "I like a person who was born with perfect teeth, symmetrical eyes and a plump face, because I feel they're more likely to be amazing at sex, kind and witty." That's the attitude that I find weird.

Although I appreciate that I am trying to apply logic to emotions again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tough one

I would go for the hmmmm. Fit body and hope that the sense of humour potrays the persons great personality

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As the vicar said to the actress you don’t look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire

Then why do we bother with ornaments on them and a mirror above?

To be fair, that's simply an argument for me to wear earrings and a rubber mask of the person we're meeting...

Right, where was I...

Although I appreciate that I am trying to apply logic to emotions again. "

But no one on this thread displayed that attitude about faces. People said they liked faces, sure. But I didn't see any posts that tried to link faces with personality traits or sexual ability or they way that person might behave towards you. The closest thing I can see is me saying I like kind faces.

And no, I haven't ever experienced any correlation between personality traits or behaviours and body size/shape/type in the way that you describe but I'm not a statistically significant sample.

I'm also interested in the suggestion you make about height and behaviours in there leading into your point about "how people treat themselves". I'm not aware height is something that's a result of how anyone treats themselves or their body.

How bizarre.

Yours sincerely, a superior and overly aggressive person (apparently).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I force feed all my meets. But then, as can be seen from my face, I also pin them down and apply copious amounts of makeup to them.

Why are you not bi Ruby? That sounds so hot.

I don't think I need to be bi for a forced makeup application meet

I love the thrill of pinning a man down and giving him a make over. They pretend to hate it but they love it

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By *100Man over a year ago

Essex

I love to see a big smile on a pretty face the rest of the body is just part of who you are but your smile is the prettiest thing you can wear.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Face definitely

Miss T x

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

And no, I haven't ever experienced any correlation between personality traits or behaviours and body size/shape/type in the way that you describe but I'm not a statistically significant sample.

How bizarre.

Yours sincerely, a superior and overly aggressive person (apparently). "

Again you're missing my need to try to understand emotions using logic.

The reference to height is simply an example of a situation where someone's body shape can impact on their personality. (I thought I was on safe ground on that one)

I'm sure I've read somewhere that face-attractiveness is linked to symmetry, and this is in turn linked to the unconscious decisions we make about passing on our genes. We are not here for procreation, or a relationship, or a date, so perhaps that is why we reject that criterion. You didn't explain why you feel someone with a pretty face would be better at sex?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And no, I haven't ever experienced any correlation between personality traits or behaviours and body size/shape/type in the way that you describe but I'm not a statistically significant sample.

How bizarre.

Yours sincerely, a superior and overly aggressive person (apparently).

Again you're missing my need to try to understand emotions using logic.

The reference to height is simply an example of a situation where someone's body shape can impact on their personality. (I thought I was on safe ground on that one)

I didn't say I feel someone with a pretty face would be better at sex. The question wasn't defined that way. It was just "pick one". I went for face, because it's what I usually find myself more drawn to when I meet someone. I also specifically said that a face I find attractive isn't the same as a pretty face. I can totally understand body being a more important consideration for someone, but only in the sense of attraction. I don't see the link between body type and personality OR face and personality. Am I subliminally more attracted to certain faces because I think they'll be a better shag? If I am, it's just that - subliminal and unconscious.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To interject I am not pretty or fit bodied... but I am fucking awesome in bed...... I think I try harder or its a natural gift...will do more research.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To interject I am not pretty or fit bodied... but I am fucking awesome in bed...... I think I try harder or its a natural gift...will do more research."

I definitely feel like i need to make a huge effort for this exact reason. I don't think it's a natural gift for me sadly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To interject I am not pretty or fit bodied... but I am fucking awesome in bed...... I think I try harder or its a natural gift...will do more research.

I definitely feel like i need to make a huge effort for this exact reason. I don't think it's a natural gift for me sadly. "

I will go with your hypothesis as I am comfortable being butt ugly and awesome in bed... and to be honest I don't believe in natural gifts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To interject I am not pretty or fit bodied... but I am fucking awesome in bed...... I think I try harder or its a natural gift...will do more research.

I definitely feel like i need to make a huge effort for this exact reason. I don't think it's a natural gift for me sadly.

I will go with your hypothesis as I am comfortable being butt ugly and awesome in bed... and to be honest I don't believe in natural gifts "

Or in other words, what about neither face nor body! I prefer a dirty mind, that connects with mine. The rest comes naturally to end up in great sex

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

I'm not so much questioning your responses, as trying to explain mine.

Specifically, if we are here for sex, not a relationship, why we feel a body-shot is more important than a face-pic.

I may be over-thinking things, but I do believe that there must be logical reasons behind many preferences, even if they are subconscious, or people aren't prepared to admit to them.

I'm not trying to change anyone's viewpoint, I'm just trying to answer the questions I was asked and, perhaps, make people understand that sometimes there are different ways to see things.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"To interject I am not pretty or fit bodied... but I am fucking awesome in bed...... I think I try harder or its a natural gift...will do more research.

I definitely feel like i need to make a huge effort for this exact reason. I don't think it's a natural gift for me sadly. "

I feel the same. Fugly as sin but try to balance it out by being by a good fuck. I wish I was blessed in either department but am not so try to make up for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As the vicar said to the actress you don’t look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire

Then why do we bother with ornaments on them and a mirror above?

To be fair, that's simply an argument for me to wear earrings and a rubber mask of the person we're meeting...

Right, where was I...

Although I appreciate that I am trying to apply logic to emotions again. "

In your original post, you stated that how a person treated their body affected their personality. I used my weight as an example. I can't see any connection, if I'm completely honest.

Obviously it's your opinion though, but I was just really curious to why you thought that.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"To interject I am not pretty or fit bodied... but I am fucking awesome in bed...... I think I try harder or its a natural gift...will do more research."

That's closer to the crux of my point than I've managed

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"As the vicar said to the actress you don’t look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire

Then why do we bother with ornaments on them and a mirror above?

To be fair, that's simply an argument for me to wear earrings and a rubber mask of the person we're meeting...

Right, where was I...

Although I appreciate that I am trying to apply logic to emotions again.

In your original post, you stated that how a person treated their body affected their personality. I used my weight as an example. I can't see any connection, if I'm completely honest.

Obviously it's your opinion though, but I was just really curious to why you thought that."

Okay, but stick around, there are a few others starting to see a correlation, rather than taking it personally just assuming I was fat-baitng.

You too have failed to explain to me why you think a face-pic is a better indicator of good sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To interject I am not pretty or fit bodied... but I am fucking awesome in bed...... I think I try harder or its a natural gift...will do more research.

That's closer to the crux of my point than I've managed

I'm a swinger. Have been off and on since I was 23... I don't tend to continue doing stuff I am rubbish at, ergo I am awesome in bed... it's QED right...

If someone is awesome in bed; makes me laugh and makes my cock twitch with just a word... I couldn't give a flying one how they look... bring the swingers on... HO!!! (I so did the fist pump thing then)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not so much questioning your responses, as trying to explain mine.

Specifically, if we are here for sex, not a relationship, why we feel a body-shot is more important than a face-pic.

I may be over-thinking things, but I do believe that there must be logical reasons behind many preferences, even if they are subconscious, or people aren't prepared to admit to them.

I'm not trying to change anyone's viewpoint, I'm just trying to answer the questions I was asked and, perhaps, make people understand that sometimes there are different ways to see things. "

For the record I'm not defending my preference or expecting you to defend yours. It just stood out as a jarring statement to read that I thought warranted further explanation.

I don't subscribe to the ugly people try harder rhetoric either though, so we're obviously starting from opposing views on this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As the vicar said to the actress you don’t look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire

Then why do we bother with ornaments on them and a mirror above?

To be fair, that's simply an argument for me to wear earrings and a rubber mask of the person we're meeting...

Right, where was I...

Although I appreciate that I am trying to apply logic to emotions again.

In your original post, you stated that how a person treated their body affected their personality. I used my weight as an example. I can't see any connection, if I'm completely honest.

Obviously it's your opinion though, but I was just really curious to why you thought that.

Okay, but stick around, there are a few others starting to see a correlation, rather than taking it personally just assuming I was fat-baitng.

You too have failed to explain to me why you think a face-pic is a better indicator of good sex "

Nobody is saying that a fit body or a pretty face is a good indicator of who is better at sex. I think the question is what would you prefer? As in what attracts you the most

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Okay to clarify and answer the OP's original question... Neither (face or body)

I prefer someone that is awesome in bed...that has an almost unlimited imagination.... it's swinging... it's supposed to be the main activity

Caveat... not all awesome swinging experiences require a bed...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As the vicar said to the actress you don’t look at the mantlepiece when your poking the fire

Then why do we bother with ornaments on them and a mirror above?

To be fair, that's simply an argument for me to wear earrings and a rubber mask of the person we're meeting...

Right, where was I...

Although I appreciate that I am trying to apply logic to emotions again.

In your original post, you stated that how a person treated their body affected their personality. I used my weight as an example. I can't see any connection, if I'm completely honest.

Obviously it's your opinion though, but I was just really curious to why you thought that.

Okay, but stick around, there are a few others starting to see a correlation, rather than taking it personally just assuming I was fat-baitng.

You too have failed to explain to me why you think a face-pic is a better indicator of good sex "

I've not said that a good face picture is an indicator of better sex, though. That notion is ridiculous.

This thread was about what you prefer. Some prefer a great body, some care more about a face. Neither is a good indicator of sex.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

But how do you judge whether they're likely to be good in bed?

Face-pic or body?

Remember, that's the only choice, and if you get it wrong you'll be called names... GO!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okay to clarify and answer the OP's original question... Neither (face or body)

I prefer someone that is awesome in bed...that has an almost unlimited imagination.... it's swinging... it's supposed to be the main activity

Caveat... not all awesome swinging experiences require a bed..."

But do you think the fact people just took the question at face value and answered it means that awesome sex isn't what they want too? Of course it is. But that wasn't an option given.

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

I would say face first then body

A nice smile goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But how do you judge whether they're likely to be good in bed?

Face-pic or body?

Remember, that's the only choice, and if you get it wrong you'll be called names... GO!

I really think you're reading far too much into a simple, shallow question and its simple, shallow responses. But you've already dismissed the views of those questioning you as butthurt fat people taking it personally so I may just leave you to it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't subscribe to the ugly people try harder rhetoric either though, so we're obviously starting from opposing views on this. "

But you wouldn't know because you aren't unattractive. I feel like i need to justify why someone has chosen to have sex with me because it isn't for my looks and it certainly isn't for my body so I'd better do something to make it worth their while. So you may not subscribe to it but there is an element of truth behind it.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

This thread was about what you prefer. Some prefer a great body, some care more about a face. Neither is a good indicator of sex."

Apologies for me trying to put the question in the context of a sex site.

Can I change my answer to "sense of humour"?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But how do you judge whether they're likely to be good in bed?

Face-pic or body?

Remember, that's the only choice, and if you get it wrong you'll be called names... GO!

Answered: imagination (so neither)... the mind is the most wondrous erogenous zone off all... you can be fit and move like a sack of spuds between sheets; you can be beautiful/pretty and have zero imagination... you can also be unfit and ugly and both of the above....

...ergo (twice in one thread HO!) I judge the potential of any meet by the imagination and intelligence of the person I am messaging...

.....walking my own path since 93' Pauly90 bring the swinger and the rest will follow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But how do you judge whether they're likely to be good in bed?

Face-pic or body?

Remember, that's the only choice, and if you get it wrong you'll be called names... GO!

My thoughts exactly. It was a simple question about preference. Nothing to do with which is better at sex. It's all become skewed and over thought.

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

I love people with a sense of humour and wit

TBH the people that know me well - know that I can laugh at myself

To me I have seen women in a club and they have a face like a slapped arse and i am like I wouldn't want to play because sex for me should be fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But how do you judge whether they're likely to be good in bed?

Face-pic or body?

Remember, that's the only choice, and if you get it wrong you'll be called names... GO!

My thoughts exactly. It was a simple question about preference. Nothing to do with which is better at sex. It's all become skewed and over thought. "

It is ok for some people to take threads on tangents but not others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't subscribe to the ugly people try harder rhetoric either though, so we're obviously starting from opposing views on this.

First off - I don't know what you look like so my response is in no way a reflection of that, but is in response to the way you've described yourself.

You've decided I'm attractive. I agree, I think I am, when appropriately dolled up. If you're unattractive, then how would you know what it's like to be attractive? Do you think I just, what, lie there and look pretty? That I'd show such little respect to the people I'm meeting? That I wouldn't try to please them or try to be entertaining, or funny, or whatever?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't subscribe to the ugly people try harder rhetoric either though, so we're obviously starting from opposing views on this.

First off - I don't know what you look like so my response is in no way a reflection of that, but is in response to the way you've described yourself.

you have commented before that you're lazy in bed

Of course I'm not saying that. Just i feel i need to make extra effort. That's all. This isn't all about ruby. .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmmm, I'd say face as that's normally the first thing you'd notice. But if you're walking behind someone and they gots a nice ass then hell yeah ima notice that too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't subscribe to the ugly people try harder rhetoric either though, so we're obviously starting from opposing views on this.

First off - I don't know what you look like so my response is in no way a reflection of that, but is in response to the way you've described yourself.

you have commented before that you're lazy in bed

Of course I'm not saying that. Just i feel i need to make extra effort. That's all. This isn't all about ruby. . "

Oh, I didn't realise self-deprecation had become the preserve of the unattractive. If you feel responding to you directly quoting my post is making it all about me then that's unfortunate.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

But you've already dismissed the views of those questioning you as butthurt fat people taking it personally so I may just leave you to it. "

I have dismissed no-one, I have tried to justify my own shallow answer every time it was questioned.

I may have assumed the reasons wrongly, but the reaction to what I thought was a relatively innocuous reply belies an "innocent desire to understand".

Especially when all attempts at a sensible discussion are dismissed as "bizarre"

{shrugs}

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But how do you judge whether they're likely to be good in bed?

Face-pic or body?

Remember, that's the only choice, and if you get it wrong you'll be called names... GO!

My thoughts exactly. It was a simple question about preference. Nothing to do with which is better at sex. It's all become skewed and over thought.

It is ok for some people to take threads on tangents but not others

Sorry if I took it on a tangent... I don't think it was me that made the initial correlation between physical attributes and abilities however... I just hate body shaming threads and this type of thread always turns into one, and I am not blaming the OP for that...

I enjoy swingers... hedonistic, liberated, delightfully decadent deviants.... and in turn... some of them seem to enjoy me... a skinny, ugly, balding 41 year old... I like intelligent people; regardless of how they look.

Pauly90 out before some shouts at me for being in a cli

que

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Then I pick only one. Why the restriction on picking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just based purely on the two choices the OP has given : it's a difficult one but pretty face for me.

But yeah OF COURSE I'm not that shallow - like everyone else a lot more comes into it but hey, I'm just answering the question stated!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But you've already dismissed the views of those questioning you as butthurt fat people taking it personally so I may just leave you to it.

I have dismissed no-one, I have tried to justify my own shallow answer every time it was questioned.

I may have assumed the reasons wrongly, but the reaction to what I thought was a relatively innocuous reply belies an "innocent desire to understand".

Especially when all attempts at a sensible discussion are dismissed as "bizarre"

{shrugs}"

Only based upon the initial question. That's where the confusion set in, in regards to your initial reply. But now knowing your perception of what the question was. Your reply makes much more sense

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

My thoughts exactly. It was a simple question about preference. Nothing to do with which is better at sex. It's all become skewed and over thought. "

Is that my fault for being foolish enough to answer a thread I normally avoid? Or yours for asking me to justify my answer?

I can do "kiss, fuck, avoid" if you prefer, though I guess I'll be on equally dodgy ground there too

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By *entle giraffeMan over a year ago

Minehead

It's a pretty face for me; from the 2 choices given

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't subscribe to the ugly people try harder rhetoric either though, so we're obviously starting from opposing views on this.

First off - I don't know what you look like so my response is in no way a reflection of that, but is in response to the way you've described yourself.

you have commented before that you're lazy in bed

Of course I'm not saying that. Just i feel i need to make extra effort. That's all. This isn't all about ruby. .

Oh, I didn't realise self-deprecation had become the preserve of the unattractive. If you feel responding to you directly quoting my post is making it all about me then that's unfortunate."

Well you took something i said about myself and turned it into something offensive towards yourself. Yeah. I'd call that making it about you. Sorry if you were offended by my calling you attractive. I'll know better for future.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Sorry if I took it on a tangent... I don't think it was me that made the initial correlation between physical attributes and abilities however... I just hate body shaming threads

Tbf, that wasn't your fault.

It was mine for not doing my research properly and realising that any answer other than "face" is considered body-shaming.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't subscribe to the ugly people try harder rhetoric either though, so we're obviously starting from opposing views on this.

First off - I don't know what you look like so my response is in no way a reflection of that, but is in response to the way you've described yourself.

you have commented before that you're lazy in bed

Of course I'm not saying that. Just i feel i need to make extra effort. That's all. This isn't all about ruby. .

Oh, I didn't realise self-deprecation had become the preserve of the unattractive. If you feel responding to you directly quoting my post is making it all about me then that's unfortunate.

I wasn't offended by any of what you said; just challenging the logical conclusion of it. Ugly people try harder, ergo attractive people try less. I don't think that's true, so I challenged the statement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry if I took it on a tangent... I don't think it was me that made the initial correlation between physical attributes and abilities however... I just hate body shaming threads

Tbf, that wasn't your fault.

It was mine for not doing my research properly and realising that any answer other than "face" is considered body-shaming. "

Literally no one has said that.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Sorry if I took it on a tangent... I don't think it was me that made the initial correlation between physical attributes and abilities however... I just hate body shaming threads

Tbf, that wasn't your fault.

It was mine for not doing my research properly and realising that any answer other than "face" is considered body-shaming.

Literally no one has said that."

Other than the implied "this thread has turned into that"?

I also don't want you to think we are ganging up on you, but can I point out that of the three people who took issue with my first post, and demanded justification, you are none of them. Perhaps this is why you are struggling to understand my point: it is not aimed at you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't subscribe to the ugly people try harder rhetoric either though, so we're obviously starting from opposing views on this.

First off - I don't know what you look like so my response is in no way a reflection of that, but is in response to the way you've described yourself.

you have commented before that you're lazy in bed

Of course I'm not saying that. Just i feel i need to make extra effort. That's all. This isn't all about ruby. .

Oh, I didn't realise self-deprecation had become the preserve of the unattractive. If you feel responding to you directly quoting my post is making it all about me then that's unfortunate.

I only said there was an element of truth in it because that's how i feel. I never said it was fact so I'm not sure what you're challenging? The way i feel?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry if I took it on a tangent... I don't think it was me that made the initial correlation between physical attributes and abilities however... I just hate body shaming threads

Tbf, that wasn't your fault.

It was mine for not doing my research properly and realising that any answer other than "face" is considered body-shaming.

Literally no one has said that.

Other than the implied "this thread has turned into that"?

I didn't take exception/issue at all.... if this comment is aimed at me as being one of the three. I also did not 'demand justification'. I simply got confused by your reply ( because you read the question wrong, something you openly admitted), and asked for you to elaborate, so I could understand your reply more. I even wrote further up the thread, that I understand your reply more now, knowing you misinterpreted the question. So please don't imply that I demanded you justify your comments, because I took issue with it. That is simply not the case.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry if I took it on a tangent... I don't think it was me that made the initial correlation between physical attributes and abilities however... I just hate body shaming threads

Tbf, that wasn't your fault.

It was mine for not doing my research properly and realising that any answer other than "face" is considered body-shaming. "

You're the one now taking it off on a tangent. At no point did anyone accuse you of body shaming. We just asked what you meant by your post out of genuine curiosity...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I blame the op for saying we must pick one. ..i would have ignored this thread if it didn't sayi must

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry if I took it on a tangent... I don't think it was me that made the initial correlation between physical attributes and abilities however... I just hate body shaming threads

Tbf, that wasn't your fault.

It was mine for not doing my research properly and realising that any answer other than "face" is considered body-shaming.

You're the one now taking it off on a tangent. At no point did anyone accuse you of body shaming. We just asked what you meant by your post out of genuine curiosity..."

To be fair... I mentioned body shaming... I get a bit sensitive about being skinny and ugly... I should probably stay out of this type of thread...

Apologies to all... happy swinging and well, you know... kisses

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I blame the op for saying we must pick one. ..i would have ignored this thread if it didn't sayi must

Tell me about it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Other

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Okay, so "asking for elaboration" may not quite be identical to "demanding justification", but it seems pretty similar when one has spent the best part of an evening trying to defend a throwaway remark made while waiting for the kettle to boil.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

I blame the op for saying we must pick one. ..i would have ignored this thread if it didn't say i must"

I blame my semi-autistic mistrust of faces, mis-application of logic, and inability to understand societal norms.

Life, eh?

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