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Do you insist on a cock pic before you meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't but looking back, to a work colleague years ago, I hastily realised when he took his trousers off that his cock was tiny. Now he was great at oral which kind of compensated but it didn't really hit the spot that night.
So here I ask for a pic first, although I guess like any pics here, you can angle it for better effect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we would want to see one before a meet, just to make sure it's not a huge kidney disturbing monster. MrsN is very petite, and prefers the average fellas over the WE chaps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. I've met plenty of blokes where I'd never seen their cock before seeing it in the flesh. It's never been a problem. I wouldn't send someone a photo of my chuff so I don't demand a photo of their cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't but looking back, to a work colleague years ago, I hastily realised when he took his trousers off that his cock was tiny. Now he was great at oral which kind of compensated but it didn't really hit the spot that night.
So here I ask for a pic first, although I guess like any pics here, you can angle it for better effect. "
I find guys send them whether I want one or not!  |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Nope. I've met plenty of blokes where I'd never seen their cock before seeing it in the flesh. It's never been a problem. I wouldn't send someone a photo of my chuff so I don't demand a photo of their cock."
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I saw the funniest cock pic on a profile today. Your standard sky remote pic with a difference - he was stood up and had the sky remote on the floor to try and make it look like his cock was loads bigger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I saw the funniest cock pic on a profile today. Your standard sky remote pic with a difference - he was stood up and had the sky remote on the floor to try and make it look like his cock was loads bigger "
I'd have to stand on a bunk bed for that to work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learned that men who have a nicely sized cock don't hesitate in showing it. I do ask though as I prefer something with a little substance, although it doesn't have to be extra large. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no, and i dont really welcome them either...fail to see how a pic gives me any idea of what they are going to do with it...having said that a massive one would put me off...but as men with massive ones are only to eager to shove the fact in front of my face, i dont need to ask.. |
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"My inbox would welcome any photos of a ladies "inbox"
IF YA KNOW WOT I MEAN 
I'm not being tricked into that  "
Oh, Miss Quimm 
Actually, fellow fabbers, I did receive one and not from the lovely lady above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No.
I've never asked to see a cock pic, or how big they are.
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This for me and actually can be quite put off if they mention size x
I do ask if they are pierced though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah I have to see the penis, it determines whether I'd meet them or not and yes, if a guy asked to see a picture of my fanny I would send him one, fairs fair. |
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"Most pics are close up so can end up disappointing... plus whose to say it is there cock  "
This is true. I have one where there are 3 cocks in the photo - hours of amusement for a game of "guess steves cock" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most pics are close up so can end up disappointing... plus whose to say it is there cock "
Points well made! Haha. Once met a gorgeous young guy who gave no mention of cock size, and didn't have any on his profile We met up for the Bridgend social, and he stayed over mine (out of towner). He ended up being extremely well endowed! I was shocked! Could barely get my mouth round it. So I never assume that a guy is small if they don't have cock pics, or send them. I learned by that little (big) situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ENd of the day it's the man behind the cock u need to see as its him that needs to attract u not his cock"
Yes but if he has a cock that makes me recoil in terror then we'd be wasting our time meeting. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
Some men think their cock is the be all and end all, once had a meet and within 30 minutes he was standing in front of me waggling his cock in my face asking what do I think of that.
I then suggested in a polite way that he might want to leave.......
After that I had to add a line in my profile to say I wasn't a fuck and go type of gal  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"No vaj pic, no reply.
That's why I could never insist on a cock pic,I don't think I've ever 'personally' taken a pic of my bit's,leg's open and all that "
I don't have any of these either, so your not alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No vaj pic, no reply.
That's why I could never insist on a cock pic,I don't think I've ever 'personally' taken a pic of my bit's,leg's open and all that
I don't have any of these either, so your not alone "
Me either |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"No! Haha. Just like I wouldn't expect someone to ask to see a picture of my Vagina before they would agree to meet. "
Well said pumpkin .
As a guy I would not last five minutes in this world if a demanded gash pictures so I could base my choice on lip size , clit size general length of lips and the all important tightness test involving a sky remote .
Just goes to show you that some guys will put up with anything to get a shag even being viewed as just a appendage by some woman a sad state of affairs that no woman in her right mind would allow to happen to her .but the same women who would not be comfortable being viewed as a set of appendages that had to measure up to a guys exacting standards will quite happily reduce a guy down to a appendage . |
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"Some men think their cock is the be all and end all, once had a meet and within 30 minutes he was standing in front of me waggling his cock in my face asking what do I think of that.
I then suggested in a polite way that he might want to leave.......
After that I had to add a line in my profile to say I wasn't a fuck and go type of gal "
That's funny,some men never grow up do they |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No! Haha. Just like I wouldn't expect someone to ask to see a picture of my Vagina before they would agree to meet.
Well said pumpkin .
As a guy I would not last five minutes in this world if a demanded gash pictures so I could base my choice on lip size , clit size general length of lips and the all important tightness test involving a sky remote .
Just goes to show you that some guys will put up with anything to get a shag even being viewed as just a appendage by some woman a sad state of affairs that no woman in her right mind would allow to happen to her .but the same women who would not be comfortable being viewed as a set of appendages that had to measure up to a guys exacting standards will quite happily reduce a guy down to a appendage ."
Just because i like to see what I'm getting doesn't mean i view the guy as an appendage. What a juvenile way of looking at it and frankly an insulting assumption. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Some men think their cock is the be all and end all, once had a meet and within 30 minutes he was standing in front of me waggling his cock in my face asking what do I think of that.
I then suggested in a polite way that he might want to leave.......
After that I had to add a line in my profile to say I wasn't a fuck and go type of gal
That's funny,some men never grow up do they "
He was heavily tattooed, so he took his jeans off so I could look at his legs (some cracking tattoos btw) that is what led him to believe breaking the ice and moving on to the next stage was to waggle his cock in my face. Now that was a waste of 2 hours getting showered, shaved and made up because he wanted to shag within 20 minutes being at mine....Some people need to practice their social skills  |
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"Some men think their cock is the be all and end all, once had a meet and within 30 minutes he was standing in front of me waggling his cock in my face asking what do I think of that.
I then suggested in a polite way that he might want to leave.......
After that I had to add a line in my profile to say I wasn't a fuck and go type of gal
That's funny,some men never grow up do they
He was heavily tattooed, so he took his jeans off so I could look at his legs (some cracking tattoos btw) that is what led him to believe breaking the ice and moving on to the next stage was to waggle his cock in my face. Now that was a waste of 2 hours getting showered, shaved and made up because he wanted to shag within 20 minutes being at mine....Some people need to practice their social skills "
Impatient sod! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No! Haha. Just like I wouldn't expect someone to ask to see a picture of my Vagina before they would agree to meet.
Well said pumpkin .
As a guy I would not last five minutes in this world if a demanded gash pictures so I could base my choice on lip size , clit size general length of lips and the all important tightness test involving a sky remote .
Just goes to show you that some guys will put up with anything to get a shag even being viewed as just a appendage by some woman a sad state of affairs that no woman in her right mind would allow to happen to her .but the same women who would not be comfortable being viewed as a set of appendages that had to measure up to a guys exacting standards will quite happily reduce a guy down to a appendage ."
I can answer this one as I'm quite particular about penis size though I don't see them as just an appendage. I would have no obligations with a guy asking to see a picture of my fanny before a meet. He is just as entitled to have a preference as I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't but looking back, to a work colleague years ago, I hastily realised when he took his trousers off that his cock was tiny. Now he was great at oral which kind of compensated but it didn't really hit the spot that night.
So here I ask for a pic first, although I guess like any pics here, you can angle it for better effect. "
Pretty disrespectful in my opinion. |
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"Nope. I've met plenty of blokes where I'd never seen their cock before seeing it in the flesh. It's never been a problem. I wouldn't send someone a photo of my chuff so I don't demand a photo of their cock."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes and if the lady has one then I get a certain feeling it's not a genuine profile
What if it was against a Sky remote or can of Linx? Would that help convince you?  "
Those being the new universal units of measurement then of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well you wouldnt buy a new sofa or bed without at least seeing it first. Any ladies wanna see my cock. lol "
if im buying a sofa im expecting it to be hanging around for some years...getting old and saggy..with a bust spring or two!..not what im looking for in a man.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well you wouldnt buy a new sofa or bed without at least seeing it first. Any ladies wanna see my cock. lol
if im buying a sofa im expecting it to be hanging around for some years...getting old and saggy..with a bust spring or two!..not what im looking for in a man.."
No bust springs or anything saggy here |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"No! Haha. Just like I wouldn't expect someone to ask to see a picture of my Vagina before they would agree to meet.
Well said pumpkin .
As a guy I would not last five minutes in this world if a demanded gash pictures so I could base my choice on lip size , clit size general length of lips and the all important tightness test involving a sky remote .
Just goes to show you that some guys will put up with anything to get a shag even being viewed as just a appendage by some woman a sad state of affairs that no woman in her right mind would allow to happen to her .but the same women who would not be comfortable being viewed as a set of appendages that had to measure up to a guys exacting standards will quite happily reduce a guy down to a appendage .
Just because i like to see what I'm getting doesn't mean i view the guy as an appendage. What a juvenile way of looking at it and frankly an insulting assumption. "
no darling the juveniles are those who are quite happy to judge us guys on out appendage and insult others who have a opinion on there actions .
I'd add to that shallow and juveniles but that's my personal opinion it just happens to be the opposite of yours.
I admire there honesty of those who reduce us guys down to a list of sallow exterior demands including or appendage size as it allows me to make the same judgement about them as they are happy making about others .
which in my case happens to be to shallow for me . |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"No! Haha. Just like I wouldn't expect someone to ask to see a picture of my Vagina before they would agree to meet.
Well said pumpkin .
As a guy I would not last five minutes in this world if a demanded gash pictures so I could base my choice on lip size , clit size general length of lips and the all important tightness test involving a sky remote .
Just goes to show you that some guys will put up with anything to get a shag even being viewed as just a appendage by some woman a sad state of affairs that no woman in her right mind would allow to happen to her .but the same women who would not be comfortable being viewed as a set of appendages that had to measure up to a guys exacting standards will quite happily reduce a guy down to a appendage .
I can answer this one as I'm quite particular about penis size though I don't see them as just an appendage. I would have no obligations with a guy asking to see a picture of my fanny before a meet. He is just as entitled to have a preference as I am. "
now darling lets not lie your forum posts are littered with cock size references which is fine, but you can not really say the statement above when your forum posts and profile make it abundantly clear appendage size is very very important to you . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the women who demand cock pics?
Not the one's who have answered this next question, but aimed at the ones that haven't.Do you oblige equally with sending a picture of your vagina? Or do you feel that's beneath you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To the women who demand cock pics?
Not the one's who have answered this next question, but aimed at the ones that haven't.Do you oblige equally with sending a picture of your vagina? Or do you feel that's beneath you? "
I don't demand a cock pic but i won't meet without seeing what I'm getting. In fact i don't even ask...so i end up meeting like minded people who are happy to bare all without any drama. Mine's on display as i don't suscribe to the tea and cake ways of the forum,so no issues there. I'm here for sex with suitable friends. .. not to blind date and meet lots of unsuitable sexual partners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are vag on display for all and sundry or the tea and cake ways of the forum the only two available options? Shit, here was me thinking I was just happily meeting men for sex whose penises I hadn't seen before and who hadn't seen my genitals. I'll stop meeting immediately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bet you guys peeked at the presents under your Xmas tree too.
What happened to the anticipation of surprise?
Got to go now and perve at all your pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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l often have pics up anyway. l do need to see a face pic.
l know it is a preference but it can get silly and it puts me off meeting someone if they are too hung up on size.
l once had someone reject me because l was honest and said i'm a tad under 8 inches. She had a 8 inch and up policy. Just made me chuckle and glad that l never went through with meeting her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are vag on display for all and sundry or the tea and cake ways of the forum the only two available options? Shit, here was me thinking I was just happily meeting men for sex whose penises I hadn't seen before and who hadn't seen my genitals. I'll stop meeting immediately. "
Good for you.
I have no issue with those meeting whatever way they like but i do object to those who assume that because i want to see a cock before i decide i want it anywhere near me, that I only see guys as appendages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I bet you guys peeked at the presents under your Xmas tree too.
What happened to the anticipation of surprise?
Got to go now and perve at all your pics. "
I got enough of "surprises" when i was dating. They weren't all nice ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bet you guys peeked at the presents under your Xmas tree too.
What happened to the anticipation of surprise?
Got to go now and perve at all your pics.
I got enough of "surprises" when i was dating. They weren't all nice ones "
Tell. You have to tell (they're not in here are they?) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bet you guys peeked at the presents under your Xmas tree too.
What happened to the anticipation of surprise?
Got to go now and perve at all your pics.
I got enough of "surprises" when i was dating. They weren't all nice ones
Tell. You have to tell (they're not in here are they?) "
Good lord! I've no idea if they're on here...but a cock out line up should help me find out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If a guy asked you to show him a vagina pic or breasts pic op would you be offended if he said on the basis of those pics nah not for me"
No because that would be double standards wouldn't it. So no I wouldn't, although I'm not sure you can tell the tightness of a vag from a pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How many women who meet purely on cock size have been let down when they realised, the guy couldn't fuck his way out of a wet paper bag with it?
Some say size matters, but does it really if they have zero clues about how to use it? |
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"I saw the funniest cock pic on a profile today. Your standard sky remote pic with a difference - he was stood up and had the sky remote on the floor to try and make it look like his cock was loads bigger "
Priceless????. All the angles they try to photograph to make it look bigger. Why do that- what you've got is what you've got. Plain and simple.
I've never asked for a cock picture but always get sent loads of them. They just don't do anything for me tbh but after an unfortunate encounter at a club I think I should ask for a pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can honestly say I don't give a shit about the size of a mans cock, the guys that have been the best in bed are generally mr average and I find big cocks uncomfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy asked you to show him a vagina pic or breasts pic op would you be offended if he said on the basis of those pics nah not for me
No because that would be double standards wouldn't it. So no I wouldn't, although I'm not sure you can tell the tightness of a vag from a pic."
Most guys don't care too much about how a vulva looks but l can say from experience that lots do prefer how certain ones look. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If a guy asked you to show him a vagina pic or breasts pic op would you be offended if he said on the basis of those pics nah not for me
No because that would be double standards wouldn't it. So no I wouldn't, although I'm not sure you can tell the tightness of a vag from a pic.
Most guys don't care too much about how a vulva looks but l can say from experience that lots do prefer how certain ones look."
Yes that makes sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a guy asked you to show him a vagina pic or breasts pic op would you be offended if he said on the basis of those pics nah not for me
No because that would be double standards wouldn't it. So no I wouldn't, although I'm not sure you can tell the tightness of a vag from a pic.
Most guys don't care too much about how a vulva looks but l can say from experience that lots do prefer how certain ones look."
Surely most men like a tight shaven pussy like woman like a big throbbing cock? |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I saw the funniest cock pic on a profile today. Your standard sky remote pic with a difference - he was stood up and had the sky remote on the floor to try and make it look like his cock was loads bigger
Priceless????. All the angles they try to photograph to make it look bigger. Why do that- what you've got is what you've got. Plain and simple.
I've never asked for a cock picture but always get sent loads of them. They just don't do anything for me tbh but after an unfortunate encounter at a club I think I should ask for a pic"
The reasons guys act so desperate about there cocks is because of the pressure to measure up put on them by certain types of women. its the same type of pressure that leads woman to have anxiety about there own bodies .
Which is kind of funny as us guys are blamed for so much when it comes to woman's body issues rightly so I might add but a quick Google search will show you have much anxiety young men are now feeling other body issues including cock size .
So who's to blame for these young men having such issues those who judge on shallow grounds of coarse the same for woman with body issues .
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"The reasons guys act so desperate about there cocks is because of the pressure to measure up put on them by certain types of women. its the same type of pressure that leads woman to have anxiety about there own bodies .
Which is kind of funny as us guys are blamed for so much when it comes to woman's body issues rightly so I might add but a quick Google search will show you have much anxiety young men are now feeling other body issues including cock size .
So who's to blame for these young men having such issues those who judge on shallow grounds of coarse the same for woman with body issues .
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I don't think that the anxiety is caused by women. Bit of an association fallacy there. Porn probably has a larger part to do with it. A quick google search will show you that...
Men choose to post the pictures as by and large they are visually stimulated and want to choose that asset. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I saw the funniest cock pic on a profile today. Your standard sky remote pic with a difference - he was stood up and had the sky remote on the floor to try and make it look like his cock was loads bigger
Priceless????. All the angles they try to photograph to make it look bigger. Why do that- what you've got is what you've got. Plain and simple.
I've never asked for a cock picture but always get sent loads of them. They just don't do anything for me tbh but after an unfortunate encounter at a club I think I should ask for a pic
The reasons guys act so desperate about there cocks is because of the pressure to measure up put on them by certain types of women. its the same type of pressure that leads woman to have anxiety about there own bodies .
Which is kind of funny as us guys are blamed for so much when it comes to woman's body issues rightly so I might add but a quick Google search will show you have much anxiety young men are now feeling other body issues including cock size .
So who's to blame for these young men having such issues those who judge on shallow grounds of coarse the same for woman with body issues .
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Let's blame the relatively small percentage of women that want large cocks for the insecurities of men. Great idea. It has nothing to do with men comparing themselves to each other, competing to be the alpha male? Nothing to do with porn? It's all those nasty women's fault
For the record i don't believe that women's insecurities come directly from men either. I think the media plays a larger part there. Just my opinion though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't but looking back, to a work colleague years ago, I hastily realised when he took his trousers off that his cock was tiny. Now he was great at oral which kind of compensated but it didn't really hit the spot that night.
So here I ask for a pic first, although I guess like any pics here, you can angle it for better effect. "
Nah I don't. I like a pretty face and great personality. The cock isn't important really. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I don't ask, as it's not the cock I am interested in meeting, though if it is the size of different extremes I'd imagine they already know and would mention it during messaging "
This for me too. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"The reasons guys act so desperate about there cocks is because of the pressure to measure up put on them by certain types of women. its the same type of pressure that leads woman to have anxiety about there own bodies .
Which is kind of funny as us guys are blamed for so much when it comes to woman's body issues rightly so I might add but a quick Google search will show you have much anxiety young men are now feeling other body issues including cock size .
So who's to blame for these young men having such issues those who judge on shallow grounds of coarse the same for woman with body issues .
I don't think that the anxiety is caused by women. Bit of an association fallacy there. Porn probably has a larger part to do with it. A quick google search will show you that...
Men choose to post the pictures as by and large they are visually stimulated and want to choose that asset. "
Wrong yes some guys are visual but not all as for a picture of there own cocks that is down to each guys personal choice .
I choose to not show mine on grounds of there's far more to me as a man than my cock
I also do not pick my play partners on visual grounds as I need far more stimulation to be inspired to play that a pleasing looking face pair of tits and a nice bottom with shapely legs . |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Wrong yes some guys are visual but not all as for a picture of there own cocks that is down to each guys personal choice "
I fail to see how what I posted was 'wrong'. You basically reposted what I said but added wrong to make it your point. 'By and large' is much like 'yes some guys are but not all are'. Anyhoos, my main point was it's not down to those awful women that there's insecurities - porn plays a far more significant point. And I think you will find a lot need more than visual stimulation to play with someone. I for one. |
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"No! Haha. Just like I wouldn't expect someone to ask to see a picture of my Vagina before they would agree to meet.
Well said pumpkin .
As a guy I would not last five minutes in this world if a demanded gash pictures so I could base my choice on lip size , clit size general length of lips and the all important tightness test involving a sky remote .
Just goes to show you that some guys will put up with anything to get a shag even being viewed as just a appendage by some woman a sad state of affairs that no woman in her right mind would allow to happen to her .but the same women who would not be comfortable being viewed as a set of appendages that had to measure up to a guys exacting standards will quite happily reduce a guy down to a appendage .
I can answer this one as I'm quite particular about penis size though I don't see them as just an appendage. I would have no obligations with a guy asking to see a picture of my fanny before a meet. He is just as entitled to have a preference as I am.
now darling lets not lie your forum posts are littered with cock size references which is fine, but you can not really say the statement above when your forum posts and profile make it abundantly clear appendage size is very very important to you . "
Umm where did I lie? I said I'm quite particular about penis sizes, meaning I do like them a certain size. That doesn't mean I just see them as a cock though, I need to like the person it's attached to as well. |
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I got enough of "surprises" when i was dating. They weren't all nice ones "
Exactly! I come to this site for good sex, but I am not a swinger and I have NO desire to have sex with one single person more than I need to to fulfil my need. I have no desire to have sex with someone who is going to be too small for me to ever be satisfied, or large enough to do me some serious damage, is a really bad lover, or has tastes totally different to mine.....etc, etc.
I have no desire to 'suck it and see' with half the bloody site, so yes - I am going to use pics and veris and in depth chat to try and make sure that we are BOTH what the other is seeking, and will have a long and fulfilling friendship.
I am very discerning, yes, but I never demand anything, just use all the information available and ask straight questions to make informed choices. Frankly I think it's foolish to do anything else. |
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Honestly the double standards and hypocrisy of this place is staggering.
If this thread had been started by a chap asking for pic's of women's vagina to ensure its not "large" is a bucket fanny to coin a phrase.
He would have been torn to pieces.
Also women bang on about not wanting endless cock pic's and this just reinforces the cock pic brigades need to post a relentless stream of willy pic's.
Lastly yet another thread contradicting when women say it's not about size it's the man attached to the cock that's important thread's.
I dunno maybe I am expecting to much? I have been with jools for just over 30 year's now so realise that asking a woman to give the same answer to the same question on two separate occasion is a big ask.
Ladies I know it's a woman's prerogative to change your mind, but how about a little consistency please?
Surely if it's about the size and not the person who is attached to it, then just buy a decent quality dildo of the required dimensions that way you can guarantee satisfaction and if not you only have yourself to blame for not doing it right? |
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"Honestly the double standards and hypocrisy of this place is staggering.
If this thread had been started by a chap asking for pic's of women's vagina to ensure its not "large" is a bucket fanny to coin a phrase.
He would have been torn to pieces.
Also women bang on about not wanting endless cock pic's and this just reinforces the cock pic brigades need to post a relentless stream of willy pic's.
Lastly yet another thread contradicting when women say it's not about size it's the man attached to the cock that's important thread's.
I dunno maybe I am expecting to much? I have been with jools for just over 30 year's now so realise that asking a woman to give the same answer to the same question on two separate occasion is a big ask.
Ladies I know it's a woman's prerogative to change your mind, but how about a little consistency please?
Surely if it's about the size and not the person who is attached to it, then just buy a decent quality dildo of the required dimensions that way you can guarantee satisfaction and if not you only have yourself to blame for not doing it right? "
I get what you mean and why it perturbs you - but asking for consistency across women is never going to happen. A lot of women on this thread have said that no, cock size and appearance isn't what they "check" before meeting a man. I've got about as much in common with the size queens as you do. Don't take the words of a few to heart when you know that not everyone feels and behaves that way. |
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What amuses me most about this topic is how offended people are that there are some women who like to see cock pictures before meeting. No one is body shaming so What exactly is the big deal? How is this any different from having a preference for a certain body type? Or having to be attracted to someone's face? For the record, not that i care what anyone thinks, but many have made the assumption it's about size. For me it's fuck all to do with size.
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"Honestly the double standards and hypocrisy of this place is staggering.
If this thread had been started by a chap asking for pic's of women's vagina to ensure its not "large" is a bucket fanny to coin a phrase.
He would have been torn to pieces.
Also women bang on about not wanting endless cock pic's and this just reinforces the cock pic brigades need to post a relentless stream of willy pic's.
Lastly yet another thread contradicting when women say it's not about size it's the man attached to the cock that's important thread's.
I dunno maybe I am expecting to much? I have been with jools for just over 30 year's now so realise that asking a woman to give the same answer to the same question on two separate occasion is a big ask.
Ladies I know it's a woman's prerogative to change your mind, but how about a little consistency please?
Surely if it's about the size and not the person who is attached to it, then just buy a decent quality dildo of the required dimensions that way you can guarantee satisfaction and if not you only have yourself to blame for not doing it right? "
Lol, you can't surely expect all women to want the same thing? We are not part of some amorphous 'female' beast that is of one mind, obviously there is going to be a broad range of opinion - that is not inconsistent with anything.
This is a site where people are allowed to prefer anything they like, it's not some equal opportunity orgy. If a man posts and says what he WANTS I am not offended in the slightest, why should I be?? But if he starts throwing misogynist insults around of course he is going to draw flak.
I am entirely entitled to turn down on grounds of size eg the BBC who refuses to give me an assurance he wont hammer me like a pneumatic drill with his enormous member. But I am not going to start insulting it or him - I will simply tell him straight I think he would be too much for me.
This is sex, it is the most intimate physical act we can partake in, and yes, of course I care what I am arranging to accept into my body, especially as lying about it is so common.
I would never provide photographs myself, so I would never demand them, but I am more than happy to answer any honest question a man may put to me if he has concerns about whether I might be what he wants, why wouldn't I be? |
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"What amuses me most about this topic is how offended people are that there are some women who like to see cock pictures before meeting. No one is body shaming so What exactly is the big deal? How is this any different from having a preference for a certain body type? Or having to be attracted to someone's face? For the record, not that i care what anyone thinks, but many have made the assumption it's about size. For me it's fuck all to do with size.
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Yes, there are several other reasons I am grateful that most men do put cock pics on their profile. |
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"Nope. I've met plenty of blokes where I'd never seen their cock before seeing it in the flesh. It's never been a problem. I wouldn't send someone a photo of my chuff so I don't demand a photo of their cock.
This "
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Never ask for a cock pic and I don't care if I never receive one before meeting. Bit shallow if you have to insist on seeing his cock. Size doesn't always mean a great time |
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"Never ask for a cock pic and I don't care if I never receive one before meeting. Bit shallow if you have to insist on seeing his cock. Size doesn't always mean a great time "
Why is it shallow to want to know what something looks like that you are potentially going to get intimate with? Might as well meet anyone then regardless of looks. |
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Why is it shallow to want to know what something looks like that you are potentially going to get intimate with? Might as well meet anyone then regardless of looks. "
I simply cannot believe that everyone who has objected would be happy to take ANY cock they are presented with in their mouth. I am frankly astonished. Excuse me for being particular in that regard! |
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"Never ask for a cock pic and I don't care if I never receive one before meeting. Bit shallow if you have to insist on seeing his cock. Size doesn't always mean a great time "
It doesn't but some people love oral and would be happy with just that. And I'm not a complete size queen re cocks but I want to know it's there. That's my reasoning. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"Never ask for a cock pic and I don't care if I never receive one before meeting. Bit shallow if you have to insist on seeing his cock. Size doesn't always mean a great time
It doesn't but some people love oral and would be happy with just that. And I'm not a complete size queen re cocks but I want to know it's there. That's my reasoning. "
Mine is here I think....checks in microscope |
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Why is it shallow to want to know what something looks like that you are potentially going to get intimate with? Might as well meet anyone then regardless of looks.
I simply cannot believe that everyone who has objected would be happy to take ANY cock they are presented with in their mouth. I am frankly astonished. Excuse me for being particular in that regard! "
My thoughts entirely. i was beginning to think i was the only one that was bothered! ! |
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By *ymph84Woman
over a year ago
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Never ask for cock pics before meeting. I don't care about size. Some of the best sex I've had is with men in the small to average range because they understand the need for foreplay and don't just try and stick their cock into you with out warming you up first. Which by the way guys really hurts |
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"Nah I have to see the penis, it determines whether I'd meet them or not and yes, if a guy asked to see a picture of my fanny I would send him one, fairs fair. "
Really?? I guess you have some bills outstanding then.. |
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