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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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so what made you join?
Bad relationships?
sex addiction?
Sex education?
not wanting all the baggage of a relationship?
or even wanting to spice up one?
Myself i had just come out of a long relationship and wanted to try something new
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was on a dating website and chatting to a guy who asked what u was looking for. .at the time I said just a shag really and he recommended fab..so here I am! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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after losing a past partner who had been swinging for years and years - we were just starting to get into it and he told me i was too sexy to waste - 6 years later im having a blast |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I joined to meet a variety of people and fuck them without societal restrictions or judgement whilst exploring my sexuality. I still see the judgement but it's not as bad as 'out there'. |
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To be an enjoyable guilt free shag for women, offer myself up for the woman of a couple or single to enjoy and to be that "extra" fun.
I enjoy giving pleasure without there being need for anything more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined to push my sexual boundaries, fulfil a few fantasies and recultivate a sex life. I got into a bit of an emotional mess and withdrew for a few months while I got things back in track and now I stay because I'd miss the forum and a few folk in here too much if I left. It fills a social hole for me where I can just act like a twat, post shite, perv a bit and every so often be there for a friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined because I knew my ex was cheating, he stupidly used my card to pay for a subscription, so I done digging and stumbled across this site. I joined it, I left him, I left this, I rejoined this; what for? To get some excitement in my single life, without any commitment  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I joined because I knew my ex was cheating, he stupidly used my card to pay for a subscription, so I done digging and stumbled across this site. I joined it, I left him, I left this, I rejoined this; what for? To get some excitement in my single life, without any commitment "
Wont disagree with you or i could be blocked lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined because I knew my ex was cheating, he stupidly used my card to pay for a subscription, so I done digging and stumbled across this site. I joined it, I left him, I left this, I rejoined this; what for? To get some excitement in my single life, without any commitment
Wont disagree with you or i could be blocked lol "
 You have nothing to disagree with? Ahh you mean my name, no I don't block, well I do but very few and far between (about 5 on my list). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I joined because I knew my ex was cheating, he stupidly used my card to pay for a subscription, so I done digging and stumbled across this site. I joined it, I left him, I left this, I rejoined this; what for? To get some excitement in my single life, without any commitment
Wont disagree with you or i could be blocked lol
You have nothing to disagree with? Ahh you mean my name, no I don't block, well I do but very few and far between (about 5 on my list)."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joined whilst going through separation and pretty much a sexless marriage.. despite all my efforts to add some spice to our relationship.
That was 4 years ago although have had some breaks inbetween. Still enjoying it and have met some lovely guys that I know I would have never met outside fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Joined whilst going through separation and pretty much a sexless marriage.. despite all my efforts to add some spice to our relationship.
That was 4 years ago although have had some breaks inbetween. Still enjoying it and have met some lovely guys that I know I would have never met outside fab. "
More or less why i joined but only been on a few weeks |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Joined as (and still am) part of a couple as we took our first steps into exploring *this* world after many years of talking about it.
As our exploration has evolved into being open to meeting separately, as well as together, setting up a solo profile seemed the next logical step. |
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I liked the idea of getting the chance to meet some women, something I'd always struggled with in "real life". I thought this may ease that process. Plus I've always been a very sexual person, so it sounded perfect. Turns out it didn't really fulfill my needs at all. I haven't given up on it but for now I'm just hanging around the forums. Weirdly though, it's ended up helping me in terms of my own personal development massively. My everyday life is now much more enjoyable, where the ladies are concerned and just in general. I have Fab to thank for that. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
went to a club cos didnt want to be celibate any more..was asked to join to keep in touch with those i had met that night..thought it was a good idea...look wheres its got me 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"went to a club cos didnt want to be celibate any more..was asked to join to keep in touch with those i had met that night..thought it was a good idea...look wheres its got me
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My reason is quite simple I guess, a need to express my femininity in a sexual way.
My need to do so was creating issues for my straight female partner who tried to help me but it was never enough so caused more issues etc etc..... |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Polyamorous. I look for that connection, that spark that instigates laughter and flirting and talking and fucking for hours. And I love having friends but I tend to sleep with my friends. Monogamous wives and girlfriends seem to take against that. *laughs*
This place gives me a laugh, and a giggle and some truly exceptional people (and exceptional sex).
Why wouldn't I be on here again? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Polyamorous. I look for that connection, that spark that instigates laughter and flirting and talking and fucking for hours. And I love having friends but I tend to sleep with my friends. Monogamous wives and girlfriends seem to take against that. *laughs*
This place gives me a laugh, and a giggle and some truly exceptional people (and exceptional sex).
Why wouldn't I be on here again?"
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I knew nothing about the swinging scene or clubs until it was brought up by my ex partner. It was a huge fantasy of his to play with others and go to clubs so we set up a couples profile. When it came to it he decided he would rather keep it as a fantasy and didn't want to actually swing. I decided it was definitely for me so set up a single profile without his knowledge. Now i'm single i can have fun without the feelings of guilt that i struggled with when we were together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hardly any sex at home unless on holiday or she was pissed.
wanted for many many many years to try a cock
Hardly ever touched another women
skype and phone wanks
WHY THE HELL NOT |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined with an ex,was a single swinger for a long time, met my current partner here and voila
Kinky  "
Hope I could meet somebody on here...couldn't imagine having a partner on the same sort of wave length |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 08/11/16 13:36:03]
Try again .. I joined because I have a sweet tooth and heard cake is quite popular on here "
Cake? Someone mentioned cake... I wasn't offered cake...
No one told me there was cake!!!
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
We had an encounter with a bi-fem colleague of H's kissing both of us light play but she was in a longterm relationship so no more.
Seemed to flick a switch in both of us as we both loved the giving & receiving of attention, though threesome's are not new to either of us we thought it was just something to be left in our younger days.
After she cooled it I was told about Fab by a close friend who it turned out was already here..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined with an ex,was a single swinger for a long time, met my current partner here and voila
Kinky
Hope I could meet somebody on here...couldn't imagine having a partner on the same sort of wave length "
To be truthful it's fantastic. We have many similarities outside of Fab as we do on here. Being on the same wavelength sexually only strengthens our relationship too
Kinky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined with an ex,was a single swinger for a long time, met my current partner here and voila
Kinky
Hope I could meet somebody on here...couldn't imagine having a partner on the same sort of wave length
To be truthful it's fantastic. We have many similarities outside of Fab as we do on here. Being on the same wavelength sexually only strengthens our relationship too
Kinky "
Sounds right up my street that does....one can only hope |
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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago
north kensington w10 |
"so what made you join?
Bad relationships?
sex addiction?
Sex education?
not wanting all the baggage of a relationship?
or even wanting to spice up one?
Myself i had just come out of a long relationship and wanted to try something new
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Well i have always been a single guy all through my adult life, But at the same time living with a sex addition. Woman seem to be only interested in me if i pay for it, so it has cost me financially over the years. So fab's was a last resort kinda,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what made you join?
Bad relationships?
sex addiction?
Sex education?
not wanting all the baggage of a relationship?
or even wanting to spice up one?
Myself i had just come out of a long relationship and wanted to try something new
Well i have always been a single guy all through my adult life, But at the same time living with a sex addition. Woman seem to be only interested in me if i pay for it, so it has cost me financially over the years. So fab's was a last resort kinda, "
Are you serious? After reading that I'd thought you'd look like a monster but nope. Quite dishy actually. Why on earth you couldn't pull without paying, I don't know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what made you join?
Bad relationships?
sex addiction?
Sex education?
not wanting all the baggage of a relationship?
or even wanting to spice up one?
Myself i had just come out of a long relationship and wanted to try something new
Well i have always been a single guy all through my adult life, But at the same time living with a sex addition. Woman seem to be only interested in me if i pay for it, so it has cost me financially over the years. So fab's was a last resort kinda,
Are you serious? After reading that I'd thought you'd look like a monster but nope. Quite dishy actually. Why on earth you couldn't pull without paying, I don't know"
Pulling ain't easy work |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I joined to meet like minded people for friendship and sex because I had forgotten about my sexy for so long. I also felt it was time to push my boundaries and realising that wasn't going to happen at home, here I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what made you join?
Bad relationships?
sex addiction?
Sex education?
not wanting all the baggage of a relationship?
or even wanting to spice up one?
Myself i had just come out of a long relationship and wanted to try something new
Well i have always been a single guy all through my adult life, But at the same time living with a sex addition. Woman seem to be only interested in me if i pay for it, so it has cost me financially over the years. So fab's was a last resort kinda,
Are you serious? After reading that I'd thought you'd look like a monster but nope. Quite dishy actually. Why on earth you couldn't pull without paying, I don't know
Pulling ain't easy work "
Of course it is. You say hi, followed by a genuine but polite compliment, offer a drink or conversation. What's difficult about that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A dreadful dreadful spelling mistake 
I was looking for some fab singers to sing in a choir with and just went along with the questions.....  "
Nearly died laughing at this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was in long term relationship (6yrs and bearly had sex) but it ended and only slept with 1 other guy before him. A friend told me I needed to go and have some fun so I joined |
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"Sex. Later found out that it doesn't happen much on here for single fellas. Found sanctuary in the forums in the end so it's not all bad  "
Ah but a lot of folk say sex is mostly in the mind, so fab is proof that sex is mostly in the mind..........on ya own....wiv ya hand |
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Join the site after my relationship ended was just looking to have some fun and meet new people but seemy to find that a bit hard don't really get message back and still deciding if to stay and pay again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined for a few reasons. For one I'm not really sure if I want another serious relationship or not, but like most people I still enjoy the physical side of things.
Also keen to just try new experiences.
It does seem to be hard to get started as a single guy but I just try and keep think if anything happens from here it's meant to if it doesn't it's not the end of the world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To explore some of my stranger sexual kinks without people thinking I'm weird. Turns out they really aren't that strange and twisted  "
so what are your kinks maybe I can help as often your way |
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"so what made you join?
Bad relationships?
sex addiction?
Sex education?
not wanting all the baggage of a relationship?
or even wanting to spice up one?
Myself i had just come out of a long relationship and wanted to
try something new
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Not wanting all the baggage of relationship or her trying to stab me at that time of |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined to meet a variety of people and fuck them without societal restrictions or judgement whilst exploring my sexuality. I still see the judgement but it's not as bad as 'out there'. "
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I'd come out of a very shitty relationship and a friend told me about this place. Decided to have a nosy via his account then joined up, mostly been a interesting experience and it suits my needs well, just a shame it's a struggle with the liars at times for both men and women |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd come out of a very shitty relationship and a friend told me about this place. Decided to have a nosy via his account then joined up, mostly been a interesting experience and it suits my needs well, just a shame it's a struggle with the liars at times for both men and women "
hope the good times outdo the bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've joined and left and joined and left.
Was in a relationship when I first joined. This site made me realise there was more to life then love and boring sex that never got better despite trying to talk about it.
Far happier single now though I've had the chance to date a few women but they are not interested in this life of being shared ect..
Met some great people along the way. Ones I've lost contact with everytime I've left mind but still good to have met them.
Its Nice browsing profiles and seeing people who are here to enjoy themselves and I enjoy some of the banter on the forums and stories.
It's a good place to spend some time. |
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