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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So there's an old saying that women want bad boys that will be good just for them, and men want good girls that will be bad just for them!
Sweeping generalisation for sure - but is there any truth in this?
Ladies - do you prefer a bad boy type (as long as he's good to you)?
Guys - do you prefer a good girl (as long as she's bad with you)?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Define bad boy"
Pokes fun at nerdy kids...wears black leather jacket. Prone to stealing apples from fruit stalls-then throwing them away after one bute. Hangs round with groups of similarly dressed but uglier males. Hot rod cars may be involved. Likely to break into 'doo-wap' numbers at any point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Define bad boy
Pokes fun at nerdy kids...wears black leather jacket. Prone to stealing apples from fruit stalls-then throwing them away after one bute. Hangs round with groups of similarly dressed but uglier males. Hot rod cars may be involved. Likely to break into 'doo-wap' numbers at any point."
**bite. Not bute |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Define bad boy
Pokes fun at nerdy kids...wears black leather jacket. Prone to stealing apples from fruit stalls-then throwing them away after one bute. Hangs round with groups of similarly dressed but uglier males. Hot rod cars may be involved. Likely to break into 'doo-wap' numbers at any point."
Right... yeah I think I'll pass.
With my definition of a 'bad boy', or the wannabes that also fall into the category, it's not something for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?
Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?
White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.
And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks. |
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"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?
Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?
White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.
And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks. "
Not 100% a dick 
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"Define bad boy
Pokes fun at nerdy kids...wears black leather jacket. Prone to stealing apples from fruit stalls-then throwing them away after one bute. Hangs round with groups of similarly dressed but uglier males. Hot rod cars may be involved. Likely to break into 'doo-wap' numbers at any point."
This defines a bad boy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?
Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?
White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.
And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks. "
There's a big difference between being nice and polite, and what I personally see as "white knighting" which is when a guy will say how gorgeous a woman is when all they can see is a pair of boobs for example.
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"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?
Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?
White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.
And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks.
There's a big difference between being nice and polite, and what I personally see as "white knighting" which is when a guy will say how gorgeous a woman is when all they can see is a pair of boobs for example.
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I always  when I get a message saying this. How can you know? |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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if enjoying the company of a submissive fern with all the possibilities for naughty fun she offers a guy like me makes me a bad boy then so be it .
and if a submissive fern gives me all I desire endlessly she can only ever be my naughty little good girl despite what others may think of her and her actions . |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I like a 'bad boy'. I like a man who is a tart, as long as I am his favourite and he doesn't mess me about or play nasty games.
Mrs"
His favourite? Are these your lovers or husband? Not meant sarkily, just curious. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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for relationships i go for the out of the box thinkers, comfortable in their skin, practical and artistic, with filthy imaginations, who don't embarrass me in public. i like to drag out the wild side and them and for them to match me with self awareness
a rebel in the cause of consciousness. not a society sheep.. that's my kind of bad boy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a 'bad boy'. I like a man who is a tart, as long as I am his favourite and he doesn't mess me about or play nasty games.
Mrs
His favourite? Are these your lovers or husband? Not meant sarkily, just curious."
Husband definately. Our main playmate, who we've seeing for a year and half, sees other women and couples, but does so in a way that never put my nose out of joint and always makes me feel special. There have been others that haven't me quite so well. But I totally get off on them playing around and encourage it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?
Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?
White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.
And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks.
There's a big difference between being nice and polite, and what I personally see as "white knighting" which is when a guy will say how gorgeous a woman is when all they can see is a pair of boobs for example.
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Oh, sorry. I do mean when they know you.
They know what you look like. They speak to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?
Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?
White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.
And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks. "
For me chivalry is very very important, and something I find an incredible turn-on. I'd taken 'bad boy' to mean a guy who had a number of sexual partners, a bit of a ladies man, someone I have with others.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?
Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?
White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.
And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks.
There's a big difference between being nice and polite, and what I personally see as "white knighting" which is when a guy will say how gorgeous a woman is when all they can see is a pair of boobs for example.
I always when I get a message saying this. How can you know?"
You obviously haven't found the hidden cameras or the ladder up near your bedroom window then.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ads isn't a bad boy at all but in looks he is everything I ever wanted!! Tattoos, jewellery, a twang to his voice, plus he is bloody fit and good looking, he's not naughty but he's my bad boy xx |
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Oh it says good girls not bad girls.
Well im not sure but i do know how to behave and there is a time and place for everything.
Im not overtly sexual in my day to day life, in fact im not sexual at all, i dont wear revealing clothing, i dont flirt. You could take me home to meet your mother.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Whats the definition of a bad girl"
I deliberately haven't given a definition as everybody will have their own take on what a good or bad boy / girl would be.
My take on it (although it's only my take and certainly not the definitive answer) is a "bad boy" would be a bit of a lad, a player, likes the ladies and likes the "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" approach, plays the field a bit etc, and the ladies want to be the "one" to tame them.
Whereas a "good girl" would be the innocent "butter wouldn't melt in their mouth" type - outwardly very sweet and proper - but the guys want them to be a bit of the minx in private in the bedroom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whats the definition of a bad girl
I deliberately haven't given a definition as everybody will have their own take on what a good or bad boy / girl would be.
My take on it (although it's only my take and certainly not the definitive answer) is a "bad boy" would be a bit of a lad, a player, likes the ladies and likes the "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" approach, plays the field a bit etc, and the ladies want to be the "one" to tame them.
Whereas a "good girl" would be the innocent "butter wouldn't melt in their mouth" type - outwardly very sweet and proper - but the guys want them to be a bit of the minx in private in the bedroom. "
i'm very much the good girl |
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"Whats the definition of a bad girl
I deliberately haven't given a definition as everybody will have their own take on what a good or bad boy / girl would be.
My take on it (although it's only my take and certainly not the definitive answer) is a "bad boy" would be a bit of a lad, a player, likes the ladies and likes the "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" approach, plays the field a bit etc, and the ladies want to be the "one" to tame them.
Whereas a "good girl" would be the innocent "butter wouldn't melt in their mouth" type - outwardly very sweet and proper - but the guys want them to be a bit of the minx in private in the bedroom. "
mmm not sure where i fit in as my day to day life and my sex life have alwayz naturally been the polar opposites of each other.
Maybe im neither, im just me |
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I do recall a very surreal moment, id had an 18 man gangbang in the morning, gone to an adult cinema in the afternoon and shagged around another 25/30 guys and sat on the train coming home and a woman about 50 came and sat with me and we where chatting away about normal womens stuff, family ect and remember thinking never in her wildest dreams would she know what id done that day |
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"Chivalry? Is it needed on fab?
Are women attracted to 'nice' polite guys here?
White knights are pounded the fuck out of, if they show any king of manners. I will hold a door open for a women.
And some men on fab try too hard to be the bad boy. They just act like dicks.
There's a big difference between being nice and polite, and what I personally see as "white knighting" which is when a guy will say how gorgeous a woman is when all they can see is a pair of boobs for example.
Oh, sorry. I do mean when they know you.
They know what you look like. They speak to you. "
Sorry all I saw here was that white knights get pounded the fuck out of.
Never wanted to be a white knight so much  |
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