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over a year ago
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"Why do some men think it's ok to slap woman about im a temper !!! Not in sexual moment !!!! Fucking hate cowards !!!!
Sorry I'm just venting !!! "
The vast majority don't. Most decent humans know violence us never acceptable |
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
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https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence?client=ms-android-motorola |
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
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Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men."
I know it does happen to guys , but I thought the stats still showed more women were attacked then men, |
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
I know it does happen to guys , but I thought the stats still showed more women were attacked then men, "
It will, cos a lot of men won't come forward or admit it. |
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"Why do some men think it's ok to slap woman about im a temper !!! Not in sexual moment !!!! Fucking hate cowards !!!!
Sorry I'm just venting !!! "
Because they can...
But for ballence we have to understand that:
There are just as many women attack men in the same way for the very same reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
I know it does happen to guys , but I thought the stats still showed more women were attacked then men, "
According to that articles it's around 60/40 and that's not taking into account men not reporting it as much as women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
I know it does happen to guys , but I thought the stats still showed more women were attacked then men,
According to that articles it's around 60/40 and that's not taking into account men not reporting it as much as women."
6040 doesn't support your claim of it being 'fairly even'.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
I know it does happen to guys , but I thought the stats still showed more women were attacked then men,
According to that articles it's around 60/40 and that's not taking into account men not reporting it as much as women.
6040 doesn't support your claim of it being 'fairly even'.
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How so? 10% is not huge difference and consider that men report it even less. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men think it's ok to slap woman about im a temper !!! Not in sexual moment !!!! Fucking hate cowards !!!!
Sorry I'm just venting !!!
Because they can...
But for ballence we have to understand that:
There are just as many women attack men in the same way for the very same reason."
no,there aren't...and if you care to look into it ,the levels of violence,like a poster above said, are far and away much more serious.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men think it's ok to slap woman about im a temper !!! Not in sexual moment !!!! Fucking hate cowards !!!!
Sorry I'm just venting !!!
Because they can...
But for ballence we have to understand that:
There are just as many women attack men in the same way for the very same reason.
no,there aren't...and if you care to look into it ,the levels of violence,like a poster above said, are far and away much more serious.
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Women apparently initite more violence too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men think it's ok to slap woman about im a temper !!! Not in sexual moment !!!! Fucking hate cowards !!!!
Sorry I'm just venting !!!
Because they can...
But for ballence we have to understand that:
There are just as many women attack men in the same way for the very same reason.
no,there aren't...and if you care to look into it ,the levels of violence,like a poster above said, are far and away much more serious.
Women apparently initite more violence too."
apparently?? really?... apparently they are usually hospitalised at least 3 times before they press charges too. |
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"Why has this turned into a competition on who gets it worse?  "
domestic abuse, is domestic abuse, whether, its male, female, transgender, same sex couples and each case should be delt with no differently based on the above |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Same as some women think its ok to slap a guy i guess"
Both are absolutely wrong but why is it still not okay to slap a woman back if she slaps you first and without being unprovoked? |
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
I know it does happen to guys , but I thought the stats still showed more women were attacked then men,
According to that articles it's around 60/40 and that's not taking into account men not reporting it as much as women."
and if you think all women report dv then your a bit naïve..
DV whomever its against is deplorable..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men think it's ok to slap woman about im a temper !!! Not in sexual moment !!!! Fucking hate cowards !!!!
Sorry I'm just venting !!! "
I don't condone violence from either sex. They're both equally twats |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
I know it does happen to guys , but I thought the stats still showed more women were attacked then men, "
You're right, it does. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Same as some women think its ok to slap a guy i guess
Both are absolutely wrong but why is it still not okay to slap a woman back if she slaps you first and without being unprovoked?"
Difficult one, im thinking I've seen a guy slapped as his partner found out he was cheating. Did she then deserve a slap back?
Why would someone slap unprovoked though ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)"
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women"
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Same as some women think its ok to slap a guy i guess
Both are absolutely wrong but why is it still not okay to slap a woman back if she slaps you first and without being unprovoked?
Difficult one, im thinking I've seen a guy slapped as his partner found out he was cheating. Did she then deserve a slap back?
Why would someone slap unprovoked though ?
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A while ago three d*unk woman attack a completely sober man, hospitalising him and not once did he raise a fist. As I watched it on the news I wondered if had retaliated and hit them then would the news story have been "man attacks vulnerable women"? |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Why has this turned into a competition on who gets it worse? "
I was just thinking that!
Domestic violence, regardless of the gender is unacceptable.
Some of the excuses / reasons that some abusers give to try and justify doing it are frankly pathetic. There is no excuse or good reason.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it "
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No man will ever be a man until such time he's taken a hiding of a woman and not raised a hand back in my mind simple as that no place in any society for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal."
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. "
But does there need to be reason,would any scenario make it acceptable |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No man will ever be a man until such time he's taken a hiding of a woman and not raised a hand back in my mind simple as that no place in any society for it "
Surely the right of passage into manhood should not require taking a beating from anyone...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it "
What did you do? Afterwards I mean. Did you report her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Many years back I was walking through a busy city centre late at night...3 d*unk women approached me and one went for my balls and cock and twisted them...fucking hurt..and they walked off laughing..I saw a copper in a car and told him...he said getaway lad stop complaining you should have enjoyed it so blokes probably don't report assults |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men think it's ok to slap woman about im a temper !!! Not in sexual moment !!!! Fucking hate cowards !!!!
Sorry I'm just venting !!! "
Man or women violence is just not acceptable! Not knowing the circumstances of what u witnessed its difficult to pass judgement but in General violence is not the answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
What did you do? Afterwards I mean. Did you report her?"
As mad as it sounds I didn't nothing to deserve it...I don't think any actions justify violence in a relationship...she tried to hit me around the face with a stool once that's the time that sticks...I didn't report her looking back now I wish I had...was a few false allegations made against myself which the police realised when she was giving completely different versions of events....but I wouldn't change anything because I love my son to bits |
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Domestic violence is more than just physical assault, it can be emotional, sexual, financial, religious/faith.
If anyone needs to find help and support do a web search for hidden hurt. There is a lot of good information and support forums. I would also highly recommend reading "why does he do that?" Written by Lundy Bancroft. Although it is from the perspective of the abuser being male it is interchangeable for both genders and explains why they behave in the way they do and why they don't change.
Don't think you have to suffer, reach out - there is plenty of help and support available whether you are male or female. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him.
But does there need to be reason,would any scenario make it acceptable "
Never once said her behaviour was acceptable! There is however a reason for everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him.
But does there need to be reason,would any scenario make it acceptable
Never once said her behaviour was acceptable! There is however a reason for everything. "
Oh no sorry I didn't mean it like that I was just getting at the fact that an unreasonable act in the sense that she may have a "reason" but to the average person that so called reason wouldn't be deemed as acceptable |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him.
But does there need to be reason,would any scenario make it acceptable
Never once said her behaviour was acceptable! There is however a reason for everything. "
But are reasons important, there are maybe many reasons why some men hit women ( absolutely unexceptable by the way ) but it doesn't give reason for violence |
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him.
But does there need to be reason,would any scenario make it acceptable
Never once said her behaviour was acceptable! There is however a reason for everything.
But are reasons important, there are maybe many reasons why some men hit women ( absolutely unexceptable by the way ) but it doesn't give reason for violence "
Knowing the reasons behind someone's negative behaviour, is an affective way to help them combat their negative behaviour.
For all we know she acted in self defence. We only know one side to the story. I prefer to keep an open mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him.
But does there need to be reason,would any scenario make it acceptable
Never once said her behaviour was acceptable! There is however a reason for everything.
But are reasons important, there are maybe many reasons why some men hit women ( absolutely unexceptable by the way ) but it doesn't give reason for violence
Knowing the reasons behind someone's negative behaviour, is an affective way to help them combat their negative behaviour.
For all we know she acted in self defence. We only know one side to the story. I prefer to keep an open mind."
I can certainly assure you it wasn't self defence it was just another episode in a series of being attacked and cheated on...in all honesty I think she has slight mental issues.
I can also assure you that I haven't contributed to this to simply bend the truth and try and earn a cyber pat on the back |
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him.
But does there need to be reason,would any scenario make it acceptable
Never once said her behaviour was acceptable! There is however a reason for everything.
But are reasons important, there are maybe many reasons why some men hit women ( absolutely unexceptable by the way ) but it doesn't give reason for violence "
People do unspeakable things all over the world and they all have their own reasons for doing them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him.
But does there need to be reason,would any scenario make it acceptable
Never once said her behaviour was acceptable! There is however a reason for everything.
But are reasons important, there are maybe many reasons why some men hit women ( absolutely unexceptable by the way ) but it doesn't give reason for violence
Knowing the reasons behind someone's negative behaviour, is an affective way to help them combat their negative behaviour.
For all we know she acted in self defence. We only know one side to the story. I prefer to keep an open mind."
If a guy acted in self defence is that acceptable? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I saw a drug addicted, potentially homeless couple having a row and the woman slapped the man and the man punched her straight in the jaw, as hard as you'd hit another man, he took a mini run-up and everything and she dropped straight to the floor. It was quite shocking. I'd never seen anything like that in the flesh. |
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him.
But does there need to be reason,would any scenario make it acceptable
Never once said her behaviour was acceptable! There is however a reason for everything.
But are reasons important, there are maybe many reasons why some men hit women ( absolutely unexceptable by the way ) but it doesn't give reason for violence
Knowing the reasons behind someone's negative behaviour, is an affective way to help them combat their negative behaviour.
For all we know she acted in self defence. We only know one side to the story. I prefer to keep an open mind.
If a guy acted in self defence is that acceptable? "
Very tough call to make...read something about a woman nearly beating a man to death...could he be condemned for punching her? I myself would probably feel ashamed if I had hit her...don't think there's a right or wrong answer |
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him.
But does there need to be reason,would any scenario make it acceptable
Never once said her behaviour was acceptable! There is however a reason for everything.
But are reasons important, there are maybe many reasons why some men hit women ( absolutely unexceptable by the way ) but it doesn't give reason for violence
Knowing the reasons behind someone's negative behaviour, is an affective way to help them combat their negative behaviour.
For all we know she acted in self defence. We only know one side to the story. I prefer to keep an open mind.
If a guy acted in self defence is that acceptable? "
If both use reasonable force to defend themselves, yes I believe so. |
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)"
stats cant really be taken seriously though as think how many guys wont admit it and alot of guys dont judge being hit by a woman as domestic violence. iv been slapped a few times by woman but never felt like itwas domestic violence but can you imagine the outrage if i slapped em back.best thing to do is laugh at them but be prepared to defend yourself lol. |
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him.
But does there need to be reason,would any scenario make it acceptable
Never once said her behaviour was acceptable! There is however a reason for everything.
But are reasons important, there are maybe many reasons why some men hit women ( absolutely unexceptable by the way ) but it doesn't give reason for violence
Knowing the reasons behind someone's negative behaviour, is an affective way to help them combat their negative behaviour.
For all we know she acted in self defence. We only know one side to the story. I prefer to keep an open mind.
If a guy acted in self defence is that acceptable?
If both use reasonable force to defend themselves, yes I believe so. "
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)stats cant really be taken seriously though as think how many guys wont admit it and alot of guys dont judge being hit by a woman as domestic violence. iv been slapped a few times by woman but never felt like itwas domestic violence but can you imagine the outrage if i slapped em back.best thing to do is laugh at them but be prepared to defend yourself lol."
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. "
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming "
Them questions are expected I guess most of the time people twist the truth to benefit themselves...people will always doubt |
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming "
No it does not. No one deserves to be treated with violence and no one reacts violently for no reason. Nowhere did I say he was to blame. I did say and do believe she had her reasons. Unexceptable behaviour yes. But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
Yes I believe and it is within UK law for him to reasonably defend himself.
"A man who is attacked or believes that he is about to be attacked may use such force as is both necessary and reasonable in order to defend himself. If that is what he does then he acts lawfully."
https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal/s_to_u/self_defence/#Reasonable_Force |
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" But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
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Would you have asked the same question if it was woman who had been beaten with a stool?
Not being snarky, I'm actually interested to know. |
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"No man will ever be a man until such time he's taken a hiding of a woman and not raised a hand back in my mind simple as that no place in any society for it
Surely the right of passage into manhood should not require taking a beating from anyone...
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so its not to do with necking multiple shots on top of umpteen pints of stella then chucking it all up in the curry house whilst attempting a phal? |
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming
No it does not. No one deserves to be treated with violence and no one reacts violently for no reason. Nowhere did I say he was to blame. I did say and do believe she had her reasons. Unexceptable behaviour yes. But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
Yes I believe and it is within UK law for him to reasonably defend himself.
"A man who is attacked or believes that he is about to be attacked may use such force as is both necessary and reasonable in order to defend himself. If that is what he does then he acts lawfully."
https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal/s_to_u/self_defence/#Reasonable_Force"
And it's women like you that guys probably don't report violence,in your world the guy must of done something wrong,however no doubt in your world if the event happened the other way round the women wouldn't of needed to do anything...honestly officer
To make it clear before anyone judges violence towards women in not exceptable,vulgar and a disgrace |
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" But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
Would you have asked the same question if it was woman who had been beaten with a stool?
Not being snarky, I'm actually interested to know."
Yes of course. Why would anyone want to beat anyone in any manner? I'd ask no matter who the victim. If he didn't trigger her behaviour (still no excuse), maybe she's suffering a mental illness? It's a reason. All I ever meant was, I don't take sides and I always keep an open mind. No one knows what goes on behind closed doors. Both sexes can behave like a dick. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Why do some men think it's ok to slap woman about im a temper !!! Not in sexual moment !!!! Fucking hate cowards !!!!
Sorry I'm just venting !!! "
Works both ways dude, with my exwife I used to have to go to work in long sleeved shirts as she'd swing a lot and my forearms would be a mass of bruises. Four years of hell. It did transpire she had issues though..
Admittedly rarer but it does happen.
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming
No it does not. No one deserves to be treated with violence and no one reacts violently for no reason. Nowhere did I say he was to blame. I did say and do believe she had her reasons. Unexceptable behaviour yes. But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
Yes I believe and it is within UK law for him to reasonably defend himself.
"A man who is attacked or believes that he is about to be attacked may use such force as is both necessary and reasonable in order to defend himself. If that is what he does then he acts lawfully."
https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal/s_to_u/self_defence/#Reasonable_Force
And it's women like you that guys probably don't report violence,in your world the guy must of done something wrong,however no doubt in your world if the event happened the other way round the women wouldn't of needed to do anything...honestly officer
To make it clear before anyone judges violence towards women in not exceptable,vulgar and a disgrace "
What a surprise you twisting what people say. I've said she had a reason. I definitely have never said he definitely was the cause for her outburst. He could of been but equally could not of been. She had a reason!! Whatever that was. |
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"Actually, the stats show that rates of domestic abuse are fairly even amongst women and men.
...and which stats would those be?
Domestic violence:
* Will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime.
* Leads to, on average, two women being murdered each week and 30 men per year.
* Accounts for 16% of all violent crime
(Source: Crime in England and Wales 04/05 report)
Tbf I doubt men would readily come forward. Compared to women
I've been a victim of it....attacked by my son's mom in front of him...I was more concerned for the little one being subjected to seeing it
May I asked what she did? Don't answer if it's too personal.
I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming
No it does not. No one deserves to be treated with violence and no one reacts violently for no reason. Nowhere did I say he was to blame. I did say and do believe she had her reasons. Unexceptable behaviour yes. But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
Yes I believe and it is within UK law for him to reasonably defend himself.
"A man who is attacked or believes that he is about to be attacked may use such force as is both necessary and reasonable in order to defend himself. If that is what he does then he acts lawfully."
https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal/s_to_u/self_defence/#Reasonable_Force
And it's women like you that guys probably don't report violence,in your world the guy must of done something wrong,however no doubt in your world if the event happened the other way round the women wouldn't of needed to do anything...honestly officer
To make it clear before anyone judges violence towards women in not exceptable,vulgar and a disgrace
What a surprise you twisting what people say. I've said she had a reason. I definitely have never said he definitely was the cause for her outburst. He could of been but equally could not of been. She had a reason!! Whatever that was."
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I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming
No it does not. No one deserves to be treated with violence and no one reacts violently for no reason. Nowhere did I say he was to blame. I did say and do believe she had her reasons. Unexceptable behaviour yes. But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
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Your first question came across as saying he must have gave her a reason for hitting him, which creates the feeling that he must of done something to deserve it |
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I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming
No it does not. No one deserves to be treated with violence and no one reacts violently for no reason. Nowhere did I say he was to blame. I did say and do believe she had her reasons. Unexceptable behaviour yes. But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
Your first question came across as saying he must have gave her a reason for hitting him, which creates the feeling that he must of done something to deserve it "
Sorry you read it that way, however that wasn't what I said. Ive only ever said theres a reason for everything. One reason could be she's suffering a mental illness or not. Who knows. No one deserves to be a victim of violence. |
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I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming
No it does not. No one deserves to be treated with violence and no one reacts violently for no reason. Nowhere did I say he was to blame. I did say and do believe she had her reasons. Unexceptable behaviour yes. But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
Your first question came across as saying he must have gave her a reason for hitting him, which creates the feeling that he must of done something to deserve it "
Correct  then continued with the maybe she had mental health problems, it appears if a guy does it ( which is not exceptable) He deserves his punishment,if a woman does it,Aww let's explore the reasons behind it,there must be a reason |
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I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming
No it does not. No one deserves to be treated with violence and no one reacts violently for no reason. Nowhere did I say he was to blame. I did say and do believe she had her reasons. Unexceptable behaviour yes. But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
Your first question came across as saying he must have gave her a reason for hitting him, which creates the feeling that he must of done something to deserve it
Correct then continued with the maybe she had mental health problems, it appears if a guy does it ( which is not exceptable) He deserves his punishment,if a woman does it,Aww let's explore the reasons behind it,there must be a reason "
thats the same impression i got |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming
No it does not. No one deserves to be treated with violence and no one reacts violently for no reason. Nowhere did I say he was to blame. I did say and do believe she had her reasons. Unexceptable behaviour yes. But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
Your first question came across as saying he must have gave her a reason for hitting him, which creates the feeling that he must of done something to deserve it "
In my case my ex had undiagnosed bipolar because of a shit doctor, the final straw came when she went for me while my back was
turned with a carving knife! Funnily enough we are now friends on fb.
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I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming
No it does not. No one deserves to be treated with violence and no one reacts violently for no reason. Nowhere did I say he was to blame. I did say and do believe she had her reasons. Unexceptable behaviour yes. But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
Your first question came across as saying he must have gave her a reason for hitting him, which creates the feeling that he must of done something to deserve it
Correct then continued with the maybe she had mental health problems, it appears if a guy does it ( which is not exceptable) He deserves his punishment,if a woman does it,Aww let's explore the reasons behind it,there must be a reason "
Oh gosh you really do like assuming and twisting things. I've said throughout there's always a reason no matter who is commiting the violence.! I've never said the man deserves anything! |
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I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming
No it does not. No one deserves to be treated with violence and no one reacts violently for no reason. Nowhere did I say he was to blame. I did say and do believe she had her reasons. Unexceptable behaviour yes. But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
Your first question came across as saying he must have gave her a reason for hitting him, which creates the feeling that he must of done something to deserve it
Correct then continued with the maybe she had mental health problems, it appears if a guy does it ( which is not exceptable) He deserves his punishment,if a woman does it,Aww let's explore the reasons behind it,there must be a reason
Oh gosh you really do like assuming and twisting things. I've said throughout there's always a reason no matter who is commiting the violence.! I've never said the man deserves anything! "
Not just us ( however you seem to want to aim this just at us) others have said the said the same thing ( check others comments) |
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I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming
No it does not. No one deserves to be treated with violence and no one reacts violently for no reason. Nowhere did I say he was to blame. I did say and do believe she had her reasons. Unexceptable behaviour yes. But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
Your first question came across as saying he must have gave her a reason for hitting him, which creates the feeling that he must of done something to deserve it
Correct then continued with the maybe she had mental health problems, it appears if a guy does it ( which is not exceptable) He deserves his punishment,if a woman does it,Aww let's explore the reasons behind it,there must be a reason
Oh gosh you really do like assuming and twisting things. I've said throughout there's always a reason no matter who is commiting the violence.! I've never said the man deserves anything!
Not just us ( however you seem to want to aim this just at us) others have said the said the same thing ( check others comments) "
I did and replied. You're the one that's twisting things and trying to cause issues with your assumptions. You've done it many times within different threads. |
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I too was wondering her reason for hitting him. that's dodgy territory, sounds a bit like victim blaming
No it does not. No one deserves to be treated with violence and no one reacts violently for no reason. Nowhere did I say he was to blame. I did say and do believe she had her reasons. Unexceptable behaviour yes. But really do you believe she picked up a stool , hit him etc etc all in front of her son for NO REASON?? He may not of gave her a reason but surely she had a reason whatever that may be.
Your first question came across as saying he must have gave her a reason for hitting him, which creates the feeling that he must of done something to deserve it
Correct then continued with the maybe she had mental health problems, it appears if a guy does it ( which is not exceptable) He deserves his punishment,if a woman does it,Aww let's explore the reasons behind it,there must be a reason
Oh gosh you really do like assuming and twisting things. I've said throughout there's always a reason no matter who is commiting the violence.! I've never said the man deserves anything!
Not just us ( however you seem to want to aim this just at us) others have said the said the same thing ( check others comments)
I did and replied. You're the one that's twisting things and trying to cause issues with your assumptions. You've done it many times within different threads. "
Pathetic,is that your defence,not causing any issues,has our opinion differed from yours hence the " you've done it in many threads " we have an opinion which actually others have agreed with,cheap shot though trying to mention other threads, but if that is your way,go for it..... |
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"Why do some men think it's ok to slap woman about im a temper !!! Not in sexual moment !!!! Fucking hate cowards !!!!
Sorry I'm just venting !!! "
Its not just men women do it too its not acceptable for anyone to execute an unprovoked attack on another. |
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By *horltzMan
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"No man will ever be a man until such time he's taken a hiding of a woman and not raised a hand back in my mind simple as that no place in any society for it "
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"Domestic violence is more than just physical assault, it can be emotional, sexual, financial, religious/faith.
If anyone needs to find help and support do a web search for hidden hurt. There is a lot of good information and support forums. I would also highly recommend reading "why does he do that?" Written by Lundy Bancroft. Although it is from the perspective of the abuser being male it is interchangeable for both genders and explains why they behave in the way they do and why they don't change.
Don't think you have to suffer, reach out - there is plenty of help and support available whether you are male or female."
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Unfortunately the help isn't very evenly balanced, alot of refuges have been forced to close because they don't take make victims which is a shame on both parts |
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"Domestic violence is more than just physical assault, it can be emotional, sexual, financial, religious/faith.
If anyone needs to find help and support do a web search for hidden hurt. There is a lot of good information and support forums. I would also highly recommend reading "why does he do that?" Written by Lundy Bancroft. Although it is from the perspective of the abuser being male it is interchangeable for both genders and explains why they behave in the way they do and why they don't change.
Don't think you have to suffer, reach out - there is plenty of help and support available whether you are male or female..
Unfortunately the help isn't very evenly balanced, alot of refuges have been forced to close because they don't take make victims which is a shame on both parts"
over 60% of womesn refuges have closed in the last 2 years due to government cuts...at a time when violence against women has escalated dramatically. |
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"Domestic violence is more than just physical assault, it can be emotional, sexual, financial, religious/faith.
If anyone needs to find help and support do a web search for hidden hurt. There is a lot of good information and support forums. I would also highly recommend reading "why does he do that?" Written by Lundy Bancroft. Although it is from the perspective of the abuser being male it is interchangeable for both genders and explains why they behave in the way they do and why they don't change.
Don't think you have to suffer, reach out - there is plenty of help and support available whether you are male or female..
Unfortunately the help isn't very evenly balanced, alot of refuges have been forced to close because they don't take make victims which is a shame on both parts
over 60% of womesn refuges have closed in the last 2 years due to government cuts...at a time when violence against women has escalated dramatically."
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Because they refuse to take male victims?.
This is the 21st century, let's be even handed |
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"Domestic violence is more than just physical assault, it can be emotional, sexual, financial, religious/faith.
If anyone needs to find help and support do a web search for hidden hurt. There is a lot of good information and support forums. I would also highly recommend reading "why does he do that?" Written by Lundy Bancroft. Although it is from the perspective of the abuser being male it is interchangeable for both genders and explains why they behave in the way they do and why they don't change.
Don't think you have to suffer, reach out - there is plenty of help and support available whether you are male or female..
Unfortunately the help isn't very evenly balanced, alot of refuges have been forced to close because they don't take make victims which is a shame on both parts
over 60% of womesn refuges have closed in the last 2 years due to government cuts...at a time when violence against women has escalated dramatically..
Because they refuse to take male victims?.
This is the 21st century, let's be even handed"
no,because of budget cuts as i said. men and women do not share the same refuges...for obvious reasons. |
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