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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks for initial attraction, personality to back it up and make me actually want to meet.
That doesn't mean I expect everyone to look a certain way or have a certain body type, my tastes are pretty varied, but I have to find them attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure that one can be more appealing than the other unless you compartmentalise those you communicate with by separating out their attributes? Looks draw me in,personality keeps me there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there has to be a physical attraction or spark before anything sexual can ever happen but personally is important as well no one like awkward silences (explains why I don't get many meets lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both are equally important for me.
Same for me  "
Yes, I'd find difficult to separate the two, as once you like someone's personality you see her more attractive, and once you find someone attractive you have more interest in her personality...
So, both are important
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Looks for initial attraction, personality to back it up and make me actually want to meet.
That doesn't mean I expect everyone to look a certain way or have a certain body type, my tastes are pretty varied, but I have to find them attractive. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why see it as a dichotomy? Looks and personality and much more besides constitute my criteria for attraction and I dare say for many others too. I simply don't see things as a trade off between two. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
I want to say both, but I'm more 40-60 in favour of personality to be honest. Yes looks are great for the initial "Hello!" factor, but after that I'm looking for women that can engage with a smile (yes, as a man I need my mind stimulating also!). |
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If I'm going to have to live with someone for years looks and personality. If I'm having casual sex looks and personality.
Attraction is very important to me, I need to like what I see and no, that doesn't mean gym fit 30 year olds.
I'm sure to some that makes me shallow but heigh ho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality. Although I do like someone I can have chemistry with, I find some people with a great personality can make someone develop into being rather gorgeous to me, regardless of looks. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
A combination of both to be honest - you can be extremely good looking but have no personality and there wouldn't be an attraction, likewise there may be an incredible personality but no physical attraction.
It all comes down to chemistry between two individuals at the end of the day, where the ingredients are looks AND personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which is more appealing good looks body,or personality not boring"
Hard to say. I do have to be physically attracted to a person but you could be an Adonis but if you have a rubbish personality then we won't be playing.
Eve. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a bit of both but swaying on more personality than looks. I tend to find that guys who are really attractive, know it and there's nothing more ugly than that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's a combination of both.
That said I have met people I don't find attractive but that hold decent conversation and vice versa, however without both it'd be unlikely I drop my undies.
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"Personality. Although I do like someone I can have chemistry with, I find some people with a great personality can make someone develop into being rather gorgeous to me, regardless of looks."
This has an awful lot of truth about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need to fancy someone but if I enjoy a persons company that can make them more attractive to me. I've known lots of people that have become more attractive to me as I've got to know them, sadly it also works in reverse
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I have spoken to people on here without seeing pictures and have totally fancied them before seeing what they look like. I have yet to be disappointed but whether or not I'm just lucky or if there is a correlation between me liking them as a person and therefore finding them attractive is unknowable. So I'd say personality is the most important facet for me based on the limited apocryphal data I have to go on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have spoken to people on here without seeing pictures and have totally fancied them before seeing what they look like. I have yet to be disappointed but whether or not I'm just lucky or if there is a correlation between me liking them as a person and therefore finding them attractive is unknowable. So I'd say personality is the most important facet for me based on the limited apocryphal data I have to go on."
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks and penis first but personality is needed as well. I've said it before but there was a guy on here that I met (he's long gone) but his personality suited me so much, he just got me, his penis was big as well in the pictures but when I met him in the flesh I couldn't fancy him, I tried really hard because his personality was so good but I couldn't imagine having sex or doing anything sexual with him, was really gutted about that. |
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A nice face, doesnt have to be good looking, personality wins it for me. But obviously their are some that i find unattractive even with a great personality.
Body type not fussed but i dont really go for extremes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ideally both, but I'm very fussy and shallow when it comes to Fab so looks (both face and body) first. Nobody gets a second meet without a great personality too though  |
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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago
north kensington w10 |
"Which is more appealing good looks body,or personality not boring"
If you are talking fab's then looks is most important just because this to me is a casual sex introduction site. Not a dating site.  |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Which is more appealing good looks body,or personality not boring"
Looks and body type will always play second fiddle with me to how someone makes me feel about them .so personality first because I take play and my responsibilities to who i choose to play with seriously .
That's the thing about not being here for numbers but defining memories one becomes more interested in the personality of those one may be thinking about forming that or those memories with than there looks or body
In others words does the personality of the person I'm interested in induce the lust in me to be inspired to give my all so I can have a lasting memory from the fact I knew them intimately .
You see I have learn that when a adventure means nothing to me I soon forget the adventure and the person it was with but as I want lasting memories I now choose only to play with those who inspire true lust in me on a mental level not just a physical one.
If I wish for only physical attributes I might as well pay for such because let's be honest here such woman who offer such a service would easily out strip most on here in the looks and body department . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which is more appealing good looks body,or personality not boring"
Because I'm on fab, I go for looks and body type first. Doesn't have to be a ripped gym bunny but I do have to find an attraction.
If I were dating for real with the intention of each entering a relationship, I'd go for more mature and good personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks will always create an initial attraction, but there's been numerous times I've thought someone was attractive only to be put off by their personality and even more so where I've not been as attracted physically, but have developed a huge attraction to their personality. |
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By *acLe0dMan
over a year ago
Preston |
"Looks will always create an initial attraction, but there's been numerous times I've thought someone was attractive only to be put off by their personality and even more so where I've not been as attracted physically, but have developed a huge attraction to their personality. "
Agreed, I can find someone attractive but personality is what makes me attracted to them. |
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Do you see more profiles that say 'send a photo with your message' or more that say send 'let's chat for months before I ask for a picture'?
On Fab, looks rule.
'Must have a good personality' = must be really good looking.
'I have a type' = must be tattooed, muscular, massive cock.
Massive sweeping generalisations obviously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know my personality is more attractive than my looks and it's hard to convey that in profile text. That's probably why I spend time on the forums and am looking to get to a few social gatherings soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality. I have meet some very attractive people who after spending an hour in their company I'd rather have taken a cheese grater to by dick. Then there are women who I wouldn't have been initially attracted to but when I have spent time with them I have find myself drawn to them. Confidence is generally a big factor here. |
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personality catches the mind, has to be a bit of both for me 
